Update--> the bots and scams are leaving me spun. I will not be renewing. But, I am still live through about mid-July. Still hoping to meet someone like minded. I am ever the optimist, but....the percent of real people here is staggeringly low. And it is made more complicated by my location, I get that. Dominant. I want a long term relationship, but I am realistic and content to make friends and memories for now. That means that I am principally meeting women who: a) Are submissive and want to explore those tendencies. Your experience level with bdsm is not terribly important for my enjoyment we just have to communicate about that so we both understand each other's desires and needs, and b) Are seeking a connection. Whether for a long term relationship or something less committed, I'd prefer to have a connection with my partner that extends past the intimacy. Don't get me wrong, as long as I am not in a committed relationship I would be comfortable with the occasional fling with a like minded partner. That is why I have included couples in my search. My ultimate dream would be to build a life with a wonderful woman, but as I have matured, my idea of marriage and relationships has evolved as well. As long as this virus is around, I am going to be extremely picky about vetting women to meet up with. But that gives us more time to get to know each other, and there are ways we can play a but short of face to face meeting, right?

My Ideal Person Must be intelligent enough to carry on a sensible conversation. Well read, traveled, or educated is a PLUS.

I like women feminine: great asses and eyes trigger my switch.

My ideal person is NOT A LUSTBOT! Holy shit you people are such a pathetic waste of time. If we were communicating and I stopped responding it is because I am suspicious of this. I will not just ghost someone I have been talking with. So, if you are legit, and interested, and I stopped talking then I recommend you reach back out and show me.

DISTANCE: Wow--- lots of smokin women who are not proximate to me. OK--if you are willing to relocate we have something to discuss. Or if you travel. If you want something online because of the virus and its implications then distance is not a thing at all. But generally, I need you to be between Houston and Dallas and the Louisiana/Arkansas/Oklahoma border then you are probably too far away.