** Update May 2023 - New fuckitlist item... We would love to find another couple to do a massage swap - 4 hands/ 6 hands massage. This is less BDSM related but more utter decadence. We would like to find another couple that would like to exchange massages plus. 1 lady on the massage table (blindfolded) and the center of attention. Lots of oil, lots of exploring, lots of toys, lots of orgasms. Then switch. Open to many ideas. Have massage table & toys. It's mostly about the ladies. USE MY UNICORN Looking for the Dom cpl to use my unicorn DDF Vaxxed a must UPDATE 522Our most recent bucketlist item we39d like to pursue is with another cpl who both want to use HER Join me in discipling her and then both use her I am open to suggestions We are a Domsub cpl looking for safe clean DampD free people to further explore with We are new to this site and to playing with others so forgive us if we appear overly cautious He is an experienced strong yet caring Dom who knows how to treat a lady and knows what a sub needs She is new to Ds and is eagerly learning about the art of submission Together we are a fit healthy sexy cpl looking to explore moreWe realize that this site is primarily for swinging but our hopes are to find others interested in BDSM as well NOT looking just for a swap We like our play KINKY

My Ideal Person We are open to many possibilities She has had a few bi experiences and would like to feel the soft touch of a woman again esp to please her Dom We are interested in finding another couple preferably interested in Ds as well Male Domsub female DomDomme cpl are preferred Sub males or cpls with sub males aren39t our thing No offense We also would love to find our unicorn a female who would love to be the center of our attention Such a woman be treasured as the gift that she is She can be sub Domme switch or no Ds if need be We both are in good shape We expect our playmates to be in reasonably good shape as well as very clean healthy and DampD free Single guys sorry don39t bother We will find you if we want you

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of sirandsubseeking's responses