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| The time is now to make your mark in my blog for anyone has not done so here. To those have passed through here thank you for reading,watching, and posting I really have appreciate it. You can skim and read my blog here. I am making one small change if you come to my blog and post. I will comment on your blog. I feel more comfortable that way. Sometimes I will leave a comment if something interests me at random in your blog.
In Memory of my Father 1925-2004 In Memory of my Mother 1927-2009 |
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My New Face Pics
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Posted:Mar 4, 2011 12:43 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2011 8:53 am
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After careful consideration I have decided to put some face pics on my profile. I really had to think this thoroughly. Yes these are fairly recent pictures. I had them in my hard drive on my desktop for sometime. I will have these in my profile for a while if I think it is necessary will put them in my private albums. I may more put some more up so do not be surprise to see more. I had many emails here wanting to see recent face pics. So here they for you to enjoy for now. Just being thoughtful.
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The Best Commenter Male or Female Poll 4
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Posted:Feb 3, 2011 12:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2011 10:38 am
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I have been nominated the best commemter in a blog by BustyBettyBoopblog. If you like to come and vote for me.You are certainly welcome to do so. This nomination was a total surprise. Thanks Busty appreciate it.I am so pleased my commenting has been noticed.
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The Detached Retina
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Posted:Jan 29, 2011 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2011 11:40 am
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Last fall my sister contacted me out of the blue found out she had a detached retina in the right eye. She had emergency surgery to fix the damage. The eye doctor said she had the same symptoms in the other eye. It was a matter of time the other one will go too. She also had cataracts in both eyes. She has lasik surgery done on her right eye. Because she could not see everything was blurred. Now she had cataract surgery in one eye and a new opaque lense put in the eye. I think she can see out of it better but not really the same as before. She will have more retina surgery,another cataract removed in the left eye. I guess it is something more to do with age that happened to her. I may have problems with my sister but do not want to think ill of her either. I was really shocked at this turn of events. Make sure you get your eyes checked regularly. You just never know when a illness strikes. Your eyes are the most important thing in life. After this crises I have been in contact with her more. She seems to be reaching out to me. She almost acts like my old sister from before. I really do not know what to think about it Just being thoughtful and shocking more than anything else.
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The Pursuers
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Posted:Jan 21, 2011 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2011 2:02 pm
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Being pursued a lot on internet or real life. It can be exciting or frustrating at times. Sometimes there is confusion on which and how to or proceed next? I know all about the pursuers from the internet and real life. Yes I do get some attention in real life much as on this site. It could be good or bad depending on the situation. I am sometimes get really overwhelmed from these pursuers. From my habits in the past and now. I know when I was was really shy or not very trustful. I know I would not get to close or even talk to men at times. Just because my experiences were not all that good. But I still received attention. I use to and even presently at times I wear big clothes to cover my shape. Because I got looked at a lot. Now since I live in a generally hot area it is kind of hard to wear big clothes. Now I am older now though still have some of the same traits but I do talk to others more especially men.It does not matter on the gender you still can get hurt by rudeness or meanness. That is the basic reason I mentioned in my profile that I do not want to be hurt. Yes I admit being sensitive. But it seems people like to hurt me in some way. They say I am fake,liar, and not being real. I do know I get many emails that are pleasant and surprising. So I like the good ones but can do without reading the bad ones. Any ways getting back to my thoughts on pursuers. Hopefully my experiences will continue to be positive then the negative. Just being thoughtful on the subject.
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Verified Photo Update
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Posted:Jan 16, 2011 10:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2011 11:07 am
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It seems the powers to be on AsianMatchMate.com has given me my verified photo for sure. I have been waiting for quite a while on this update. I am so happy now it has happened. I had the confirm id already taken care of here ages ago. Now I hope people will find me real. I have been told so many times I am not real. It got me irritated. Hopefully things be easier on this realness. Feeling happy and elated at this moment. I like to say thanks to those decided on my verified photo to come true.
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2011 A New Year Has Begun
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Posted:Jan 3, 2011 3:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2011 1:10 pm
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A new year has started for many of us here with our joy then we have sorrows that we come across here. I know I had some sorrows in 2009 to many to count. It all started when my mother passed on then steadily things got worse. I have come close to death but was able to survive. That year was the worst of my life and did not really want to live anymore. But 2010 came here things inmproved tremendously. I was glad it was a better year for me. I still have days here now and then that are hard for me. I think we all adust to what happen to us no matter the problems we have to cope with on a daily basis. Now this year I think will be better all around. That is being optimistic and positive of me. I just wanted to say Happy New Year and enjoy what you have in life? Because life is very precious not to waste. Just being thoughtful and reflective.
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The Readership
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Posted:Dec 2, 2010 2:54 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2011 11:06 am
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Well I have been blogging for a while here. I know I receive comments in my blog. But I also get alot of readers that come through. I am wondering what they think how am I doing in my blog.?Most that do leave comments say that I have a great blog. I know I do not post many blogs like some do. It is kind of hard to do so at times. I have been blogging for quite some time now and noticed the changes in my blog. Some that left comments are gone then others are still around fortunately. I gain lots reader then I loose some. Like my watchers come and go here. Thank you watchers for watching me. I do appreciate. I will do my best to frequent more postings in my blog. The only thing is sometimes not in a mood to post and you may have noticed. I wish I have more time to do so. These days my internet time is limited. I am going to leave comments here in other blogs of interest. But I am kind of gun shy of leaving comments because of this person banned me. So If I am already comfortable in your blog it will be easier to leave comments. I hope I am giving and helping out others here while reading in my blog. I think all bloggers have different ways of doing things in their blogs. I know it is not fancy but I think the posts speak for themselves. Just being thoughful on the subject.
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How Old Is Too Old For Camming?
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Posted:Nov 24, 2010 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2013 6:40 pm
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I like to know how old is to old for cam ming? I know lots of people cam but would like to know the appropriate age to stop. It is alright when you are young but as we get older it might not look to great anymore. I know I am approaching 50 myself here. Just curious.
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The Sex Site Poll Results
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Posted:Nov 15, 2010 12:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:01 am
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I have been watching my poll these last few weeks here. It seems so far this is a sex site wins while the between a sex site and a dating site is not to far behind. To some people judge it in some of the comments. Yes you can make it what ever you want it to be but to some people majority wants sex not dating. That is what they signed up for here. For myself I did not really sign up at the beginning when I started here. I got hooked into reading the magazine part of the site. I know I had a simple profile with no pics and barely anything.in my profile. But now it is not so simple anymore. People expecting me to respond to emails . I do really like to chat and get to know people. But now it has grown into something I cannot control here. I know some are expecting sex right away. I have grown wiser now on not rushing into anything. Now back to the poll here it is not surprising that this poll is showing results that this is a sex site has gained more than the other opinions on my poll. I wanted to give some people an idea on how people voted and here there ideas. You can still vote for my poll is you wish and put your opinions of this poll in this post. From what I can see AsianMatchMate.com is changing not sure if it is good or bad. But the basic fact it is here. Some of us make not like it others are embracing it. For what ever you signed up for here? I hope you are successful. Just being thoughtful on the subject.
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The Chatroom Etiquette Update
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Posted:Oct 22, 2010 2:31 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2010 11:16 am
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In every chatroom there is a iggy button if you have a problem with someone you can block them. Even in your profile you can still block people in different areas of the site. If it gets really rough you can report someone for abuse. I have no trouble using that feature. Because I will not tolerate it. No one orders me to do something like leave a room for example. I will leave when I am good and ready. I know I have advised people to go into chatrooms because you could or might meet your match or person of interest. I think it is still one of the best places to meet your prospects despite the minuses. I think there should be some kind of ediquette in chat rooms. Just spend 10 minutes a day that is all you need. So here is some rules to follow by. This is only a recommendation.
1)Be pleasant and nice to people it goes along way and it will make you a better person for others to consider you.
2)Do not abuse others be respectful.
3)Say hi to others and be considerate.
4)Do not swear or ask any questions pertaining on a particulare subject that might offend others in some ways.
I am not sure if some will follow these recommendations but it would be helpful for anyone that will at least have some information and how to act in a chatroom in a professional way. I had posted this earlier in my blog. I thought it was time to refresh and give it more information.If you have anything to add to it. By all means add to it
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What am I looking for here?
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Posted:Oct 1, 2010 6:18 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2013 12:44 pm
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So many has been asking me what am I actually looking for here. I have thought this over quite well. I am looking for electronics, electriician, mechanic, handyman, and plummer. You must have good organizational skills. These are not manditory but it would be helpful. Of course a sex mate is included. I am not looking for marriage but if it happens so be it.. As my title of my profile and blog says looking for fun and distraction suggests just that there. I had titled that because I need some fun and distraction in my life. I have to say this site has been a distraction in many ways. The drama on this site can be dramatic at times. I am not against drama here it is just I had so much of it lately really do not want to get involved in that kind here. So the basis of this blog post is to inform my viewers of my wants and needs..Just being thoughtful on the matter.
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What Would You Do For Sex?
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Posted:Sep 16, 2010 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2010 1:24 pm
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I asked this question on advice line. I thought would ask also in my blog. It seems there are positives and negatives to the question. I well mention the positives first like having just fun, looking for love, and in the mood. People just want a post ivie relationship. Of course the negatives can be lying,cheating, and manipulation. One thing was mentioned was money in the advice line. That can be termed negative or positive. I was hesitant in mentioning that since so many here are against it. My question here is what would you do for sex? Just Curious.
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