Hi I'm a 45 yo cd, with not a lot of experience, but I've fantasized and even chatted online and been out a few times...well more than a few times. I've started to let my inhibitions go a bit. It just sort of grows on you. The times I was out I was amazed at how natural it felt. I used think I was just playing around but I've had to rethink that. Now I'm thinking maybe I'm even ready to date? Being dressed makes me so tingly and flushed that I half think I'm gonna pass out. There must be something to that and maybe I should just explore it, with the right per.

My Ideal Person You'd have to be pretty understanding, I wouldn't exactly be just running to the bedroom in two seconds, although I know how turned on I get when things start to click, but hopefully friendly and kind of gentle at first, but maybe also some firmness and encouragement. Even though I'm bisexual, I know I'm pretty much for sure a bottom when it comes to being with a man, and so I guess you should be a top. Maybe a little firmness and even encouraging, teasing even and with a bit of a dominant side is a big turn on for me. You should be decent looking and in halfway decent shape as far as that goes, but that's not the most important thing, it's the chemistry. Oh I also kind of have a thing for black guys it seems at least looking online and stuff...so if you're black I might unable to resist. Look forward to hearing from you.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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