WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of our profile, pictures, or web cams in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I've been on here off and on for about 20 years. Multiple accounts, multiple mindsets, and here I am again. I'm separated from my wife and living in my own place. I'm looking at finishing my divorce by the end of they year (covid and my soon to be ex-wife cooperating of course). I've grown quite a bit since the last time I was here. Last time I was here to seduce, to show my date a great time, not caring or thinking about what I was into or enjoyed. I've managed to figure that out, or some of it in the past few years. I'm poly, with a girlfriend that lives here locally, and one that lives in Washington state. I date from time to time, and feel the desire to do so again, which is why I'm here. When I say date, it doesn't necessarily mean it will end up in sex, though I probably won't say no, and I am very sexual. I'm thoughtful, spontaneous, a hopeless romantic, kinky, oral, love good conversations. I'm nerdy, switchy, and go through my ups and downs. I'm not looking for another nesting partner, and honestly I want a real connection more than anything else. Everything else is bonus. If talking to you ends in occasional beers in conversation on a Friday night, that's great. If it ends up in steamy switchy primal sex 3 times a week, that's great too, or anything in between. I just want to meet genuine people.

My Ideal Person My ideal person? As i said above, I am in two wonderful relationships with two very different wonderful women, (one of which I actually met on AsianMatchMate.com almost six years ago.) Sexually, I'm looking for some one who can be very dominant/toppy/primal, but slips in and out of that role depending on the activity. I'm beyond the whole damsel in destress syndrome, (or at least really trying to be), So I would like to meet people who can (and do) handle their own shit on the reg. I refuse to be talked down to or degraded, and being referred to as "slave" is a hard line for me. I want to get to know you, and mutually make the decision on whether or not we are worth each other's time. If that sounds like what you are interested in, then by all means, shoot me an email!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Making a woman into my own personal dessert... She would
like down on her kitchen/dining room table. I would gather
the materials/ingredients: A spoon a bowl full of ice,
some Redi Whip, and heated caramel. I would start by icing
her down... Rubbing the ice cubes all over her body. Then
it would be time to decorate, spraying redi whip from her
neck up by her ear down her cleavage and around the curve
of her breasts...Then a line a light zigzag over her belly,
a single line down from her belly button to the arch of each
foot. Next I would drizzle Carmel in a thin dripping.. a
quick thin zigzag pattern from shoulder to torso, and down
over each thigh. Now that my desert is complete, I would
sit down with my spoon, scraping the condiments off of her
with the edge... Pulling her up when I need it, icing down
the spoon on occasion to keep her body cool. After I had finished
it would be time for the main course, moving the iced spoon
over the one place on her body Ice wont keep cool... teasing
her gently with it ( and myself for that matter) before I
abandon the spoon and resort to more primitive ( and fun)
ways of eating :)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope... Nope nope nope

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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