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We Agree With You - Find a Hookup Is Out  

community 36F   
9387 posts
8/23/2011 4:27 pm
We Agree With You - Find a Hookup Is Out


We got together today and reviewed your feedback. We unanimously agree that "Find a Hookup" was not a good idea and it's been thrown out the window.

So, what do we want it to be then? Search has issues because there are search boxes all over our site, it's not specific enough. We should take the opportunity to come up with something better.

Leave a comment with your suggestions - I'll put up a poll later this week and we can vote for the most popular one.

I'll admit I'm drawing a blank on ideas here, but some suggestions:

- Search Members
- Find Members
- Connect
- Date
- Fuck Dirty Right Now <kidding! kind of>

rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/23/2011 4:42 pm

Thank you !!!!

I would use either search or Connect ..

Where's the poll?




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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/23/2011 4:54 pm

This is 'ONE' good news so far. Thanks.

I think Search Members is the best from what you suggested or Search/Browse Members.


BrownEyedBBW 53F  
8831 posts
8/23/2011 5:00 pm

I like :

1. Connect[or Connect With/B] (Because it leaves the kind of connection one might be looking for open.)

2.Looking for (because then the options complete that sentence)

3.Find members (Because that's pretty much what they are doing)

I never noticed the term "Search" all over the site and, in standard UI design for dating and introduction sites, that option is labeled "Search" or some variation thereof. If it were solely my choice for that spot I'd go with either "Search" or "Searching For" (but that's my $1.52.)


PerpetoMobile13 65F
3218 posts
8/23/2011 5:00 pm

Great - thank you!

Connect sounds adequate.

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_Fire_and_Ice_ 33F/32F

8/23/2011 5:08 pm

Why not use a "Something for Everyone" approach? Categorize search to narrow down what a person has to weed out when they do one... I know that option somewhat exists now with the preferences thing, but it really doesn't work that well. Make it simple so more time is spent interacting instead of scanning meaningless (to some) profiles. Make it simpler to browse for what an individual is looking for. Some people want Hook-Ups, some people want instant sex, and some people just want to blog or whatever... Simplify the experience. That's been my biggest complaint all along. That filters out those who choose not to read a profile and respect what it says (ie: kelighdgh's post today). I choose to be here, I choose to pay for access... Make it a simpler experience.

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JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/23/2011 5:14 pm

YAY! Thanks for the great news Ryan!

I like Find Members or Connect.

Question--will the term "hookup" disappear throughout the site or just in the toolbar?

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morefun1960 61M
17 posts
8/23/2011 5:18 pm

Find a match
Whom do you want today?
Search for people


_Fire_and_Ice_ 33F/32F

8/23/2011 5:31 pm

    Quoting _Fire_and_Ice_:
    Why not use a "Something for Everyone" approach? Categorize search to narrow down what a person has to weed out when they do one... I know that option somewhat exists now with the preferences thing, but it really doesn't work that well. Make it simple so more time is spent interacting instead of scanning meaningless (to some) profiles. Make it simpler to browse for what an individual is looking for. Some people want Hook-Ups, some people want instant sex, and some people just want to blog or whatever... Simplify the experience. That's been my biggest complaint all along. That filters out those who choose not to read a profile and respect what it says (ie: kelighdgh's post today). I choose to be here, I choose to pay for access... Make it a simpler experience.
ok, I was just told I needed to clarify that further. Kirsten adds this scenario...
We're two girls, together... Bisexual, but mainly into girls... Meeting like minded people is fine, but we really don't want to meet at McDonald's and make out in a car... (that has actually happened) And we don't want to have dinner at someone's place and be
expected to have sex... Here's an example of how we would filter who actually could contact us:

Female Couple
Bi-Sexual
Age Preference 21-30
Friends First
No Single Guys (that's a big one)
No one night stands

That would eliminate a lot of un-necessary email and network invites... Add the option of accepting contact or requesting contact from someone outside of your filter, allowing an opportunity to view a profile but send no correspondence unless said offer is accepted or denying an offer you really have no preference for. All of that makes sence to me...

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puppynswimmy 41M/34F

8/23/2011 5:42 pm

Connect sounds great!


forsurething2011 56M

8/23/2011 6:03 pm

yes now


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/23/2011 7:00 pm

Excellent I bet it makes a pleasant change to be Mr Popular doesn't it Ryan !

Ok so how about - Find me a fuck, I'm not fussy !

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


rm_s_e_rath 64F
744 posts
8/23/2011 7:54 pm

The perfect decision there with your team: shows positive feedback does work and those with “powers” do listen to critiques.

The search term in question should be probably kept simple as not to confuse people: logical simple choices could be Search/Find profiles or Search for members

Just steer clear of “search for cock/pussy to fuck” that just seems shall we say a tad “crude”



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lil_whimsical 51F
8781 posts
8/23/2011 9:22 pm

Thrilled!

"Connect" ... "Meet" ... anything generically unoffensive, is good with me.


rockinr55 65M
1689 posts
8/23/2011 9:46 pm

Since one of the main complaints is that people don't read profiles before emailing and the definition of peruse is "to read through with thoroughness and care", my suggestion is "Peruse Profiles".

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.---E.E. Cummings



MachoGuapito1983 43M
28 posts
8/23/2011 10:51 pm


HIGH FIVE...MISTER RYAN!!!
YOU ARE THE MAN!!!!


POOH AND I r WONDERING..
HOW ABOUT DA BLINGS???
CUSTOM COLOR??
BLING BACKGROUND??
WILL THIS BE ALLOWED
ON THE NEW BETA PROFILE??


i love blings
its..seXy lol..
IM SURE MANY WOMEN
MEMBERS HERE WHO
SUPPORT THIS BLING-
BLING THING..HOPES
TO CONTINUE TO DECOR
THEIR OWN PAGES HERE.


anastasia666 44F  
2231 posts
8/24/2011 2:02 am

Thank you Ryan,

I am proud of you and the team for listening to the opinions of these valued and amazing members. I like search members..I mean that is what folks are doing right ? Now if only we could convince everyone to read a profile throughly so they do not end up sending a member an email they do not wish to receive.

Bravo Ryan,

Ana6



I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/24/2011 12:08 pm

I will agree, it should be directed at everyone, as we are all on here looking for different things, and I have to agree the advertiseing you had before it was advertising all female members are horny and they all want to get fucked, so you better join and to get layed tonight!!!
You can have any selection of these woman but you have to pay first!!! Well alot had that mentality is still there, alot they were looking at a free for all, I can have my selection of woman, You should have called it WHORES FOR US !!!!!! As that what we are treated like, And we are all on here for different reason, most of the woman are on here to find a great lover that they have a good conection with, not a cock to fuc!!!!! some may want to experiment, some jut want to chat!! so a.f.f. was a good name, but FIND YOUR PARTNER IN CRIME may be better!! as advertising , just another idea, i hope you get a few!!

Have a great horny day LUV


2RCumming4U 53M/43F
675 posts
8/24/2011 12:46 pm

Great to hear that the People's voices have been heard!
The "hookup" phrasing seemed like a bad choice...

Something simple like Connect with Members, Find Members would work (all puns aside. )

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He's "C." She's "M." We want "U" between us!!


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/24/2011 1:01 pm

ANOTHER SUGGESTION!!! You should have a SIGHT FOR SUGGESTIONS to what the advertising should be!!! easy to find!! you may get a good idea from someone!! as the other one did not work well at all!! men dissappointed as they thought if they paid, they would get layed, so no wonder most of us woman are getting treated like WHORES!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


Riddlebox862 37M

8/24/2011 2:12 pm

Funny


japaneseass 54F  
50231 posts
8/25/2011 9:06 am

RE: BLING

10% of new registrants???? is that all???

as far as BLING ISSUES, what you see and what i see is quite different picture here...

among the people i know though this site, we are really thinking the new change, especially, the one that we won't be able to use the bling for our background, is the biggest downfall to AsianMatchMate.com members who adores blings...

there are many bling artists, bling makers, who love what they do, and they really put their time and effort into custome blings...

not to mention, there are also many bling collectors on this white, who love and cherish blings...even sometime, it costs us points...

and most of all, the reason why i love AsianMatchMate.com is that we can CUSTOMIZE our profile page to some degree with the bling, so we can show our personalities more...

other "hook-up" site only gives us the same ol' page to every one, and no uniqueness to them...

please re-consider about the future of bling use?

and tell me why the site wants to go away with the use of blings? what is so bad about them?

other suggestion to the alternate "find hook-ups"...perhaps, something like, "find sexy people in your COMMUNITY" or "CONNECT with other sexy members" would sounds appealing to me...

thank you,

japaneseass
deeply member


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/25/2011 9:38 am

Personaly I do not like CONNECT, connect what?? pussy to cock!!!!!!!!o yes come here and get your cock connected to a pussy!! But you will need to upgrade to connect with all this pussy!!!! so in short I do not agree with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/25/2011 9:53 am

    Quoting midatlantic42:
    How about Find a partner

    with sub searches that paying members could use... like...

    For erotic chat
    For other adult activities
    And Just to talk....
I am in agreement The sight should be seperated into sort of catagories, as we are all on here for different things, some are just wanting a one time encounter, some are bi-curious, some are married and looking for a little extra, some are on here just to watch vidoes, some are looking for a woman or a man for just a one time thing, some are looking for a compatable partner (that may have the same sexual desires as them)and some are here to make bling only, and some are on here to blog only, So seperate catagories would be good, so you do not have to do a massive search, if you are looking for something in particular. As lots of profile to go through, that cupids match is not very accurate, so people should be encourage not to use it.

Have a great horny day LUV


synndarella 46F
5236 posts
8/25/2011 4:44 pm

Any of the first three.
And as well.. thank you

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
8/25/2011 8:26 pm

What's wrong with "Search"? Is that not what the function is? Why must they make everything so damn pornographic????? Do they really think we have zero brain cells and only raging hormones when we log onto this site?

That is insulting to us.

K.I.S.S. << it's a business term too.
Tell those fools to remember what it means.


funtimes10163 58F

8/25/2011 10:01 pm

Either "Search Members" or "Find Members" is fine.
"Connect" is not necessarily such a great term though.
Thank you for taking our concerns onboard ... much appreciated.


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/25/2011 10:32 pm

it does not sound good to me, it might as well say CONNECT your cock to any pussy here!!!!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


wildnwanton 59F
19428 posts
8/26/2011 5:23 am

Search conveys what you want to do in a clear manner. Find does as well but sounds somewhat juvenile. Connect is a misnomer, because not all searches will end in a connection or a Date. "Fuck Dirty Right Now" ranks with "Get Laid Tonight", a happy truth for a few and a bitter lie for others.

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rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
8/26/2011 8:29 am

I like either "Search Profiles" or "Search Members."


Linc1912 45M  
978 posts
8/26/2011 12:29 pm

only suggestion i can think of is making stopping or slowing down the men who create accounts.

It seems for every 500 men who make profiles,
10 women make one..

This site sometimes reminds me of a shark infested lake..lol

~Linc was here.~


Linc1912 45M  
978 posts
8/26/2011 12:31 pm

Men here will agree, the biggest problem that YOU cant fix is the amount of active women...

~Linc was here.~


Extramist 64M
14079 posts
8/26/2011 7:03 pm

I think 'Search' is okay and it doesn't imply anything other than one wants to see what is out there.

AKA The Clit Whisperer.


givit2me999 59F

8/27/2011 3:10 pm

I think SEARCH is more than adequate. Search Members or Search Profiles would be fine too.

Perhaps 'tuning up' the search criteria would be a better focus.

I'd like to see a search function for just a partial handle as sometimes I can't remember a Member's full handle nor enough info to locate them through the existing 'search'.


rm_allegria49 72F
124 posts
8/29/2011 8:32 am

As long as we're on the subject of tone...

Has anyone noticed that there is no KISS in the emoticons? Sex .. and no kisses allowed ??? Maybe there is no time for kisses if you're Fucking Dirty Right Now?

A raised eyebrow, eye roll and a shrug would be nice too.

But maybe irony is off limits too. 'eye roll'


rm_allegria49 72F
124 posts
8/29/2011 8:45 am

    Quoting  :

Love this phrase:

~ Some people drink from the fountain of knowledge, others just gargle and spit. ~

The 'Adult Social Networking' idea is great! What a novel approach if it was the mature kind of Adult and not the kind of Adult.


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 10:13 am

    Quoting Spirit6669:
    Excellent I bet it makes a pleasant change to be Mr Popular doesn't it Ryan !

    Ok so how about - Find me a fuck, I'm not fussy !
NO!!! how about FUCK all NOW!!! LOL That is just as dumb as connect!!! come all come all, get your hook-up and get your hooker!!! Just kidding !!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 10:21 am

Yes!! strange how a.f.f is protecting us, from what!!! My profile is up on google, the only way I May be able to delete is is maybe delete my whole profile from a.f.f. but it may be still there, and with time it will take me to upload a new profile and i will not be able to use my hangname, re-load pictures, vidoes, blogs, comments, shit everthing!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 10:39 am

An other suggestion for you to maybe consider, use a COUPLES picture instead of a HALF DRESSED woman on your main page!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 10:40 am

    Quoting foxeyatfifty:
    An other suggestion for you to maybe consider, use a COUPLES picture instead of a HALF DRESSED woman on your main page!!!!
as they have found their partner in crime!!

Have a great horny day LUV


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/29/2011 1:45 pm

    Quoting foxeyatfifty:
    NO!!! how about FUCK all NOW!!! LOL That is just as dumb as connect!!! come all come all, get your hook-up and get your hooker!!! Just kidding !!
Yeah that would work for me but need to drop the 'all' as it has negative connotations ie 'fuck all' sounds like I'm not going to get any

But FUCK NOW..... brief, to the point, sums it up You have a genius for site design Madam

What's wrong with 'SEARCH' ? Is it neccessary to get super creative and re-invent the wheel ?

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/29/2011 1:53 pm

    Quoting foxeyatfifty:
    An other suggestion for you to maybe consider, use a COUPLES picture instead of a HALF DRESSED woman on your main page!!!!
Would that be a naked couple humping to prove the site works ? It is a marketing exercise after all.

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


2serve_U 37M

9/3/2011 4:16 am

Find a friend in need


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
9/3/2011 7:38 am

The way i see it is the site needs to listen to its female members more. We all know that the number of male members on here is far greater than the number of female members. The site needs to be more female friendly, keep the female members you have happy, and the sites advertising campaigns should be more directed towards women, and not just aimed at attracting more and more men!

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Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
9/3/2011 12:44 pm

    Quoting  :

100% SPOT ON

How about some response from Community on this suggestion, it's an axcellent one.

Post a topic inviting discussion and suggestions on this topic and listen to the WOMEN as to what would attract them to join. Then pass the consensus recommendations on to the marketing director.

If the gender imbalance were improved it would be most beneficial to the site's renewal rate and premium status uptake amongst men. Women would be delighted to be listened to and not marketed as sluts. Men would benefit from the presence of more real women on here. EVERYBODY WINS !!!

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
9/4/2011 11:29 am

In order of preference...

1. Just leave it at 'Search', c'mon people will figure it out
2. Search Profiles
3. Find a Friend


runboy2011 38M

10/9/2011 11:01 pm

I think i like all the fetures on Amigos Ardientes id be hard pressed to make peace

I just want to meet


rm_TWELL301 67M
105 posts
10/27/2011 7:07 am

giveit2 gal let hook up and chal and see what happens you are hot and do not live far from me would like to meet and greet and see if it takes us to the next level twell301 post 2718619


buxombbw4u 54F  
16144 posts
11/17/2011 6:13 pm

Hey! Nice to see the old "find a hookup" at the top of my new site layout when I logged on today. Way to go back on your own promises. FANTASTIC AND TOTALLY EXPECTED.

Could you slut up the site a little bit more? This is no adult dating site - it is a find em and fuck em site, right? Everyone here must be looking for a hookup.

Great job!

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


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