I am an open-minded married guy in Columbia looking for fun. Wife not interested in sex anymore and says I should seek fun on my own. She just does not want it to be something that comes back to embarrass her. So....... What happens behind closed doors stays there and I am just a little bit freaky. I do not judge or belittle anyone and I ask that you treat me the same way. As I see it, this is a site for adults looking for playmates. I am open to lots of ideas for fun and they do not all need to be behind closed doors. Conversation is fun too. If you are interested let me know. UPDATE: Please read all of my profile. Check the pictures. If you find anything that you do not like in my profile then do us both a favor and do not contact me. If I contact you and you do not want to interact with me then please just tell me that right away. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Looking for fun, considerate people for in or out of the bedroom. I would like to find people for friendship and sex. Need to be discrete but open to most things but pain or humiliation. Not into heavy drugs or unsafe behavior.

Just to clarify: I am mostly interested in having adult fun with women or couples. Open minded, opportunistic bi. Bi fun with another guy can be very exciting sometimes. Not looking for LTR, I already have that. Just looking for friends who are interested in fun and sex.

If I write and do not get a positive response I will not write again. (Tried that, waste of time. If you need people to beg for your attention then I don't have time for you.) Please treat me the same way. If I do not write back then something about your profile just did not appeal to me. No offense, just did not cause a spark.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
later.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Clean and safe

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sandra Bullock, Allison Hannigan, Jennifer Anniston

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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