Keep It Private
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Posted:Dec 4, 2012 5:21 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2019 7:25 pm
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Is it me, or does it seem like couples who find it necessary to discuss their relationships in chatrooms, blogs, facebook, etc., tend to eventually self-distruct?
I have no problem with couples showing pda, or hearing them occasionally express affection for each other. To continually write about both the physical and emotional details of their relationship makes me wonder if they are more into being together to show others that they are in a relationship - to prove to others, they are loved/liked and desired.
Enjoying and appreciating intimacy .... all aspects of it, is what makes a relationship special.
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Pessimistic Optimist
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Posted:Oct 13, 2012 8:09 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 2:13 pm
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Sometimes it's not easy keeping your glass half full....
Especially when you are excessively thirsty.
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What's Next?
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Posted:Sep 13, 2012 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2019 8:25 pm
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[blog AlphaOmega10021] listed anniversaries of bloggers, including me, making me look back on what i've written over the years...my goodness my life has evolved since I began blogging here on A F F and that wasn't even until I'd been a member for a couple years!!
I've experienced so much....I have most definitely been "exploring my options". I've met men and women from all walk of life - farmers to anthropologists and everything in between. I've had sex indoors, outdoors, as a couple, in groups. I've played the cougar and been the younger women (hard to believe at my age). Herein lies my dilemma. So now what? I'm no longer just looking for the experience. It's the proverbial "been there, done that". As I've mentioned in many posts...too many times..becoming redundant, aren't i?...I need to find someone, not just something new to do. There are so many men out there, but seems the ones that are local that I make any connection with are either married or too young for me (age IS more than just a number at my age). I'm not interested in a long distance relationship. I want someone to hang out with...without having to make elaborate plans. Why has this become so difficult? Is it them? Or is it me?
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What Are You Thinking?
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Posted:Sep 1, 2012 12:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 6:10 am
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That's what I'm thinking whenever I find myself spending hours here.
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Couldn't Resist
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Posted:Aug 12, 2012 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2017 5:03 pm
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I had removed a video Profile Changes from my profile.
Due to the lack of creatively pervish emails being sent to me I put it back.
Hey....we all find fun and amusement in our own ways 
[video_embed 2570100]
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IPad Challenged
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Posted:Jun 19, 2012 9:49 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:03 am
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Instead of a much needed new laptop I decided to buy an ipad. Great, except for here on A F F. Can't use IM, cam, view videos. Any suggestions?
Oh no, just realized I can't post picture here. Figure there must be a way to do all these things.
HELP!!!!
Also, completely incompetent on touch keyboard. But, that I'm dealing with. Though my own typos drive me crazy.
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Profile Changes
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Posted:May 29, 2012 8:38 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 10:04 am
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I did it. Removed my video from my profile, plus all the pictures of me in "compromising" positions. I felt I was sending out the wrong message. Sure I want sex. I love sex. But by presenting myself in a primarily sexual way I was giving the impression that's all I am.
Men would read and comment on what I write in my profile, often in length, expressing their desire to also find more than a fuck buddy or casual NSA relationship....but my bj skills, as demonstrated in my video, or anatomical assets show in my pictures would inevitably be mentioned. Not that I am offended by that. I wouldn't have put them out there if I didn't want them to titillate and stimulate. However since I do express the desire for more than just a sexual relationship I felt I was being hypocritical.
Not to say I may not decide to put myself on display again, but for the meantime I'm going to see what happens.
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Movie Review - Hysteria
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Posted:May 28, 2012 7:41 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2013 5:01 pm
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Just saw the movie Hysteria....combined two of my favorites things...British costume drama (well not very dramatic) and vibrators. Was entertained and amused...and couldn't wait to get home and masturbate.
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In Need
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Posted:May 15, 2012 8:54 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 9:59 am
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How about a little stimulation
and inspiration?
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Want It Soooooooooooooooo Badly
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Posted:Apr 22, 2012 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2017 5:56 pm
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A big juicy burger. Can't stop thinking about it.
I neglected myself really badly in the last year and put on too much weight and now am seriously dieting. I've tried hard not to think about food I'm trying to avoid...OMG the urge for a burger hit me today. I know there are many blogs and discussions as to weight issues and larger women, and how we need to accept everyone for what they are. I don't want to accept myself as a fat person. I don't feel I'm less of a woman, entirely unattractive and not sexy, but I'm not happy about being fat. I don't like how I look, feel and it is not healthy for me. I've struggled with my weight for years and swore I'd never let myself get this heavy again, but regrettably I did. Sure I can blame it on stressful situations I've had in the last year. However, it's no fault except my own that I eat way too often and too much.
I was eating burgers, and other foods I crave on a too regular basis. I was still enjoying them, but they weren't satisfying me the way they used to, but I ate them none-the-less. Now I'm trying to go back to a lifestyle, I thought I had adopted before, of indulging in what I feel is decadent only occasionally - makes it special and much more fulfilling. Hopefully, this time I can permanently change my ways.
Hmmmm, think I've made similar comments about sex.
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No Self Control
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Posted:Apr 13, 2012 4:45 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 8:29 pm
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Damn chatroom...can't stop myself from frequenting. Seldom even the playful banter I used to enjoy so much. Not dissing the other chatters, some I consider friends (all kinds of friends ) But, more than often lately it's people I don't have much in common with and the repetitious, inane conversations annoy me. Yet, still...I'm there...in and out through the night (or day if I'm home).
Trying to resist the temptation.......but...here I go again.
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Couple of ??
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Posted:Apr 5, 2012 7:59 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 2:06 pm
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For those of us who are out their looking for a partner to get close to, be friends with, have sex with, and numerous variations of the "relationship" theme, don't you wonder when you see them, how other couples found each other?
What are they doing that we didn't....or can't do? Of course, appearances may be deceiving. They might not be the ideal couple you think they are...but they are together...and not alone.
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