I guess this is the part where I try and quantify all my preferences. I see people making lists and boiling it all down to "what I'm looking for," in anticipation of the question that always comes up in conversations. The thing is, I don't think I'm looking for much of anything. Sure, there are things I'll admit to wanting, in the proper time and in the proper space, but I find half the fun is in seeing what one could find, if one allows themselves to be drawn into something. I like people. I like hearing what they're passionate about, seeing what makes them tick. To me, there are few things more appealing than hearing, honestly and without pretense, what sort of desires are in a per's heart, and to be able to speak one's desires, in turn. Which, really, is just a waffling, pseudo-intellectual way of saying "I get off on folks getting off," but I suppose I ought to have kept the illusion intact that I was maybe something more profound than just some dude on AFF. I do have limits. I imagine nobody doesn't. I'm reluctant to hurt people, and I don't think I could ever truly degrade somebody, if that was a thing they were into. I play these things largely by ear, and I make it a point to at least take a step in, before making a judgment on whether somebody is good for me or not. Suffice it to say, if there's something I'm not into, you'd be the first to know, but I find myself with a bit more flexibility than the average per. Yet another rea why quantifying and listing "what I like" is so difficult, at times.

My Ideal Person Someone who knows what it is they're after, or at least isn't afraid to try and find out. Someone frank and honest, willing to meet on equal terms, without timidity or an expectation of ill intent. Specifics otherwise seem a bit up in the air; perhaps I look for traits I think that I lack.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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