I have been a member since 2011 and I shit you not... 95 percent of the girls on here are dishonest, scammers, TEASERS, FAKES and FLAKES! Who knew deception and malevolence was such a common trait in SO MANY women on here. Most of us pay hard earned money to be on the site only to be exposed to an 8 to 1 ratio of dishonest degenerates that have lost their life path, looking for someone to mooch off and pay their way. And whether they know it or not, in real life it lacks the mental/moral qualities and compassion of someone maturely sexy. It isn’t about how cute a selfie with oversize shades and duck lips is that makes a girl truly sexy. Hot profile pics are a dime a dozen on here... Tell me...what makes you stand out from them? I’ve been in enough relationships, serious and nsa, to know that when we’re not in the bedroom, something will have to maintain a semblance of chemistry, just to get us into said bedroom. The next paragraph is not for sympathy but just to emphasize the importance of how much I value my time more than ever now. My life was thrown a massive curveball in 2022 after my mom had a severe stroke leaving her mostly speechless and severely disabled on her right side. She now requires 24 hour care. I dont have a lot of family around to help take care of her, so its mostly me and sometimes my sister. I’ve been able to make the best of the situation but still have been burning that proverbial candle at both ends the last 2 years. So I place extreme importance and value on the time I do have. I work full time as a cabinet maker, installer and handyman 5 to 6 days a week. As well as being a full time caretaker. So Im a cabinet maker by day and a caretaker by night :) Im very confident when I say, you’ve never met anyone with my unique set of skills. It can be a little vanilla doing the same thing every day. But thats not necessarily a permanent circumstance. Looking for a distraction to take my mind off of the crazy day to day grind. I put all that out on the table so theres an upfront understanding why my time is limited with a complex schedule. But theres always room for some simple, non complicated, NSA fun. And also not opposed for the right person, taking things slow towards a LTR. But I know that’s not as realistic with my situation. If any of this resonates with you, hit me up if you are still reading this... I applaud you. Shows you have dedication and loyalty to your character. You must have a certain level of interest and curiosity to read this far into this lyrical regurgitation lol...hit me up, look forward to hearing from you!

My Ideal Person Someone sweet and giving. Non deceptive or dishonest. Someone sexy and compassionate with a big heart.