I'm doing this again, ugh! Guess I'm not ready to give up then lol! I'm looking for the long term: friendship, companionship, partnership, family... The whole package. I'm actually quite moderate. I don't get drunk, smoke dope or do drugs. Ciggies are my only vice and I'm working my way off those too lol! I don't have any , and I'd still like to have one or two god willing. I'm fit and toned, 175lbs, 32 waist and 44 chest... If that matters lol! D&D free, I'm sure that does matter ;) I have a sence of humor that is good enough to at least amuse myself ;) well... Perhaps I'm easily amused heh! I enjoy movies, beaches, the ocean, fine art, cooking, good music, museums, galleries, playing guitar or my bass on stage, and I'm very adventurous. I don't enjoy possessive, jealous and co-dependent women, or anyone on "mental meds" either. I do enjoy a smart, independent, confident woman who can appreciate the fine art of conversation. P.S. I don't play "games", period. Game players need not apply. But, if you wish to play games, I'm good at chess and monopoly :D Can you keep up with me? ;) P.S. I loathe cyber-sex and I won't do it.

My Ideal Person I'm going to be very honest here, even bluntly so in some instances. A woman who can handle the truth is also something I'm looking for as well so here goes:

1. No games... ever!

2. Can compartmentalize her other relationships (kids, ex, family and so on) as to not let them interfere or negatively impact ours. I can do that and I know sometimes it's not easy.

3. Not looking for perfection, hey... I'm not perfect and no one truly is. Best that we can be is "perfect for each other" within good reason.

4. Hates drama, it only belongs on the stage or screen, not in real life.

5. Smart, intelligent, loves music, traveled, open minded, non-judgemental, educated, appreciates life and has a hungry mind.

6. Positive, not a negative thinker.

7. Mentally and emotionally stable -- this is critical.

8. Lives without fear and mistrust because I live that way. That's not to say you can't feel those things just that you choose to deal with those feelings in a way that does not rule your life.

9. I'm not going into the physical stuff because really it doesn't matter. Attraction & chemistry does though, mental first then physical. One step at a time yes? That being said I won't meet anyone in person without seeing photos first.

Please be honest with yourself before sending an email to me. No flirt messages please.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
omg! waaaaaay too many to list here lol!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm a normal guy, but I'm also adaptable and open
to suggestions. I keep an open mind.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Leather, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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