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rm_onlylive2ice 40 / M
"Honest. Clean. Interested in women and maybe couples. Visit blog to know more about me.."
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rm_onlylive2ice 40/M
North of Rockford, Illinois
simplewomam's sense of humor is as good as her spelling..
I CANNOT READ OR RESPOND TO MESSAGES thanks to this stupid site and its "improvements". My best feature is honesty. Especially since it's apparently a rarity on this site. I'm comfortable with myself and I think I let people feel comfortable being themselves. I'm kind of an amateur philosopher and I usually express myself in an interesting way. In bed, I enjoy being in control. However, I've have always been the one in control and would like to try being the follower instead of the leader at some point. I admit I don't have the experience you'd expect someone my age to have. Confidence is not an issue, but it's hard to assess my abilities with such little experience. [SIZE 1][I]*Someone told me talking about my inexperience might lead women to think I'm quick in bed. We mutually decided I should add this: I may be inexperienced but don't worry, nice guys finish last and ladies cum first.[/I][/SIZE] Even though I [I]love[/I] giving oral, if I'm not convinced you're clean, I'll be restricted to fingers only for foreplay. Well, also massages and body kissing.. licking.. sucking... maybe a couple nibbles.... Which I can still work with, it just isn't nearly as fun. Not nearly as tasty either. ;] I'm not into the "bar scene". It's loud, expensive, and boring to me. I'm not against meeting for lunch, dinner, or a quiet place for a drink. I cannot currently host. I can pay for a motel it need be. Sadly, it ain't going to be the Hilton. If I say I'm going to meet, I WILL MEET. From complaints I've read on profiles, that's a common problem. You can see my blog [blog onlylive2ice here] to get even more of an idea about me. Maybe even leave a comment..?

My Ideal Person This has always been the most difficult part of my profile for me.
The easy part: Honest. Good at communicating. Non-smoker preferably, light smoker MAYBE. Everything besides your mind should be CLEAN.
The hard part: Physically, I don't have a "type". I'm generally not attracted to very large women. Even that has exceptions. As far as personality, I'm even farther from having a type. I've been attracted to women that are borderline mean. I'm usually carefree when I'm relaxed but I don't mind being around someone serious either. Sarcastic, sweet. Silly, serious. Giving, taking. Excited, mellow. Aggressive, shy. I don't know. I enjoy engaging with various personality types.

As far as couples: I'm not real sure what I'm looking for in this area. Pleasuring the wife/gf alone. I'd be up for trying being watched by a husband/bf while I'm with his wife/gf. I've always been interested in trying DP. I guess we'll have to chat about the particulars.

This is one of the ideal situations in my mind-
Have a fwb relationship with a woman who has an stressful job. She has a tough, busy work day during which she sends me a text message asking me to come to her place that evening. I meet her there, give her a foot massage, take her to her bed, undress her, give her a back massage, and.. well, finish 'relieving her stress'...

In a perfect sexual world-
I'd like to have two regular partners. I'm not completely against nsa fun, but I think familiarity would offer extra comfort. Having a regular fwb (mature and voluptuous) and an occasional fuck buddy (young and athletic) sounds perfect to me. Honesty prevails with me. Either partner would know about the other... Like I say, this is just my PERFECT sex life scenario. I'm not really holding my breath. lol


Is my profile too long? Let me know.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Usually I think fantasies are best not to said out loud.
Kinda like birthday wishes. I feel like it's better
to let them happen naturally (maybe give them a nudge if
it's too close to pass up). <br><br>
However.. On a date. In an upscale restaurant after
seeing a play. At a table. She's wearing a dress and
heels. Nice low lighting. Not very crowded but there are
other people there. We don't say a word besides our
order. I discreetly slip under the tablecloth. I lift her
dress up onto her thighs. Placing my hands on top of her feet,
I start to kiss her ankles. Slowly kiss my way up her legs,
kissing a little higher every time. I reach her knees. While
licking and gently blowing on the inside of her knees, I
slide my hands up her calves. She can't move or else
we'll be found out. I hold her knees and slowly spread
them apart. As I continue up her leg, kissing and licking
her inner thighs, my head pushes her dress farther up her
legs. The waitress brings our salads. With a polite smile,
"You meals will be out shortly". Before the
waitress leaves, I suddenly lick my date's now moist
pussy through her cotton panties causing her upper body
to spasm for a split-second. The waitress pauses, "Is
everything alright?". My date nods and calmly takes
the first bite of her salad. The waitress stands there curious
for another second then leaves. With a smirk I lift her right
leg onto my left shoulder. Wrapping my left arm around her
thigh, I rub two fingers on her clithood through her damp
panties. Her fork shakes as she tries to go on eating her
salad. I move my mouth closer to her pussy as I continue to
rub. I let out a sigh of hot breath on her. I slide my right
hand over her left thigh, under her dress, back to her rear.
I stop rubbing and hold her panties to the side with my left
hand while pulling her hips toward me with the right. My
tongue finally probes into her waiting pussy torturing
her with pleasure. Her fork drops to the plate breifly attracting
attention. With my tongue dancing inside her, I tighten
my grip on her butt cheek to tell her to hold it together.
The other patrons resume their dining.. as do I. Barely
able to withold a scream of erotic passion, her enite body
twitches as rub her rock-hard clit with my fingers and flutter
my tongue the way I know she loves it!- "OH.. GOD!"
she shouts as she climaxes and slams her hand onto the table
gragging the edge. Alerted and confused, everyone in the
room looks at her but not to the point of being rude.. Once
the room loses interest, I quietly emerge from beneath
the tablecloth and return to my chair. As I wipe my chin with
the expensive, cloth napkin, I look across the table to
my date. She grins without making eye contact as she chews.
Soon after I begin eating, she finishes her salad. She wipes
her mouth and gazes adoringly at me. She lowers her head
to make her way under the table. I reach across and grab her
wrist. She looks up. "It's my treat tonite"
I whisper with a smile.. She sits upright and looks away
grinning sheepishly... The waitress brings our main course.
(I said I was inexperienced, not naive) ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, The floor, A couch (they are underrated)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Massage, POSSIBLY Kissing, Relaxing/Cuddling, Interested in trying 'Rimming'

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sure. I'm not telling whom. I have a suggestion: Do
not put a celebrity's name on your profile either.
Yes it is only fantasy. Anyone can understand that.
But unless you're lucky enough to find someone here
that looks like your afore mentioned celeb, he/she can
never live up to that standard. Yea, it's insecurity
on their part. Real people aren't as perfect as the
images of celebrities... THAT'S MY WHOLE POINT!!..

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  • 40 / male
  • North of Rockford, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 15, 1981
Travels to: Janesville, Wisconsin, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
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