We are a professional thirty something couple who like to consider ourselves light hearted easy going and fun loving. That's not to say we don't have a serious side, but rather we subscribe to the theory that life is short, you'd better enjoy the time you have! We don't consider ourselves "swingers" nor do we consider this some kind of "lifestyle" thing for us. We are both VERY happily married and are still madly in love with each other after having traded rings ten years ago. We are very secure in our sexual relationship and have decided that we'd like to pursue other areas in that department. As such we occasionally open up or sexual lives to other people. This includes single/bisexual women, couples, and straight single men. So far we've met some really great people and have had several very exciting experiences.

My Ideal Person 1) First and foremost we are looking for other couples. They must be madly in love with each other and secure in their relationship. We really can't handle jealousy and drama, so please be sure of what you're doing with each other. We prefer an age range of 25-40 but have known to make exceptions. Since we look at this as more than just sex, and want to at least be friends with the couples we meet, we prefer couples who are similar to ourselves: outgoing, professional, educated, extroverted, and LOVE to laugh and have fun. We also prefer people who are athletic and in shape

2) Bisexual women: I have been with women in the past and have enjoyed those experiences immensely. However , I prefer feminine women who aren't very aggressive and enjoy the soft sensual side of pleasing another woman. Also, please keep in mind that I NEVER do anything without my husband present, so you must be agreeable to him being there and participating.

3) Single men: Yes we do allow single men. Having said that please keep in mind that AsianMatchMate.com is awash in single men so we can afford to be picky. You must be VERY attractive and in shape. Please don't take this as a sign of arrogance or conceitedness on our part. Really it's just a way of "thinning down the herd" so to speak so that we won't waste your time or ours. Please no one over 40 years of age, or under 25 years of age. And most importantly NO SCREWING AROUND BEHIND YOUR SPOUSE/SIGNIFICANT OTHER'S BACK!!!!! That is one thing we have no tolerance for whatsoever.

4) Since we're looking to meet folks who we connect on a level beyond just the physical, we appreciate people who take the time to actually read our profile. So as kind of a test to see if you've actually read this far (sneaky aren't we?) if you send us Email, please include the text "sweet chicken" in the subject line or we'll simply ignore it. And if you're now finally reading this part because you finally caught on to how we know you DIDN'T read this before you sent your FIRST email, please don't send a second. Ok? Good boy.

Also for the guys, while I do love a good penis as much as the next girl, I'm getting a little tired of seeing pics of nothing else. So if your profile shows nothing but a big one eyed monster looking back at me, or if you send those same types of pics in your Email, once again they'll be tossed into the circular file. Thanks for playing, and we have some lovely parting gifts for you

5) We have no interest in bisexual or bi-curious males at all. That's not a judgment or personal attack, it's just a preference. Please respect that. Any and all flame-mail attacking us for our homophobia will simply be ignored and you'll be blocked from sending us further Email.

For everyone: Please only contact us if you are serious about meeting, we filter all Emails from those who don't have pics, please be polite, intelligent, and respectful. Also we've really had enough of the puerile and childish "I have a big cock wanna fuck?" kinds of Emails. That's not even remotely attractive at all and really just kind of sad and pathetic. Want to catch our attention? Be real, be normal, and use spell check lol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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