Hi, I am looking for some fun. I am a white 46 year old female. I about 5 foot 2 and weight about 153 pounds. I will not deny that i have some extra padding, but honestly I am athletic, strong and more muscular than most. I am sure you are thinking "right, she is a tubby" but this really is not a "i have big bones" excuse. I am considered cute by most, hot by some, depending on your likes. I am realistic that i am not a "perfect 10" however i do believe I am not a "double bagger." Again that would depend on your preferences. I do not try to present myself as I am not. I do not dress to impress, I dress what is comfortable for me. I am a tomboy and tend to wear "boy" clothes. Not man clothes, but boy clothes. I enjoy playing and participating in sports, but do not enjoy watching them. I have been with women, but do not like the labels of being lesbian or bi. I am me. I am educated and fairly intelligent and can talk about many things, except politics. I admit with no difficulty that i am totally ignorant in regards to politics and have no interest in learning or hearing about it. Maybe that makes me un American? I do like to hear about different cultures and just general diversity of people. I am open minded in that regard. Now that you know a bit about me, which of course there are many more facets, I will discuss what I am looking for. I am looking for a relatively clean cut looking per, although for some rea I do have a thing for bad boy rocker types, but you would still have to be clean. I am not looking for a relationship of any kind except for sex. Period. Also regarding sex, not to be too graphic or anything, I am a better receiver of many things, but I am a very conservative giver. I have been told that of the things that I do, I do them quite well. Also, what I say goes. Now i would never have anyone do something that they are not comfortable with. Typically, I allow the other per to do what they wish to me, but have no problem with saying what I don't like. I am respectful and demand that same respect in return. Even though I can tell the difference, safe sex will be strictly practiced. No discussion about that. Now more specific type for you, I am not looking for a total hunk or someone that is hung down to his knees. Race is not an issue, but I do prefer American men. Now if you are not American then you must be from a Western world. Is that some type of prejudice? Perhaps, but it is what I like. Now I do have to be attracted to you, not just on a physical level, but also on an intellectual level. Now this does not mean I want to know your complete take on life, after all, this is about sex, but I still have to have some connection. Age is not important either. You must be at least 21, but not look like a boy. I don't want to feel like I was having sex with a 16 year old. On the flip-side of that, you can be also be 55 or even older, but if you think you look old enough to be my daddy, then I don't want that either No current drug users including marijuana and no abusers of alcohol. I prefer non-smokers. Yes I know that this can be a lot to ask for. I do admit that I am a hard customer. I am looking to have some fun, but I am not desperate. If you like what you are hearing and think you might fit that mold, then don't hesitate to reply. Tell me what you honestly want to say, not what you think I would like to hear. I am not going to tell you what I am looking for in a message, you have to figure that out on your own. I have been nothing but honest and expect nothing but honesty back. We will meet in a public place first to see if there is chemistry. No exceptions. If I do not like your message, then I will not reply. Generic subject lines will automatically be rejected. Be creative to grab my attention. I have limited internet access, so don't expect an immediate reply.