Him: 5' 11", straight, easygoing intellectual, experienced kinkster, passionate optimist, primarily dom but switch-friendly, wicked sinner, rebel, vagina enthusiast. Turn-ons include outgoing/fun personalities, spontaneous fun and advencha'. Her: Sub, heteroflexible, laid back, sarcastic but kind. New-ish to the community. Quiet initially but lively & open among good friends. Turn-ons: being restrained while getting pleasured, nerdy guys, good sense of humor. Us: voyer/exhibitionists, playful, sensual, safe, ambitious, open-minded, outgoing, embracing and awesome. We do not play separately. He is strictly straight, not interested in any direct guy-on-guy interaction.

My Ideal Person Mainly M+F couples, but definitely also considering singles, with compatible personalities. Respectful, considerate, easy-going, nonjudgmental. Trustworthy/discrete. Safe, disease-free and willing to provide proof. Healthy/generally attractive. Prefer mid-20s to early 40s.