The wife has final approval of any and all meetups, but I'm usually not far behind. She can be a bit shy at first so be patient and you may get a chance to see her other side! We play as a couple only and we looking for FULLY bi vers/bottom men! Initially, there will be no v/a sex with her except for me, but that may change based on chemistry. Fingers, toys and oral are definitely on the menu though. Bi couples may work, but it would be a soft swap scenario and the majority of play would happen between the men with the women joining in with their own partners. Wife is bi-situational. We're also open to CD's/femme, and trans if the vibe is right. WE ONLY PLAY TOGETHER AND ARE A PACKAGE DEAL....YOU DON'T GET ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER....EVER! A couple of quick things we've learned: 1. If you are looking for fit, athletic body types, that's not us. We don't have perfect bodies by any stretch but are also not sloppy...we both have love handles and some weight to lose, but such is life. We try to eat healthy and workout when there's time.....it's a process, so if tight bodies are a priority, we're probably not for you (right now.../:>). Oh....and hubby has a beard. It's very neatly trimmed and short, but if facial is a deal breaker, no need to apply. 2. It takes some planning to actually meet...we have a family and another life outside of AFF....but when we make plans to meet we follow through. 3. We most likely will not play on the first date. It's not out of the question, but rather the exception than the rule. 4. If you send a friend request without a message and/or your profile doesn't have any pictures and you don't send one, chances are very high that we won't except. We're not here to build up a friend list with no hopes of actually meeting one day. That being said, we're not looking to bed hop either. This will only work if we can connect on something more than just sex. 5. Our IM is almost always on, but we are not necessarily in front of the computer so if we don't respond to your IM send us a message and we'll respond there if we're interested. We're a happily married couple looking for fun and adventure. This is the experimentation phase where we are looking to play with single bi men ONLY. Bi couples can contact us, but play would be primarily between the men. M/F swapping is not our thing at this time, but the women can watch, direct, assist and then join their own partners when ready. We belong to a few sex clubs that we use to meet like-minded people and push boundaries. AFF makes finding the kinkier boundaries easier, so with that said we are taking our time, but are excited about who/what we discover. LEGAL STUFF To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from us to use any of our profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

My Ideal Person Most importantly, we are looking for friends first and foremost. Our attraction to others depends almost entirely on chemistry...physical attraction at first must be there too, but that only gets us so far. We are looking for single bi men and select couples with a bi male between the ages of 30-50 (some exceptions may be made depending on attraction and chemistry).

Distance isn't a huge matter but at least be within 2 hours or travel to RI on a semi-regular occurrence to make it worth while. We are willing to meet half way or even travel to you for an overnight if we hit it off.

Please be clean shaven or trimmed where it counts, we always are and require the same from you.

As far as hobbies go we can figure that out when we chat as we are pretty open to most things.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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