I've always wondered whether FWB is a real option or just an urban (or rural) myth. In a couple cases, I've been fortunate to experience an FWB, but its been a while and I'm curious if there are still women out there that are seeking the same thing. I can enjoy a long conversation or a very short passionate encounter. I can enjoy a long evening cuddling watching a movie or tv show or I can thrust you against the wall in my office as I kneel down and devour you. I believe that orgasms and foreplay are the divine right for a woman. Your satisfaction is truly my pleasure. I am married, so discretion is valued greatly. But, I'm very open to answering any question anyone may have. As my stats show, I'm never going to be dancing at some strip club for ladies or gay men. I'm the normal guy in that my gut could use some ab-crunches(or 50), but my height and overall body shape definitely suggests HWP.

My Ideal Person Someone mature, passionate about pleasure, wise - but not so wise as to avoid the occasional sensual "I should not be doing this" moment, and someone who understands the needs of a married man. Discretion and enjoying a good kiss is a must in any woman I seek.

I'm looking for the kind of woman that understands that "no strings" does not mean that some part of you and some part of me may still entwine - and I'm just not talking about any appendages - as long as we can handle being apart with others. Married and/or attached would be appreciated, but certainly not required.

Age and ethnnicity is not an issue. And with my build (husky), size is not too much of a factor, either.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Sting, Harry Connick Jr., Thelonius Monk, Foo Fighters, Eric
Clapton, and much more

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Though reality turns me on, I must say, I have been thinking
about Salma Hayek and Indira Varma. Also, growing increasingly
attracted to Christina Hendricks.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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