My situation at AFF and in life has changed. I am still interested in NSA FWB play with willing ladies and couples but I am now looking for a lady that becomes long term and hopefully permanent. That said, until I meet that someone I will be committed to one play partner at a time until its run its course each time. I’m not into having multiple play connections, both for STD safety and the message that it sends. Not looking for notches. Id like to chat online and find common ground. After a coffee or drink meet and we find we want to go further, we can start our firt physical encounter by simple naked play; giving you tantric type full body massage, caressing and kissing all over from head to toe. It could then be followed by breast suckling while playing with your clit and pussy. All of it relaxed, unrushed and long lasting. Once you have orgasmed you can return the favour by a hand massage. I don’t expect more than this with our first visit or even visits until we want to take it further. We should get used to each other and move to adding full oral and more only once we feel safe and ready. I'm a mature, retired, active man in my 60’s. Though 9 to 5 is no longer part of my life I still have many ongoing active interests. You may like to be involved! I’m respectful of others, never crude or rude (hence the name). I’m friendly, polite, well mannered, and told I’m fun to be with. I believe I have a great sense of humour never taking myself too seriously. I can be silly and obnoxiously funny. I am a social drinker, don’t smoke or do drugs, am healthy, in good shape (average to athletic) and look younger than my age. I have blue eyes, med length blonde / white hair, am 5' 10' and 180 lbs. I'm very clean, consider good hygiene critical for both myself and my partner. I am also STD free wishing to remain that way. I’m well-endowed in both length and thickness, long lasting, shaved below and close trimmed above. I’m an avid reader, am current with news and very comfortable with computers. I love music (all kinds) and am a true history buff. Though I love watching action, comedy and thriller movies and series, I tend to watch a lot of documentary type shows as well. I have a strong connection with electronics, construction and music all of which were part of my past careers. I have done a lot of traveling in my life, though most of it in vehicles and RV’s. Boating was also a major component in my life before my divorce and I wish to re-introduce that activity. I am never bored always finding things to do or topics to involve myself in. I can generally hold a conversation on almost any topic. I absolutely love sex. The older I get, I believe the more sexually exciting and imaginative I have become. We all have the right to be sexually satisfied and have fun! My thoughts take many forms from vanilla, to explosive, and kinky depending on one’s interpretation. I need to assure you that as kinky as my mind can get it never involves anything that I would call crossing the line (no scat, vomit, cutting etc). I am open to discussing anything whether I’ve thought about it or not and hope you will do the same. I enjoy going to movies, musicals, concerts and just a pleasant night out but I will always want to come home as soon as possible to enjoy carnal pleasures with my partner. I am most comfortable in casual clothes but like dressing up for my partner for special events. Even in casual I like to look groomed and clean for my partner. There are five major components in my desires that I feel you should know. First is kissing, long sensual deep kissing. Second is giving you as much oral as you could possibly want as there is never enough giving for me. My favourite position is on the bottom in 69 so I have full access to everything down below. If you enjoy be giving you anal oral at the same time it is a bonus for me. I also enjoy giving oral even after releasing inside you. Third is to be able to deep suckle your breasts. Not just lick and lightly suck, but deep suckle where you nipple, areola and part of your breast are deep in my mouth. Some partners have orgasmed from my suckling alone. Fourth is receiving oral. As I am uncut, I enjoy being teased and played with, sucked for long periods of time with lots of tongue work. If you enjoy or tolerate the taste of cum we can share it while kissing. That said, I do enjoy cumming inside your pussy as opposed to releasing in your mouth. Five is somewhat obvious. Trying all kinds of positions while sliding inside of you. If we take our time and have mini breaks I will last a few hours. Somewhat kinky I do enjoy releasing inside you and having you straddle my face again so I can give more oral. Quickies have their place but I prefer a long and intimate play time, lots of passion, lots of foreplay and afterglow. If you wish it anal is also on the table. With anal there would be lots of lube and as much patience as you need. I always take my time.

My Ideal Person What I'm looking for:

If you are looking for more than just FWB NSA the following notes pertain mainly to that connection. I am ultimately looking for long term.

You embrace loyalty, trust, and eventually full devotion giving of yourself and receiving the same in return. You are respectful and discreet. You enjoy sex and relate to it as I do; that it is the best gift we have ever been given
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You have no stds, and consider hygiene critical for play.

You have a high libido and enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving it. You love to be touched and caressed. You like holding hands. You love kissing.

You love receiving oral. Lots of oral. Possibly every day! You also enjoy giving oral as much as I do.

You are shaved or closely trimmed and definitely OK with me being uncircumcised. A quick note about my having a foreskin; I just want to assure you that it is always very clean and have never had anyone be disappointed.

You love to have your breasts suckled for extended periods. If this turns into a full ANR or ABF situation I would be more than a willing participant.

You like being naked and enjoy showing yourself off to me willingly. You embrace complete intimacy and enjoy spontaneous moments of touching leading to play both giving and receiving.

You will occasionally (or often if you wish it) watch porn with a playful attitude. I’m done with hiding it.

You love to explore your sexuality and are open to trying things you may have previously thought were taboo. A partnership built on trust can explore many new things without fear. You will openly discuss any desire you have ever had but were afraid to ever bring up to previous partners for fear of ridicule. Open sexuality without secrets would be a nice change.

You should never be afraid to ask or tell me anything you wish, even if it’s a thought you aren’t sure you wish to explore. I am never judgmental and would never belittle your thoughts. My age, varied experiences, and a true desire to please my partner should give you food for thought to at least peak under the hood or let me peak under yours!
Age and body image doesn't matter to me and hope it doesn’t matter to you. It’s more about attitude and demeanour. I don't have any expectations or illusions. I just want to have fun and see where things go. I love extended sessions going on for hours as there is always something to do! Most important to me is that partners are fully satisfied. There is absolutely no pressure, ever. The moment there seems to be uncomfortable situations and you wish to stop, we stop!

Role play:

If roleplay is something you enjoy I have experience with many types. Age-play/Daddy/daughter, Teacher/student, Agent/ porn actress, Doctor/patient, photographer/model and Dom/sub to name a few.

Photographer / model:

It’s not for everyone and generally has a big trust level. If it’s something you are interested in and enjoy we can make it quite enjoyable. I consider myself an excellent photographer / videographer and have a lot of experience in taking sexy pictures and videos. Want to start a porn site? lol

Doctor / Patient:

I have a lot of experience as a play doctor. Some ladies really seem to enjoy the experience of being totally exposed and wide open. It seems to create a much heightened state of arousal due to the nervous excitement and anticipation. This play traditionally includes breast, pelvic (using a speculum) and anal exam, can include shaving and doesn’t have to finish with sex to be extremely satisfying for both.

Dom / sub:

I don’t live a D/s lifestyle but have done D/s role-play with conviction with willing ladies desiring this type of play. It can even have a hint of S/M play if wanted. I can be very verbally dominant, mildly aggressive and demanding. I can be physically demanding but only if we have clearly discussed before play the very clear boundaries. This can include toys, blindfolds, handcuffs, shaving, mild restraints, medical play and fisting if desired. Please don’t ask for heavy pain of any sort. I have also been known to switch for the right partner.

Couples:

I am experienced being with couples. The MFM dynamic is always exciting and rewarding regardless what scenario is involved. As I am the guest I will always default to your wishes and am all about giving extended pleasure, believing it’s up to both men to give pleasure to the lady. As I am not homophobic a favourite was giving oral to the woman while the man was inside her sliding in and out. Also have experience with all three types of double penetrations.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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