Educated and wishing to meet same. not a hit and run kind of guy so having compatibility and something to converse about is a good thing. You must enjoy kissing and all things oral. I have a bit of an obsession in that area and love to touch and taste. I believe that a lady should be pleased first, then repeatedly after that. It's in my nature. being able to connect other than just physically is a necessary step towards satisfaction. I'm a realistic open minded per and even with all the "build up" and perceived expectations. I still understand that No means No and still show courtesy and respect. Everyone has the right to change their minds or know when they aren't feeling comfortable. I mean "really" if you aren't feeling comfortable, where's the enjoyment. Life and getting older has found all of us, some more than others. Age, gravity, weight, etc,etc,... Perality and a positive attitude trumps all. Some people will put up with most anything to play with Barbie or Ken. Me, show me your crappy attitude and ill just think your an ass. Give me a happy fun girl and we'll keep the neighbors up all night, too! :o) Looking forward to making new friends.