Hi, I've become a widower in the last year after a difficult previous couple of years without sex and I'm now anxious to find a companion to enjoy life with. This should not, it seems be difficult, but, perhaps it is. I have a beautiful property with a great view, a large home that I occupy on my own, a hot tub, a fire pit, and a great wine selection. I'm classy, fit, financially secure, playful, well-endowed, ddf and I want an FWB (I am open to a relationship that could evolve into more if the connection is right over time), I am open-minded. Now, all I need is someone to enjoy it... you can be from 25 - 55. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile, pictures and correspondences in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

My Ideal Person I want a woman that is thin or athletic and that enjoys a man who focuses on her pleasure. I'm looking for a companion for fun times that can include dinner, dancing, outdoor activities, fun, exercise, and enjoyment of life in general... I'd like someone open-minded, easy-going and drama free. Spontaneous would be a great quality as well! Life is too short and I want to enjoy this one trip I get fully!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To be tied and used as a sexual toy for my partner's pleasure...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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