I am a big, sapiosexual girl with nice curves and truly enjoys life and love. I am looking for a regular thing, at least once a month, more often preferably, with one man. Even better is a long-term relationship. Also an occasional group thing for now until I find one steady relationship. I do not want one night stands or flings.

My Ideal Person I am looking for just five things:
1) we have lots in common intellectually and therefore have a lot to talk about. I am sapiosexual and need a mentally as well as sexually stimulating partner.

2) sexually compatible. If you have a small... appetite for sex or just roll over when you are finished or like it the same way all the time vanilla style, sorry. I like it daily, at least once a day and I have a few kinks.

3) not cheating. I am fine with a polygamy/polyamory, but not with a cheater. If you can't be honest with your partner, we can't get together.

4) clean... I am drug and disease free and expect nothing less from you. I want to stay clean. I prefer non-smokers... they taste better.

Weight and height do not matter as long as you take care of yourself. Looks are not really important either. You don't have to shave as I like hairy men, just keep it clean.

5) MUST be at least 33 years old. Not negotiable.

No BDSM, no slave/master, no one-night stands or flings.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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