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Posted:Jan 23, 2014 1:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2014 3:40 am
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Ok so seriously, I have to apologize first to my regular blog watchers because I usually don't rant and rave quite so much on my blog posts but HOLY FUCKING HELL what the fuck is going on this week?!?!?!?!?!

This is the email exchange I had with someone TODAY. You tell me if I am overreacting or not. I have officially lost patience and perspective here. The name is changed to protect the moronic but I should leave it in so everyone can avoid this asshat.

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asshole
morning
1/23/2014 5:35 am

asshole
Sweetie, I will be running an ANAL SEX CAMP in Feb. 2014, if you are interested email me, I have one females student confirmed too play? ASS (name changed)
1/23/2014 5:39 am

Me
When, where, and what exactly does that entail from my end (no pun intended! Ha ha)?
1/23/2014 6:07 am

asshole
The camp will be the first week of February I will teach you mostly hygiene how to relax and how to properly prepare for anal an enema is involved adult toys of your choosing and again relaxation techniques. we can't will be held in downtown San Francisco. Last year I had three students for the camp but Beach dunes wanted individual session. It takes about 3 hours and you leave with valuable techniques one of the main goals is for you to have an orgasim during analsex
1/23/2014 6:43 am

asshole
History: I started the Camp from advive from former Anal Partners, these women thought it best I share my experiences. I hope to prevent messy anal and infections as well as after care. Let me know if you are still interested, we can talk? ASS
1/23/2014 7:29 am

asshole
Here is my info cell xxx xxx xxxx email xxxxx... (yes I changed this info too)
1/23/2014 9:53 am

Me
Interesting enough but I'm not really interested. I've been having anal sex for some time and like to think I already know what I am doing in terms of preparation, enjoyment and thorough cleanliness. Cheers!
1/23/2014 9:57 am

asshole
Can you show me?
1/23/2014 10:24 am

asshole
I am a real Analholic!
>> here he also sent me a picture of himself as well so I could apparently look him in the eyes later when cursing his existence
1/23/2014 10:25 am

asshole
LOL! I am curious why you responded to me if you are interested?
1/23/2014 10:28 am

asshole
I do get this from local fit women, who are just NOT interested.. I have one playmate now who lives 10hrs away.. she is shock by your response... I notice you are NOT looking to play with anyone but yet you keep your profile active..
1/23/2014 10:31 am

sidebar: at this point I started crafting my reply below so didn't see the next THREE messages until after I hit send.

asshole
I love sex butt I am a Man so I have to woo you women to fuck me, so I am always stumped. Lol!! Was this a "power trip" for you to reject me?.. lol
1/23/2014 10:33 am

asshole
Your response is very rude, demeaning.... granted I am NOT a woman who loves anal sex, my email was meant for fun and pleasure, sweetie
1/23/2014 10:35 am

asshole
I sense you got a great thrill writing that response? Rejecting what I have too offer?
1/23/2014 10:38 am

Me
why did I reply? ummm because that's just good manners
I was curious too. Never heard of an anal sex camp before. I don't think that's too shocking but maybe so.
An no I am not looking now because I generally don't play when I am at home. I travel for work about 90% of my time and that's when I play. I leave my profile active because I never know where I am going to be next so why not say hello to people and keep things interesting. That's not terribly complicated I hope and certainly not meant to be a power trip or anything weird.
Best of luck in your local search in any case!
1/23/2014 10:39 am

asshole
It is weird
1/23/2014 10:54 am

asshole
You have to understand iam a doctor with 2 so this is the only forum I can us to find sex
1/23/2014 10:56 am

asshole
The reaon why I am bitching is bcuz I cannot get sex like you, men have to go thru a lot of shit to get women attention, it would be better if you just told me to fuck off than waste my time
1/23/2014 11:38 am

Me
Perhaps the reason you are having to work so hard is because you are being an asshole. There was nothing rude or demeaning in my initial reply to you, however you proceed to go on for 7 emails, two of which came in while I was writing my reply which shows you have no patience whatsoever, and then go on further to call me weird and then keep bitching to me. Call me crazy, but that SCREAMS you are not the least bit interested in having any type of civil dialogue with me, are needy beyond rational thought, and are likely someone that I would never want to meet much less have sex with. Welcome to my banned AFFers list.

oh, and Fuck Off. Stop wasting MY time.


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So there you have it. What the Fuck is wrong with this guy?!?!?!

Maybe I do have a truly unrealistic perception of myself but I don't think there was anything in any of my first two emails that was rude or demeaning in the least. Even the longer one that explained myself and my apparently weird profile was pretty polite.

So why the rage? Was it truly directed at just me or all women on the face of the earth that won't let this guy fuck them in the ass. I am leaning towards the latter.

Personally, I don't care what his reason may be. Totally uncalled for, rude and disrespectful himself. Yes, he is indeed on my banned users list now, so I won't be sharing any replies to my last email as thankfully I won't be reading one. Thank you AsianMatchMate.com-coders for that truly helpful feature!!

I need to shake this one off and seriously think about NOT replying to any more emails here. Apparently I am just asking for trouble whether I mean to or not. Fuck
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Why are you lying?
Posted:Jan 19, 2014 1:52 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2014 9:45 pm
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I got the following email today after exchanging a few with someone over the last couple of days.

him:
I have not been truthful in my profile. I am really 28. The Picture is me. I said that I was older because I like ladies like your self. Sorry. If your still interested send my your cell. I work in the city so maybe we could meet for coffee.

The biggest part of the "lie" I am guessing was the age as his profile says he's 46. I actually could not believe I was reading this bullshit. I mean seriously? WTF? It took a while before I figured out what to say back but here it is.

Me
Why lie? Just be honest. If people are into you it's because of you not who you might be pretending to be. I might have been interested but now you've proven yourself dishonest about the most moronic thing ever so that makes me not trust anything you might say at this point. You do realize this is a hookup site right? Fix your profile and stop being an idiot.

I'm sure this probably happens more often than I realize but seriously, what is the point of lying about yourself here of all places? OMG you might be into something out of the ordinary? GET OUT!!! That NEVER happens on here!!! On the chance that we kept emailing and dare to dream eventually met, did he think I wouldn't figure it out? "Wow, you look super young for 46" is NOT a sentence that would have come out of my mouth. I may be horny, but I'm not a moron.

I like to think of myself as an honest person. There isn't anything on my profile that isn't the absolute truth. "Some things are better left unsaid." Nope, not me. That's usually the shit I blurt right out. If this was one of those "other" dating sites I could see maybe being a little cautious about what I might share but here? If you can't be honest here and trust that somewhere someone is going to be into it, then what is the point?

Sheesh people, get a grip.

Rant over. Sigh.
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10 “Other” Things That Make Girls WET
Posted:Dec 17, 2013 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2015 6:25 pm
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Ok, ok, geez people, it (10 Things That Make Girls WET) was a joke! Quit yer bitching already. Here's the REAL list. These are things that work for me, not necessarily every girl. No two people are alike so you're really just going to have to experiment until you find what works on your playmate.
Here is my top 10 list:

10 Things That Make Me WET
1. Whisper something sexy into my ear. I don't know whether it's the proximity or the heavy breathiness of the whisper but there is something about it that just drives me up the wall.

2. Kiss me on my neck. Nibble it, kiss it, or ravage it: I don't really have a specific preference here. They call it necking for a reason you know, and the neck is highly erogenous. Now combine this with my ear too and you've got it going ON!!

3. Touch me on my legs. I'm not talking about a crotch grab here. Strictly thigh. This works well in a public place over dinner or drinks. This can be just above the knee, or on the outer, top or inner thigh. Really it doesn't matter. Just the touch of your hand on my thigh is enough...

4. Pull me into you when we kiss. Fully clothed or not, there is just something about full body contact during a kiss that does it for me. In particular when the hands are roaming up and down my back and into my hair, well that just makes me melt.

5. Take the time to give a massage. Generally this comes in the form of foreplay but I don't know anyone that doesn't love a massage in any form or fashion. Light stroking and touching is plain and simple a great way to get me wet.

6. Tell me you want me. We don't have to be together for this to work. I just love getting emails or text messages that tell me how much you want me right now. People all day long look at me weird because I am grinning like an idiot from some of the text messages I get that just plain make me smile.

7. Perfect your kiss. I don't really know where or how people learn to kiss. I honestly don't know where I learned to kiss. But I do know that there are kisses that melt me into a puddle of goo and others that leave me cold and wanting to be anywhere but right there. This topic probably needs a blog all on its own.

8. Wear some cologne. There are certain smells that will get my juices flowing and a great cologne is one of them. The only caveat here is to be careful on how much you use. I don't want to smell you coming down the hall, but I love smelling you when you're next to me and even more so if I can smell you on me after you leave. Mmmmmm

9. Suck on my nipples. Breasts don't get nearly the amount of attention that they need. Sucking on my nipples is definitely a trigger for me, but really just about any touching, kneading, grabbing, massaging, squeezing, kissing and sucking on any part of my breasts is highly erotic.

10. Play with my clit. This is the one place pre-intercourse that will get me wet like no other. Fingering me through clothes or under clothes, or even without clothes, is such a turn on it's hard to describe sometimes. Taking this to the next level with oral sex is the best way to stimulate the clitoris in my opinion.

Ok so seriously this is NOT meant to be a definitive list by any stretch of the imagination. People are very different, and different things will get people hot and horny. These are just some of the things that will get me wet each and every time. Got any additions to the list? If you do, please do share them with your feedback comments!

Hope you enjoyed
Until next time...
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10 Things That Make Girls WET
Posted:Dec 17, 2013 11:51 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2014 3:43 am
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So I saw what looked like it was going to be a seriously fun link on fb today so I clicked it. Unfortunately it went nowhere - bad link. But the title was intriguing nevertheless so I thought I would borrow it and make my own list.

Here goes: 10 Things That Make You WET
1. Soaking in a Bath
2. Taking a Shower
3. Yard hose
4. Rain
5. Humidity
6. Sweat
7. Drool
8. Spilled beer
9. Swimming
10. Playing in the surf at the beach

What?!?!?! You were expecting something else? Get you mind out of the gutter! Hope you enjoyed

Until next time...
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Tuesday Night
Posted:Nov 20, 2013 11:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2015 6:25 pm
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He came to my hotel room around 7:30pm. I had given him my room number earlier that day when we confirmed our plans for the evening. I wasn't wearing much. I had on a black lace bra and panty set and the blouse that I had worn to work earlier that day. I was warm and wet from anticipation; waiting and wanting. He texted me that he had arrived and was parking his car. "Ok," I replied back.

The knock at the door sent my heart racing, and my pussy clenched and became even more wet than before. I jumped up from the bed and put my phone on the nightstand. I opened the door and we both smiled warmly at one another. "Hi" was the only thing that passed each of our lips.

He entered and we embraced in a firm hug, kissing slowly and lightly at first. His lips were warm and oh so soft, one of the things I adore about him. Then as if on cue our mouths opened and our tongues met, hands roaming up and down each other's backs in our embrace. As we kissed more and more deeply, tongues interwoven in a frenzied dance, his hands moved down to lift the bottom hem of my blouse upwards, his hands caressing and then grabbing my ass. Pulling me closer I felt his hardness against my pelvis and I pulled myself in even closer, wanting to feel his cock against me.

He stopped our kiss and said "Damn, I need to stop and use the bathroom before we go much further." I giggled and released him from my tight embrace. "Well alright, I guess I better I'll let you go then..." I said in reply. While he excused himself I walked over to the bed and lay down on my left side across the top of the bed, the plethora of pillows to my back.

He came out, stopped to look at me and smiled that smile that lit up his face. He crossed the room and took off his sweatshirt, draping it across the lounge chair. He took off his watch and removed his phone and wallet from his jeans, placing both on the desk. He leaned over to untie his shoes, and then took those and both of his socks as well.

He came towards me and lay on the bed on his side with his head towards my feet. I wasn't sure why at first, and asked "What are you doing all the way over there?" He said he had his reasons, and then he started stroking my legs and stomach, gently brushing his fingertips over my skin and grazing my pussy through my soaking panties. I started doing the same, stroking his legs and stomach and the growing bulge of his hard cock through his jeans. We played with each other for a while, building up the desire and wanting for one another even more than before.

He slowly pulled my panties aside and started fingering my clit and my pussy slowly, feeling my wetness.
I unzipped his pants, moved my hand down to caress him and then pulled his cock free from his pants. He pulled my panties down and off, tossing them onto the lounge chair on the other side of the bed, and then did the same with his t-shirt, pulling it up and over his head. His pants and underwear came off next in one swift movement, freeing his hardened cock to look me in the eyes. I turned over slightly onto my back and he helped me pull my blouse off over my head. He tossed it as well onto the chair near the bed. Then he pulled down one of the shoulder straps of my bra and began to suck on my hardened nipple. I reached back with my right hand and undid my bra clasp and we both moved and took my bra off. That was also tossed to the chair as he took my nipple into his mouth and worked magic with his tongue while his hand rubbed and kneaded my aching breast.

He continued playing with my clit and pussy, delving his fingers deeper and deeper inside me. I took his cock into my hand again and gave just the tip a slight lick of my tongue. He gasped and I felt his cock harden more and throb. He continued with vigor while I started to take him into my mouth; gently at first, taking only the head in and out of my lips. Slowly I took him into my mouth more and more deeply, finally feeling his head hit the back of my throat while my tongue slid back and forth along the shaft of his cock. I would tell by his movements and moans that he was enjoying every moment of it.

He shifted position so that he could reach me with his mouth. His tongue was hot and wet on my pussy and I moaned in response with the pleasure of it all. I continued to suck and lick his cock while he sucked my clit and drank in pussy juices. My mouth roamed freely, my tongue exploring every inch of his cock that I had gotten to know so well over the past few months. While moving his fingers in and over me and licking and sucking my clit, I could feel the pressure building within me, feeding on his every movement until I couldn't hold out any longer. I came hard and wet on his mouth, moaning and writhing on the bed while my orgasm gripped me and waves of pleasure radiated from my clit.

He stopped pleasuring me with his tongue and continued massaging my throbbing clit while I kept sucking his dick for a while longer, my hand alternating between gripping and stroking his cock to caressing and grabbing and pulling his balls. A few times I could feel him tense up as if he were on the verge of cumming, and I would change my speed or style or move my tongue down and around to lick his balls and the base of his cock so that he wouldn't cum just yet. At some point I looked up into his eyes and knew... I knew what he really wanted me to do. I sat up, turned around so I was facing him and climbed on top of him. I held his cock with one hand and rubbed the head over my pussy while hovering over him. Then I lowered myself onto him, feeling his cock slide into my dripping wet pussy. When he was fully inside me I leaned back far with my hands braced on the bed next to his feet so that I could feel him deep, deep inside me, his cock filling me completely.

I rode him slowly, feeling him hard inside me. Up and down, back and forth, grinding and bouncing, over and over. Then I stopped. I sat forward and pulled up so he slid out if me, and leaned up to him to whisper "don't move" into his ear. I turned myself around and crawled down his body some. I straddled him again so that I was facing his feet. Grabbing his still rock hard cock I lowered myself back onto him and rode him even harder in a reverse cowgirl position. I couldn't see him but with every thrust of my pelvis I could hear his breath change, feel his legs stiffen, see his toes begin to curl and hear him start to moan.

We fucked like this for a long while, my pussy riding up and down the length of his cock. He grabbed and stoked my ass, helping guide me up and down over his dick, and I could feel him getting closer to cumming. He was grabbing my hips and my ass and pulling me down onto him hard. Suddenly he pushed me up and off of him. He slid his legs up between mine and got onto his knees. He grabbed my hips again and pulled me back across and into the center of the bed closer to him, and I assumed the position I knew he wanted next.

I spread my legs for him and dropped onto my elbows. He grabbed his cock and after playing and stroking the head on my pussy entered me again, hard. He fucked me hard and fast. I gripped the bed sheets firmly, pushing back into him each time he thrust his cock deep inside me. After several minutes fucking doggy style I could take it no longer and had my glorious release. I came easily in this position, his cock ramming against my pussy hard. As I came and my pussy walls pulsated and gripped his cock tighter, he fucked me even harder and faster, the sounds of flesh slapping against flesh resonating throughout the room and our movements shaking the bed. His moans increased in frequency and volume as he fucked me even harder and faster than ever before. I clenched my pussy tight and hard with each thrust; those Kegels paying off for both of us in the best way possible. As he came inside me hard he yelled out so loud I'm sure everyone on the hotel floor must have heard him. I lowered my head onto the bed and I smiled as I felt his cum fill me up warm and wet, cock pulsing and releasing every last drop inside me.

We both drew long and deep breaths, moaning and laughing slightly with each exhale. I jokingly asked "Mmmmm... was that good for you?" and we both laughed as he replied "Oh, hell yes. That was fucking amazing." I slowly collapsed onto my stomach and he collapsed on top of me, cock still throbbing inside me. We rolled to the side, him still inside me, with me wrapped in his arms. We lay like that for some time, catching our breath and letting our heart rate slow back to normal, talking about each other's work and catching up since the last time we had seen one another.

After a while he showered and got dressed to go home. "Tell me when I can see you again," he said as he kissed me goodbye. I smiled. "You know I will," I replied. He kissed me again, and again, and once more before finally leaving. Until next time...
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Favorite Sex Position!
Posted:Nov 7, 2013 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2014 6:53 am
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Please comment and share your favorite position and why that is. Happy fucking to all!!
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Blow Him Away!!!
Posted:Oct 11, 2013 2:47 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2016 7:25 pm
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NEWS ALERT!! Guys love blowjobs!

Blowjob, head, hummer, bj, fellatio. Whatever you might call it, guys love it and want it! Okay maybe that's not really news LoL! What might be news though is that if you think you give a pretty good blowjob, odds are you can be better at it. Honestly the worst blowjob any guy ever got was probably pretty fucking awesome! But is that what you want to be remembered for? "Oh yeah, that chick, she was awful at it but at least she did suck my dick" is so NOT something I would ever want someone to say about me. I would much rather hear "God damn baby you suck my cock so fucking good!" Talk about an ego booster! I mean for crying out loud people, we're not talking about rocket science here. Or are we?

Honestly even I wasn't very much into giving them when I first started out. I didn't know what the hell I was doing, whether I was doing it right, or if I should be doing something different. And really there are a lot of guys out there that just don't give any feedback so it's hard to know if what you're doing is any good. Many years and lots and lots of practice later I think I'm actually pretty good at them now. At least the guys that I've given blowjobs to in the past few months see to indicate. No complaints, lots of eyes rolling back into the head, backs arching, toes curling, and a good amount of "Oh My Gawd!" types of statements lead me to believe I am doing the right things. And as if giving someone that kind of mind-blowing pleasure wasn't enough, I really also do like the thought of having someone at my complete and total mercy if even for just a short while. It's very empowering to make someone hard as a rock and weak in the knees.

So what's the deal? How hard is it really to give a good blowjob? What do you need to do to go from giving a good blowjob to giving a fucking awesome blowjob? There are probably LOTS of things that go into it, but I'll start out with sharing some on the top 5 things that I think are keys to success.

Tip 1 - Men like and need foreplay too
Good foreplay doesn't have to go on for hours. Foreplay is really just the ability to tease and build arousal. Seriously if you ask them most guys will say they really just want to get hard and have you suck on their dick already, but giving a good blowjob starts with the right level of desire. Desire doesn't just happen - you have to build it up. Start with caressing outside their clothes. You might even give a few kisses or nibbles through their pants. I have yet to meet a guy that didn't just shudder with delight over me running my fingernails up and down along the length of his cock. That little move alone gets guys hard like nobody's business. I just love it and so do they. Before you ever even think about putting his dick in your mouth, you'll want to put your hands on it, over it, under it, around it, etc. Rub his legs, his stomach and chest, up and around the inside of his thighs, around to his butt, and anywhere else you like before ever directly touching his cock. You basically want him to be dying to stick his cock in your mouth before you ever do.

Along these lines, also read my blog post Talk dirty to me. Dirty talk is very exciting and can be a great addition to both foreplay and the blowjob itself. Turn on his body and his mind to make the most of your time together.

Tip 2 - A Wet Dick
Lightly stroking a dry cock is a great way to get it hard. I can't however imagine any guy really liking a dry blowjob. Similar to actual intercourse you're going to have a much better time with moisture and getting his dick wet is step #1. Most guys will be leaking a little pre-cum when you start stroking their cock. Pre-cum is super slippery and awesome to play with. One of the things I really love to do it grab that cock and squeeze along its length from the base upwards to the tip to get even more to come out, and then play with it with my thumb and forefinger. Rub it around the head of his dick to get it even harder. Grip it between your fingers and play out a string of it to see how long you can get it. Visually this is awesome, and it feels fucking amazing too. Pre-cum is great to play with and a perfect starting point for wetness. Ultimately you're going to need more though.

Of course the easiest thing at your disposal is good ol' saliva. Use it often and do so liberally. Making awesome noises like slurping and spitting to get his dick wet is probably one of the best things you can do as part of your blowjob. You want to make it SOUND like you are sucking dick. With blowjobs silence is most definitely NOT golden! Guys are pretty visual creatures, and watching you suck on his cock is likely one of the most awesome sights they will ever see, but sound is a huge turn on too so use it freely. One of the things that I was seriously surprised to find is that some guys really, really, and I mean REALLY love it when you spit on their dick. You may never spit on the street but seriously girls this is the perfect time for it. Extra bonus points for stringiness. Something about that string of spit from your mouth to their dick really drives some guys up the fucking walls.

In addition to saliva, you can also use a variety of other products to get him wet like massage oils and lubes. Odds are though that you're probably not gonna want to eat that stuff, which you'll more than likely do while sucking his dick. One of the better alternatives I have heard of is coconut oil which has the same benefits as massage oil or lube but is actually edible. Thank you whole foods .

Tip 3 - Mix it up!
Run your tongue up and down the front, back and sides of his penis. Use the tip of your tongue and sometimes flatten out your whole tongue like you were licking an ice cream cone. There really are very few areas that are off limits when it comes to sucking on his cock. From the very tip all the way to the base you should be giving every inch some attention in one way or another. Change the way you lick, how you suck, where you kiss. Sometimes go slow and sometimes go fast. Moan and groan, and make Mmmmmm noises like you might actually be enjoying yourself. Variety is the spice of life and everyone gets bored of the same thing over and over again.

Granted a blowjob is primarily driven by oral action, but you're gonna want to use your fingers and hands to get the most out of the interaction. Your mouth and hands really should be working together here. Stroke his cock up and down while you're taking him into your mouth. Move your hands around his torso, up and over his legs and thighs, and grab the base of his cock like your fingers are a cockring.

Play with the balls! Those poor guys get ignored all the time, and licking and sucking on them should be an integral part of every blowjob. Licking, massaging, sucking, spitting and even the occasional pulling is all good. Just be careful not to get too carried away because those guys can get abused pretty easily.

If you really want to push the limit, you can go further any maybe (just maybe!) play with the ass a little too. This is going to really depend on your partner and how much they are or aren't into ass play. I will say that I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't like me to play with the very base of the penis behind the balls and just above the butthole. How much farther you go will depend on what you're both comfortable with, but my advice is try it, you might both like it.

Tip 4 - Deep throating and gagging
Eventually you're going to want to deep throat his cock. This will most definitely take some practice before you can do it well without feeling like you are going to die. Personally I have found that just-ripe bananas are good for practice. They are just firm enough but just soft enough, and just about the right size to give you something good to practice on. Yes you can practice on popsicles and other similarly shaped things. It really doesn't matter - just practice. When deep throating, the ultimate goal is to get your lips as close to the base of his penis as possible and to have his dick hitting the back of your throat. For guys with a longer cock, this combination might not be possible, so the back of the throat is really the target point. Bonus points for figuring out how to either move your tongue around a little while in this position or for managing to somehow suck on his penis like you want to and are going to swallow it whole. I can pretty much guarantee you will drive your man wild with either of those two little moves while his cock is buried in your mouth.

Gagging is an integral part of the allure for most deep throating. There is probably nothing a guy loves more that to hear you choking and gagging from his massive cock that could surely almost kill you!! Stop laughing. I am totally serious. "OMG my cock is so fucking hard and gigantic that I just might kill her!" Guys love that shit. Just saying. Whether you actually gag will depend entirely on how strong your gag reflex is. If you don't gag for whatever reason you can at least humor the guy and make the gagging noises. That works too. In any case, looking up into his eyes and coming up gasping for air when you just can't take it anymore and need to breathe is a serious turn on.

If you can't take his entire length in your mouth, use your hands too. Grab the base of his penis and use your hand like it was an extension of your mouth. You can use this a bit to both control how much of his cock you take in as well to make sure that you're giving all of his cock some attention. Your hands and mouth should be moving up and down in unison with the same rhythm.

Tip 5 - Swallowing
Ok so seriously, you're gonna need to swallow. Taking in every drop of his manhood is just good manners. Anything else is really just a form of rejection. Now if you're really not able to do it for whatever reason - the taste, the texture, the general concept - there are of course other options at your disposal. You could hold it in your mouth and let it dribble back out onto his cock. You could drool it down your chin and onto your breasts where you then get to rub it around in what I am sure would be a most appreciative show of nipple play. Hell you can even just come right out and ask him to come all over your face or all over your body. I can think of any number of ways that could be hot and just as exciting as coming in your mouth.

Alright, so granted not everyone enjoys giving a blowjob. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be good at it. Fuck, go for broke and be amazing at it. While I can't guarantee you'll win any awards, your man will most certainly appreciate the effort.

Guys, what do you think? Other tips or pieces of advice you would like to share with your blowjob giver? Believe me we are open to hearing anything and everything that will make this a more memorable and amazing experience for both of us!

As always, if you've read this far, please comment and share your thoughts. Happy blowjobs to all!!
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I’m a Fucking Unicorn
Posted:Oct 10, 2013 1:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2014 9:15 pm
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A Unicorn. A creature so amazing that they seem mythical, impossible or unbelievable. I know I've heard this term quite often in conversations that I have had with people on AsianMatchMate.com, and actually a number of people that I have met even call me one too. For women, it's a special combination of things that are most certainly elusive and perhaps even mythical to some extent but if you happen to run across a woman who is perhaps one of these creatures then you would be well advised to hold onto her!

So what do I mean by a unicorn? I can personally think of four different types of unicorns although I am sure there are many more variations on the general unicorn theme. Most people don't believe these things exist, even here on AsianMatchMate.com, and even if you're told about it by people that have first-hand experience with such a creature.

1. A woman that wants NSA sex
So this is me for the most part. Someone I fuck occasionally once said something like I "fuck like a guy" which after a little more explanation basically just meant that I was down for sex and wasn't really expecting anything afterwards, whether that be spending the night, or a call or email the next day, or whatever else it might be that basically turns women from normal people into super clingy bitches. I definitely have to agree with that about me, and I will say I don't think I have met too many people (or really ANY?) on AsianMatchMate.com like this as well. Now that's not to say that I don't have some expectations. I don't look for one night stands here, and I certainly don't fuck anyone and everyone that wants to. I may be a slut but I do have standards . For me having a regular fuck buddy or three is much more fun than a hit and run. Not into drama - no time for it - just into having a good time. If this makes me a unicorn then I'll gladly wear the label no questions asked.

2. A bi-female that wants NSA sex
This creature I think is probably pretty elusive no matter where you look. First to find a bi-female I get can be a difficult thing to come by. I'm bi myself and am comfortable with women as well as men. I wouldn't turn down a lovely lady on general principle. But that being said, I much prefer men so don't really advertise myself on my profile as being bi-sexual, and I don't actively seek out women or even couples, and honestly if I saw a profile of a woman looking for just that I probably would think it is a fake profile. Second, and to refer to my #1 unicorn type above regarding the whole NSA thing, finding that whole NSA thing in a bi female is probably even more elusive. Definitely a unicorn.

3. A single bi-female looking for a long-term couple to play with
So this is probably the most elusive unicorn figure. Finding a bi-female that is single is I think pretty much out of the question. I can't imagine someone staying single for long with those very appealing characteristics. Top it off with that person wanting a long-term sexual relationship with a couple and I think you have the very definition of fictitious being.

4. A woman that wants sex at all
This type of unicorn cracks me up the most. I see it manifest itself a couple of ways. First is in the introductory opening lines on guys' profiles:
Is anyone real on here?
Is there anyone on here that really wants to hook up?
Guys quit asking already lol
Here to meet someone real!

Apparently it is just plain difficult meeting women that actually want to MEET at all on AsianMatchMate.com. Now granted there is probably at least a 10 to 1 ratio of guys to women on the site so the competition is pretty fierce, but even then I have to say it is probably more likely than not that some women are actually not on this site looking for sex. Honestly I don't really understand that. It's pretty much there when you go to sign up. "Start hooking up tonight!" "The World's Largest Sex Dating Site." We've all seen the marketing. Surprisingly, I've actually seen debates in the chat rooms about whether AsianMatchMate.com was a hook up site or not, and lots of women claim to be here just to find "friends" or to look for a long term relationship. Um, yeah, okay. Good luck with that. Whether finding a woman that actually wants to meet you in person means she is a unicorn I can't really say one way or another. I would hope not but you guys tell me since I don't look for women myself.

We live in an amazing world. Women are becoming more and more comfortable with their own sexuality, and have become fiercely independent. I think this is great and cannot encourage it enough in the women I interact with. Are there many unicorns out there? Who knows. All I know is I am real enough. A lady on the street and a freak in the bed!

Are you looking for a unicorn? Dare you tell us a story of a unicorn you've actually met??
As always I'd like to hear your perspective on this as well. If you've read this far, please comment and share your thoughts. Enjoy the weekend!!
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More Pictures and Video
Posted:Aug 9, 2013 2:30 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2013 9:22 pm
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This week I took a video with a new AsianMatchMate.com friend. It's not particularly long, maybe a little over 40 seconds, but I have to say it's pretty fucking hot. We had some toe-curling fucking amazing sex and I am glad we managed to capture a few moments of it on video. He's posted it on his profile but I haven't posted it on mine. Honestly I am not sure if I will. I've been thinking about it for 2 days now and still haven't made up my mind.

I have mixed emotions about posting pictures and videos on my profile. I do have a number of pics of myself on my profile, but I'm clothed in every photo and there are only two pics where you can see or make out my nipples. So all in all I'd say they are fairly restrained and most are probably pretty tame by AsianMatchMate.com standards. For me I think my pictures are a means to give people an idea of what I look like and highlight some of my better features. But that's it - an idea.

I'm not opposed to more racy photos. I actually have quite a collection of them on my phone and laptop. Full frontals, pics of my breasts and nipples in a variety of poses, and lots of crotch shots and creampies make up my personal collection. Mostly though they are photos that I email to people or share via IM chat sessions as I get to know someone better. I also have a number of videos too, both fucking and sucking. But again, I really only have shared them with a few people, mostly the people that are in them and a couple others that I have known for a while now.



So why don't I post more revealing photos, and why am I hesitating about posting the video?

I do like showing off in the photos I do have posted. I don't really like the idea of using the profile photo collections as a way of showing every inch of me. I like that you get an idea of me, are hopefully intrigued and turned on by what you see, and will contact me if you want more. And presuming there is an attraction and interest on my end as well, you'll get more. That's not to say that I don't appreciate other people's very revealing pics. Men especially it is very much appreciated seeing pics of your junk. I love a great cock photo! If you're comfortable putting it all out there I think that's awesome.

As for the videos, that is something about which I am quite a bit more reserved. I think there's something really personal about videoing yourself that I like to keep for someone that I have actually been intimate with. Once we've fucked and the cat's out of the bag so to speak, well then I am more than happy to share pretty much anything and everything.

Of course, having said all that my latest video is now on my fb's profile and he does call me out by my profile name, so if you happen to run across it, well there I am. I hope you enjoy watching it as much as I enjoyed making it. He did ask me if he could post it and after a little editing I did say it was ok, so really I do not at all have any problem with it being out there. As I said before, it's pretty fucking hot. I've watched it literally a dozen times in the last day. Will I post it on my own page? Hmmm... still debating.

What do you think about pics and videos? Do you not have any or have tons? I'd like to hear your perspective on this as well. Enjoy the weekend!!

8/10 UPDATE: Ok, I posted the video on my profile. Check it out and leave a comment if you like what you see
http://AsianMatchMate.com.com=playback&stream_id=346017854_32790
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All together now!!!
Posted:Jul 26, 2013 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2014 10:10 pm
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Sing it

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A Request from the Penis
Posted:Jul 12, 2013 12:18 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2013 4:09 am
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The Request:
I, the Penis, hereby request a raise in salary for the following reasons:
I do physical labor.
I work at great depths.
I plunge head first into everything I do.
I do not get weekends or public holidays off.
I work in a damp environment.
I work in a dark workplace that has poor ventilation.
I work in high temperatures.
My work exposes me to contagious diseases.
Sincerely, P. Niss

The Response:
Dear P. Niss:
After assessing your request, and considering the arguments you have raised, the administration rejects your request for the following reasons:
You do not work 8 hours straight.
You fall asleep after brief work periods.
You do not always follow the orders of the management team.
You do not stay in your designated area and are often seen visiting other locations.
You do not take initiative - you need to be pressured and stimulated in order to start working.
You leave the workplace rather messy at the end of your shift.
You don't always observe necessary safety regulations, such as wearing the correct protective clothing.
You will retire well before you are 65.
You are unable to work double shifts.
You sometimes leave your designated work area before you have completed assigned task.
And if that were not all, you have been seen constantly entering and exiting the workplace carrying two suspicious-looking bags.
Sincerely, V. Gina

I totally didn't write that but thought it was hilarious so had to share! Happy weekend!!

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I'm going to Hell...!
Posted:Jul 11, 2013 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2013 11:12 am
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I had the funniest conversation with someone yesterday! He was telling me a number of stories about his younger days and how he used to do all this crazy shit like bike jump off the roof and outrun the cops on his motorcycle. Honestly it's probably a miracle he's alive from the stories he was telling me. And then at some point he said "I'm probably going to hell... if I believed in that."

So of course it got me thinking. I grew up and am still a semi-practicing Catholic. I say semi- because I do go to church every so often and have my in Catholic school. I think it's important for them to get some good old fashioned morals as part of their education so they have something to rebel against in their years like I did. And yes, as an educated and rational person I realize there are some fundamental issues with the religion and all its preachings, many many many of which I simply do not agree with, but really what it all boils down to is faith. Having faith in something that you don't necessarily have proof of. Hell is a good example of that. Is it real, it is not, is it a way to threaten or otherwise induce by fear to get people to do something you do or don't want them to do? Oh who the hell knows.

So why am I going to hell? Where to start, where to start... Yeah, right, I don't think so. Won't be sharing those sordid details here. Did you really think I was going to?? Ha! I may be crazy but I'm not that crazy. I do drink too much, swear too much and make questionable decisions. Of course, bad decisions make good stories, and I always have a good story . Let's just summarize and say that I'm politically incorrect and morally impaired. In other words, I'm fucking awesome!

I should be ashamed of myself. Let's be clear. I'm not but I should be.

All I do know is that if there is a Hell and I end up there, I'll be saving you a seat at the bar.

- Just a girl who can't say No
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Margarita time!!
Posted:Jul 6, 2013 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2013 11:56 am
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Happy weekend everyone! I hope all my peeps in the USA had a wonderful and safe 4th of July Independence holiday. Looking forward to relaxing with some friends and margaritas this weekend!

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