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community 36F   
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8/18/2011 4:12 pm
Want to Check Out The New Site Design?


Go here: http://beta.adultfriendfinder.com

A new design of the site is up and ready for you to test drive. This design is mainly aimed at helping new members more easily navigate the site.

Those of you in The Beta Test Group are already familiar with this design. Many of you have been helping with the design since May. I thought I'd post it here to give a wider audience a chance to check it out.

The main changes with this design:
1) The navigation has changed to make it more manageable, especially for newer members. You'll find everything that has come before is still there, it just may have been moved into a dropdown.

2) All the pages on the site are now a uniform size (960).

Problems you'll notice:

1) People who use HTML in Blog and Group posts may notice broken tables due to the new 960 width. 960 is smaller than the previous width, so if you are setting table widths by pixel lengths, it will be messed up. If you set widths by using =100%, it should be fine.

What's the plan for this? Will the site eventually look like this?
- Yes, it probably will look like this in the near future. Right now we are testing it with 10% of new registrants. We'll see how they do and tweak until we get it right.
- This is still a beta test, so we'll be changing things based on feedback.

Please leave your feedback here!

JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/18/2011 4:15 pm

No link to blings anywhere on the home page or tool bar

Need link to member's blog in profile page

Need bigger and more prominent link to My Blog

Need more space under toolbar

Need more space between comments in blogs. The overall layout for comments and quoting sux.

Quoting on some comments doesn't work

No Recent comments made by others on my blog

The table under the People who like this blog, also like needs to be readjusted, not in line with the other tables

Still needs get rid of the Fast HTML beta in the chat room Doesn't work anyway.

More cell padding needed in between blogs. Right now they all look cramped.

No consistency with font sizes in the blogs, especially in the page you get redirected to after posting a new blog.

Browse by location directs me to blogs in Japan. I'd still prefer to have a link to Blogs near me

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rockinr55 65M
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8/18/2011 4:27 pm

I am one who has spent a great deal of time setting up my blog to look the way I want. I use pixel width and when I view my blog, it is a mess like you stated. Am I doomed to going back and revamping all my posts so that they appear like they do on the old site, or is there going to be a fix for this by the time the new site is standard?

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JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/18/2011 5:21 pm

In What's hot in the Home page, I'm seeing a plethora of boobies in the Hottest photos. I think I'd be in a different demographic?

Looks like the redesign is geared towards dudes whose sole interests are to get laid or get self-gratification, so more focused on pics/vids/cams and the still unstable IMC.

Like CWC says, the "hook up" is pretty demeaning from a woman's point of view. If the site condones disrespecting women, then how do you expect to get more women to join this site or stay after they join? I'm sure there are many who get disillusioned by the way they're treated by the clueless idiots and quit. The stateside overall ratio is 12:1, which isn't all that bad compared to other countries, but there's still potential to do better if your marketing and engineering team get their brains out of their pants, don't you think?

At this point, it looks like the redesign was pushed forward without incorporating any of the ideas or suggestions made by people who actually navigate and use the site, so the end result is another half-baked, disappointing product.

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LadyUnlaced 47F
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8/18/2011 5:36 pm

    Quoting community:
    How do others feel about this?
Totally agree with cougarwithclass. Some of us don't even want to hook up.

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PerpetoMobile13 65F
3218 posts
8/18/2011 5:38 pm

Ok, Ryan;

1. Completely agree /support CougarwithClass - who came up with this brilliant idea anyway????

2. The colors in my profile do not show at all (the same problem persists on the old site since the beginning of the year). Can somebody do something about it?

3. I was hopping that now with the new page I'll be able to use IM as I used to do before.
Shockingly, I'm still unable to use the new IM - every time when try to get inside through IM, it is kicking me out to the home page asking me to sign again. This issue is persistent and side support wasn't able to fix it.

Some hope that things will be fix and run properly any time soon???

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slwdwn2pullovr 63F

8/18/2011 6:13 pm

OMG You can't do that! This site is a sexual based dating site and we all agreed/accepted to that when we signed up here. But there are men/women on here that are looking for LTR not soley based on just sex. So NO WAY! Sleezy!!!!!

Awaiting you


slwdwn2pullovr 63F

8/18/2011 6:21 pm

Suggestion, Make the main page more appealing! Some cam shots are tacky. I love this site and agree its one of the best out there! Concentrate more on the homepage before you go messing around with other things. Don't fix it if it isn't broken. Fix the homepage and grab more attention and more potental clients! I'm back!

Awaiting you


rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 9:19 am

What is the possibility of us who enjoy the use of bling to wall paper our profile background to be put back for the new site design ???


rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 10:04 am

All the fonts size are so small and not what I had set when I click on the blog topic and also my reply comment to check and read. But when I am look at my blog homepage, the blog topic all the size of the fonts appear as I had set.


rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 10:14 am

Problem with link on the beta----->

Under tool bar I click on Community and not of those choice from the drop down. Lead me to Community homepage. On the top right where show 'Blogs', I click on 'My Blogs'. It don't goes to my blog homepage. That what I see when I click(HTML code of my homepage header). Look at the screen shot.

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rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 10:16 am

I've just made a post - with links and options ... I'll gather what I see there ...

Right now - the worst things ( after the bling missing ) seems to be the resize of the pages did NOT encompass the programmers resizing the 'comment' and "where I'm quoted' boxes - since they all seem to ride into the thumbnail view of the person who made the comment. That should be a simple %% fix.
The other is that links are not underlined but merely appear in the blue link colour.



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rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 10:17 am

    Quoting rm_cherimore:
    Problem with link on the beta----->

    Under tool bar I click on Community and not of those choice from the drop down. Lead me to Community homepage. On the top right where show 'Blogs', I click on 'My Blogs'. It don't goes to my blog homepage. That what I see when I click(HTML code of my homepage header). Look at the screen shot.

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I saw similar last night - it is the coding for the "box top" of my blog. I'm not seeing it today ...



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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:01 am

This is a screen shot showing what I see when using Beta on my blog homepage and then I click on the topic I had posted to check. All fonts size on my comment reply too not working as the way I want my font size to be. The Fonts size so very small,

****I just pick a topic on my blog homepage to screen shot as I can't do screen shot on my whole homepage from top to bottom.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 11:02 am

Oh - and why .. is the beta site adding "beta" into the links like so
( a copy and paste )

If you have been watching the AsianMatchMate.com BETA site BETA site is Listening you will notice that there is a link there to the “new beta test “ site . Ryan would like your feedback… or it's here at

http://AsianMatchMate.com.com FriendFinder BETA site BETA site.com

It seems to me that if you are pushing this live even to a small portion of new members - aren't they going to wonder why they aren't on the "real site" ?



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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:04 am

This is a screen shot showing what I see when using Beta on my blog homepage and then I click on the topic I had posted to check. All fonts size on my comment reply too not working as the way I want my font size to be. The Fonts size so very small, the frame html is not working correctly and the color for the framed is not showing.----->
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****I just pick a topic on my blog homepage to screen shot as I can't do screen shot on my whole homepage from top to bottom.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 11:10 am

Possibly off topic - but really curious - what is the purpose of the "forums" link - when they won't open in either Beta or Regular site..... is it actually utilized enough to keep - or can it be tossed in favour of actually making some viable additions?

My "view by location" and "recently quoted" all work, but the lack of "recent comments by others" ON my blog is a really big miss.

The home page for the blogs is still squishy - as it was when we first tested this. I can't even see my profile as others would - so that is just ridiculous - except, as mentioned before - when you all resized the pages you did just that. And no one thought to reframe the specced out sizes for text in the profiles that you all set.



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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:13 am

Can the link to the name of my blog to be put back on my profile under 'My Blog'. It good to have if someone who never seen or know my blog, and their are at my profile, they click right on the link to my blog homepage instead of the one by one topic.

Also, it a convenience for me to click and goes right to my blog homepage if I am checking on my own profile and need to goes next to my blog homepage.

This is a screen shot of my profile showing only the 'My Blog' and the link to my blog name 'Cheri's Scrapbook' not using the beta. That would be great to put back.----->

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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:25 am

While on Community page on the beta, What is the use of the button 'My Groups' as I click on it show none of the 10 groups I belong to. Look at the screen shot, you see I had clicked on my 'My Groups',and it don't show 10 of those groups I am in below just blank.----->
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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:41 am

I test on checking on live webcam. I can open multi without problem. But when I try to rate on those that don't have any rating, I don't see my rating showing. That webcam of that member remain unrated. They are some that I open show the member webcam got rating but not sure when I click my rating for them is adding or not.


rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 11:54 am

I was wondering why a webcam I click on, I don't see rating, volume, enlarge send, reconnect tool on the member webcam window.
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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 12:02 pm

One last feedback for today---->When I click on my profile or another member profile and view,I test scroll the profile. What I come to the end or bottom normally, it don't stop, I can scroll down still. I see the repeat of the profile twice. Look at the screen shot of your profile which I took, in the middle of scrolling down the page you can see the slide on the right is in the middle where the voice feedback and support button is. You see a repeat of your profile or another other I test viewing on.---->

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rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 1:53 pm

    Quoting rm_kelidgh:
    I saw similar last night - it is the coding for the "box top" of my blog. I'm not seeing it today ...

I spoke too soon ..

It was fine earlier - and now .. it's back. If I access the Community Main Page - and click onto My Blogs ( because I haven't any interest in the "most watched" ... I get the spillover of my header coding.

And - forget having no groups in the "My groups" link .. it looks like it should link - but it doesn't even function

And I think you can see by the overrun here - there needs to be a cellpadding increase in comment boxes

this is Community Main > Blogs > My Blogs on Main page ( NOT to be confused with going to Blog Main page

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rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/19/2011 2:07 pm

"My stuff" tab - the homepage ... under my blog - again .. the header coding -

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JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/19/2011 3:36 pm

On the regular site, there were no Most Recent Posts in Japan in the local blogs and no Actively Watched Blogs or Active Blogs by unique responses in the Blog Main page either, when I went to the blog pages. This was the same in Beta. Maybe it's a temporary glitch?

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community replies on 8/22/2011 10:46 am:
Glitch

rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/19/2011 4:43 pm

I thought I will not post again on this today. But just that I not forget, someone had written to me about how can they see if they got gifted bling on the new site design as it not on the beta homepage.

I think the best page still be the homepage to show when one receive gifted bling. I don't see why it should be put in some corner which one would barely check on. It is just like receiving email, flirt, hotlist,views, friends invites, testimonials, call requests, points all on homepage left top corner. Why should receiving bling be put away or going to be on a different page?


_Fire_and_Ice_ 33F/32F

8/19/2011 5:58 pm

do what u want to with the site... Just know that those of us who pay for premium access will leave if you guys fuck it up... What are you doing for your paying members? I saw "new members" quoted in the changes, i saw nothing about those of us who pay over a hundred dollars a year to have better access? What is up with that aspect??

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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/19/2011 8:00 pm

    Quoting _Fire_and_Ice_:
    do what u want to with the site... Just know that those of us who pay for premium access will leave if you guys fuck it up... What are you doing for your paying members? I saw "new members" quoted in the changes, i saw nothing about those of us who pay over a hundred dollars a year to have better access? What is up with that aspect??
I see you only re-posted your comment you left on Ryan's blog,which leaves this very one sided.At least be fair and include the link.
After 8 years here on AsianMatchMate.com,I've seen and actually been a part of many updates.I'm sorry to say,and do not mence my words~you joined in the discussion very late to word your post the way it is.The entire update/upgrade to the new beta site Is for ALL members~either Paying or not~New Or Old.It is to benefit ALL members.

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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/19/2011 8:03 pm

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    I see you only re-posted your comment you left on Ryan's blog,which leaves this very one sided.At least be fair and include the link.
    After 8 years here on AsianMatchMate.com,I've seen and actually been a part of many updates.I'm sorry to say,and do not mence my words~you joined in the discussion very late to word your post the way it is.The entire update/upgrade to the new beta site Is for ALL members~either Paying or not~New Or Old.It is to benefit ALL members.

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the link did not work~
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RelaxedandFun102 70M/70F
480 posts
8/20/2011 11:09 am

On the old AsianMatchMate.com, my home page has the number of points I've collected. I haven't found my number of points on the new version.

On the old AsianMatchMate.com, I could use the Search feature and put in a zip code and search for female looking for male, couple looking for couple, others, this feature seems to be missing from the Find A Hookup.

For the above search, I'd like to search multiple areas around the zipcode, not only 1 zipcode. Put in a zipcode and have that zipcode come up first and then go out from there into other surrounding zipcodes. Search for 19055, all the 19055 come up, then it goes to 19056, 19054, and so forth, or not only put in the zipcode but the ability to be able to search for user chose # of miles around the zipcode.

Allow standard members to view profiles but keep the current do not allow them to email the members.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/20/2011 1:37 pm

    Quoting RelaxedandFun102:
    On the old AsianMatchMate.com, my home page has the number of points I've collected. I haven't found my number of points on the new version.

    On the old AsianMatchMate.com, I could use the Search feature and put in a zip code and search for female looking for male, couple looking for couple, others, this feature seems to be missing from the Find A Hookup.

    For the above search, I'd like to search multiple areas around the zipcode, not only 1 zipcode. Put in a zipcode and have that zipcode come up first and then go out from there into other surrounding zipcodes. Search for 19055, all the 19055 come up, then it goes to 19056, 19054, and so forth, or not only put in the zipcode but the ability to be able to search for user chose # of miles around the zipcode.

    Allow standard members to view profiles but keep the current do not allow them to email the members.
Points are there .. Right on your home page under your thumbnail of profile I have put a screenshot .. you need to OPEN the "find a hookup tab " and near the bottom of all the possible parameters you can then enter a field that is search within X miles... just like it always was.

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OralM949 75M

8/20/2011 2:06 pm

Agree about the mileage issue. The gap between 20 and 50 miles is just too large. From Costa Mesa, Pasadena, Sunland, and West Hollywood are within fifty miles, but the trips takes well over an hour. I'd like to see 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, and 100 miles thresholds.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/21/2011 4:54 am

    Quoting _Fire_and_Ice_:
    do what u want to with the site... Just know that those of us who pay for premium access will leave if you guys fuck it up... What are you doing for your paying members? I saw "new members" quoted in the changes, i saw nothing about those of us who pay over a hundred dollars a year to have better access? What is up with that aspect??
The "improvement' and "redesign' is a site wide issue. It is starting small.

There have always been - and will continue to be - functionality issues. There will always be some who don't like any changes. And, quite frankly, the few that actually DO stop paying and LEAVE are few and far between - there is a sucker born every minute and this site will gain it's fair share who believe all marketing ploys.

This really is the option to make the effort to suggest what you would prefer to see in the site as it is running in new design, and while the "leave if you guys fuck it up" is an opinion - it is both far to broad and less than helpful. What do you like? What don't you like? Apparently - if actions are any indicator - Various feels the new design is ready to go by the simple fact they are putting new members ON it.




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wd40w 69M
6966 posts
8/21/2011 9:27 am

"We are dropping custom colors and bling backgrounds from profiles. I know it's a place for you to express yourself, but it will have to be via the photos/friends/testimonials and words you choose."
You have got to be kidding...so everyone has the same generic profile...probably with all the info that we did not wish to share with others on it...and currently new members are being forced to use the "beta"...way to go...


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buxombbw4u 54F  
16144 posts
8/21/2011 12:32 pm

Is there not going to be an option to chat in the public chat rooms with the html chat? I find flashchat to be very distracting. It looks like the only way to find the public chat rooms is if you select live action, and then flashchat.

Or maybe there is a place to find the public chat rooms and I just can't find it? Although if I can't find it, being a long time member, wouldn't it be difficult for a new member as well?

Sorry if this has been addressed already, but it is tough to follow all the posts, quotes, and responses.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


rm_s_e_rath 64F
744 posts
8/21/2011 12:56 pm

    Quoting community:
    What if a man said, "I would like to hook up with you?" Maybe the heading doesn't read like that though.

    I'll get the most recent comments back.

    We are dropping custom colors and bling backgrounds from profiles. I know it's a place for you to express yourself, but it will have to be via the photos/friends/testimonials and words you choose.

    We want members to have a clean experience and know what to expect from profile to profile.
What if a man said, "I would like to hook up with you?"

Why do I want a man who is that tacky to begin with? By the time I have interested time and energy into a man to take as a lover he better know the difference between tacky and erotic/sensual/sexy terminology. If you really want a more sexual or erotic term for the word “search” find something that is not reminiscent of a whore scenario.. unless that is the ultimate goal of AsianMatchMate.com and then all you men will have fun with each other in the end in a very barren female zone…

We want members to have a clean experience and know what to expect from profile to profile.

So what does have a “clean” white background profiles really do in the end for making the experience better? No one is going to have the same “experience” in reading going from profile to profile: unless you make it completely generic with the same wording. I do not see how colors can affect someone looking for a sexual partner. I cannot fathom someone saying "wow that generic white profile background made the whole difference in my experience on AsianMatchMate.com.” To be honest that is completely illogical from that perspective.

The whole point is that the profile should reflect the person that is using that profile: their personality, attitude, creativity, humor, impressions, etc. is shown though that cyber construction of words and most importantly the visual aspect of colors. It is how both men and women can judge if they wish to contact to see if there is any interest for friendship or for sex.



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SexiLuvinGirl 63F
6975 posts
8/21/2011 2:59 pm

Ryan? I really don't like the new lay out at all. I think it was set up better in the older version. What I would like to see the site have is the ability for us to post html formatting for images.



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SexiLuvinGirl 63F
6975 posts
8/21/2011 3:03 pm

I think "hook up" is really not a good use verbiage. Maybe, An "Intimate Meet Up", but I don't, as others have indicated in blogs, see that this references "hookers" - not at all. In fact, I wouldn't even think that. The site is what one makes it and many of us are not swingers.... What I'd like to see is it being labeled as simply "An Adult Dating and Networking" site. "Explore your intimate side."



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community replies on 8/22/2011 9:59 am:
Thanks, I really like "An Adult Dating and Networking" site as well.

JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/21/2011 3:04 pm

    Quoting buxombbw4u:
    Is there not going to be an option to chat in the public chat rooms with the html chat? I find flashchat to be very distracting. It looks like the only way to find the public chat rooms is if you select live action, and then flashchat.

    Or maybe there is a place to find the public chat rooms and I just can't find it? Although if I can't find it, being a long time member, wouldn't it be difficult for a new member as well?

    Sorry if this has been addressed already, but it is tough to follow all the posts, quotes, and responses.
To get to the chat rooms without using the flash chat links, click Chat, then click Go To Adult Chat Rooms. If you click on the room name, i.e. Lobby, instead of (Flash), you'll enter the chat rooms in html.

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JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/21/2011 3:11 pm

How hard would it be to hide the inactive members' profiles so they won't be showing up in the search results?

If you hide the profiles that haven't been accessed in 3 months or more, it won't be the same as deleting so the site'll still be able to boast that they have over 32M members, wouldn't they?

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rm_cherimore 62F
11156 posts
8/21/2011 3:31 pm

    Quoting buxombbw4u:
    Is there not going to be an option to chat in the public chat rooms with the html chat? I find flashchat to be very distracting. It looks like the only way to find the public chat rooms is if you select live action, and then flashchat.

    Or maybe there is a place to find the public chat rooms and I just can't find it? Although if I can't find it, being a long time member, wouldn't it be difficult for a new member as well?

    Sorry if this has been addressed already, but it is tough to follow all the posts, quotes, and responses.
Sorry to quote, just trying to help.

When you on live action page, click 'Chat Rooms'. Scroll down, and on bottom where you see a 'Get A private Chat room' button, beside it to the right, you click on the blue print link 'Go to Adult Chat Rooms' will take you to the page where you see all the public chat rooms.


lil_whimsical 51F
8781 posts
8/21/2011 3:45 pm

I don't care for the new design. I played on it a bit, and I don't find anything "improved" in any way.

"Find a Hookup" everywhere is patently offensive, but from the responses here, it's apparent that the site doesn't care.


puppynswimmy 41M/34F

8/21/2011 6:49 pm

I find it harder to navigate through. On the homepage, I liked having a link directly to my blog about midway down the page. Now I don't even know how to get to my blog.

And as others have mentioned, the "Find a Hookup" posted everywhere is rude and offensive. This is going to make the men:women ratio so much bigger than before. And I know I'm not alone when I say I dislike being bombarded with "Wanna fuck" emails. This just opens the doors for more of those. So, I don`t care for the new design. Back to the drawing board! lol


DreamsWeaver79 42M
42 posts
8/22/2011 9:30 am

SAVE THE BLING. I HAVE OVER 750 GIRLS IN MY NETWORK THAT COUNT ON ME FOR BLING FOR THEIR PAGES. NO MORE BLING, THEN NO MORE FOR ME!


Mystic_Writer 48M  
4241 posts
8/22/2011 10:20 am

The new blog dimensions screws up my blog header! I don't like it!


Mystic_Writer 48M  
4241 posts
8/22/2011 10:24 am

    Quoting  :

Satisfying customers is work, luring suckers is easy $.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
8/22/2011 12:36 pm

    Quoting community:
    I agree that more specifics about what you like and don't like would really help because we can then make the correct changes.

    I wouldn't say it's "ready to go." Opening it to 10% of new members is just a way of testing the current version.
Not to put too fine a point down - but every single thing that was broken or off in the original test - still is.

That's fine - it's a work in progress..but it does feel rather dismissive of those of us who actually did spend a considerable time providing feedback and suggestions to the design to see it released just as it was.




~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


community replies on 8/23/2011 10:54 am:
This isn't a release version Keli. Just a beta test.

rm_DarthVagina 52F
24 posts
8/22/2011 1:01 pm

I think standard members should be allowed so many profile views a day or there should be more ways to collect points on the site. Unless more options are added I don't see why the site should change. I would say now that there are good and bad things about both versions. I would not say one is better than the other really. Some new features should be added or I don't really see the point.


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
8/22/2011 3:19 pm

I think getting rid of the custom colours and bling backgrounds on profiles is a really bad idea. The way it is right now with so many fake female profiles, the only (somewhat) reliable way to tell if a woman is real or not is whether she's decorated her profile. I bet if you looked at the percentage of REAL women who've decorated their profiles, you'd find that most of us have.


MasterM2009 54M
1 post
8/22/2011 5:32 pm

I really don't see the difference in either version. What changes I would like to see are standard members are allowed to view profiles only for free. I'm not saying the whole thing for free just the part where they describe themselves and what they're looking for, if you wanna view the pictures, videos, or contact then they should pay for the site.


HeyEleanaHere 79F

8/22/2011 9:22 pm

    Quoting community:
    I agree that more specifics about what you like and don't like would really help because we can then make the correct changes.

    I wouldn't say it's "ready to go." Opening it to 10% of new members is just a way of testing the current version.


Well I was unable to see the new design as the link at the top in red is not a link.

My suggestion is to make it more aesthetic, rather than raunchy sex. Men admire beauty and if they think they can have sex with the beauty, they will be fulfilled. Men will always join if there are lots of women to choose from. They will be very put off fake female sites. If you appeal to women, the men will follow. make the site female friendly. Listen to what women say.

Opening it to 10% new members isn't telling us anything. Were they all male, young or old, gay or bi? It says nothing. I wouldn't consider it was testing any current at all. Nonsense as far as I am concerned. What type of person to you want to attract? Lowlifes and criminals? Stalkers maybe. Sheesh, have you listened to even one suggestion? How many people here have said that they liked it?






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SwtItalian22 57F
197 posts
8/22/2011 11:23 pm

I don't see the change being made, it will be more complicated for those that are used to the way the site was running. Changing only makes more complicated.

The bling makers and design codes made us all learn from the beinging. why change things. Intend of testing your beta maybe you should revalued the system since you have so much glitch causing more problems. That's where you company should be spending their time working on not this beta system.
[[
It's ashame that you would go rude all the work and time with efforts all these bling makers have done putting their time into it. The 10 percent doesn't prove anything when should be 100% proved. Not confused people more wondering why all the changes. This will end up making your company lost members down the road.

Unfortunately, over the years they haven't care much just play with all these little excuse stuff that are not necessary. Where's they should be fixing other main issue and problems.

I vote no changes keep it the way it!!!


rm_lipsuccour4u 62M
21 posts
8/23/2011 12:38 am

For those that aren't beta testers, copy the address a the top of this page, put it into the address bar of your browser and press the enter key.

It opens to display your home page in the beta version. You can try out the new menus. To me, at the moment, it all looks rather bland. Everything white, it looks really boring. The colors and the background bling is what makes the profile for a lot of people. Many people have spent a considerable amount of time and effort trying to create a highly personalized profile. These people are the people you need to appreciate and take care of. They shouldn't be snubbed in this way.

If anything, it wanted more options with the colors as the color classes are used at different bits on different pages and what looks good on the profile didn't always work on other pages as the colors were mixed up.

Please don't take this these options away!


howsitgoiing 39M
2606 posts
8/23/2011 2:40 am

I'd appreciate it if they put a "gifted bling" link in the section with "new email, flirts, hotlisting" etc. I would also like it if they added a bling manager link to the "community" section, or somewhere on the homepage. I'd like to see the bling limit removed, and made unlimited. Background colors and blings serve a purpose, please don't get rid of them. Why do I get the impression AsianMatchMate.com is slowly trying to do away with blings?


royaloakian 62M  
167 posts
8/24/2011 4:21 am

I do not see the new lay out proposals as being an improvement. I am ESPECIALLY concerned about what I perceive as a means of doing away with blings-BAD IDEA!!!! Many of us..both genders express ourselves with blings. Candidly I would think there are OTHER areas A F F needs to be looking at rather than any cosmetic "issues".


rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/24/2011 7:30 am

    Quoting  :

"" actually I'd be happy to pay but the site doesn't take AMEX which is my only credit card""~~
>>>Get a disposable card at any convenience store.
Note there are issues with the 'auto-renew' system here,I'll never give AsianMatchMate.com my real card again.

""maybe if the policy was made more public we'd all benefit""~~
>>>It is posted in a few places. It has been explained by the site aka~Ryan,that this policy is kept quite so the 'scammers' don't know how to use it to their advantage.


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wannacoppafeel 46F  
1326 posts
8/24/2011 9:18 am

I believe that getting rid of the custom colors and bling backgrounds on profiles is a really poor idea. With so many fake female profiles displayed at the present time, one reasonably reliable way for the male members to gauge if a woman is "real" or not, is to see if she's done anything to personalize her profile. I expect that if you looked at the number of ACTUAL women who've decorated their profiles( those who participate in the site regularly and who contribute to making the overall experience a good one for other people), you'd find that the majority of us have done so.
.
The functionality issues with which this site is riddled, remain a barrier for many members to consider "investing" in a membership. There are members who participate in the site regularly and who contribute to making the overall experience a good one for other people. Many of those very same people don't want to get caught up in the endless advertising, in-your-face porn-related whatnot, and overall crudity.
.
If the powers that be cleaned these issues up AND actually listened to the people who regularly frequent their site about THEIR preferences, not the corporation's preferences, it is my opinion they would have a basis for a solid, returning group of PAYING consumers.

.


yash2020AtYahu 38M
19 posts
8/24/2011 9:37 am

opop


samoura002011 41M

8/24/2011 11:22 am

I like the new design
good job guys


bako0511 60F
120 posts
8/24/2011 1:12 pm

Good evening to all!

Dear Passion.com,

you have my profile in January 2011 during
a purge (up disk space) are cleared completely.
Someone here, a good friend, gave me the advice to write
and ask for Adult restore my profile.

I got my profile back. The biggest reason was the blings.

I collect blings and put them into different albums.
Who created blings, my profile would need to know really.
Bling on my collection, i am very proud.

I have appended to the mail to all my blogs
and wondered Passion.com,whether they are
of the opinion that such a comprehensive documentation
of the artistic side of AsianMatchMate.com should really be deleted.

I got in response back to my profile.

Many people here have actually been there plenty of reasons
why all of us here the opportunity for arranging our personal profiles,
is very important.
Even in the animal world, bright colors and individuality
play an important role.



I agree with many here, the AsianMatchMate.com members and ask that our blings
us and the ability to apply them freely in the profile can be maintained.

I have my text to be translated by a translator, as always,
because i can not speak English.


...
.

...
.


Mystic_Writer 48M  
4241 posts
8/24/2011 4:55 pm

    Quoting royaloakian:
    I do not see the new lay out proposals as being an improvement. I am ESPECIALLY concerned about what I perceive as a means of doing away with blings-BAD IDEA!!!! Many of us..both genders express ourselves with blings. Candidly I would think there are OTHER areas A F F needs to be looking at rather than any cosmetic "issues".
I too am a bling enthusiast. If you take away blings and mess up my blog, you will lose a paying member.


JAnt6628 36M

8/24/2011 6:18 pm

nooo


GARLICGIRL2000 66F

8/25/2011 6:47 am

Thanks for giving us the opportunity to express our strongest protest against the fact that deletion of blings and use of colors. I think that this limits the creativity and good taste of many blogs of the page, GARLICGIRL


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sunnyvirgo2 64F  
626 posts
8/25/2011 9:31 am

    Quoting  :

I totally am AGAINST TAKING AWAY MY/OUR BLING....I agree with Erotic...I use my BLING everywhere...From my Blog Posts, to emails, to discussion board posts to 'showing some of them off in the chatrooms'....MANY (not all) of us USE blings Everyday....It is WHO WE ARE....WHY take something away that 'makes our Profiles/Blogs and extension of US?? WHY take something away that Beautifies the site if nothing else???
WHOEVER is doing this, or thinking or doing this, Should get their priorities straight....ASK THE MEMBERS FIRST...BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO TAKE SOMETHING AWAY!!! THE MEMBERS ARE WHO/WHAT MAKES THIS SITE TICK!!!!....grrrrrrr JMHO
~~~~~~~~~~



shadowkidsz 37M
32 posts
8/25/2011 10:48 am

hi great article, love it, continue more on your effort , keep it up!


MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2487 posts
8/25/2011 10:57 am

I really do not believe that Various, Inc. is really listening to its customers at all. Taking a way the Color and Bling background option is taking away how members show and express themselves to the viewer of their profiles, blogs, and groups. Furthermore, the little bells and whistles such as that is what has helped keep some members active on this site despite all the bugs they hae put up with over the years.


I am going to say it like it is. And Ryan, you may not like what I have to say here; however, I am being honest in my assessment. At least when Andrew Conru(former CEO and owner before Penthouse purchased Various, Inc. for almost $500mil) started the site improvements and asking the members(customers) for feedback, ideas, and suggestions back in March of 2006, he did listen and he implemented many of the ideas that members(customers) had and provided, even thought he was an asshole in other ways. That is something that can be seen all throughout his Blog of luvpump-Thoughts from the CEO by reading the topics and comments by the members(customers). That is a Blog that every Project Manager, Programmer, Developer, Chairman, VP, CEO, etc...that are in the positions of power should read completely.


Lastly...better pay attention to the competitors out there....paid or free sites.....Virtually all of them allow members to customize their Profile appearance, Groups and Blog pages, even more fashionable than this site.



JigglesgigglesBl 73F
298 posts
8/25/2011 11:41 am

I think you should let good things alone..Many members enjoy the bling..It is important to us..Why must you keep messing with all the things we like..As for me..I will not renew my gold if you do this..You have taken our Kudos..That was a way of showing how others like our improvements in our profile..Now you want to take our bling..I am gold and still I can not see all the photos on profiles..You just keep messing things up..And still you do not fix things that do not work..

This was more than a sex site..It was a fun place to visit..It gets harder all the time..Listen to your members..Leave bling background alone..We like being who we are and showing it..


2RCumming4U 53M/43F
675 posts
8/25/2011 12:56 pm

PLEASE KEEP PROFILE BACKGROUND BLING & COLORS!
Visual identity is one of the tools that this site's users depend on!

2RCumming4U
He's "C." She's "M." We want "U" between us!!


Apolly33 58F

8/25/2011 11:58 pm

La vida necesita color, la pagina AsianMatchMate.com necesita color, el uso de este resulta atractivo a la vista, no deben impedir que la luz enmarque nuestros perfiles. Vivan los Bling. La Pasion mia son la creacion de Bling.

Life needs color, AsianMatchMate.com page need color, use of this appeals to the eye, should not prevent light framed our profiles. Long live the Bling. The passion of mine is the creation of Bling.

Ven a vivir a mi lado
Apasionadamente Apollonia.
Del amor en pos.
Visita mi Blog Apolly33




shadowkidsz 37M
32 posts
8/26/2011 9:38 am

good article, keep it up dear, i love it


nd2hvfun 63F  
10021 posts
8/26/2011 6:59 pm

don't touch my bling do you see the one about warning irish temper with an italian attitude...dont touch my bling i have had wonderful blingmakers and bloggers gift me bling...dont make me leave i am one of your most popular woman who does meet men read my emails oh you probably already do SAVE THE BLING

je ne regrette rien


rm_wildweas 34M
22 posts
8/26/2011 7:43 pm

nice article, i'm loving it~


MzGoddessDomina 51F  
59726 posts
8/27/2011 3:15 am

Definitely keep the bling, it makes the site more creative. Don't mess with it, its not broken!!


CampoGirl 56F
43434 posts
8/27/2011 5:52 am

Keep the bling and do something about post 2721525

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/27/2011 7:46 am

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    Keep the bling and do something about post 2721525
Let's see if the link works now~~
[post 2721525]


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rm_sylvie_slut 52F
14 posts
8/27/2011 9:27 am

Call me a cynic...but this not being the first time AF F have proposed the all black/white format seems to me simply a means of using up less server space by the use of less colour/pixels/graphics etc,when what is REALLY needed (instead of messing around with stuff that actually works and is enjoyed) is to increase and update main servers to avoid us all getting so regularly and annoyingly booted.
Now if THAT were the proposal,i reckon the 'ayes' would have it.....100%.

While we're at it,why have the post numbers re-appeared again?


Extramist 64M
14079 posts
8/27/2011 10:39 am

Keep the bling and ditch the new format, which isn't all that great in my opinion. Instead of attempting to change things around here, fix the things that are broken or don't work correctly before you think about making changes.

AKA The Clit Whisperer.


sweet_VM 63F  
81699 posts
8/27/2011 10:46 am

Ryan, I love my blings and I want to keep them on this site. Each room uses blings to show their own creativity. Personalizes a chatroom for everyone to enjoy.

PLEASE DO NOT TAKE AWAY OUR BLINGS




Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
8/27/2011 2:56 pm

Seriously why do you people who run this site keep on tinkering with and changing things??????
When i first joined this site i enjoyed swapping Kudos with people, then the site got rid of the Kudos.
I prefered the old profile layout of the site when i first joined but then that was changed to the profile layout you have now.
And now to top it all off, there is talk of getting rid of the blings on AsianMatchMate.com.
SERIOUSLY all you do with this tinkering and chopping and changing is Piss off your genuine long standing members!
As others have said here if you get rid of the bling then i won't be renewing my gold membership when it runs out. This is the last straw.
If the people who run this site want to tinker with or change something then why don't you try to solve some of the REAL problems that this site has, such as getting rid of the thousands and thousands of fake and scam profiles that seem to be getting out of hand on here, i swear it has got worse over the last 12 months, not to mention all the other bugs and glitches this site suffers from. When are you people going to start listening to your members????
Sort out the Real problems with this site, and leave the bling alone, while you are at it, bring the Kudos back aswel!
Do some REAL work and get rid of the hoardes of fakes and scammers on here, none of the genuine members want to see that crap.
Leave the bling alone!

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

Please visit my blog here Centaur_UK


goodsexyfun2000 50M
259 posts
8/28/2011 1:06 am

Every day My New Matches is page after page of FAKE profiles and yet AsianMatchMate.com think its higher priority to devote time and resources to redesigning the look of the site.... Congratulations. I'm sure you're all very proud of yourselves.


rm_Eclipse63 59F
1066 posts
8/28/2011 1:33 am

Rayan
Me gusta entrar con cierta regularidad a este blog para estar informada respecto a lo que sucede con la página, pero en esta ocasión lo que leo no me agrada.
Soy adicta a los blings, a la luz que dan los colores, por lo que me aplique para aprender a manejar las etiquetas HTML, me siento orgullosa de tener mi perfil y mi blog con los blings de los grandes creadores de blings.
Protesto y me opongo rotundamente a que eliminen los blings, quiero pensar y entender que quizá la nueva modalidad sea mejor según los cambios que ya se mencionan pero si el costo de los avances es perder los blings, entonces no estoy de acuerdo.
Si nuestra percepción es equivocada, por favor entonces Rayan danos más información
Si la versión beta es mejor solo pido que no vuelva a ser solo blanco y negro, que no vuelvan a ser planos, cierto que lo que el contenido de nuestros escritos es lo que realmente importa, sin embargo, los blings ilustran mejor lo que deseamos expresar y los colores le dan luz y belleza.
Por favor, no eliminen los blings.




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Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
8/28/2011 7:32 am

You say you are testing this with 10% of new registrants?
Well it seems to me that 99% of the new single female profiles that appear on here are either FAKE or Scam profiles, good luck with getting feedback from them!

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

Please visit my blog here Centaur_UK


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/28/2011 8:34 am

    Quoting Centaur_UK:
    Seriously why do you people who run this site keep on tinkering with and changing things??????
    When i first joined this site i enjoyed swapping Kudos with people, then the site got rid of the Kudos.
    I prefered the old profile layout of the site when i first joined but then that was changed to the profile layout you have now.
    And now to top it all off, there is talk of getting rid of the blings on AsianMatchMate.com.
    SERIOUSLY all you do with this tinkering and chopping and changing is Piss off your genuine long standing members!
    As others have said here if you get rid of the bling then i won't be renewing my gold membership when it runs out. This is the last straw.
    If the people who run this site want to tinker with or change something then why don't you try to solve some of the REAL problems that this site has, such as getting rid of the thousands and thousands of fake and scam profiles that seem to be getting out of hand on here, i swear it has got worse over the last 12 months, not to mention all the other bugs and glitches this site suffers from. When are you people going to start listening to your members????
    Sort out the Real problems with this site, and leave the bling alone, while you are at it, bring the Kudos back aswel!
    Do some REAL work and get rid of the hoardes of fakes and scammers on here, none of the genuine members want to see that crap.
    Leave the bling alone!
Here here !!!!

This site has an incredible knack for alienating it's long standing, paying members. It devotes a huge amount of resources into marketing and next to nothing into combatting the epidemic number of FAKE/SCAM profiles that make the site look like a joke.... but you only see that once you've joined and paid your money !

Now all this tinkering, taking away the bling that so many enjoy, taking away individual colours.... take stuff away that people like and just make excuses about doing nothing about the REAL issues. Just how to get customer satisfaction and loyalty eh !?!? By the way customer loyalty = renewals A FF, a fundamental principal in business, not just the holy grail of A FF policy - attracting new members at all costs.... only to lose them and your long standing members because you don't keep them happy and don't even try.

What we are going to end up with is a colour free, bling free, bland site populated almost entirely by FAKE/SCAM profiles..... then all that will be left is for them to scam each other into oblivion and take A Fake Finder down with them !!!

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
8/28/2011 9:15 am

Under the current format I can get to my own blog in one click - with the BETA format it takes two. This might seem like a minor annoyance, but I remember a similar change a while back driving me crazy (we used to be able to click "chat" and then pick our own regional chat room - now you have to click "chat", THEN find the obscure link to "Geographic Locations" - then pick a regional chat room). These things might seem minor, but it's annoying to have frequently used features buried a few clicks down.

I'm not crazy about the narrower blog width, and taking color away from the blog page really takes away any visual separation between one post and the next. If you must take away color, I would suggest putting in borders or some other way of showing a visual "break" between posts.

Am I mistaken, or have we lost the link to the "overall" blog page on the member's profile? e.g. there are just links to the individual posts. I like people to have the option of clicking to my main blog page because I have links in the header.

After six years here, my main thing these days is blogging...believe it or not, pretty much the only reason I pay for a membership is to get the added features of replying within a blog comment and seeing "where I'm quoted"...if you activate the BETA version it may be the push I need to start blogging somewhere else, sorry.

how about making colors and bling a privilege of paid membership? I do understand that they take up server space - well, give them to the people who are paying for that server space.


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/28/2011 12:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Great photo

KEEP THE BLING AND PERSONAL COLOURS !!!

GET RID OF THE FAKE AND SCAM PROFILES !!!

GET YOUR PRIORITIES IN ORDER AND SATISFY YOUR LOYAL, PAYING CUSTOMERS !!!

Spirit6669
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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/28/2011 1:01 pm

    Quoting  :

I could careless about that blog~notice the quote I was following.There is a *SITE BUG* with links.It was obivious that she mis-typed it.Also notice that she has been removed from the site/OR turned her profile off. I posted to see if the link did work...


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foxeyatfifty 65F

8/28/2011 1:41 pm

Well I have not seen it!!!! not that computor savey like some!!! and if you have a new sight, planned, make it easy for some of us, not just computor nerds, o well, just another pissed off paying female member that will be leaveing, soon!!!!!!!!!!! Sick and tired of all this computor babble, it is supposed to be a sight to Meet People with the same interested, some to look at vidoes, some people looking for a partner, some looking for a affair, some looking for just a one-time thing, some what to be exhibitionist, some looking for a man or a woman to spice up their marriage!! so get down to the point what this sight was supposed to be!!!!!!!! and listen to the regular people on here, not worry about all this computor stuff!!!!! NOW GET WITH IT AND GET BACK TO THE REASON YOU STARTED THIS SIGHT!!!!!!!! I think the original reason this sight was started, has gone ,it is now a nerds paradise, if I hear ANDROID one more time I am going to SCREAM!!!!!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/28/2011 1:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Well that is nice to have an answer, but what Christmas next year, next century, o hell when we decide to !!!! And along with alot of other members like the bling that all the bling members have made for us, and do make our profile look much better and colorfull!!!! And do not get rid of the BLINGS!!!!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


pasion_sin_fin 53M
320 posts
8/28/2011 5:22 pm

No bling are destroying part of ourselves.
My passion are the bling and colorful blog


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/28/2011 7:25 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree NO consideration about long standing members..and not that computor savey to change the format, or do not know what they are talking about, changeing to Beta??? not all of us are computor nerds, so if I can't navigate the sight...in short I quess they want to get rid of all the long term members!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


Chero774 37M
40 posts
8/28/2011 11:12 pm

The chat could use some work... Have constant issues with it


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 2:38 am

YES!! they got rid of Kudos, and now they are trying to get rid of blings, what next, o we will get rid of some more.. maybe magazine, don't let members post articles,blogs, maybe groups, But WE will never get rid of SHOPPING!!!! ( AFTER ALL THE MAKES MONEY)so who cares about long term members, we can make MONEY!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/29/2011 5:36 am

    Quoting  :

.

Hi again MM~
~I have no problem with your earlier 'quote'.

The voting is being looked to, possibly to have just the agree option.It was talked about in a recent meeting.

The best way to get an answer here is to join the group and be apart of the meetings on Wednesdays.All of the threads here are openly discussed and you are certainly invited.If you are looking for an answer to a certain question,check out the 'meeting minutes' posted
at the end of each weekly questions thread in the group.Of course you can always e-mail Ryan.

.


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Mallardduck59 61M

8/29/2011 7:47 am

i just want to find someone to fuck your three month guarantee is a joke


rm_FXSBOB3 46M
4437 posts
8/29/2011 9:35 am

    Quoting  :

I answer with truth answers.
And~
As far as any comments being deleted~ that I do not know,I can't delete them,only Ryan can do that.Every comment I've seen is still there.What did you see that has been deleted


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27439 posts
8/30/2011 7:44 am

I posted a comment in Advice Line *gasp!!* and found that the html tags to this post in my comment doesn't show up as a link but if my comment is quoted, the link shows up. Weird . . .

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Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
8/30/2011 9:17 am

Is there ANY chance of discuusing issues of REAL concern here ? .... like the epidemic of FAKE profiles for example !

There are thousands of FAKE profiles with usernames that are a jumble of letters with 2 digits at the end (computer generated).... they don't interact EVER so can't be scammers who need to communicate to achieve something..... all gorgeous girls..... and they all come online in the UK at noon EVERY SINGLE DAY..... I wonder WHO could be controlling them all ???

SITE SUPPORT HAVE REFUSED TO ANSWER ANY MORE QUESTIONS ON THE ISSUE OF FAKE PROFILES !!!!!

So much for customer service !!!



Spirit6669
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JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
8/30/2011 6:38 pm

    Quoting community:
    We have set inactive at 6 months. So they won't show in search results after 6 months of not logging in.
IMO, if the members haven't logged in for 3 months or more, they're not really interested in meeting people through A FF, so why bother showing them?

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KuroKoGen 46M
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8/31/2011 5:19 am

    Quoting Spirit6669:
    Is there ANY chance of discuusing issues of REAL concern here ? .... like the epidemic of FAKE profiles for example !

    There are thousands of FAKE profiles with usernames that are a jumble of letters with 2 digits at the end (computer generated).... they don't interact EVER so can't be scammers who need to communicate to achieve something..... all gorgeous girls..... and they all come online in the UK at noon EVERY SINGLE DAY..... I wonder WHO could be controlling them all ???

    SITE SUPPORT HAVE REFUSED TO ANSWER ANY MORE QUESTIONS ON THE ISSUE OF FAKE PROFILES !!!!!

    So much for customer service !!!


This isn't only a UK issue, here in Italy is far more grotesque, with hundreds of profiles in a perfect english (we Italians are mostly illiterate in foreign language, it is known), shown as residing in Italy but with mottoes clearly referring to U.S. (e.g.: "Hot O.C. girl")


rm_NassyFox 60F
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8/31/2011 3:43 pm

    Quoting Spirit6669:
    Is there ANY chance of discuusing issues of REAL concern here ? .... like the epidemic of FAKE profiles for example !

    There are thousands of FAKE profiles with usernames that are a jumble of letters with 2 digits at the end (computer generated).... they don't interact EVER so can't be scammers who need to communicate to achieve something..... all gorgeous girls..... and they all come online in the UK at noon EVERY SINGLE DAY..... I wonder WHO could be controlling them all ???

    SITE SUPPORT HAVE REFUSED TO ANSWER ANY MORE QUESTIONS ON THE ISSUE OF FAKE PROFILES !!!!!

    So much for customer service !!!


Unfortunately, whenever you have a site that doesn't charge to be a member, you will get fakes and plenty of them. The site does work hard at removing them quickly and many members help by reporting the fakes that they find. I'm sure the more we work together, the better the outcome.


rm_NassyFox 60F
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8/31/2011 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

There are several regular members that typically respond on this blog as well as in Ryan's group. As a returning member, you already know this. Why are you asking it again?

You know that posting a question here might get you a response by other members who keep up on what is going on around here and why does it matter who answers as long as you get an answer?

Btw, that other members will respond to member questions and issues isn't going to change. If you only want Ryan to answer you, I suggest you use his email via his profile.

As someone else replied, only site staff can delete comments, but if a member hides their profile, their comments will disappear until they unhide their profile.


Spirit6669 56M
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8/31/2011 4:13 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    Unfortunately, whenever you have a site that doesn't charge to be a member, you will get fakes and plenty of them. The site does work hard at removing them quickly and many members help by reporting the fakes that they find. I'm sure the more we work together, the better the outcome.
Thanks for your comment. I completely understand that this will always be an ongoing problem. There is a group of us in the UK that endeavours to help combat the issue by giving advice on ways to spot fakes/scammers for those who don't know and also post comments on fake/scam profiles to warn people.

However in my post here I am asking a specific question about the particular group of profiles detailed in my post which are identical in nature and come online at the same time every day at the same time. There are literally hundreds of them and are being posted and controlled by a single source on a very large scale. At a certain time of day if I do a who's online search circa 70% of profiles will belong to this group.

I understand Ryan is going to make a post dedicated to the topic of fake/scam profiles shortly where it can be discussed, which is most welcome. I just thought I would post again here so others can read this is coming and we don't need to clog up other topics in the interim.

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rm_NassyFox 60F
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8/31/2011 5:19 pm

    Quoting Spirit6669:
    Thanks for your comment. I completely understand that this will always be an ongoing problem. There is a group of us in the UK that endeavours to help combat the issue by giving advice on ways to spot fakes/scammers for those who don't know and also post comments on fake/scam profiles to warn people.

    However in my post here I am asking a specific question about the particular group of profiles detailed in my post which are identical in nature and come online at the same time every day at the same time. There are literally hundreds of them and are being posted and controlled by a single source on a very large scale. At a certain time of day if I do a who's online search circa 70% of profiles will belong to this group.

    I understand Ryan is going to make a post dedicated to the topic of fake/scam profiles shortly where it can be discussed, which is most welcome. I just thought I would post again here so others can read this is coming and we don't need to clog up other topics in the interim.
The problem is with the identical type of names, is that if you delete all of those under the assumption they are all fake, you will wipe out many members who accidentally used the same format in their name. The site isn't willing to do that. While it can be used to red flad them, until they actually violate the TOU, how would the site know that it is a fake profile or not? They need to take it one at a time and watch for patterns.


Spirit6669 56M
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8/31/2011 6:17 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    The problem is with the identical type of names, is that if you delete all of those under the assumption they are all fake, you will wipe out many members who accidentally used the same format in their name. The site isn't willing to do that. While it can be used to red flad them, until they actually violate the TOU, how would the site know that it is a fake profile or not? They need to take it one at a time and watch for patterns.
But there is a huge tell tale pattern with this catergory which is that they come online at noon (UK time) every day and therefore must be controlled by a single source. It is a statistical impossibility that it is a coincidence. It is a very clearly defined and unwaveringly consistent pattern by a huge number of profiles.

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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
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9/1/2011 5:21 am

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    There are several regular members that typically respond on this blog as well as in Ryan's group. As a returning member, you already know this. Why are you asking it again?

    You know that posting a question here might get you a response by other members who keep up on what is going on around here and why does it matter who answers as long as you get an answer?

    Btw, that other members will respond to member questions and issues isn't going to change. If you only want Ryan to answer you, I suggest you use his email via his profile.

    As someone else replied, only site staff can delete comments, but if a member hides their profile, their comments will disappear until they unhide their profile.
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Nassy,
You 100% correct.
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But to just be clear in this one instance,
I do know my profile wasn't turned off.


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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
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9/1/2011 7:11 am

    Quoting Spirit6669:
    But there is a huge tell tale pattern with this catergory which is that they come online at noon (UK time) every day and therefore must be controlled by a single source. It is a statistical impossibility that it is a coincidence. It is a very clearly defined and unwaveringly consistent pattern by a huge number of profiles.
The issue of fakes was brought up in the meeting again yesterday,as it is every week.See the 'meeting minutes' for details.
It is not just a UK issue~I get the same issue as you everyday.Currently the 'new members' I see are over 95% fakes.
Ryan is working on a new post for his blog,to be posted this week.


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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
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9/1/2011 7:36 am

    Quoting  :

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Reading back through this post to find any ACTUAL questions/issues you pose to Ryan,you will find that HE has addressed them in the meeting and answers are posted in the 'meeting minutes'



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Spirit6669 56M
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9/1/2011 8:28 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    The issue of fakes was brought up in the meeting again yesterday,as it is every week.See the 'meeting minutes' for details.
    It is not just a UK issue~I get the same issue as you everyday.Currently the 'new members' I see are over 95% fakes.
    Ryan is working on a new post for his blog,to be posted this week.
Thanks Bob (I'm an FXDWG man btw). I did actually monitor the meeting yesterday. Further down this page I did mention the new post (great, exactly what is needed) and suggest the subject was left alone until it's up and running but so many people are quoting me it's kinda got lost amongst it all.

I have heard from friends from USA, Australia. New Zealand, Italy, Spain that they have the same problem. I refer only to the UK where I am sure of my facts as it is not my intention to just rant generally but to address the issue in a constructive way with specific points and evidence of patterns.

I would suggest again to folks that we hang fire briefly and await the appropriate page to continue the discussion.

I would ask people that when we do can we please keep it factual and polite, there is hell of a strength of feeling about this huge problem but we are more likely to achieve something with a sensible discussion rather than generalised ranting.

Ryan has been good enough to throw the floor open and listen to us, lets respect him for that guys.

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rm_FXSBOB3 46M
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mayday1959~~

What part of the blod description,group description And replies from Ryan in the "meeting minutes" do you not understand


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oral4metoday 44F

9/1/2011 10:08 am

Breaches of TOC were ok by community on the advise line. You ask to be constructive. Nascar advised breaches of TOC should not be reported but put down to stupidity. In your redesign you have more to worry about than bling and color. That is fun. I was seeking attension I don't think so i get more than my share of nutters now Mabe as you don't see things they don't matter. How can they be fixed if there not reported? What is the point of events such as bling comps that always accure now?

No i doubt nascar would receive 500 numbers in first emails a day. They would be reported to you? This is appropriate to your redesign not bling. I have never posted here. Twice on the advice line both are a waste of my tome. I will stick too FUN STUFF

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When we log in AsianMatchMate.com tell ua we will get laid in 3 months. AsianMatchMate.com have staff to pay, costs. We are all 18+ do you think every person here is a sexual match? I don't think so. We have TOC of use. eg sending personal infotmstion in first email ect....
I don't think you are likely to meet never mind get laid by assuming you are a sexual match for each person on AsianMatchMate.com. Emailing 'call me for a fuck on blar blar i am free between 2pm and 5pm'. I doubt you get nice replies, if you get one at all. Is the AsianMatchMate.com sales pitch an excuse for our behaviour. We are all adults here for Adult FUN. I don't think the sales pitch is designed for members to act in an immature fashion. Why not take the time to read profiles and find out about someones interests without assuming all are interested in fucking us. This way if you are not sexually compatible, you may have a lifetime friend. The sales pitch is no excuse for us to act like idiots.

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oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 3:05 pm:
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oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 3:44 pm:
Thank you hellsing133. Will you be my friend? See my group post to you sweet. 1 minute i will invite you to be my friend. I can imagine how many girls hearts you break in Mexico sweetie.

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May i use that I agree. Call me for a fuck? Thank you

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oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 10:13 pm:
Must i be honest? I am dripping wet your penis is to fuck me. Or is it to think with? The brain and the penis are two different male organs. To use your penis you should think with your brain? A female friend on here said to me today men are so dumb Mabe she said this because she was getting moron mail? I banned a group member. He had a reputation for sending moron mail. Men email us all the same emails. Its your individual try hard ways If use read profiles before sending your tried and proven waste of time sending emails i would reply Use would likely be a lovely guys away from the sales pitch of AsianMatchMate.com. If you acted how you did in your daily lives use would get your penis wet Feel free to come back for another lession on acting like a man Try it. My young friend in mexico gets a reply. Hes a cuttie. So wanna fuck call me now

oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 10:17 pm:
I am busy with BOB (Battery operated boyfriend) I missed the first part of your post.

I have a joke in my inbox Or windows mail. I might paste it. I won't spoil it now

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One of 500 of todays moron mail. No contact in first email. TOC.

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hi sexy would u like to get together & have a great day of hot sexy an all day orgasim & fun, my place is free lets play, call any time always horny Greg 0..........3

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Sex sells One of todays 500 moron emails. NO CONTACT INFORMATION IN FIRST EMAILS .As i am not an idiot ive deleted your number and handle I havn't rang for a fuck, i can't find my phone Did you really expect me to call

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These are not the winners of todays swx sells awards. It is a World wide site. I so wish i could find my phone. Mabe i can get a standy flight to Germany now Do you know the internatinal call rate. I have deleted number and name again. Should they be reported? No sex sells

It was expected they said on advice line

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wenn du lust hast melde dich einfach meine nummer 0..........2 meine email a.bourdos.de webcam geht auch

Can anyone interpret for me i only speak English. let me guess? Something like call me for a fuck?

I think many believe the advertizing Slow today 422 numbers lol

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I can delete this stupid blog now its pointless. Do as tou please you don't close the gate when the horse has bolted. Use have made your decision You can email every member about contests but not blings



oral4metoday 44F

9/2/2011 6:31 am

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    The problem is with the identical type of names, is that if you delete all of those under the assumption they are all fake, you will wipe out many members who accidentally used the same format in their name. The site isn't willing to do that. While it can be used to red flad them, until they actually violate the TOU, how would the site know that it is a fake profile or not? They need to take it one at a time and watch for patterns.
You got it. The majoriry of ppl don't even know community exsists. You keep answering the same question and responding to the same people. I alone get as many views as community.

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I just added it with a couple of blingmakers. I just read 10% of new members are testing the new site, New members jave trouble due ro the way things are explained by AsianMatchMate.com. If a blingmaker explains they keep it simple stupid.

This is the second time ive been here. How many are 10%. 10% of a day a month a year?

You are doing something wrong with so few veiws. I think ryans group will grow this week. I noticed on blingmakers profile some have. Yes post a laugh to the minority on the advice line its goes nuts from those bored Ppl go there to tease. You alwats get a bite from community. Would you like some numbers? Blingmakers help ppl because there nice. While you listen to the minority and not the majority who don't post but pay your bills you will get things right. Its no good forcing yout view. Community should not have a view. They should be listening

The same people come here because those who know its a waste of time.

I did learn one thing the blocking bug spicy on bended knee apologizing for banning you i will email you. Its is funny when individuaks get as many views emails as community. I got some numbers. I wouldn't post here if i thought my friends would read. Its my opinion. Its not political.

I am also not blaming ryan or nascar. Mabe thes lines take up all there time to 'get out there.' Its not ptactical it would be nice if Ryan picked a random member daily for a minute email asking how they were finfing AsianMatchMate.com. Obviously he can't we can

Thanks lots for the info on banning. It also worked in reverse not allowing ppl to view profiles without them knowing. SORRY spicy for not reading your paste from AsianMatchMate.com i never had time

The new design won't be as bad as we think. After reading we can still personlize inside our profiles with bling color cellpading and borders. Size changes of profiles will be worked out fast.

We find the unknown scary. If use can email every member over a contest an email would have helped. Things spread via email and there not the gacts so people naturally get upset. Your members don't want to get laid in 3 months. They want to get laid in one day we will do our best for you If you havn't got a reputation for sending moron mail, are we allowes to get naked on cam when you are tyan it mabe fun.

I will be serious. Doug makes that hars for me. do you know 'Angie'

that a private joke he gets off seeing angie in a post

Ok serious. Is there anything that can be done to stop room cams going public. PPl complain about masks. You would know people are screen recording public cams and uploading to utube. If you never knew Ryan ir may be too late

This would be helpful if you could ask your programing dept. After reading myself i don't think the new design will effect me. I was just in the tuggers room i better not say group. Some moron stating his wife was on cam c2c it was a screen recordimg! I turned mine off. He tried to tell me it was a screen recording of his wife! The girls my friend is divorced this is ludicrous. Why im asking you to check. Who cares about someone in another country seeing your face 1 off live. Well use can only ask.

we like playing games. I will bet you a monhs gold ryan i cam the same time bet i get more views. Thats a safe bet looking at your views as community. You should tourn that off we have been giggling at it.

Guys now know about the screen recording going on too. I warn them. Noone will public cam much soon. Its reducing for months. I am sorry spicy but your still not coming back. Drama is the advice line. Her post is RUBBISH. I had doug make these for her. She told me to make rhem take. She liked the attension. So the bug wasted bling time.

She can only make word bling. That is why rhe post.

Your bling is wasting my bling space i like 1 page it easier.







GatorL7 72M/71F
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9/2/2011 7:25 am

What's up with no bling for our backgrounds??? And maybe getting rid of Bling??? After it was shoved down our throat's and we all got to where we like it, now you're going to take it away??? Why not just cut everything out except our profile, with nothing on it but our stats, and just let us email each other? You want this to be like a community, but you don't want to do anything to make us want to stay. Cams don't work right and haven't for YEARS now. We keep getting promises of a fix. Where is it? The IM don't work right and hasn't for a long time. We get promised a fix. Where is it? Blogs are screwed up most of the time. Promised a fix. Where is it? I'm done. We'll keep our profile for a while, but it's not worth the trouble to try and use anything but the email, and that's not always reliable either.


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Thanks Bob (I'm an FXDWG man btw). I did actually monitor the meeting yesterday. Further down this page I did mention the new post (great, exactly what is needed) and suggest the subject was left alone until it's up and running but so many people are quoting me it's kinda got lost amongst it all.

I have heard from friends from USA, Australia. New Zealand, Italy, Spain that they have the same problem. I refer only to the UK where I am sure of my facts as it is not my intention to just rant generally but to address the issue in a constructive way with specific points and evidence of patterns.

I would suggest again to folks that we hang fire briefly and await the appropriate page to continue the discussion.

I would ask people that when we do can we please keep it factual and polite, there is hell of a strength of feeling about this huge problem but we are more likely to achieve something with a sensible discussion rather than generalised ranting.

Ryan has been good enough to throw the floor open and listen to us, lets respect him for that guys.
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Be careful dude! You're setting a bad example being all sane and what not.

If you keep that up others may follow suit and then where will all the fun be?

I think it's great you monitored the meeting yesterday, I saw you pop into the chatroom a few times. I was hoping you'd be able to stay. Did you have technical issues? The chat is tough to keep up with and pay attention at the same time. But it does get easier.

Being, and responding, in the chatroom is also the best way to make sure your concerns are addressed.

I applaud your following through. A lot of people post here with their rants and issues, some actually valid, and yet when they have the chance to actually confront Ryan directly, or post questions for the week in the Live From AsianMatchMate.com group, they pass up that opportunity.

Then they wonder why they aren't taken seriously or are given answers. They then go on and rant about members who do try to answer questions.

Thanks mate.

I only had one technical problem when my chat crashed completely but mainly I was just getting the feel of it being it was my first time. I'm not used to that type of meeting, I don't even use chat, I spend half my life in meetings and adversarial negotiation and legal proceedings but it's all face to face or video conference or via mail.

There are a group of us here who distribute information about fake/scam profiles to folks who are not 'in the know' and post comments on dodgy profiles warning people.

There is a huge resentment strongly felt by a large number of guys here about fake/scam profiles and the issue is at blood boiling point. This has been exacerbated by Site Support (spit lol) who have deleted many valid questions, well constructed and without abuse. When they have replied they invariably fail to answer the specific point posed in the question and respond with a generic answer and PR speak "we are working very hard" "we share your frustration" etc etc They state the obvious but avoid the question which is an insult to people's intelligence (and I'm not including the nutters here).

I have been asking people to put aside the experience of Site Support and start with a clean slate with Ryan who I have explained is not responsible for that department. I am further appealing to folks to put their points in a civilised manner now that we are to be given a dedicated forum to discuss the issues. Obviously I have no authority and control nothing and there will be those who rant with no focus of statement, this is understandable given the scale of the problem and the lack of effective action, people pay their money and are entitled to expect customer service.

There are many misunderstandings, for example in England many people think that everybody from Aldershot is fake, but it is the first on the list of towns in the drop down box when you register, so in addition to lazy scammers using it so do many genuine people who do not want to give their precise location for anonimity reasons.

However and again for example, we have incontravertible evidence to support the fact that there is an enormous group of fake profiles controlled by a single source which should be easily identified and eliminated. If this one group was deleted in the UK a huge percentage of the problem would be eliminated in one go and the corresponding percentage of ill feeling reduced among members.

I do not think it is valid to say that the elimination of bulk amounts of profiles may inadvertantly include one or two genuine members, all they would need to do is email the site and get reinstated, it's not the end of the world. Genuine members already have the same problem, recently a member was deleted who is very well known and has 20,000 in their network, an email and the profile was reinstated, no big deal.

These are only questions that A FF can answer, we as members can correct misnomers, but when there is a bulk of evidence behind a valid question which is well presented then I completely believe that we are entitled to be answered directly by someone from the site who has the authority to do something about it.

I hope this issue will gain support among the existing group. The problem will always exist but it is a question of numbers, at the moment the scale is crazy and it is no longer sufficient for the site to acknowledge and sympathise, drastic action is needed. In my view this is the largest single problem we have here only possibly rivalled by the behaviour of far too many male members towards women.... God knows what can be done about that one but the fake/scam issue is solvable to large degree.

I ask for your support to get behind the campaign to drastcally reduce fake profiles and push for substantive action by the site.


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9/3/2011 7:46 am

Seems like the overwhelming majority of people who comment here are in favour of keeping the option to have bling or colour as a profile background. With reguard to FAKE profiles, a good way of finding the genuine people on here is to see if they have decorated their profile background with bling or colour, as the fakes and scammers never do this.
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9/4/2011 4:43 pm

Regards to the Beta design

Simply put…. TOTALLY SUCKS in my honest opinion.

Guess I will never understand why programmers and developers always have to try doing something impressive without the thought of simplicity.

The Beta Navigational Bar is Not a User Friendly Interface Design as the current Navigational Bar is. Hell the Beta does not even have the Inbox notification as the current one does. Something that 90% of members will look at first when signing into the site will be if they have any unread emails.

Then you have under “My Stuff” Upload Photo and Upload Video with a button of Upload on the right side of the Navigational Bar. That is redundant in my opinion. Not only that…there is nothing on the Upload page for the Voice Introductions.

Next is the Instant Messenger button, a feature that has not worked properly for years with certain Web Browsers. The Web Browser Compatibility design of this site absolutely SUCKS BIG TIME. Some things work in IE and do not work with FireFox, Chrome, Safari, Opera and etc…. Example. Can view the Live Web Cams with IE….but not with FireFox. Moderators of Groups can ban a member with the link under a posting with FireFox, but not with IE. And the list goes on and on that shows nothing but the poor architectural programming and development of this site.

What is so hard about making things simplified without all the clutter??? The Beta Navigational Bar is nothing but a drop down list of clutter that takes up 25% of the page when the mouse hovers over it.

What is wrong with just having one simple hyperlink that opens a page with a corresponding navigational group instead of a drop down listing? For example everything that would be under “My Account” could all be displayed on and updated from one single page design instead of multiple pages. Makes me wonder if the Webmaster has ever heard of using hyperlink bookmarks to navigate a single webpage?

All this site has done for past couple years is play with changing the visual design of it and navigation of it. What is this, 3rd or 4th time now and without solving the bugs that the members constantly complain of?

Was a time I thought this site powers that may be would actually listen to us members. We members did not ask for a bunch of bells and whistles and different page formats and ways of navigating it. We asked for the BUGS in the System (Programming) be fixed. Instead what were given were little trinkets of new features to try diverting the members attention from the Bugs to only see them removed years later, and for some of us to have our intelligence insulted by being lied too or seeing the lies told to others when asking questions.


rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
9/5/2011 7:41 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't visit your blog and you are welcome to stay away from mine and my personal group. However, Ryan has told me he welcomes my responding where I choose to in this blog as well as other trusted members. You have received many correct answers that you simply don't like. That's the problem. YOU don't like the answers because they don't suit you in particular, but this site doesn't run just for YOU. I am going to continue to visit this blog AND comment, so if you don't want to be around me...

As for drama, you tend to create it and usually when you tear into other members. I and other members, many who also pay, will continue to respond here where we feel appropriate whether you like it or not. Again, if you want site staff ONLY to respond, either email the site directly, call the site directly, use the SiteSupport blog or email Ryan directly.

As long as you take others to task for politely answering you, I will always have something to say about it. I have no need for attention. I get more than I want or need and positive attention. You are always negative whenever I have read you. I don't look forward to reading you at all.

Now, do I need to repeat any of this AGAIN? I believe you were given all this information under your old handle.


rm_NassyFox 60F
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9/5/2011 7:44 pm

    Quoting oral4metoday:
    Breaches of TOC were ok by community on the advise line. You ask to be constructive. Nascar advised breaches of TOC should not be reported but put down to stupidity. In your redesign you have more to worry about than bling and color. That is fun. I was seeking attension I don't think so i get more than my share of nutters now Mabe as you don't see things they don't matter. How can they be fixed if there not reported? What is the point of events such as bling comps that always accure now?

    No i doubt nascar would receive 500 numbers in first emails a day. They would be reported to you? This is appropriate to your redesign not bling. I have never posted here. Twice on the advice line both are a waste of my tome. I will stick too FUN STUFF

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    What do you think?

    When we log in AsianMatchMate.com tell ua we will get laid in 3 months. AsianMatchMate.com have staff to pay, costs. We are all 18+ do you think every person here is a sexual match? I don't think so. We have TOC of use. eg sending personal infotmstion in first email ect....
    I don't think you are likely to meet never mind get laid by assuming you are a sexual match for each person on AsianMatchMate.com. Emailing 'call me for a fuck on blar blar i am free between 2pm and 5pm'. I doubt you get nice replies, if you get one at all. Is the AsianMatchMate.com sales pitch an excuse for our behaviour. We are all adults here for Adult FUN. I don't think the sales pitch is designed for members to act in an immature fashion. Why not take the time to read profiles and find out about someones interests without assuming all are interested in fucking us. This way if you are not sexually compatible, you may have a lifetime friend. The sales pitch is no excuse for us to act like idiots.

    That being said.

    Call me for a fuck i'm dripping wet!

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    Anyone who buys sales pitch is a naiive nutter.

    And this place is pretty much saturated with naiive nutters.

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    oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 3:05 pm:
    I agree. So wanna fuck?

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    oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 3:44 pm:
    Thank you hellsing133. Will you be my friend? See my group post to you sweet. 1 minute i will invite you to be my friend. I can imagine how many girls hearts you break in Mexico sweetie.

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    oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 4:53 pm:
    May i use that I agree. Call me for a fuck? Thank you

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    oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 10:13 pm:
    Must i be honest? I am dripping wet your penis is to fuck me. Or is it to think with? The brain and the penis are two different male organs. To use your penis you should think with your brain? A female friend on here said to me today men are so dumb Mabe she said this because she was getting moron mail? I banned a group member. He had a reputation for sending moron mail. Men email us all the same emails. Its your individual try hard ways If use read profiles before sending your tried and proven waste of time sending emails i would reply Use would likely be a lovely guys away from the sales pitch of AsianMatchMate.com. If you acted how you did in your daily lives use would get your penis wet Feel free to come back for another lession on acting like a man Try it. My young friend in mexico gets a reply. Hes a cuttie. So wanna fuck call me now

    oral4metoday replies on 9/1/2011 10:17 pm:
    I am busy with BOB (Battery operated boyfriend) I missed the first part of your post.

    I have a joke in my inbox Or windows mail. I might paste it. I won't spoil it now

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    oral4metoday

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    HUNTING FOR MY PHONE

    One of 500 of todays moron mail. No contact in first email. TOC.

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    hi sexy would u like to get together & have a great day of hot sexy an all day orgasim & fun, my place is free lets play, call any time always horny Greg 0..........3

    Why should I respect you if you don't read TOC

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    Sex sells One of todays 500 moron emails. NO CONTACT INFORMATION IN FIRST EMAILS .As i am not an idiot ive deleted your number and handle I havn't rang for a fuck, i can't find my phone Did you really expect me to call

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    hi sexy would u like to get together & have a great day of hot sexy an all day orgasim & fun, my place is free lets play, call any time always horny Greg 0........3

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    These are not the winners of todays swx sells awards. It is a World wide site. I so wish i could find my phone. Mabe i can get a standy flight to Germany now Do you know the internatinal call rate. I have deleted number and name again. Should they be reported? No sex sells

    It was expected they said on advice line

    I am dripping wet call me for a fuck

    [and there worried over bling

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    Aug 31, 2011 10:22 PM AEST

    wenn du lust hast melde dich einfach meine nummer 0..........2 meine email a.bourdos.de webcam geht auch

    Can anyone interpret for me i only speak English. let me guess? Something like call me for a fuck?

    I think many believe the advertizing Slow today 422 numbers lol

    oooops i left the email address. Funny site blocks personal info in a post automatically but not first emails


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rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
9/5/2011 7:51 pm

    Quoting  :

And what about all the valid members whose names also fall under this criteria? There are literally thousands already created and millions of potential names that would fit. Some names that fall into your category are my friends. I don't want them deleted nor does the site.

BTW, the site currently estimates the number of profiles it deletes every DAY to be around 5,000.

I do understand your frustration, but until an individual profile behaves like a bot, in some way, they won't delete it. They do have certain other criteria, which they will not reveal, for good reason, that allows them to determine fakery.


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
9/6/2011 2:45 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    And what about all the valid members whose names also fall under this criteria? There are literally thousands already created and millions of potential names that would fit. Some names that fall into your category are my friends. I don't want them deleted nor does the site.

    BTW, the site currently estimates the number of profiles it deletes every DAY to be around 5,000.

    I do understand your frustration, but until an individual profile behaves like a bot, in some way, they won't delete it. They do have certain other criteria, which they will not reveal, for good reason, that allows them to determine fakery.
The profiles that TruLee listed DO behave like bots. This is the point members here in the UK are trying to make!
Profiles like the ones listed in TruLee's post all seem to come online at the same time, 12 noon in the UK every single day. Its clear one source must be controlling all these profiles. Also as TruLee said, these profiles have stolen porn photos, some of the photos are even of well known celebrities, many of them can be found out with Tineye. Its clear to us paying members that the site is'nt doing all it can to prevent these FAKE and scam profiles.
If paying members can easily spot the Fakes, then why is it so hard for the staff who review all these profiles and photos, to spot them?
Many of these profiles also have geographical locations that don't make any sense, for example, profiles from Aldershot seems to be in every county in the UK, which is laughable, and another sign of bot generated profiles as Aldershot is the first location listed in the drop down menu. All the evidence speaks for itself.

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rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
9/7/2011 12:52 pm

    Quoting  :

I beg your pardon?? Are you ordering me not to comment here?? Are you telling where and when I can/cannot comment??? Watch you mouth there missy .. that can get you the title of "bully" around these here parts didn't you know????

Absolutely not. Quite the reverse. Comment or question here to your hearts content. Just quit complaining and being miserable to others that try to answer your questions even though we are not Ryan or other paid employees. If you don't want the answer from another member, IGNORE IT! and stop telling members to quit answering you. Other members may have the same or similar questions and they might appreciate the response, even if YOU don't.

I believe it is YOU telling OTHER MEMBERS, myself included, where and where not they can make a comment.

My dear, yes, I say that with every ounce of condescension, YOUR reputation precedes you. Again, I will continue to respond in this blog, as I see fit. I think you have beaten this particular horse to another dead end. AGAIN.

because when you and Ryan and others had me banned from this blog in the past ..

You are mistaken. Only people with access to log in as Community can ban you from this blog. That was not the decision or within the capability of any member here, however much we applauded the action.

So, as I said before, since you obviously didn't understand simple English last time or under your last incarnation, ignore the people answering you if you don't want them to answer, but stop dictating who gets to comment on this blog, MISSY!


rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
9/7/2011 12:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Since I am unfamiliar with the area you are referring to, are there no legitimate members with a location that you mentioned? If this is the case, why not ban that area, as they did with Ghana?


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
9/7/2011 3:46 pm

I don't think banning Aldershot, like they did with Ghana would work?
The bots would simply move onto the next geographical location in the drop down menu for the UK.
As it is, any profile from Aldershot in the UK, automatically fires up a red flag in my book!

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Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
9/7/2011 4:21 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    And what about all the valid members whose names also fall under this criteria? There are literally thousands already created and millions of potential names that would fit. Some names that fall into your category are my friends. I don't want them deleted nor does the site.

    BTW, the site currently estimates the number of profiles it deletes every DAY to be around 5,000.

    I do understand your frustration, but until an individual profile behaves like a bot, in some way, they won't delete it. They do have certain other criteria, which they will not reveal, for good reason, that allows them to determine fakery.
Speaking for the UK situation. I believe the scale of this issue with regard to this specific group of fake profiles cannot be understood until it is seen. There is a massive group of these specific profiles which at certain times make up circa 70% of female members on a who's online search. Frequently members who do a new member search are presented with 100% of this specific type of fake with the gobbledygook+2digits username. The name is not the only identical feature of these profiles, they are identical in many respects. The biggest and most obvious tell tele factor is that they come online en masse at noon (UK time) every single day. It is certain that they are controlled by a single source on a huge scale.

Given the numerical size of this one specific group it would reduce the fake problem in the UK by approximately 50% in one go if it were eliminated. This would obviously be a big step forward and go a long way to placating the huge number of irate members.

I do not think it is valid not to take this action because it may inadvertantly result in a few genuine non-paying members being temporarily switched off ( personally I have not seen any genuine members here with such usernames in the UK but for the sake of debate let's assume that a handful do exist).

All the genuine members would need to do would be to contact the site and get reinstated, it's not the end of the world. It happens to genuine members now for no apparent reason, it's a minor inconvenience but not the end of the world. To fight shy of making real progress because of the hypothetical possibility that a few people might suffer a minor irritation makes no sense. What about the inconvenience and annoyance caused to thousands of genuine members beacuse of the existence of this huge and specific group of fake profiles ? The benefits massively outweigh the small potential inconvenience to a few people which is easily rectified.

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MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2487 posts
9/7/2011 5:20 pm

Well it seems that no matter how much this site changes its appearance…there will always be drama on it.


In concern to the Fake profiles being mentioned.

It’s impossible to deem all profiles that have random digits at the end of alphas as being fake account. Many real members use digits at the end of their profile handle that are between 1 to 5 digits. Most time the digit is a birth year (2 or 4 digits), area code (3 digits in U.S.) or zip code (5 digits U.S.). However, almost all the Fake profiles do use digits at the end that are in common.

Avoiding the software generated BOTs and Fake profiles from creating an account on this site is close to impossible. However, this site here just really does not seem want to implement anything with making it more difficult for it to being done.

1-This site does not even try using CAPTCHA as a mean to slowing down the softwares that are used to generating BOTS\Fake profiles.

2- Creating a profile on this site is basically a 2 stage process to accessing the site. Stage One= Create username\handle, fill out brief self description, Submit. Stage Two= check registered email for generated password and sign in. That’s it…Profile\Account created. I tried to suggest forcing the site generated password be changed by account owner upon first signing in, along with forcing additional profile components to be updated. Once those 2 additional steps are done automatically log the account out and force the new password the account owner created to log back in and possibly use CAPTCHA in order to confuse automated software design generated profiles. But hey...that is way to complicated for the average human intelligence to doing in order having an account\profile on this site.

Those 2 reasons above in my opinion are the reasons for the high percentage of Fake profiles on this site. However, maybe there is a third reason that we members are unaware of; nor would ever be told of it.

Various, Inc. offer affiliated programs where members can make money by having co-branded web sites of this one here or use a pay-per click programs that uses Various, Inc. advertisement banners placed on other sites where the owner of the other site displaying the banner gets a percentage of membership fees of those that clicked on the banner and then signs up as a Silver\Gold\VIP membership with Various, Inc. site.

We all know Various, Inc. is only out to make money through sex. Well Various, Inc. is not the only one that offers Affiliated Programs; there are countless thousands of others. So what if Various, Inc. is capitalizing on other business websites affiliated programs or have partnerships\investments in some of them?

Of course number 3 is only a hypothetical\theoretical….and OMG we all know Various would never deceive or lie to its members; even to making more money.


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
9/8/2011 3:01 am

I agree with My Heart who I think makes some interesting and valid points and clearly has a sound technical understanding.

I would just point out that I am not advocating accross the board deletion of profiles with a two number suffix, that would be ridiculous and would catch many genuine members in the net.

If you look at the lists of profile names supplied previously by other people you will see the the alpha characters are not names or words, they make no sense at all. Real people choose their usernames and however tenuous there is some logic to them. In conjunction with other similarities and the time the profiles appear en masse they are VERY easy to spot. I assume that is not possible to execute deletion as an automated program but is very easily executed by a member of staff with a finger and a delete button who could go through them at very high speed and delete huge amounts very quickly.

If the measures were adopted to the sign up proceedure that MyHeart suggests then the future flood of new ones would by stemmed.

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rm_NassyFox 60F
37014 posts
9/12/2011 2:20 pm

    Quoting  :

You haven't impressed me yet.

By the way, if you aren't listening to me, why do you keep quoting me?

And ...

if you are going to ignore me, why do you keep talking to me?




TwiztedFantasies 60M/61F

9/22/2011 4:26 am

I think you all are missing the point... the site doesn't work beause their is too much animosity... they can change whatever it is they want and y'all still going be at each other's throughts... My goodness don't y'all get tired of repeating and hearing the same shyt time & again?

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TwiztedFantasies 60M/61F

9/22/2011 4:27 am

BTW Ryan... if you take away the background blings...you make this site just like every other blog site... BORING!!!!!

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goodtimes5872 62M

9/27/2011 9:42 am

why does itblock sites for abuse when ive never seen it,there have been a few times when i could have hooked up but yous decided to block them,why,ive yet to hook up with anyone,this site seems to be a dud


richard4fun52 71M
5 posts
9/27/2011 6:18 pm

A much better design. Old design is to cluttered.


rm_agustintin05 40M
1 post
9/28/2011 9:30 am

Excelente el nuevo diseño de la página. Ojala lo puedan poner en practica pronto


harleybbwmama 56F
88 posts
10/29/2011 8:46 am

New Design looked boring to me. Didn't like having to scroll forever to find what I was looking for on my home page and profile. People rarely take the time to read a longer profile as it is. The new design makes it even more of a chore.


JN63JPN 59F  
27439 posts
11/17/2011 7:26 pm

I just got redirected to the redesign and "Find a Hookup" is STILL THERE!

Did you not say that it's been changed to "Search"?

The blogs still look all scrunched up, no cell padding. I'm sure there are more but I've decided to log in through Passion instead of getting irritated by the redesign everytime I look at the site.

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lovetokisnsuk 73M
11626 posts
11/18/2011 2:35 am

Adding CAPTCHA would be a good start in a positive direction.


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
11/18/2011 7:00 am

The biggest problems I see so far are:

1. The "upgrade now" button is placed on top of the links to "my account" and whatever else is supposed to be in the upper right-hand corner.

2. There's no easy link to get to "my blog."

3. Cell padding is messed up in the blogs. Words appear to be almost running of the edge of the page, which makes the site look unprofessional.

4. Blog widths have been changed (on purpose?), so now I have to redesign the banner on my blog.

5. "Find a Hookup" is still there, even though you said the site had agreed to use a different term.

6. Profiles look very bare and unwelcoming without their bling backgrounds!


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
11/18/2011 7:10 am

7. In Group Posts, the Quotes use the same text size as the main post, and it's too difficult to tell which part is the quotation and which part is the real post.

8. It appeared on the old site as though paragraph breaks had been fixed, but they're all missing again on the new site design in group posts.

9. The "Recent Comments by Others" box in blogs is missing.

(I swear that these are all the exact same things we were all reporting during beta testing. How could they release the site without fixing this stuff? What was the point of us even DOING beta testing?)


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
11/18/2011 8:27 am

10. Boxes for page numbers overlap the top of the posts in groups and aren't aligned properly. At the top of the table, it looks as though too many items are left-aligned. All the text is crowded over to that one side, and it looks awkward.
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11. Some font sizes are much too small. I haven't seen anything yet that was unreadable, but I can see how people with poor vision or with a different screen resolution wouldn't be able to read most of the site.
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12. Layout of group front pages needs to be fixed so that the "visitors list" and the links to the chat room and recent/active/new topics are placed back in the tables that are one solid colour, rather than on top of the background bling where they're often unreadable.


Spirit6669 56M
2234 posts
11/18/2011 11:02 am

I don't like the new version and I have not come across one single member that is pleased with the new site design overall.... seems like a lot of effort has been expended to deliver something that nobody wants

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rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
11/18/2011 1:30 pm

13. In blogs, the date column in the "Recent Vistors" list is chopped off.


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
11/18/2011 2:23 pm

My list of errors just keeps growing, so I'm not going to even bother cluttering this blog with more posts. I will just leave my general impression of the site redesign. The only things I like are the cleaner look of the home page and the condensed navigation bar at the top of each page. Other than that, so many new glitches have been introduced, and the blogs and groups and profiles are so messed up now, that I can't see how this redesign is an improvement. I thought the design of those things were much better on the old site (with the exception of known glitches, of course).


BramStroker69 70M
69 posts
11/19/2011 1:51 am

I would post this on the Site Support Blog - but the link that used to be on the right hand of the home page has disappeared!
I can't find it in Blogs or Groups.
Where a silhouette is used instead of a member's photo (as in 'who's winked at me'), it is misplaced.
In those lists, it appears about half an entry downwards (covering the photo for the entry below).
In profiles, the 'send an email' etc red buttons overlap the silhouette.
I'm using Opera browser on a Windows XP computer.


oral4metoday 44F

11/27/2011 7:14 am

I am quoting
from your charts listed here regarding
sending contact information in first email.
You replies it was not abuse but stupidity
on the advise line.
In your charts blog that not allowed under TOC.


oral4metoday 44F

11/27/2011 7:44 am

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Yes I am aware
3 people over time have taken my photos
and created profiles.
Each time a friend has reported them
and there profile removed by AsianMatchMate.com.
As a VIP member i must have a credit card also.
You seem to have a lot to say about other members.
I suggest you worry about you!!

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I understand the below warning, this is my photo? Its been on my profile forever.


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Subject: Abuse Violation - AsianMatchMate.com - oral4metoday


Dear Member,

Thank you for being a member of our site.

It has been brought to our attention that the photo you submitted to be posted for your profile is not an actual photo of you.

This directly violates our Terms of Use (which you agreed to upon joining), and your account has been deactivated.

Please send us an email stating that you understand this warning and agree to no longer engage in posting photos which are not of you. We'll then reactivate your account within 48 hours.

Once your account has been reactivated, you may upload an actual photo of yourself, which will again be reviewed by the Photo Department for appropriateness and authenticity.

This is your official first warning. The next step will be to delete your account, without any further warning or refunds.

If you have any questions, email us at:


Sincerely,


Customer Service

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I understand the below warning, this is my photo? Its been on my profile forever.



From:
To:
Sent: Monday, 12 September 2011 2:02 PM
Subject: Abuse
Violation - AsianMatchMate.com - oral4metoday


Dear Member,


Thank you for being a member of our site.


It has been brought to our attention that the photo you submitted to be posted for your profile is not an actual photo of you.

This directly violates our Terms of Use (which you agreed to upon joining), and your account has been deactivated.


Please send us an email stating that you understand this warning and agree to no longer engage in posting photos which are not of you. We'll then reactivate your account within 48 hours.

Once your account has been reactivated, you may upload an actual photo of yourself, which will again be reviewed by the Photo Department for appropriateness and authenticity.

This is your official first warning. The next step will be to delete your account, without any further warning or refunds.


If you have any questions, email us at


Sincerely,


Customer Service


Rate our service




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oral4metoday 44F

11/27/2011 10:59 am

    Quoting  :

tittiegirl1tittiegirl1



More girls leave AsianMatchMate.com
because of idiots than any site redesign.
To quote my friend if she say no to a guy
Standard or premium shes fake.
Why M is leaving
Stop thinking your Gods gift to woman guys
you are not!

Thats what pisses girls off its all about you!





oral4metoday 44F

11/27/2011 10:31 pm

    Quoting BramStroker69:
    I would post this on the Site Support Blog - but the link that used to be on the right hand of the home page has disappeared!
    I can't find it in Blogs or Groups.
    Where a silhouette is used instead of a member's photo (as in 'who's winked at me'), it is misplaced.
    In those lists, it appears about half an entry downwards (covering the photo for the entry below).
    In profiles, the 'send an email' etc red buttons overlap the silhouette.
    I'm using Opera browser on a Windows XP computer.

Hi
You can now find the site support link
more difficult but anyway.
Click the actual COMMUNITY popup
Not blogs or groups underneath COMMUNITY
The top main COMMUNITY
Theres a link there for site support
Charts
Community ect...

sitesupport


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