I travel all over the country with my job and a work a holic because even though I am technically married there hasnt been any romance, seduction sex or even fucking for over ten years. All I ask is that if we set up a date - PLEASE be real and show up or at least have the courtesy/respect to cancel well enough in advance. For years I have dreaded posting information about me because of people not liking me and wanting to be with me. Here are my romantic wishes, desires and fantasies (which I hope some day to come true) A) I have been intimate with men in the past and if u r a woman and interested to hear what I have done with them. If you are a woman, please don't disrespect me if you are a bi-woman and won't respect me for being bi too. B) I love romance, candles, seduction and making out for hours in and out of the shower. C) I am a really hairy older man (now 59) and I hate it; especially in the warm SC Spring and summer. Thus I like to be shaved - shaved privates only - crotch cock balls and sometimes ass cheeks and other fine sensitive areas. D) I love the feel of things - fingers, cocks (safely) and toys inside me as long as it is safe, well lubbes and slow and then deep and gradually faster. One of my fantasies is being fucked by a strap on by a woman so if u r a woman and that is acceptable - we need to talk. E) I love making out in the shower which yes includes ws. If you are not into that - well that is fine i just need to know. If you wanna try it (?) then very cool I like to try new fun things for you and for me because I AM ALL ABOUT MUTUAL FUN AND ENJOYMENT and not one sided fun and just getting the other pero off - then u leave. I also lvoe to give and receive a good complete body oiled massage with penetrating fingers in any hole you want I travel all over the country and due to my profession need ot be discrete and will only meet after photos or prefer LIVE webcam or live text message photos before we meet. I am sorry but i have already met someone who sent me ten year old (and 50# heavier) people. Truth honesty and discretion is paramount to us meeting.... Here is my travel schedule so far..... June 25 - 29 ST Louis, MO July 10 - 14 Orlando (Business and 2 days of vacation alone) I hope my being direct helps define who i am and looking for. I love self assertive but not arrogant men (older and younger) and women (older and younger. I am an open book as long as you are...... I would be thrilled to find a regular playmate and partner to be with on a reg basis. Discretion for you is totally assured as well More to follow....