***PLEASE READ MY PROFILE FULLY BEFORE MESSAGING, FLIRTING, OR HOTLISTING ME. IF YOU DON'T MEET THE REQUIREMENTS, PLEASE SAVE US BOTH TIME. I DON'T RESPOND TO NEW, EMPTY/NO PICS, OR FOREIGN PROFILES. THANK YOU*** Honest, compassionate, open-minded, sassy, nerdy ssbbw (300lbs) who is enjoying her late-40’s. Sub (sometimes switch/top?) who is more into the BD side of BDSM. I AM NOT INTO: 5+ pain/welts/severe bruises, degradation/humiliation, age play, or blood/urine/scat.

My Ideal Person Looking for FWB/NSA, experienced male Dom for bedroom dynamic but open to LTR if there's a spark. He's like myself in honestly, compassion, nerdiness, is 40+ years old, and is single (preferred, but open to ENM situations if I like the couple) . I like manlier men that are taller than my 5'5", and if bearded, tattooed, or pierced--bonus points!

MUST have a complete profile with pics.
MUST live in Metro Detroit (under 30min drive).
MUST be clean, drug/disease free, and vaccinated/boosted to meet.
MUST think SSBBW's bodies are sexy.
MUST be into the kink lifestyle as I'm not shopping for vanilla at this time.



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What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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