We are a happily married couple that values openness, honesty, trust, and respect at the core of our relationships. We are not looking to replace any aspect of our relationship or already great sex life. Instead, we are wanting to grow and explore with another couple in and out of the bedroom. We are a professionally working couple with high-level college degrees and education is important to us. We also value family and would hope to find a couple that would be willing to be engaged in our 's life in a discrete fashion. The following list are both sexual and nonsexual things on our YES list. -dinner dates -cookout -concerts -dancing -athletic games -game night -adult sex games -watch porn -mutual masterbation/group masterbation -girl/girl -visit adult parties together -soft swap -full swap -3some -4some -moresome -video play -sleepovers in same bed -BDSM (choking, pulling hair, biting, spanking, nipple clamps bondage, etc.) He likes to dominate; she likes to submit to females and males or dominate males -anal (she is willing; it's okay it you aren't) -oral (she will suck it all) -fingering/fisting (she is willing) -exhibition play We have been together for ten years now and at times have incorporated swapping since the beginning with long breaks along the way. At this point in our lives, we are looking to explore the lifestyle consistently. We are looking for a drama free couple that knows how to leave inhibitions behind and have fun. Ideally, we would like to meet a couple to go out with regularly and potentially even DATE in a somewhat poly-fidelity relationship.

My Ideal Person Our ideal people are laid back, educated, value family, enjoy partying on occassion, avid sports fans, and good taste in music.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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