Ladies... Don't be shy about me being Bi. You probably are and that would be hypocritical. Besides I can assure you that most (if not all) of the guys on this site are Bi even if they don't admit it. I get a lot of "straight" guys flirting with me and wanting to hook up. If you ask your man (or the last one you were with) if he is Bi or curious he will probably tell you that he is not. After all he doesn't want you to find out his secret and is afraid that you will judge him. Being Bi is not emasculating at all and is perfectly normal. The fact is that most girls and guys love sex and would love to experiment with members of the same sex. I love playing with girls and guys as long as there is chemistry (She/he is sexy) and at least I admit it. The best swing situation is where all parties are Bi. There is no tension and everyone has a great time. I love having fun with girls, couples and select hot guys. My favorite position is 69 but I'll please you any way that you want. I am orally Bi and Tri (I'll try almost anything but I prefer oral and never bottom). I can play straight and always discreet and I always play safe . I live near Virginia Beach/Norfolk area but will be visiting Cleveland (N. Royalton) occasionally.