Well. Everyone has sexual desires and fantasies. Why does a marriage need to stop them from happening? Why not enjoy them together? Just like you would do any other hobby right? It all depends on the couple and how they handle the situation as to how it effects their marriage. If there's no communication there's no trust if there's no trust there's no communication. We communicate to each other what our fantasies and desires are and we act on them together. So I'd say it's bonded us even more than we already were. Swinging and polyamory are way more common than the average per thinks or knows. For the single males. If there's an interest established we can open a group chat with her included and that will remain the open line of communication so as everyone is equally in the loop. No contacting her outside of that line of communication. We're very open and honest with each other about what we want and all that so we're pretty comfortable with ourselves. Gotta be clean cut. Well manicured. No huge bush. A little body hair is acceptable as long as it's clean and well kept. She doesn't care about how big your dick is, she cares more about how hard you can keep it, as well as preferring that you be circumcised. Respectful. Understand that he's nothing more than an addition to our already awesome sex life. No need to wine and dine and sweet talk. No guy guy action. And we absolutely always play together. Somewhat in shape, don't have to be super fit, but prefer that your not fat or obese. As long as ya carry it well.

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