I have a good job and can handle my own. I am very discreet and don't share my business, if I choose to share with you I expect it to be between us and not a part of the World News. What happens in the bedroom between two people should stay there. I love black men and don't care what anyone says, thinks, or feels about it. If you don't like it, then keep moving. It doesn't make me one bit of difference either way. I am looking for friends and/or a lover. Someone to talk to and enjoy the company spending time together from time to time. I am NOT looking for just a one night stand...I would prefer something more consistant and ongoing without a commitment at this time, However if something more develops then we will address it at that time; however I am not against discussing options if something does develop. I work too much and dont have a lot of time for games. I very rarely ever go out, I am not a clubber, but will go on rare occassion just to get out, I'm not a big drinker, but will drink socially on occasion or have a glass of wine at times to relax. I am not looking to play games or be lied to. I keep it real and expect you to as well. I prefer someone who is mature, not just in age but in mind as well. Someone who knows what responsibility is and who can and will take ownership of thier responibities. I don't have time for drama. I don't want to have to manage your responsibilites and mine. I am down for some good clean fun and or just hanging out and chillin... If you can't keep it real, then keep looking. I just simply don't have time. I am too busy to sweat the small things. Life is too short.

My Ideal Person WHAT I DON"T LIKE OR WANT: I am not attracted to nor am I entertained by thugs, hood rats or those that don't know how to size their clothes to where they fit rather than fall off them. That is not my style and it's not attractive. You know who you are, so please if your pants have a waistline that is at your knees and you don't/can't/or won't hold a job, you have no transportation, and you live with your mother, please don't send me a message, I am not interested. Please grow up first then maybe we can talk. Also, if you are selfish, please don't bother either. I am not looking for a one night stand, not my style. If it's all about you and not your partner too...i'm not interested I could go back to what I had.