I have been married for four years. My husband is older and not always in sync with my needs. We have a home in Los Angeles, New York City and Naples, FL. I visit Naples every couple of months to "get away" from the stress of NYC, which is where we spend most of our time. My husband rarely travels with me, which is fine because it allows me some freedom to do the things I need to do to keep my sanity.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a man between 35-55 who is extremely good looking, who takes care of themself and is available on an, "as needed" basis. I am looking for a no-strings-attached situation. A married man will really get my attention, as we'll both be bound by a secret. With advance notice, I will be able to host our tryst.

The candidate must be confident, without having the need to flaunt it. In my opinion, a truly confident man does not need money or power. He only needs to be true to himself.

**UPDATE**
Finally broke my AsianMatchMate.com cherry! Yaay!! The only problem is I want to spend much MORE time in Naples!!! Thanks a lot Max (just kidding..kiss-kiss!)

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A group of friends and I decided to go to a night club. Two
of my girlfriends and I had been talking about having a guy
join us for the night, but there is no one available. We talked
about the three of us playing together in the past, but none
of us had the nerve to ever initiate it. <br><br>
So as we are hanging out in the bar together. My friend Amanda
sees two totally hot couples come into the bar. Since the
bar is really crowded, I go approach them to tell them they
can use our extra table, which of course is right next to
ours. The night goes on and we all dance with each other and
the men who approach us. <br><br>
We are all hanging out now; Jamie, Christy, Jonas and Melanie
are the couples. I notice that Melanie keeps staring at
me. She suddenly tells her husband that she is going to the
ladies room, so I ask if I can join. I want to know if she is
interested in exploring some new things. As I am washing
my hands she, continues to look at me. I smile at her and she
smiles back. <br><br>
I am still not sure what this means, just then another woman
comes into the restroom. We go back to the table. I notice
as we walk up to the table that Amanda is talking to the other
Christy, and everyone is sitting together. Megan, my other
friend is out dancing with Jamie. As I sit now I am in between
Jonas and Melanie. Just then a man approaches our table
to ask me to dance, when to my surprise Jonas and Melanie
say at the same time she is with us. Melanie reaches across
my body brushing my breast to grab Jonas' hand. She
then begins running his hand up and down my legs, as I look
over at her in surprise she kisses me. I ask Melanie if they
are interested in going back to my place together, Jamie,
Christy, Jonas, and Melanie, Megan, Amanda and Me. Melanie
leans over and says we were waiting for you to ask. <br><br>
We all arrive back at my place, we have another drink which
we take out back to the pool/hot tub area. Of course since
they don't have swim suits so we all agree to go naked.
My heart is beating a little faster as Jonas comes over to
me to unzip my dress. As I look around I see Amanda and Christy
kissing as they undress each other, Jamie, Melanie and
Megan are already undressed. Melanie and Megan are kissing
and Jamie is eating Megan’s pussy. We all get into the hot
tub; I realize that these guys are so lucky. Melanie is petite,
with an amazing body; she has long black hair, dark skin
and a beautiful smile. Amanda is tall and athletic with
long blonde hair, a great tan and beautiful breasts. Megan
is so beautiful in every way she is fit and lean. Christy
is tall, long and lean with huge breast and long blond hair.
Emily (me) is curvy, athletic body, long blonde hair and
a little on the naughty side. <br><br>
As everyone gets into the hot tub, I find myself between
Christy and Jamie. What more could I ask -a hot women on one
side and a hot man on the other. I am wet just thinking about
what is going to happen. As I look around to see what everyone
else is doing; Melanie and Amanda are sitting with Jonas
in the middle of them. They are leaning over his amazing
body kissing. I can see he is stroking his cock, it is at least
9” and is perfect. <br><br>
I feel Jamie's hand brush against my breast and he reaches
for Christy. Excitement flows through my body as Jamie
lifts Christy onto the lip of the hot tub. I take my chance
and begin to lick her pussy. Jamie slips beneath me and is
sucking my nipples as he strokes his cock. I feel lips on
my ass, licking my ass and pussy. I look back to see Melanie,
Megan and Amanda in a line each licking each other's
pussy. At the end is Jonas -he is fingering and licking Amanda’s
pussy. MMMMM…it feels so good and makes me even hornier
knowing all my friends are getting some too. <br><br>
Christy shifts her body and asks me to sit on her face, she
wants to taste me. I do as she asks. Jonas comes around and
stands in front of me I began sucking his cock. I take it as
deep as I can (which I can usually deep throat). Each girl
lays next to Christy on the edge of the hot tub. They are rubbing
each other and kissing while Jamie licks and fingers each
girl. I move from Christy’s face and go help Jamie –I want
to taste each girl. Jonas comes around and begins fucking
Christy. Megan jumps up and goes inside the house for something,
so Amanda and I both begin licking Melanie our tongues flicking
each others as we lick her clit and tongue fuck her. <br><br>
Megan returns with a strap on. Just what we need another
cock. I lay on the edge of the hot tub. I want to be fucked.
Jonas comes over and slides his cock into my wet pussy. Megan
fucks Christy hard; pulling her hair and making her scream.
Melanie and Jamie begin to fuck and Amanda starts to suck
and bite my nipples, kissing my throat up to my lips. She
tastes like sweet pussy. I hear Christy yell that she is
going to cum, me too. <br><br>
I yell out to Jonas to fuck me harder, faster. So he does.
I can't hold out any longer cum and cum again. He pulls
out, he doesn't want to cum yet. As soon as Jonas is out
Megan is fucking me with the strap on, she is wild; grabbing
my nipples, pulling my hair and biting me on the neck. I am
cumming again!! She pulls out quickly and licks my wet pussy.
Jamie helps her, both tongues on my pussy makes me cum again.
I want to fuck Megan with the strap on while Jamie fucks me
from behind. Megan agrees. <br><br>
I begin fucking her slow and carefully, until she cries
out fuck me hard. I fuck her fast and harder Jamie is moving
with me fucking me harder and faster and I cum again. <br><br>
This goes on all night, and the next morning after a shower,
we begin all over again.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley

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