I’m a married oral bottom who enjoys j/o, body contact, kissing, poppers, and getting fucked. I can typically host during weekday mornings at my place. I really enjoy getting to know someone so I don’t like the whole blow and go or wham Bam thank you kind of crap. I do like the whole chance to chat prior during and after about each other and getting to know each other on a different level not just sexually. Saying that it doesn’t mean that I’m trying to replace a relationship. I am happily married and have been for 12 years but we are in an open marriage.

My Ideal Person 0 this is kinda hard to answer, only because my ideal person fluctuates on the person. I try to always look for the key things that I can learn from someone but also what makes them individually special. I also am looking for someone who is stable enough to not come in to my domain and start touching feelings and then thinking about messing up my marriage. I’ve been married for over decade and we have agreed to open that marriage sometime ago. And it works for us. If you’re thinking of it, I tell people sit down you make your list of rules that you two can decide , and agree upon. And then don’t give two shakes of lamb tail about what anybody else thinks. They don’t pay your bills they’re not in your marriage they don’t live in your household, so tell them to mind their own business. Sometimes it just works out that you need a little something extra .