It's important to live every day fully, find something to laugh at daily, be honest, down to earth, and no pretenses or drama -- that sums up my attitudes. Any relationship starts with friendship and honesty, and can grow in many ways that can be most satisfying. I live part of the year in Seattle and the rest in Hawaii.

My Ideal Person Someone who appreciates fun and the beauty around us as well as physical pleasure. I'm looking for friends with benefits, not a one night stand. And am in an open, ENM relationship, looking for that one special friend to share new adventures and experiences. Intelligence trumps looks in my book, so lets chat and see what happens.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Johnny , Sprinstein, Iz, Orbison

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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