The joy of tongue fucking a woman.......
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Posted:Jul 7, 2009 5:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2009 3:16 pm
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What’s the most sensual thing someone could for you?
This has been on my mind after doing a massage course last month.
My original intention in doing the course was to give me some knowledge on how to deal with the weight training injuries I often get.
But after experiencing how good it feels to be massaged, I started to think more about the erotic possibilities.
It’s something I’ve only ever incorporated to sex twice, with an ex girlfriend.
And the thing I remember was what a turn on it was starting with her back, but then moving onto the back of her claves, up towards her thighs, slowly, very slowly, underneath her bikini bottoms and then…..
Well, I’m sure you can imagine the rest!
But it also got me thinking about something a lovely lady I met here on AsianMatchMate.com said about the most sensual thing she’d had done to her, something that I’d indulged her in, which was to be tongue fucked.
It wasn’t something that I would have thought would be high on anybody’s list. But then, I’ve often been told that a soft tongue thrusting in and out of a woman’s sex is a real pleasure. I guess it’s about being penetrated, probed and teased with that most deft of human organs, the one that feels most at home in a pussy because of it’s moistness, softness and texture.
Now I’m not saying that tongue fucking is easy……it can be difficult for a guy to do it right and keep the tongue in pole position - pardon the pun!!…lol…lol…..
But talking it through with my guy buddies, we came to the conclusion that you have more control with your tongue than with your penis to give your lady some really good sensations.
But I’ve found that it can be great fun for both parties.
I just love the sexual energy that comes from foreplay and kissing, laying her down on the bed, the moment of tossing panties aside, exposing her clit, slowly circling it with my tongue, sliding down to enter, then back and forth with relentless tongue action, building up a steady rhythm, my fingers joining in the probing……....
Sorry people! I do get carried away when I think about these things!
However, I’d love to know, what’s the most sensual thing someone's done for you? Does tongue fucking work? What are some of your other experiences? Ideas appreciated!!
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Is afterplay more important to women than men after sex?
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Posted:Jul 1, 2009 1:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2009 3:35 pm
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Lots of my female friends have complained to me about how many men are prey to what you might call the ‘turning over and going straight to sleep syndrome’.
True, afterplay can be tough. For most guys, me included, when that wave of orgasm hits you, it’s like a feeling of satisfied exhaustion.
Now the women I have spoken to on this many say they’re not asking for much……a cuddle, a few affectionate kisses, a gentle stroking of the breasts
Me personally, I like to give a warm and appreciative embrace. Words of praise are good. It doesn’t matter that I might not be in a long term committed relationship with the lady in my arms. When you’ve been sleeping together, it creates a wonderful shared feeling. I guess you could say I like to appreciate the gift I’ve been given and love the sensual approach to sex - as well as the hot passionate kinky side!
However I had to laugh out loud at what a good buddy of mine told me a few weeks back when I raised the subject of afterplay with him
‘Well, I’m not in a relationship with her. And I got what I want innit? So what am I hanging around for? Listen, you’re talking to the fellas, save the afterplay talk for the ladies!’
So, as a man, I just wanted to put that question out there - is afterplay always important?
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Words - the best natural aphrodisiac??
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Posted:Jun 30, 2009 1:45 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2010 6:48 am
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What works as an aphrodisiac for you?
Recently I got thinking about the whole topic of aphrodisiacs after having a conversation with an ex girlfriend about which are the best aphrodisiacs to get you in the mood for passion. We definitely had a laugh about some of the suggestions we came up with. They ranged from the usual (oysters, apparently even supermarket versions work well!) to the unusual - psychoanalysis!! (her suggestion, not mine!)
But one thing we did agree on was how words and talking can act as a great aphrodisiac.
With words, you can stimulate the pleasure centres in your partner’s mind so they have an erotic effect right throughout the body.
For me, with words, I can ignite my partner’s erotic imagination or life her to the heights of unbridled passion.
Personally speaking, I love to identify a quality I find attractive about my date eg a warm smile, an intelligent look in their eyes, her sense of humour, the way she moves her hips, or shudders when you touch her and loudly and directly express my appreciation to her. Or to tell her how turned on I am to see her nipples get hard during foreplay or what I’d love to do her later on.
The way I look at it, a lot of ‘experts’ on the art of lovemaking who will tell you about the best positions and technical aspects of sex, but have either ignored, underplayed or underestimated the importance of words and verbal communication in creating a fulfilling sex life.
I really believe that words and the sound of one’s voice can become the rhythms that accompany the sexual dance and cement passionate connection.
Just saying ‘I want you’ or ‘I love your touch’ as you’re kissing and caressing can fire off that connection.
Ands as you get more passionate, so do your words.
So, I’d love to know your thoughts. Do you think words are effective as a natural aphrodisiac? Are there better ones that you can think of?
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Good looking sex versus great doing sex - what do you think?
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Posted:Sep 16, 2008 2:17 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2013 11:43 am
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“But she don’t look hot! She ain’t got the boobs! She ain’t got the behind!” exclaimed my good buddy in his so called wisdom (lol….) as we were talking about women we found attractive
Now let me explain my point of view on this one - as you might see from my previous posts, I’m often debating different matters of sexual etiquette with my male friends. Sometimes I agree with the so called ‘typical’ male point of view and sometimes, I wildly disagree. I try not to judge women or indeed anyone just on appearances alone. But of course we’re all guilty of it.
But as I was trying to explain, looks don’t always mean that a woman with fun, sexually adventurous personality, someone who you just love to hang out with and just go with the flow. Hence my choice of attractive women in this particular discussion, didn’t exactly fit his……to say the least. And you can imagine, from his opening line what his thoughts were on the matter!!
Sometimes when I have this conversation with my guy friends I feel as though I’m going nuts because every time I tell them ‘She had a beautiful personality’ the response is ‘You mean she’s ugly.’
Which is not what I meant at all!!
Now here my (sometimes confused!!) thoughts on it and I’d love to know yours. I really believe the sexiest women are not the ones with the most heavenly bodies. Their sexiness starts with an attitude - it’s the energy you can see coming into their expression as they get into the mood, the ‘fullness’ of it as it collects. And with the really sexy women you can do three really key things in my book- talk (and flirt!), share a sense of humour, share great oral sex (or any other speciality!)
Yes, yes, I know, this behaviour doesn’t seem very sexual. If it doesn’t emphasise the body, it can’t be sexual right? But for me, sex without these things is just functional. With them, well, something reaches you and it’s dangerous, exciting, a whole heap of fun. It may only be in a look but you see the experienced, the unpredictable, the thrilling. Just two people sharing the passion.
Now……you can imagine the response I get from my guy friends when I really all of this to them…..lol….
I remember one friend saying to me ‘Man, you with the fellas now. You only need to say that stuff to a woman. It’s really about saying whatever you gotta to say to nail her!”
Don’t get me wrong - passionate, kinky, hard, fast and furious is good, but surely you gotta have some kind of connection and appreciation of sexual attraction beyond mere looks haven’t you?
Appreciate any thoughts/ideas on this one!!
Much love people!!!
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The funny things that women say.......
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Posted:Oct 28, 2007 4:11 am
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2015 2:03 pm
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I met up for dinner the other nigght with a very good female friend of mine
We spent the evening with her regaling me with her jokes about men
And I know I shouldn't have laughed but some of them were just laugh out loud funny!
I contributed some elements to them as she told me them and I'm definitely not saying which ones!!!
Amongst the gems are the following:
Wife: The doctor said I have the legs of a 17 year old
Husband: Really? What did he say about your 65 year old arse?
Wife: Oh.....he didn't mention you
(!!!!!!!....lol...lol....well I laughed anyway!)
Then this.......
Woman: I've divorced my husband because of illness......I got sick of him!
And this.......
Wife: Fancy trying something from the Kama Sutra?
Husband: No! I don't like Indian food
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The joy of loving a woman through oral sex........
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Posted:Sep 8, 2007 7:43 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2010 12:21 am
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Two male friends of mine and I got chatting the other day
We often get together to put the world to rights.....as well as each other's relationships!!......lol...lol....
I happened to mention my opinion, and it's just my opinion, that of you can't take time to please a lady and put her pleasure first, no matter how good your thrusting and 'manliness' she won't be thanking you at the end or singing your praises
I was roundly laughed at by my two friends
They were firmly of the opinion that 'well, she can go down on me but, why waste time on oral when she's giving it up!'
I shook my head in disbelief - yes, for real, that's what they really thought!
Joy for me is when the woman in my life (when there is one!!....lol...) calls round to my place for a whole day and the front door is closed to the world
Cares, worries, bills (!!!!) are forgotten as she slips into something comfortable (very little clothing!) and we talk and laugh a little while to unwind because the worries of life can kill passion and intimacy
Before she enters my flat, she knows her man has already prepared her favourite lunch and that it’s waiting for her in the bedroom, along with some wine and a newly made bed
But first, a bath awaits. My girl first.
She wallows in lashings of scented water whilst a fetch two glasses of the wine and then join the bath scene
By this time, she’s forgetting about all the things that are pre occupying her mind
I dip my head into the bath water and try and taste the bubbly water around her pussy
We are laughing loudly now, the wine making us giggly and horny at the same time with the promise of things to come
I lift her out of the bathroom and after along lingering soft kiss, I lead her to the bedroom, the inner sanctum where I gently push her down on the bed and plant soft kisses all over her stomach, which grow more urgent as I move upwards towards her arms, her breasts, her nipples, her neck…..her neck where she is so vulnerable to the touch and feel of my tongue and lips
I cup her head while giving her the deepest kiss I can muster
Just as she’s relaxing into it, I move downwards again, trailing my tongue from her face, down to her left nipple, over her stomach, circling her navel, occasionally diving in, then onwards to the top of her thigh, then the side her thigh
She knows where I’m going…….my mouth caresses the sensitive soft flesh behind her knees
As I’m doing so, I can see her clitoris swelling
Almost always I can read my lady’s mind…….she’s aching for me to caress her there
And I do
I ease her beautiful legs open and rest them on my broad shoulders
I love the fact that by this stage, her breathing is growing hoarser
I start opening her up with my tongue, probing softly, gently, along her outer vaginal lips, moving down almost to her anus
I think I can almost hear here think ‘Please let him touch my clit" as her hand rests on my head
And I do
My fingers start opening her up, probing deeply, making a ‘come hither’ motion
In my journey towards her clit, I push back her outer lips, then hone in on her clit sucking it into my mouth, my lips closing around it
I alternate between gently flicking it and sucking it
And as my sucking continues, I can feel her heat, the swelling of her entire womanhood and, as if from far off, I can hear moaning in joy
As my fingers penetrate her, I can sense that she’s going to explode
Relentlessly, I keep up the tongue pressure, her pleasure about to peak……….with a scream, followed by contentment and peace
A great day has only just begun………….
Again, I didn't relay all of this to my two friends in this much detail but I gave them a general impression
And again it was met with laughter.
Are they right???
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