[B]UPDATE:[/B] I have returned from a year long deployment in Afghanistan as of May 09, and look forward to resuming my quest for friends and adventure. Enough of my friends and playmates in the lifestyle have mentioned AFF, that I thought it was time to throw my hat into the ring. First and foremost, I am best described as a sensualist. I enjoy the physicality of women particularly and one of my greatest pleasures is to help my partner/partners reach her orgasm(s). I'm known to give an amazing massage, and I find it a great way to build up to more intense play. Since returning from a tour in Iraq, I have adopted a very strong "carpe diem" (seize the day) philosophy. While I have always sought out opportunities for adventure, I am far more likely to make it happen. I'm eclectic in my tastes and my characteristics....I think of myself as either a studly geek, or a geeky stud..lol. On one hand is the career military man with the brown belt in Tae Kwon Do, ex college wrestling champion and overall decent athlete.....while on the other is the voracious reader of fiction ranging from SciFi, Fantasy, Horror, MilFic, Mysteries, ect with a 20,000+ comic collection. I kick ass at Pop Trivia because I also love TV, movies and miscellania... I'm a completely loyal friend and somewhat sentimental. I have strongly held convictions, but remain open minded and love a lively debate on issues of substance. I may not always agree with you, but I'm one of those guys that will literally die to protect your right to have them. Just prior to my deployment and since my return, I have had the pleasure and privilege to meet and play with a lot of great people in the lifestyle, ranging from intimate one on one's to large parties/orgies of 30 or more folks. While the sexual encounters have been great, the greatest treasure has been the addition of some great friends. Look forward to making more through AFF. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*UPDATE* I thought I'd added this to my profile here as I did in some other lifestyle sites. I apologize for the oversight. Since this is a basic piece of information in my profile here, I originally didn't think I needed to address it, but here goes. Aside from everything else in my profile, it is also important to know that I am happily married (25 years) to a woman who, for her own reas, does not want to participate in the lifestyle. She knows I have adventures outside the marriage, but would just as soon not know the details. I would be the first to recognize that it is not an ideal situation. I would dearly love for her to join me in all this. Maybe someday. Until then, we have a situation that allows us to have a life together and to raise our s, while at the same time allowing me the freedom to associate, socialize and play with a community of people and a lifestlye that is very important to me, and helps me feel more whole as a per. For anyone hanging around long enough to read all this, I'd be happy to discuss it with you and/or address your concerns.

My Ideal Person In the spirt of "great minds think alike", I'd like to think that Great Libidos Enjoy Alike. I love a woman who loves sex and sensuality. As I've mentioned, my greatest pleasure is to help a woman cum.

I love intelligent and confident women. If the intellectual intercourse is great, it adds a great dimension to the sexual kind.

I have had some amazing encounters with adult women of every shape, size, ethnicity and age. For me, it's the person, not the appearance.

I am straight, but am comfortable playing near other guys in a group setting from threesomes to moresomes.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Springsteen, Live, MacLachlan, H Chapin, Moody Blues,
Who, Zevon, Petty, Morrisette, Classic Rock,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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