"How delicious to corrupt,to stifle all semblances of virtue and religion in that young heart!"-Marques De Sade In my case,"young"is relative.I'm a grown man,and I seek a grown woman...one with life experience,independence,and a heart yearning to find the one.We've lived parallel lives until now;both of us disappointed with the shortcomings of online"dominates"and"subb ies".We each have loved others before,but dream of the white-hot flame of a forever kind of dominance and submission...and love. I am not interested in one night stands. In a D/s relationship great sex requires some intimacy, a candid knowledge of My lovers erotic touchstones.Don't get me wrong.My needs are fierce,and I will satisfy them.I will spoil and spank...deny and indulge...restrict and free...and you will beg for your release...and capture.I will make you my own. Are you the one?

My Ideal Person I require a woman that “must” orgasm everyday. That feels her sexuality grow weekly. That believes she has a man’s sexual needs. As I have grown older I believe sex and the physical and emotional ties should be re-enforced repeatedly,daily,hourly. The woman who is distracted during her work-a-day world, by her thoughts, by her hunger. I believe My responsibility is to enhance and to feed her needs. To spark her interest whether sexually or romantically. To allow her sexuality to grow, to provide goals and opportunities to grow erotically. To allow her to be the slut she desires to be, but hasn’t been allowed to blossom, because of responsibilities and social mores.
Trust in such a relationship is paramount. I expect this to take time. There will be an auditioning process for both of us. Her responsibilities are to be honest and forthright. To always keep me informed of her feelings, concerns, needs. I expect tears of growth and joy.You will despise me and your heart will swell. You will be voracious and humiliated by your desires.
she must enjoy expanding her sexual horizons. I have met a number of woman on AsianMatchMate.com that may fantasize a Dominant lover, what they really want is a bully that pounds away at their holes until they are sore. That is not my desire, find a horny 20 year old or buy a fucking machine. Both of these things have there place and time but not at the beginning. Our largest sex organ is between our ears.
Anais Nin knew the heart of the submissive I seek."I don't mind working,holding my ground intellectually,artistically:but as a woman,oh God,as a woman i want to be dominated.I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet,not to cling all that i am capable of doing but i am going to be pursued,fucked,possessed by the will of a male at his time,his bidding."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
YES, Micheal Tomlinson, Steely Dan, Rush, Jon Anderaon,
Dana Cooper,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Teasing & Orgasum control

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Eva Green is pretty hot.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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