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The Community Shit List  

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9406 posts
5/20/2009 4:17 pm
The Community Shit List

MyHeartLost4U
Sin633
NascarFox
_JKH_
Katt44dd
rdy2try4 (have to track down in Ghana first)
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MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2486 posts
5/20/2009 11:52 pm



Thanks bro!!!!


Ashley92577 44F
1662 posts
5/21/2009 12:20 am

That's awesome...hahahaha!!

"Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it." — Candace Bushnell

~~Ashley92577~~


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/21/2009 7:46 am

Ok, so I'm not here so much these days. Doesn't that put me on the shit list too? Do I have to wake Ramona up to get on the list?


rm_Katt44dd 63F
1015 posts
5/21/2009 2:20 pm

this is so funny Ryan is this a growing list and will it become a mountain of shit or is it a select few poops who we have grown to love and respect


_JKH_ 67M
5448 posts
5/21/2009 5:59 pm

You can add me if you want.

~ ~


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/21/2009 10:20 pm

OHHH I AM SO GOING TO GHANA NOW!! lol I will sneak away so you can't catch me....lol My name will NEVER be on the 'shitlist' copper!! roflmao

(jumps on my horse and rides out to the Hole in the Wall and hides with Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid now)


rm_Katt44dd 63F
1015 posts
5/22/2009 11:37 am

Whooo Hooo I am on the shit list

(sings) For these are my mountains and this is my glen lalala la


rm_s_e_rath 64F
744 posts
5/22/2009 7:03 pm

Please excuse but I am confused... I have always heard that you have to be a bad person or done something very wrong to be on someones shit list???



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MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2486 posts
5/23/2009 12:03 am

    Quoting rm_s_e_rath:
    Please excuse but I am confused... I have always heard that you have to be a bad person or done something very wrong to be on someones shit list???
I usually tell people they gotta to be da shit to hang with me lol


rm_denizk2 71M/66F
1046 posts
5/23/2009 3:26 am

If I go like this and coming with complaints I think we ll see our name in the list too

Mr.D


LailaLoca 60F  
2120 posts
5/23/2009 3:43 pm

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    OHHH I AM SO GOING TO GHANA NOW!! lol I will sneak away so you can't catch me....lol My name will NEVER be on the 'shitlist' copper!! roflmao

    (jumps on my horse and rides out to the Hole in the Wall and hides with Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid now)
You'll fit right in there with all the tall, white, blonde haired, blue eyed models who live there! They are super friendly too!


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/23/2009 5:14 pm

Laila....ROFLMAO (now shuffles the dirt so no tracks can be found behind me)


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/25/2009 8:27 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    Laila....ROFLMAO (now shuffles the dirt so no tracks can be found behind me)
Come on Rdy! You know you aren't really in Ghana unless you create at least 20 new profiles per day and ask for Visa, hospital, or schooling money!


rm_denizk2 71M/66F
1046 posts
5/25/2009 3:30 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    Come on Rdy! You know you aren't really in Ghana unless you create at least 20 new profiles per day and ask for Visa, hospital, or schooling money!
Nascar do you advise to create 20 new profiles oh sorry I dont have that much time.I am busy with work and with the site but still can I ask master card
Still dont understand these sorry Nascar I think I have a bone head on these matters

Mr.D


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/25/2009 4:37 pm

    Quoting rm_denizk2:
    Nascar do you advise to create 20 new profiles oh sorry I dont have that much time.I am busy with work and with the site but still can I ask master card
    Still dont understand these sorry Nascar I think I have a bone head on these matters

    Mr.D
My darling Mr. D, of course I do not advocate such behavior. I just think Rdy is hiding somewhere else and wanting us to think she's in Ghana.

Perhaps we need to start a "Where's Waldo?" type search for Rdy.

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rm_Katt44dd 63F
1015 posts
5/25/2009 5:32 pm

Where's Waldo ohh I love it Nassy


rm_denizk2 71M/66F
1046 posts
5/26/2009 10:07 am

Love it Dear Nascar Where is Waldo?I hope not in the site anymore

Mr.D


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/27/2009 7:33 am

NASCAR... OMG.. YOU GOT A PIC OF ME THERE!! Shit, and I thought my sunglasses would keep me incognito!!! RUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN hahahaha

(putting on new shades and a wig now.. going for profile #21)


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/27/2009 12:31 pm

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    NASCAR... OMG.. YOU GOT A PIC OF ME THERE!! Shit, and I thought my sunglasses would keep me incognito!!! RUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN hahahaha

    (putting on new shades and a wig now.. going for profile #21)
I just stumbled onto this bling. I swear, I just found it now.






rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/27/2009 10:31 pm

NASCAR.. now now.. no getting photos from the Post Office!! They told me that they removed that photo of me!! I spent good money on the surgery to change that look too...lol of course ALL donated to me by my adoring men. I even used part of it to go to classes to learn how to do my hair different...rofl.

Gosh, and the glasses and a tie worked so well for Clark Kent.

(back on the run..... ghana paths are a bit difficult, but I have natives to help me through)


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/28/2009 12:08 pm

Be very careful Rdy. If those guys from India catch you, you'll be married before you blink. However, they'll probably leave you alone as they'd be off to the US with their new green cards!


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/29/2009 7:57 am

NASCAR... I have now watched "After the Fox" with Peter Sellers... and have now donned my Sari and a dot myself. Walking around saying "namastee" and just taking their money.. as the plot is planned here.. I am checking out what school I wish to go to next...

Nothing compares to my beaches in Ghana though!!! mmmmmmmm boyyyyyyy


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/29/2009 9:30 am

Oh Ryan, you naughty man! You put up a bling you don't own! Tsk Tsk!
Or did you want the circle/slashed icon showing?


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
6/1/2009 6:42 pm

    Quoting community:
    Yeah, what the hell did I do wrong? I wanted that "where's waldo" bling that you put up on the first page. So I quoted your message to find the bling number, then tried to post the bling on my own.

    So I need to go to your page, find the waldo bling, get it, then I can use it? And at that time it gets a new Bling number.

    Right?
When you want a bling, simply click on it and it will take you to the bling makers profile. If it is available for purchase or free to take, it will say "take" under the bling. If it is not there or the word "take" is not there, then you must ask the bling maker to gift it to you.

The bling was made by howsitgoiing and you should check out the awesome bling displayed not only in his bling manager, but his entire profile page. That's some serious blinging going on there.

When you "take" for free {charged no points}, it will simply make the blue hyperlink turn black. It should now be in your manager. If you have to pay points, a small window will open telling you how many points to purchase and you can agree or not. If you agree, your page will refresh to your manager and you will see all your bling there including your new purchase.

The bling number remains the same regardless of who uses it. It will only show as the actual bling if you have taken, purchased or accepted it as a gift and it made it into your manager at some point. If you use a bling you don't "own" by one of these means or by making it yourself, it will show as the red circle/slash.

By the way, the easy way to add bling to your comments or posts is to use the toolbar and click on the . A new window will open and you can click on whichever bling you want to use and it will be placed wherever your mouse cursor was sitting. Some browsers automatically place the bling at the end of whatever you had been typing, so be aware.

I think this pretty much covers how to take or use a bling. Any questions, grasshopper?


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/1/2009 7:11 pm

    Quoting rm_s_e_rath:
    Please excuse but I am confused... I have always heard that you have to be a bad person or done something very wrong to be on someones shit list???

That's the way it is where I live!
If you make the shit list Run/Hide
And wear a disguise if you Must go
out!
You're usually one step from the grave.


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rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
6/1/2009 7:22 pm

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:

    That's the way it is where I live!
    If you make the shit list Run/Hide
    And wear a disguise if you Must go
    out!
    You're usually one step from the grave.
Sure, in the rest of the world. Just remember where you are. Sometimes, things are backwards here. Especially when you are talking about fixing problems.

Think about it.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/1/2009 9:52 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    Sure, in the rest of the world. Just remember where you are. Sometimes, things are backwards here. Especially when you are talking about fixing problems.

    Think about it.

Like I should give a shit!


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rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
6/1/2009 10:08 pm

I saw that Ryan!


MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2486 posts
6/2/2009 7:28 pm

How does one add themselves to an exclusive "shit list" they created

Well at least we all are in good company...Welcome Ryan to your own Shit...List...


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
6/2/2009 7:46 pm

    Quoting MyHeartLost4U:
    How does one add themselves to an exclusive "shit list" they created

    Well at least we all are in good company...Welcome Ryan to your own Shit...List...
Geez Nick. First you hit "edit post". Then you add [member community] to the post area, and then hit "update".



Oops! Since I'm being a smart ass, does this mean I'm in for a spanking?


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
6/11/2009 10:19 am

OMG.. I GOT AN EMAIL FROM GHANA!!!! SERIOUSLY!!! VIP MEMBER AND ALL!!!

I guess they are missing me and want me to come home!!!


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
6/11/2009 8:48 pm

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    OMG.. I GOT AN EMAIL FROM GHANA!!!! SERIOUSLY!!! VIP MEMBER AND ALL!!!

    I guess they are missing me and want me to come home!!!
*raises eyebrow, folds arms and taps toe*

I thought you said you were in Ghana! Aha! I knew it! You've been found out!


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
6/12/2009 8:54 am

NASCAR...lol remember... I went to India with my sari and dot on my forehead...rofl No one can tell I am blond with that scarf over my hair and all. lolol Come on, grab an elephant and let's go for an afternoon ride honey.


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/14/2009 6:00 am

Seems abuse is anything where a member disagrees......about fake profiles ect...AsianMatchMate.com create a blog regarding kudous, ppl go crazy and they are banned for venting a view, which was the intention of the blog to start with. So AsianMatchMate.com created hatred, and members are punished for not picking on 'the tall poppy', like the rest. Well done AsianMatchMate.com. You cause the problem, mabe think before you create a blog and the conflict it will cause!!!

Ian


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/14/2009 4:22 pm

So how do i cut emails and post here from strangers? Is it fair 1 person is attacked, by 2 jelous people. Is abuse not making false asumptions, calling people cheats....why should i report "you owe me kudous", and an attack on a friend. You started the blog AsianMatchMate.com. Though the attack is not on me, abuse is abuse. To send fake pictures of a long time paying member, call them many names, is WRONG. Wonder how many others received these types of emails during your blog. If a person is being abused like this, via email and AsianMatchMate.com started the rubbish you fix it. Don't try and punish others for a mistake you made. If you were fair, email me and i will supply you the emails. The least you owe is an apology to this member given the nature of the emails.

Looks like AsianMatchMate.com only want the site to become USA, What is seen as abuse in the USA is the only way some people can communicate in English. It is a very large world!!!!!

Bet you don't post the emails.

Ian


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/14/2009 4:48 pm

    Quoting chat2me692:
    So how do i cut emails and post here from strangers? Is it fair 1 person is attacked, by 2 jelous people. Is abuse not making false asumptions, calling people cheats....why should i report "you owe me kudous", and an attack on a friend. You started the blog AsianMatchMate.com. Though the attack is not on me, abuse is abuse. To send fake pictures of a long time paying member, call them many names, is WRONG. Wonder how many others received these types of emails during your blog. If a person is being abused like this, via email and AsianMatchMate.com started the rubbish you fix it. Don't try and punish others for a mistake you made. If you were fair, email me and i will supply you the emails. The least you owe is an apology to this member given the nature of the emails.

    Looks like AsianMatchMate.com only want the site to become USA, What is seen as abuse in the USA is the only way some people can communicate in English. It is a very large world!!!!!

    Bet you don't post the emails.

    Ian
This would not be the place to report abuse. You can do so here [post 1923324] or use the HELP link located on every page of this site.

For future reference, screens shots are preferred over copy & paste, according to what the Abuse Dept has said.


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/14/2009 6:26 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    This would not be the place to report abuse. You can do so here [post 1923324] or use the HELP link located on every page of this site.

    For future reference, screens shots are preferred over copy & paste, according to what the Abuse Dept has said.
What your abuse dept. sees as abuse others may not. Why can't all read the emails. Oh where is the correct place to post....the emails i received had comments posted in the blog. Oh how can ppl outside the USA call AsianMatchMate.com, be placed on hold and afford the call charges? Again are we treated as equals on AsianMatchMate.com, if your English is not good ect..

Oh it may be an idea to correct the VIP ad. You can only get the free t/shirt once, not every time you pay for VIP.

2. Again in the past you would email for these benifits now you must call. Who will make an international call for a t/shirt.

It is not clear in your VIP ad. I am told by my USA friends who email home, America prides itself on 'freedom of speech', it is the "American way".

Is this true or only if you live in the USA.

Another second class member.


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/15/2009 12:42 am

I use wireless i recently asked Tech support, as i am VIP and have a long time gold, why do i receive a page to turn on auto renew. Ads for Alt, hotbox. I can't get unlimited in OZ for wireless as i explained. I have a 10 kb a month data limit. I need some to access my work email.

My answer from tech. support. "What is a Mb". Its in my home email. Mabe we speak Kangaroo.......btw .... Mb = megabyte. How i log onto to AsianMatchMate.com, using my ISP provider to access the WWW. What is going on here. I pay for VIP, not on profile..............all night no reply from billing, yet its on my billing history! No offer to extend, i won't pay VIP AGAIN. That you can bank on.

OMG.


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/15/2009 1:45 am

    Quoting  :

Because you are a lovely person and HAVE A HOT ASS! xx


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/20/2009 10:45 pm

Did you look into the 3 profiles with the same confirm id Ryan? Same pictures and how a new profile is created with the same confirm id and kudous after 5 warnings and lifetime ban from all AsianMatchMate.com sites? Was simple to check, as i said i understand as a paid member allowing the new profile. But the same kudous, come now....what was done?


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
9/21/2009 1:41 am

Voted on another profile, good. More facts that can't be denied. How many do people need? I struggle with 1. What more proof do you need AsianMatchMate.com. Well ive now reported to the abuse Dept, mentioning these and more profiles with the same confirm id. Surely this abuse must end Ryan?


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
10/2/2009 6:07 am

Ryan is blue_sundown or blue_showdown or sexusforfun2 or the silver and standard profiles? Can i have so many banned profiles? Can i use the same confirm id/pics and pay with points. Where is the abuse dept. simple to check these facts!

BE FAIR TO ALL, Its silly.

Ian


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
10/2/2009 7:18 am

For the first time in nearly 3 years, I'm considering turning on my content filter.


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
10/2/2009 8:29 am

NASCAR.. I agree all the way from Ghana.


chat2me692 52M
225 posts
10/13/2009 8:25 am

So as we disagree, delete kudous. Makes me happy. Im not VIP now, mabe we can pay for many profiles, as long as AsianMatchMate.com get the $$$$$$$$$$$$ seems the REAL POINT. NO HIGHLIGHT, NO GIFTS........Ppl are sick of it.


NASTY12000 59M

10/22/2009 10:01 am

WHY DO THE HOTTEST MEMBERS VIDEO HAVE THE SAME PERSON OVER AND OVER IN SEVERAL CLIPS EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT DOING ANY THING


wannagetlaidnow1 43F

10/23/2009 4:01 am

I am deleting my profile. I suggest all premium/ Vip members do not pay. The abuse dept. has gone crazy deleting premium profiles, look at the Spanish ladies abused constantly, by the same member. This site will TAKE YOUR MONEY, without warning or refund. I advise all not to pay, or only monthly. I am new not stupid, the site is a scam ..... if a lady is abused, simple block them. It can't happen then. All complaints, delete paid profiles. There is ONLY 1 SHIT LIST AsianMatchMate.com, take your MONEY and run.

Stick with sites in your own country, you can then call. AsianMatchMate.com are a rip off only interested in MONEY.


abitofromanceme 49F

10/23/2009 4:17 am

Do not put erotic pics on, the site allows them to be stolen.

Belinda


Apache87 63M

10/24/2009 11:23 pm

    Quoting wannagetlaidnow1:
    I am deleting my profile. I suggest all premium/ Vip members do not pay. The abuse dept. has gone crazy deleting premium profiles, look at the Spanish ladies abused constantly, by the same member. This site will TAKE YOUR MONEY, without warning or refund. I advise all not to pay, or only monthly. I am new not stupid, the site is a scam ..... if a lady is abused, simple block them. It can't happen then. All complaints, delete paid profiles. There is ONLY 1 SHIT LIST AsianMatchMate.com, take your MONEY and run.

    Stick with sites in your own country, you can then call. AsianMatchMate.com are a rip off only interested in MONEY.
You can communicate via IM or chatrooms.......the rest is very difficult.


ftck4 57M

12/11/2009 10:01 pm

Meeeeowwwww,,,,


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
1/26/2010 9:19 am

    Quoting freedombelina:
    i have nothen but clear on my profile. that wasnt good enough. i get more hate mail because im not here to be abused. if they took the time to read. maybe they would get less rejection and more one on one reaction. i am not going to stand for some jackass writing me and spiting hate at me. AsianMatchMate.com has helpede me more than once. and i have done my share of hateful reply's. look if u dont like it. dont write it. if you put you shit out there. someone is not going to like it or they will.....now thay i have found this....every time someone sends me hate mail i think i willo post it here. then you can decide what AsianMatchMate.com should do about it.
If you name a handle in the blogs it can be reported for abuse. I don't recommend it. Ryan aka Community is not in the abuse dept so I suggest you continue to report hate mail directly to the abuse dept for appropriate action.


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
1/26/2010 11:15 am

I think the number of "hate" messages IS growing and the number of people NOT reading profiles is growing, due in part to the "guarantee" to get laid and the sign saying "sex starved sluts" on the door. Many have complained about those that belong on the "community shit list" due to the abusive behavior and there is no way of knowing WHO will be the jerk to send it, especially unsolicited. They see those things and automatically lose all respect for those on there.. thank Goodness it is not ALL.. but it is way too many on here.

We are NOT all here to screw anyone and everyone, and unfortunately many don't see it that way.


shedevil3006 56F
198 posts
2/21/2010 4:52 pm

I suggest the site IMPROVE the features it has instead of adding uselss ones, like the alert tool bar at the bottom of the page C'mom
so useless.. I want to see the featured ability to delete individual winks/hotlist.. I still get these 2 assholes hotlisting me, when I have told them and blocked them from any contact.. but they are still there.. its like they cant let go..
shit we never even meet


slutwife4u2use 49M/49F
10 posts
3/1/2010 9:12 am

WOW! the only SHIT LIST i have been on in quite awhile have been the tail end of a few trains after my ass was left gaping and dripping what all the guys shot in it!!!!
I have never gotten hate mail here... and in chat we just work it out....it would be nice to get some hate mail knowing that some members would be enraged enough to track me down and HATE FUCK ME! (i know i am sick, but i love a good angry fuck session) but in america i can do that! o well maybe after some read this, they will!


grower98 61M

3/18/2010 9:31 pm

sick and tired of all the spammers from ghana....cancelling my membership


Urnastyfix 55M
2 posts
4/17/2010 12:03 pm

Being a single male, I've finally found a home for my "leper" status. THANK GOD! Now, I can always come here to (AsianMatchMate.com) & find useless flirts from the other side of the globe...

Being single, I get to come here to be discriminated against by "couples", by either paying a "pimp" fee, or I can automatically be "disqualified" in the arena of swinger parties.

PAY-PAY-PAY. Yesterday, I had a user ask me to send money to her mama in the Phillipines FIRST...THEN we could meet. I declined.

Another bait & switch.

Single women here, the good lookin' ones anyway, are all promoting some bull$hit cam site...
Couples here, are really guys looking for another hole to fill under the guise of providing a
playmate for his bitch.

Everyone else is afraid to actually meet.

Now, I must go put my nuts in a blender for some REAL stimulation!

Shitlist? Good job!

No toilet can properly operate without it...as I'm ready to flush twice...It's a long way to AsianMatchMate.com corporate HQ!


sunog22 64M

4/18/2010 12:01 pm

I always thought that calling members out by name was a no no,even ib blogs,looks like I was wrong


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
4/19/2010 10:20 am

    Quoting sunog22:
    I always thought that calling members out by name was a no no,even ib blogs,looks like I was wrong
Ryan has my permission.

Read back in the comments and you will find that all of us on the list have given our permission. If not directly here, then at least in other areas.

Besides, what are they going to do? Ban his blog?

It is not against the TOU to use another member's handle, btw. Just be prepared to have the comment or post deleted if they don't like it and if it is found to be harassing in any way, you can be banned.


sunog22 64M

4/26/2010 2:42 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    Ryan has my permission.

    Read back in the comments and you will find that all of us on the list have given our permission. If not directly here, then at least in other areas.

    Besides, what are they going to do? Ban his blog?

    It is not against the TOU to use another member's handle, btw. Just be prepared to have the comment or post deleted if they don't like it and if it is found to be harassing in any way, you can be banned.
I stand corrected regarding the use of another members handle being a TOU violation,butg I still don't think name calling is cool,whether the person that is being called names approves or not.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/3/2010 11:35 am

    Quoting Urnastyfix:
    Being a single male, I've finally found a home for my "leper" status. THANK GOD! Now, I can always come here to (AsianMatchMate.com) & find useless flirts from the other side of the globe...

    Being single, I get to come here to be discriminated against by "couples", by either paying a "pimp" fee, or I can automatically be "disqualified" in the arena of swinger parties.

    PAY-PAY-PAY. Yesterday, I had a user ask me to send money to her mama in the Phillipines FIRST...THEN we could meet. I declined.

    Another bait & switch.

    Single women here, the good lookin' ones anyway, are all promoting some bull$hit cam site...
    Couples here, are really guys looking for another hole to fill under the guise of providing a
    playmate for his bitch.

    Everyone else is afraid to actually meet.

    Now, I must go put my nuts in a blender for some REAL stimulation!

    Shitlist? Good job!

    No toilet can properly operate without it...as I'm ready to flush twice...It's a long way to AsianMatchMate.com corporate HQ!
While I agree with the majority of your comment, and as Domino said, sad, but I feel there is a slight insult in there to the remaining single women on this site that aren't scammers and are looking to meet single men. By your logic, we aren't attractive enough to be worthy of consideration. I know you aren't the only one that feels this way.

Some men wonder why their attitudes are a part of the problem here?


kabe 59M/F

8/31/2010 11:21 am

Ok...someone help me here a minute? I am good looking man...have always had success with the ladies...but my question is...why so many women seeking only a pic? Once sent...often never hear from them again...or many say..I look just like their uncle? Whats up wiht this...I dont understand why they want the picS ?


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
8/31/2010 2:50 pm

    Quoting kabe:
    Ok...someone help me here a minute? I am good looking man...have always had success with the ladies...but my question is...why so many women seeking only a pic? Once sent...often never hear from them again...or many say..I look just like their uncle? Whats up wiht this...I dont understand why they want the picS ?
I will email this answer to him also folks.. but MY answer is this..

Women want pics because no matter who or how many 'before' have said you are 'good looking'.. WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT and no matter how much you think sex is just about genitals.. or personality.. LOOKS DO COUNT!! It is not everything, it is not the end all.. but it DOES count. You can have the nicest personality but if you look like Quasimodo 'many' women are not going to have sex with you. If you remind them of someone they dislike (same for both sexes on this one) they are MAY NOT going to go out with you. By the SAME right.. you can be gorgeous and be total ARSEHOLE..and they won't go out with you.

LOOKS are the FIRST contact between people. NO ONE goes into a bar and finds the ugliest person and hopes they have 'personality'. I am going to bet you are not contacting women you do not find 'appealing' now are you???

BUT ALSO KEEP IN MIND.. the people asking you for pics may NOT be women!!! You have no clue who it is on the other end and there ARE pic collectors and fakes on this site. There ARE gay men and straight men both that pose as women to get either pics or to earn the ability to look at profiles.

But I honestly am NOT going to 'meet' with anyone I have absolutely NO CLUE what you look like and be left sitting in a restaurant all alone wondering what exactly is going to land at MY table.


rm_59krazykat 72F
130 posts
9/1/2010 4:44 pm

WHAT IN H-E-double-L IS HAPPENING HERE??? No COLOR, NO BLING TO SHARE FROM EMAILS, NO SPELL CHECK, NO PREVIEW AND THE SMILEY'S ARE FROZEN... REVAMPING AGAIN? HEY, WHAT GIVES, YA'LL???

I am who I am, It is what it is, and if you don't like me, or what I post, well...THAT is not MY problem.


rm_59krazykat 72F
130 posts
9/1/2010 8:48 pm

Check out Some personal opinions andor personal observations on my blog (and read the comment, too. It was written by a very close friend of mine -- the comment, I mean).
I think you might find that you are not alone. **And to 'kabe', maybe you just don't look exactly like what she's looking for...**

I am who I am, It is what it is, and if you don't like me, or what I post, well...THAT is not MY problem.


letsgetitslick 61M/67F

9/24/2010 11:09 am

I am new to AsianMatchMate.com and really appreciate the honesty of some of the people. There are jerks though who don't read that happens everywhere. I have always responded that is not what I am looking for and happy hunting to them and get good responses back. It takes alittle kindness to get some back I say. So to all of you Happy Hunting. However please beware of the scams from the Philipines I was one of the unlucky few, shame on me but please take heed.
Also AsianMatchMate.com should not post recent new members that have not been on for three months, I check everyday and thats what matters I am really looking, people that haven't been on in 3 months were either lucky or just a whim.


boinkinyou 45M  
43 posts
11/13/2010 5:48 am

WHAT THE HELL...This site is going downhill really fast. I have met some really nice people but, there are so many fake profiles. Current stats in the past month: Hotlisted 32 times and 30 of those profiles were fakes, flirted with well over 150 times and only 10 were real profiles. This is not what I signed up for.


sphxdiver 72M
21063 posts
12/7/2010 8:47 am

    Quoting boinkinyou:
    WHAT THE HELL...This site is going downhill really fast. I have met some really nice people but, there are so many fake profiles. Current stats in the past month: Hotlisted 32 times and 30 of those profiles were fakes, flirted with well over 150 times and only 10 were real profiles. This is not what I signed up for.
Don't feel like the Lone Ranger, I've gotten more flirts than I can almost count, all fakes, from Ghana scammers to just the last two days about ten from the Philipines, Its nice to get the flirts but I agree their not real, all are 25 to 35 years old, and not the age I'm looking for. I report alot of them but they spring board up with new profiles more often than you change your socks.


lickmelightly 40F  
411 posts
12/15/2010 6:48 am

I was just bored and browsing and came along this post. Nassy I so agree with what you've said.
I've been on this site for over 5yrs on and off. Ive had pics up changed them and always depending on what they were the emails would either be more or less. Some would perhaps be just rude. And when I didnt have a picture emails seem to be less.
When I was a paying member and I had photos in an album and they could only see being in my network my network grew and never heard from a lot of them but always knew my pics were being looked at by the number views. So they got deleted. A lot of guys are picture collecting so Ive learned to be careful.

Always be yourself


Size18Feet4 64M

3/1/2011 11:20 am

How to deal with someone from Ghana....make a reference to the World Cup soccer tournament:

"Gyan To Take The Penalty.....He Shoots, HE SUCKS !
.
"Osama Bin Laden was arrested in Ghana and given the death penalty. Unfortunately, Mensah took the kick."
.
Then for good measure, throw in the first two lines of Uruguay's national anthem.
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"Orientales, la patria o la tumba!
Libertad o con gloria murir!

(Easterners, the country or the tomb! Liberty or die with glory!)


rm_vwspacey 51F
62 posts
3/14/2011 10:33 pm

Don't you think that who & how you are as a person effects who contacts you?
Me i've been genuine & honest on here, showing face pic & no porn pics since 'day1', yes there's your idiots that are full of it! Anything to get to fuck you!{Pretty normal for a man on or off the net!} But on the whole i've had a good response & from some nice blokes!
Duno, hasn't been the case much in my life but on these sites{I am a member on other sites too}it seems to be a case of 'You get Out of it what You put In to it.
Mind you alot of things about cyber life are better than in the Real Life/World, in my opinion!!
XX XX


X X VW XX


rm_vwspacey 51F
62 posts
3/14/2011 10:41 pm

Oh BTW the comment under this one hopefully? Was a comment as to what 'kabe' had written in his comment? LMVSFAO Sorry should have put this in the original post but clean forgot!!
I am Blonde so cut me a bit of slack eh?LOL
Cheers
XX XX


X X VW XX


BramStroker69 69M
69 posts
4/25/2011 2:36 am

I've been getting winks from 'members' with "Milley" somewhere in the name - and a 3 digit number at the end.
Two or tree of them a day, with that number increasing by 1 each time.
Most of them inactive within an hour of the wink being flashed at me. Thanks, AsianMatchMate.com, for switching them off so quickly.
But --- Couldn't you recognise the Computer IP number these come from and block any further applications to join from these spambot machines???

These fake profiles are a nuisance to real people who can recoginse that it's a con.
But there will be some genuine members who fall for their false flattery and part with their money.


JBond007mi6 60M

5/21/2011 3:27 pm

This site is a fraud...It is complicit in misleading information, untrue identities, and if you call them on the phone to tell them so, and ask for your money to be refunded, they hang up on you!!!
Save your money, time and don't enrich them!!! It's a scam.


adventourous4fun 39M

7/5/2011 3:38 am

I have been trying to clean and clear my handle off of this site and google searches and I am wondering will they ever take hold and associated sites remove my handle name permanently off or am I forever cursed with this?


Maggiemaebe 63M/62F
2 posts
8/28/2011 7:58 pm

I guess I have more of a question than a blog comment. What is the protocol for no shows? I read earlier, here, that 3rd time is out. I would agree with that. I don't really want to name names or comment on the profile... but women should be warned that this man is a poser. Is there a proper and polite way to deal with this?


hard222swallow 50M
894 posts
11/18/2011 4:24 pm

The new format is crap. It's difficult to navigate, the organization sucks, and it looks like a brand new web designer got it out of a cookie-cutter template maker. I hate it. I won't be renewing my gold membership if it is the same in February. Please change it back.


laverock 59M

1/5/2012 5:50 am

Being new to this and in need like many, for discretion, I am concerned about members who themselves don't have any kind of picture but offer to trade pics (ostensively to see if it's a good match) but never produce. I wish that there was a list of these members who routinely do this, as repoted by others. I haven't even got to the "no show" stage but this would piss me off too and I'd like to be able to review a user "citizenship" profile, I guess prior to investing my time and trust in a dialog.


2serenitynow 57M/56F
7029 posts
5/23/2012 4:50 am

Apparently you may have started a new site called "Fuck A Slut" and filled it with the profiles of women from here? If there is any truth to this I certainly dont want my profile on that degrading site and ask that it is immediately removed from that site!

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sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
5/23/2012 6:50 am

Please get my profile off affiliated sites such as "fuck a slut" and "my secret slut"

I know I agreed to the TOU when I signed up but I feel very strongly that having my profile, photos and blogs on sites inferring that I am a slut is nothing short of libel!


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


lindaluvlos 51T

7/20/2012 2:12 am

really sounds bad just want back on tranny personals

badgirl


PORN4FREEE3 39M
2 posts
2/17/2013 5:19 pm

I think you should get at least 50perc of the earnings. If you file with the BBB you will get more. Get them back with taking there money because men or women like that laugh at symphathy.


DEERCOY 69M/73F
23 posts
3/25/2013 12:25 am

Fake profiles area dime a dozen I receive winks,flirts,hotlistsed, every day~~ Young--20-25- Montana girls?? I live in Montana, have all my life, & these "hungry" gals are from towns with 150 population?? classy?? always with 'A' breasts, 5'7" tall "Give me a hit so we can meet" BS~~ AsianMatchMate.com~~ PLEASE GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER!! This is suppose to be a 'SECURE' site for ADULTS~~ Being run by ---WHO??? It's going DOWN HILL FAST!!! thanks


Chantilly7 76F
4 posts
4/1/2013 10:13 am

[Post1947155]
Been on this site for years,(standard member) now all of a sudden when I reply to a message sent to me, the site doesn't send my reply, just pops the "up grade" page and that's it! what's with that? really pisses me off!


lookatu2day 72F
47 posts
4/1/2013 2:30 pm

I just wish that stupid banner about your upcoming changes would go away...
CHANGE IS NOT GOOD!!!!
I HATE THE CHANGES YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE AND REALLY HOPE THAT YOU WOULD CHANGE IT BACK TO WHAT IT WAS BEFORE BECAUSE IT MADE SENSE THEN AND IT DOESN'T NOW!!!! I HATE, HATE, HATE YOUR NEW MESSAGE CENTER! IT SUCKS BIG TIME AND THERE ARE JUST TOO MANY THINGS WRONG WITH IT NOW, WHEREAS THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE OLD MESSAGE CENTER! I have no reasonable idea why you made the change to begin with!!!
What you need to fix is the updates on the profiles. The updates on what is going on is old. If I accept a new friend or if somebody accepts my invite, that is what I want to show up as well as if I get new emails. What gives you the right to limit how many messages I can see at one time? That is one thing that really pisses me off bout your "improvement", how is it an "improvement"???? It isn't an "improvement", it is a fuck up!!! Fuck all your "improvements", because I don't see any benefits, just limitations with your "improvements"!

CHANGE IS NOT GOOD!!!!


rm_AugustaPoker 51M
14 posts
5/2/2013 4:26 pm

I like the new layout of the profiles ... BUT .... it has lost some functionality.

On the profile, you no longer have the "On IMC" and "View Webcam" icons.

This is a hugh oversight or I hope that it is only an oversight. I am tired of AsianMatchMate.com removing functionality everytime it upgrades.


rm_AugustaPoker 51M
14 posts
5/19/2013 7:20 am

I hate it that AsianMatchMate.com keeps on removing functionality off of the website. These are the ones that I know of, so this is not an exclusive list:
No IMC status on a person's profile.
No Webcam status on a person's profile.
The length of a video is no long listed in the icon.
Cannot search on the length of a video.
Cannot search on the ethenticiy of a video.
There is others, just cannot remember them ATM.

I have Emailed AsianMatchMate.com on this before and never recieved a real response. I received the normal canned response we will look into this.

Please can AsianMatchMate.com respond on why they have to remove functionality when it works.

Thanks.


anastasia666 43F
2229 posts
5/20/2013 2:48 am

    Quoting rm_AugustaPoker:
    I hate it that AsianMatchMate.com keeps on removing functionality off of the website. These are the ones that I know of, so this is not an exclusive list:
    No IMC status on a person's profile.
    No Webcam status on a person's profile.
    The length of a video is no long listed in the icon.
    Cannot search on the length of a video.
    Cannot search on the ethenticiy of a video.
    There is others, just cannot remember them ATM.

    I have Emailed AsianMatchMate.com on this before and never recieved a real response. I received the normal canned response we will look into this.

    Please can AsianMatchMate.com respond on why they have to remove functionality when it works.

    Thanks.
Hello, The Tech dept is working on putting the IMC/Cam/Chatting status back on member's profile page. It will be back soon. Hope this helps, Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


foxeyatfifty 65F

7/5/2013 3:32 pm

Since this is called the " Community shit list " I think by now you would have the technology to remove a members question, immediately when profile deleted. To give room for some sensible question or just some humorous one. Some days the whole advice line is full of profiles that have been removed or deleted.

Have a great horny day LUV


rm_Llalbert36 45M
1 post
8/11/2013 2:31 am

hey members, i just wanted share with the community. I have been a loyal member since 2002 and have been successful with making acquaintances with men and women all through out the country. Recently, i was approached by to men to meet on continuous days. Something was fishy,one man was removed from site and both men had recently joined. After the day progressed and events came to pass, I concluded that they were law enforcement. I have no idea why involve me i sting operation, i meet people to explore my sexual nature and it is no way business. I am writing this out of concern for my fellow members, be careful and do a little research on others. It is disappointing to know that the law has invaded our site for their advantage. Remain safe, Lee


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
10/7/2013 7:40 pm

The women in the south chatroom. They turn on women who are thinner than them and are mean and nasty when confronted. I think elementary school is long past by the time they come here. I left that chat group as they ostracized a friend of mine and I couldn't sit by and watch it anymore.

Tangie247


rm_AugustaPoker 51M
14 posts
12/3/2013 4:36 pm

Good gawd, these new friends network and hotlists are terrible!! Where is the requests pending and denied list? Why am I not able to sort by distance anymore? No more direct page links nor a quick way to go to the end of the list?

I used to be able to sort the hotlist by last visited and the inactives were at the end. Select all and delete. Now I cannot do that. I have to load up 20 at a time and go through the list.

Sorting my friends by distance is a joke. I live in Georgia and the first 5 on the list are: York, PA; Canton, Ohio; Taiwan; Thailand; Indiana. No mileage listed either.

The ONLY upside is that I can see all the friends that are inactive or no longer on the site so I can delete them.

This is so frustrating because it seems that this site wants to take away more and more functionality with every "improvement". Reminder, improvements are suppose to be just that, improvements. Making some pretty little script that changes the appearance is NOT an improvement.


Hotblonde4U2have 54F
660 posts
12/15/2013 9:16 am


strongarms3739 45M
1 post
3/16/2014 1:33 pm

[1947155] [Strongarms] i would like to see the site clear up all fake or fraudulent profiles. Certainly I've sadly been scammed but the sites reaction to
That was to deactivate the users account until she uploaded a new photo. Which I've included in this post as she is a fraud and has been at this for over 5 years on this site and it's affiliates as well as being very recognisable in Russia. This person cost me a small fortune and is now listed on a database of known scammers at various scammers sites like stop scammers.com not advertising. I'd advise all genuine members to do a photo search through google or yahoo or any image finding site to confirm authenticity before entering into any long term communication with anyone. I am however very disappointed that no action from the site was taken to remove this scammer despite all evidence I presented them with. Which was a lot. So hopefully all real members won't be bothered by so many fake profiles and scammer profiles.


MidTNCD 54T
4 posts
7/10/2014 10:13 pm

i'm having trouble viewing other folks webcams. The window comes up, and, if they have the sound on, i can hear them, but nothing shows up in the window. This has been going on for about a week now.

thanks.


sexxxcellence 48M/42F
72 posts
9/9/2014 7:09 pm

hi there community,
when are our photos going to stop flipping themselves onto their side…?! does the manage photos area possibly know that's a favorite position of mine…? frustrated, but not flipping out…

also, new albums are not appearing in my photo manager, and therefore i cannot manage them as they desire to me managed…

cheers!
kim

live and let love...


izzie1 49M
599 posts
9/30/2014 7:07 pm

I have a question and can't seem to find a place to post it... I think here might be ok...
What if I don't want to be on someones hotlist?
Can I delete that? Can I untag myself? I get I should be happy to be recognized but I think some do it just for numbers... not really feeling that.

Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...


anastasia666 43F
2229 posts
9/3/2015 3:42 am

    Quoting  :

Hello,

It seems there are 2 versions of what is going on. 1 that this is a simple glitch affecting some members. 2 That there is a new game where you can sell your points so points are NOT being given daily. 3 In the UK members are still getting their daily points.

To help you get a better answer why not try posting to the Site Support Blog ? They can help you better.

Have a Great Day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


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