Hi, I'm Iron-WILL, I'm a professional and i own my own business (an architectural design firm) and I LOVE what i do. but all-in-all I don't suppose i'm all that different from every other single guy at this sausage party, ..-Except maybe that I actually have mad Respect for Females, ...and I have standards (of which I will NOT lower for any rea, at ANY time), ...and maybe except for the small fact that I Respect myself enough not to send a Dic-Pic to someone who not only didn't ask for it, but is also a complete stranger! - (What a bunch of fucking morons)! Bruh's, If they want to see it, they'll ask!! - Look, I'm sure if guys actually knew how lame that was they probably wouldn't -Wait, NEVERMIND, i AM referring to guys, so scratch that thought!! They'd still do it L-) SMH. I Know what i want and I know it's not easy to find (and even more difficult to obtain), but I also know that the payoff is well worth the wait! I could go on rambling about Not "settling" or Not 'compromising' my values until I find her, ..-I could even spin my wheels on the futile attempt at trying to explain MY understanding of "Like-Minded", ... But instead of doing all that, I'm just gonna share a few things about me, things that make me smile: *Witty banter, ..I LOVE a woman w a quick wit! There aren't too many things that can put a genuine smile on my face like a funny ass response, with a hint of sarcasm, (Not that rude, cut u down, make u feel like like a worthless pile kind of sarcasm, but the funny, light hearted, can't help but smile kind). *Making a bad decision together! LOL, whether it's a poor movie choice or an "OMG, I knew we shouldn't have invited this couple over here. Iv'e never smelled anything so bad in my life, i didn't think it was possible for one human to have so much gas! How the F are we gonna get them out of here??" kind of bad decision!! -Whatever bad decision it is, it doesn't even matter, because At least we made it TOGETHER! *Animals & ren! Honestly, what is better at putting a smile on your face (no matter what kind of day you're having) than the pure, clean, innocence of a baby's laugh or a 's giggle, or a kissing you all over your face because they're so excited to see you?! Nothing, Nothing is better! In fact, if we acted more like that and less like US, there's no telling how much better the world would be. So before I go and make an irrational decision and reduce my self worth, i'm gonna remember who I am, What I stand for, and be Super Fine w the fact that i may not know exactly what i want right this moment, But i Damn sure know what i DON'T want!! -And that's a bitter, selfish, "hey everyone look at ME", "oh i'm gonna make everyone around me miserable because i'm miserable" kind of per!! ...Regardless of how beautiful her exterior may be, ..her interior is dark and lonely. I Love life and i'm going to try my best to live it to the absolute fullest! I have an unusually high level of energy and I Love that too! I am a 'Giver', ...my excitement level feeds directly off of yours! So i know if im spending my time making YOU happy, then by default, I'M gonna be happy! And if you're not happy, then i'm going to figure out why not and where the breech is, and remedy it, and then repeat step one! I know enough about women to know that i have to love them the way THEY want to be loved, ...not the way I want them to be loved! That would just be selfish, and selfish is the complete opposite of Love. Ok, enough about me, Lets talk about You for a while........

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person is confident in who she is. She is first & foremost, a Lady! -She may be a freakin minx behind closed doors (which i highly encourage), but I'm a professional and she is too. Discretion is SO important (regardless of what avenue we decide to take). She should be intelligent, and able to carry on a decent, meaningful convo! If she's smarter or more inteligent than me, then GREAT! I'll learn a thing or 2 along the way. (there's Nothing wrong w being a little nerdy, or goofy. It's actually kinda hot). She is someone who who takes care of herself. You don’t have to be Jillean Micheals or anything (of course it wouldn't hurt either), but just someone who's not a pig or a slob either! Being fit has SO many benefits, not just health wise, but sexually too. And you're gonna need that to keep up w my (in the bedroom AND out)! I know it gets daunting having to keep up w everything, sometimes, and things get a bit messy, I get that, ...but don't make a lifestyle of it. That's just lazy and gross! I still manage to find gym time, and make time for "man-scaping" and staying trim, shaven & clean, so I’d expect the same in return.
She should definitely have a sense of humor, and a great attitude! In fact, that's a Must! - Bonus points for being Tall, ...Nothing sexier than a tall woman! It's my kryptonite, for sure! She Knows who she is and doesnt worry about being "good enough", or this or that enough. Because she'd already there.
And She is Most Definitely Disease & Drama free!!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A hotel room, Anywhere

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Jessica simpson in that red bikini in the dukes of hazard
movie. Holy cwap!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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