Forty something sexual deviant living in the capitol. Sorry to say but BDSM really isn't my thing. I've tried to play along for partners, and it just doesn't come naturally to me. My desires lie elsewhere. I'm in a relationship and happy, but neither of us are fully satisfied in the bedroom. Just looking for someone who is on the same page as me, sexually speaking, to help fill the gap. If you'll forgive the double entendre. Even just being able to discuss weird fantasies and such without judgement would be liberating. There is a good chance I won't message you first unless I see something specific in your profile to lead me to believe we share interests. So if you are curious just shoot me a message. I won't bite 'til you ask me to.

My Ideal Person Kinda covered this up top, but I'm hoping for that unicorn of a lady who is as weird as I am, and wants to join me in indulging our crazy fantasies. Whether that be through simply discussing them openly or actually acting some out depends entirely on the person and the fantasy. I just want to find someone with whom I don't need to hold back.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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