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Make a Suggestion, Report a Bug  

community 36F   
9406 posts
8/25/2010 11:58 am
Make a Suggestion, Report a Bug


In the past I've run one suggestion box per month, and a separate area for Bugs. I think it's easier to have one post up and keep it as a running conversation.

Well here is that post. Got a suggestion or new bug? Post it here.

ArtemisJ 48F
8630 posts
8/25/2010 12:28 pm

Is there any way to not list private blogs under the "recent posts"? I like to look at those but end up going to 5 in a row that are "friends only" If they are "friends only", they should not be listed on the public page. People want them to be private, so let's not list them.

ArtemisJ is Keeping It Real


GatorL7 72M/71F
400 posts
8/25/2010 12:31 pm

Your group, Live From AsianMatchMate.com, is missing from my list of groups that I belong to, on my front page and my profile. Is that a new bug?


Oralo74 47M
1614 posts
8/25/2010 12:43 pm

Hi

I can愒 make Blings when i use the Firefox Browser.
And when i use the IE 8 Browser, i can愒 save the Bling.

Problem with the Bling Manager

Wolfgang



LadyGrayLeopard 61F
26369 posts
8/26/2010 1:42 pm

DELETE

I would suggest a couple of points re 'delete'.

Some bloggers prefer to view the comments, and might never check them I'd love to delete my comment, no point in having it there. Or, even better, to see it before placing my comment that it will be viewed first.
Sometimes even for normal comments I'd like to use 'delete', often typos etc, forgetting 'no' etc, and the text doesn't make any sense anymore.

Not sure what is the situation regarding testimonials??? Would also suggest to have the delete function for the testimonials I have made, not only for the ones I've received. During the years things might change...


sunog22 64M

8/26/2010 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

That happens from time to time and yes it sucks,what is worse is that they and also Ryan tend to not take much of what we say seriously.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
8/26/2010 7:42 pm

Can we have some more 'like' buttons? Especially on blogs, I see so many I don't have words for but would like the writer or comment writer to know it was liked.

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
8/26/2010 7:45 pm

    Quoting community:
    That's a good point.

    I think the blog might still be worth reading, so it should be listen under recent posts. What might work is a way for you to know this is a private post before clicking in. Like a little icon or something.
Yes but why do we have to see it? We can't see it, so there is no point in it being the recent posts? Or am I missing something..?

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


LadyGrayLeopard 61F
26369 posts
8/27/2010 9:57 am

    Quoting community:
    That's a good point.

    I think the blog might still be worth reading, so it should be listen under recent posts. What might work is a way for you to know this is a private post before clicking in. Like a little icon or something.
I think there are 2 different thing for 'friends only':
one allows you to read but only friends can comment.
What this person was meaning was the situation when the rest can only see 'only friends can see this blog' etc when clicking the link.

So no chance even to read the blog, useless to have it on the list!!!


rm_ShyUTGal 61F
11101 posts
8/27/2010 5:41 pm

What's up with the bling?? I've sent YOU such a question in the past week, and the help desk a few in the past couple of weeks...nobody says a damn thing.

I use Firefox as well (which is why I quoted this man) and I don't like using IE, so what does that mean? I can't do any bling any more? I'll go to the link that was posted on Oralo's question. I do hope you answer or SOMEONE answers what the hell is going on with the bling. It's the 2nd main reason I even come to your site. Blogging is the first.

Fixing it would be a good idea --


Oralo74 47M
1614 posts
8/28/2010 12:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Hello Bromance Buddy

I noticed the same today.
And they are Members since 2 Years or longer.

Wolfgang



mmmlike2taste 46M

8/28/2010 7:37 pm

I guess this is a suggestion, because it's not a bug. Does anyone get banned in chat these days? I mean, aside from when giving out a private email address?

We have some fairly extreme abusive behaviour going on in the Australia chat room, I just don't see how someone can call another member a "fat cow" and plenty worse, including their actual name, in the room, and yet there are no consequences for this.

Thanks to all who voted for me!
AND THE WINNER IS

~~~~

[post 2692868]


FullOn4U 56M
20399 posts
8/29/2010 1:05 pm

The site support blog has a monthly bug post, the latest bug for August that has received a response is from the fifth.

Processing comments might be a start, even if you can't sort the bugs.

Also, the blog doesn't show comments until they have been accepted by site support. This is silly because if you can't see what other people are complaining about then you're probably going to duplicate comments - which wastes everyone's time.


wildcatr27 50F  
241 posts
8/31/2010 2:15 am

there are some members that do have pictures on their main page, but they are not showing up when they IM, email or on the who's viewed. But they do if i look on the who's online


rm_trainmepls1 51F
717 posts
8/31/2010 6:47 am

I have a suggestion for a new blog post for you, Ryan. Someone has a poll going asking people whether they have more than one profile. Does the site know how many profiles each of us has? Maybe you could do an official poll, or use real stats, and tell us how many profiles the average AFFer has and how we use them. It seems like an interesting topic, to me.


sunog22 64M

8/31/2010 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

I do agree with you that the support here leaves much to be desired,many times you don't get replies to your inquiries,and when you do the replies are often off-topic,non sensical,or they don't address the issue that you mentioned.


rm_Cunswa 74M
3 posts
8/31/2010 7:50 pm

I would like to see a change in the mobile version of AsianMatchMate.com. In the standard version, some members have no picture visible in their main profile page, but one can be seen if the photo area is explored. On the mobile version, for members having this situation, could you let us know if there are pictures or not? It's too tedious to look for a pict by opening each profile.


magnaotter F  
4037 posts
8/31/2010 7:51 pm

Hey,

I know this has been brought up before, but I'm curious - is there any chance of allowing standard members to upgrade to silver/gold using their 'points' without having to go through 'confirm ID'? I'd be all for that, and I think it would help the site in any number of ways.

(as a side note, I did decide to bite the bullet and confirm my ID a few years ago, sent out the copy of my passport et al - and got bumped back with a request for a utility or similar bill with my address included, information that I thought was a bridge too far, seeing I already felt somewhat uncomfortable sending out a copy of my passport. What were they going to ask for next before confirming my ID, fingerprints and dental? Birth certificate? Ergo, I never completed the process.)


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
8/31/2010 10:18 pm

    Quoting magnaotter:
    Hey,

    I know this has been brought up before, but I'm curious - is there any chance of allowing standard members to upgrade to silver/gold using their 'points' without having to go through 'confirm ID'? I'd be all for that, and I think it would help the site in any number of ways.

    (as a side note, I did decide to bite the bullet and confirm my ID a few years ago, sent out the copy of my passport et al - and got bumped back with a request for a utility or similar bill with my address included, information that I thought was a bridge too far, seeing I already felt somewhat uncomfortable sending out a copy of my passport. What were they going to ask for next before confirming my ID, fingerprints and dental? Birth certificate? Ergo, I never completed the process.)
The first part of your comment is in the works, being able to use points to upgrade without confirming.

The second part, I hope Ryan addresses, but you may also wish to contact CS and ask them about this. This is the first time I've heard of them wanting anything beyond passport/govt issued ID.


magnaotter F  
4037 posts
9/1/2010 6:57 am

Thanks, Nassy, for keeping me in the loop! As for the 'confirm ID' extra request - it was years ago by now, and I've long recycled that correspondence. It just put me off every trying again - as I said, I was not particularly comfortable with the amount of info I was already disclosing, and the request for more info left a bad taint in my mouth.

Now, another issue - I was on cam last night (after a month plus offline) and I noticed there are some major changes in the way the incoming IMs/pages work. They don't seem to time out (from my perspective, as a cammer - eventually the page does time out, but it remains taking up space. It then reads 'timed out' or something close). When pages build up - I often have multiple pages - I can no longer read new incoming pages as the older pages remain at the top of the screen. I can scroll down, but an new page bumps me back to the top of the page - and I seem to have no option to clear pages, whether active or inactive, except by 'declining' them. Also as pages build up, my ability to decline pages individually disappears, and in order to create a clean slate I resorted to using the 'decline all' feature.

Since a big part of what I do on cam is *talk* to people, and I try to answer every page verbally (I don't 'accept' pages normally, because I have a limit to the amount of incoming information I can deal with, and that would surpass that limit. I've already got my eyes on the cam, the pages, and the chatroom, after all - there's a limit to my multi tasking abilities!), this isn't working very well for me. I'm missing far more pages than previously; I feel my only option to clear pages is to 'decline' them, which feels borderline rude; and, all in all, it makes it very hard to keep a conversation going or respond to pages.

It's utterly possible - nay, likely! - that I've not learned to navigate the new system yet, and there are simple solutions to all of these issues.

Enlighten me?

thanks,

m


Abby1112 42F  
4018 posts
9/2/2010 3:19 pm

i think it would be cool to have a little mini message system in the IMC that you could tell people paging you your busy but would like to talk at a later time, i don't like having my only option being ignore or decline.


rm_colspgscpl2 67M/57F
15 posts
9/3/2010 12:21 am

Was just looking at cams, notice now you can not resize the cam window when watching someones cam. Is that a planned change? We sure hope not.


starass2 59M

9/3/2010 7:02 am

some times i get two or three flurts and they dont show my no.on my home page.so i cannot respond in time.what is up with the gold member price to expesive.we shouldnt be forced to get a whole year to get a deal.oh well bye


magnaotter F  
4037 posts
9/3/2010 7:02 am

Re: the new page system - it's really unmanageable for me. I'll have 60 to a 100 pages coming in; I'll only be able to see the first 6 to 7 (yes, I can use the scroll bar, but any new page boots me back to the top of the page and the original first six pages); and my options to clear the screen are only 'accept all' (impossible!) or 'decline all' (decidedly unfriendly!). I'm not able to respond to nor acknowledge the vast majority of people paging me, and I truly dislike that - and the people paging may not understand the situation and thus feel ignored, hurt, or insulted. In addition, getting rid of rude or abusive pagers is almost impossible.

I tried using the 'group chat' feature in hopes that it would alleviate some of these problems (and I thought it could have the additional advantage of keeping the crassest comments down to a dull roar, as people are less likely to be utterly abusive in a 'pubic setting'), but couldn't get it to work at all for me - although people reported that they were using it, I couldn't see their responses at all on my screen. Is this how it's designed to function, or is this a glitch?

Please let me know.

On a better note, I've a suggestion for improving - it would be great if a member could arrange his or her 'testimonials' in the order they'd like them to be read, rather than in the order they're received in. However, this is a very *small* thing... I'm much more concerned with the new page system during camming.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/3/2010 9:03 am

    Quoting  :

Yes, he's still there, just very busy.


rm_colspgscpl2 67M/57F
15 posts
9/3/2010 11:54 pm

Thanks for letting me know it was not just me. Now for some more news if I open a cam using firefox I can re-size it, open it with IE I an not re-size it. Maybe that helps narrow it down.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/4/2010 8:00 am

    Quoting  :

In a nutshell, short staffed at the moment.


sunog22 64M

9/4/2010 12:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I have noticed this also,and it''s not just site support either,I posted a very direct question for the CEO on his blog,and have yet to get a response.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/4/2010 6:03 pm

    Quoting sunog22:
    I have noticed this also,and it''s not just site support either,I posted a very direct question for the CEO on his blog,and have yet to get a response.
Luvpump, aka Andrew, is not the owner of this site for a few years now. It is currently owned by Penthouse.

Btw, what you posted there was a statement and not a question. If you looked at that blog at all, you would see there have been no recent responses to anyone and why you would expect to get one is beyond me.


smartasswoman 64F  
35752 posts
9/4/2010 9:09 pm

I'm seconding MagnaOtter's comments about the new web cam interface.

With the old interface, new pages/im's appeared at the top and older pages dropped off after a few minutes so that the number of im's on my screen remained manageable.

With the new interface, new im's appear at the bottom and old ones are never cleared, so it is almost impossible to see the new ones coming in unless you click 'deny all' to clear the screen - then people think you're being rude to actively "deny" their message instead of just not responding....


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/7/2010 8:04 am

    Quoting  :

I am a member of this site that volunteers her time, like many others, to try and understand what is going on and push for the fixes and improvements that the MEMBERS want. I, like other members, often answer other members questions, when we can, because we all like to be answered as quickly as possible. I have no need, but simply try to help out the members and Ryan. It's called working together to make this a better place. If you go back to any of my comments that YOU deem excuses, you will most likely find them factual.

By the way, are you going to demand that every member who helps another member here answer to you as to why they help others outside of their own email or blog? Or was this attitude reserved for me?

As far as my last comment, I could have let it go and sunog22 would be waiting an eternity for an answer and simply get more angry. At least now he knows why his comment on Andrew's blog will never be responded to. Andrew doesn't work here any more and doesn't answer questions on his blog.

His demand for an answer on that blog is ridiculous and he would have known that, had he taken two seconds to look at anything on that blog. He has also been around long enough, reads and responds religiously on the Advice Lines to have heard Penthouse owns this site now. You may not know who he is, but I do.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/7/2010 3:28 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't feel the need to interfere, as you call it, but with Ryan's blessing, I and others agreed to answer questions in his blog to help and free him up from mundane questions. Yes, as JT responded, many can be found elsewhere, but most folks are too lazy and want answers wherever they post. It would take a person a full time job to answer just the bullshit questions around here. I'd rather he actually make progress on the issues, but that's just my opinion.

Considering that I don't recall every butting into your particular issues, I don't see where you feel you have the right to call me to the mat. Since we are here and you directed yourself to me, I am answering you directly. However, I will refrain from assisting YOU in the future. My comments about who owned the site were not addressed to you, so you are the one interfering, if anything.

You can easily say I make excuses for this site, but I only pass along information that I get via SiteSupport, Ryan and other site sources. Everyone is always free to double check my information and I would recommend it. You especially since I won't be providing you with any further information.

As for your contacting Ryan on any matters, I have not in the past nor present dealt with any of them, nor do I care or know what you are talking about so it is really a pathetic attempt to accuse me of meddling on those issues as well. If Ryan hasn't gotten back to you, take it up with him. Not me! Ryan is fully capable of choosing when to answer and not answer comments in his own blog. No where does he ever say he'll answer each and every comment here.

Lastly, telling me to "STFU" was definitely more your character. Yes, I know who you are too. Too bad you wimped out and deleted that comment and replaced it with this one. When your opinion of me ever matters, and I guarantee it never has or will, then and only then, will I "STFU".


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/7/2010 4:52 pm

    Quoting  :

Exactly where in this quoted comment did you ask Ryan to respond to your previous emails? That is what you said with this comment

"Not a big deal in the first place...I was contacted by RYAN directly and I was only asking here why I never heard back from him....only to be attacked..."

I never attacked you, but merely responded to your less than benign question. Aren't you tired of playing that "I didn't start it, she did" game?

Grow up!


Discretion4Sur 67M
96 posts
9/7/2010 7:56 pm

UUUUuuuuuugggggghhhhhhh - The circus is indeed still in town.

This is my opinion. As such, it is totally irrefutable. I voice it because it suits me to do so, not to try to coerce or convince others in to a like-minded view. Since it is opinion, I revel in the sanctuary that it need not be supported by any facts at all (though what I say is demonstrably true) . Here goes....

Opinion:

There are people here who 'get it' . By that I mean, there are people here that understand that the interaction here should be as though we were talking face to face. Far too many who write here do so in the security that they cannot be slapped right through the internet, though they surely would be if they addressed others in the same way face to face.

If you asked a question in a crowd, and the person next to you knew the answer, it seems only right and neighborly that they tell you - even if they were not the person from whom you were seeking answers... To denigrate them for 'butting in' is just the wrong thing to do.

Nassy is one of those people with answers. To jump in her shit when she is only trying to help (with Ryan's blessing, I might add) , is the height of 'not getting it' .

Opinion off.

D4


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/7/2010 8:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't see how you can discern who anyone is from those comments, but I guess you wear a swami hat. Regardless, how does whoever is behind that profile change the value or content of what was said?

I have 3 profiles. This one which I use and two others for testing. If I used either of the other two profiles to say anything I felt, it doesn't change the value or content of what I said. I just love it when profiles are called fakes. People can't handle what is said by them.

The only fakes around here are the ones who join for scamming purposes or those that lie and post false information, such as photos, claim to be something they are not, or plagiarize, for the purposes of maliciously deceiving others.


rm_colspgscpl2 67M/57F
15 posts
9/8/2010 1:56 am

    Quoting  :

Well, I must say after reading all of the blog posts I have to jump in.
1.) I don't care who gives me an answer as long as it is correct.
2.) I can see you are frustrated, but why take it out on the people who are here to help.
3.) You and 20 other people stopped paying, OK that is your right, now that you are a standard member by your own choice, live with it. We still pay and believe as a paying customer we should receive assistance before the people who won't pay and expect everything for free.

I hope this discussion comes to an end soon. No one will ever convince this person of anything. His mind is closed to anything that has to do with this site. Thanks to the people who have given your time and effort to help the rest of us with issues when you can. Now that is more than we have written in a blog in the 4 years we have been on here.


allwaysa_lady 61F  
33 posts
9/8/2010 6:29 pm

I have problems with keeping pictures in an album of mine in the correct order. I arrange them and they go right back to a different sequence. My profile pics don't do that. Just the one album. I wrote site supports blog in August. Early August to be exact. Never got an answer. What's up with that?






rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/9/2010 8:14 am

    Quoting  :

More than likely, Ryan did NOT ban your comment, but rather the programming did. Ryan rarely does that and never for the type of comment you said you made. Either there was something bannable, but given what you said the comment was, not likely, or it was a combination of words or just a simple glitch that day. Probably the glitch, in my experience.

You should try re-posting it and you can always quote your banned comment and that should let it show. Ryan would likely have to go into your profile in order to see what that comment was, otherwise.

Any friendship any of us have with Ryan comes from working with him to help fix this site because we too, experience the issues and want to make this a better place, not just for ourselves, but everyone. However, most folks just want to complain. Then those of us who help others out because we have gained a deeper understanding of how this site works are attacked for trying to help others or knowing more than the new or average person.

People accuse us of buying bs from the site and making excuses when the opposite is closer to the truth. We are anything but complacent about the problems on this site, but instead of blasting the site, we actually volunteer our time and effort towards doing what we can, as members, to help.

As far as your accusation of picking apart those that seek help, I can only say you either didn't fully read and/or understand what all happened here, so I won't address it further. Btw, your last comment about how Ryan should maintain his blog goes against your earlier comment of not telling others what to do here.


magnaotter F  
4037 posts
9/9/2010 10:49 am

As a quick break from the drama, I'm reposting this in case anyone has figured out a solution, or a better way to handle this issue than I have. The last time I tried 'group chat' as a 'work around solution', it wasn't working for me - I couldn't see what others were typing, which made it pretty useless. I've since seen group chat working exactly as I thought it would - is there a trick to getting it to work?

Any answers from anyone who has them are welcome. Cheers!

Original post:

"I was on cam last night (after a month plus offline) and I noticed there are some major changes in the way the incoming IMs/pages work. They don't seem to time out (from my perspective, as a cammer - eventually the page does time out, but it remains taking up space. It then reads 'timed out' or something close). When pages build up - I often have multiple pages - I can no longer read new incoming pages as the older pages remain at the top of the screen. I can scroll down, but an new page bumps me back to the top of the page - and I seem to have no option to clear pages, whether active or inactive, except by 'declining' them. Also as pages build up, my ability to decline pages individually disappears, and in order to create a clean slate I resorted to using the 'decline all' feature.

Since a big part of what I do on cam is *talk* to people, and I try to answer every page verbally (I don't 'accept' pages normally, because I have a limit to the amount of incoming information I can deal with, and that would surpass that limit. I've already got my eyes on the cam, the pages, and the chatroom, after all - there's a limit to my multi tasking abilities!), this isn't working very well for me. I'm missing far more pages than previously; I feel my only option to clear pages is to 'decline' them, which feels borderline rude; and, all in all, it makes it very hard to keep a conversation going or respond to pages.

It's utterly possible - nay, likely! - that I've not learned to navigate the new system yet, and there are simple solutions to all of these issues.

Enlighten me?

thanks,

m"


Discretion4Sur 67M
96 posts
9/9/2010 1:20 pm

SexySensualSane, thanks for your comments.

Even when embroiled in a contentious discussion, it would go so much easier if all parties involved imagined that the person on the other end of the discussion were standing in front of them.

I doubt that the blogger below confronts many people in real life face to face with 'who are YOU?' . Then again, who knows?

I've heard it said that on line personalities are exaggerations of real life personalities, that the internet is like alcohol. If you are an angry person, as a drunk you are mean. If you are a shy person, inebriated, you may become an insatiable hugger.

D4


magnaotter F  
4037 posts
9/9/2010 2:59 pm

Thanks, jonthomas!

And, um, how exactly do I return to the old system?

I admit my ignorance.


Mystic_Writer 48M  
4212 posts
9/10/2010 5:11 am

You guys need another website. One that's more of a dating site that allows for sexual expression. A place to get singles together. I know that theoretically that can happen here, but this site tries to cater to every kind of sexual lifestyle as a result I just feel out of place here. I need something that's more of a mix between this site and Match. How come no one makes that site?


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/10/2010 8:28 am

    Quoting  :

Could you please be specific where you are trying to comment and getting this message?

If you are trying to leave a testimonial, Standard members can no longer leave testimonials, but if that is the case, you should not have gotten this message, but rather been sent to the upgrade page.

If you are attempting to comment on a status or something Activities related, which is my guess, yes, there seems to be a bug which we are trying to sort out and get reported to the techs.

If it is somewhere else, please be specific so we can figure out if it was a one time thing or if it is affecting everyone or is ongoing.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/10/2010 9:40 am

    Quoting Mystic_Writer:
    You guys need another website. One that's more of a dating site that allows for sexual expression. A place to get singles together. I know that theoretically that can happen here, but this site tries to cater to every kind of sexual lifestyle as a result I just feel out of place here. I need something that's more of a mix between this site and Match. How come no one makes that site?
I started to respond to you here, but got wordy, so I wrote it out here

>> [post 2416062]


magicctr 54F
3670 posts
9/11/2010 3:45 am


THE PUNCTUATION CHARACTERS'S TROUBLE HAS RETURN!!!:
Again, the text of Posts wicth contains non english characters (and punctuation characters of ANY language) does NOT show correctly.
- This time, The Posts shows funny characters (like it ALLWAYS happened in ANY GROUP TOPIC) and groups instead of erase all the text following to a troubling character.

- This happen in ALL THE NEW POSTS in ALL THE BLOGS AND GROUPS, published since 8 september, and ALL THE OLD POSTS reedited the same day.

- Some Posts for examples:
  • "[post 2407459]" (reedited 8 sept), and
  • "[post 2414227]" (published 8 sept)
- Some group for example: Los antiguos privilegiados
Please: STOP MISSING ARROUND WITH THE BLOGS AND GROUPS!

FIX THIS!!!



EL PROBLEMA CON LOS CARACTERES DE PUNTUACIÓN HA VUELTO!!!:
Otra vez, el texto de los Posts y los grupos que contienen coracteres no ingleses (y caracteres de puntuación de CUALQUIER idioma)NO se muestra correctamente
- Esta vez, los Posts y los grupos muestran caracteres raros (como SIEMPRE pasó en CUALQUIER TEMA DE GRUP en vez de borrar todo el texto que le sigue a un caracter problemático.

- Esto pasa en TODOS LOS NUEVOS POSTS en TODOS LOS BLOGS y en LOS HILOS DE LOS GRUPOS publicados desde el 8 septiembre, y en TODOS LOS POSTS ANTIGUOS E HILOS DE GRUPOS reeditados desde el mismo día.

- Algunos Posts para ejemplos:
  • "[post 2407459]" (reeditado el 8 sept), y
  • "[post 2414227]" (publicado 8 sept)
Un ejemplo de un grupo: Los antiguos privilegiados
Por favor: BASTA DE JUGAR CON LOS BLOGS Y CON LOS GRUPOS.

ARREGLEN ESTO!!!


]V[AGIC


SiteSupport replies on 9/15/2010 9:43 am:
Hello,

I can verify that the posts you showed us have corrupted characters. We will have this problem documented for engineers, and request they come up with a solution as soon as possible. We apologize for the inconvenience.

rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/11/2010 12:03 pm

    Quoting PsicoAliaS_pseud:
    I do not understand: I leaved a comment here, reporting a nasty bug. Two more people leaved EXACTLY the SAME COMMENT (we organize our reports now, so you can not ignore us...)

    My comment is dissapeared!!! What about that??? It was deleted on purpose? am i blocked to comment in this blog? we are talking of a "copy and paste" comment (identicaly even in the format, font, size and color) why i can read it from other users but not from me?

    can you answer me this, please? Because, if you are deleting my comments on purpose, why i botter in make them?
He's not likely deleting anything. He's been out sick for 3 days as far as I am aware. Again, it probably just the programming or a temporary glitch. Try reposting your comment again.


Queenie1970 51F
1512 posts
9/14/2010 11:50 am

What happens when someone who was the main and only moderator of a group deletes their profile? There are a couple of groups I'm in where folks are still interested in the group, but the moderator has left the site.

"Sex is emotion in motion." ~ Mae West


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
9/15/2010 9:24 am

    Quoting Queenie1970:
    What happens when someone who was the main and only moderator of a group deletes their profile? There are a couple of groups I'm in where folks are still interested in the group, but the moderator has left the site.
If what the others have already said hasn't happened yet, or if there is a disagreement with who the replacement is, send an email directly to the Community profile or contact Customer Service at the site. They can help you iron out the issue.


Queenie1970 51F
1512 posts
9/15/2010 11:37 am

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    If what the others have already said hasn't happened yet, or if there is a disagreement with who the replacement is, send an email directly to the Community profile or contact Customer Service at the site. They can help you iron out the issue.
Thanks. That's super helpful.

"Sex is emotion in motion." ~ Mae West


Discretion4Sur 67M
96 posts
9/18/2010 6:56 pm

SiteSupport replies on 9/15/2010 12:28 pm:
Hello,

The sound quality of our member broadcasts will suffer when members have older computers or have slower upload speeds. With our models on cams we have provided minimum specifications which are posted below. If you are viewing a broadcast from a member that meets these requirements, the quality should be as good as those of our models.

Hardware requirements:
* Processor - Core 2 Duo 3GHz or AMD Athlon equivalent
* Memory - 2GB RAM
* Webcam with the ability to broadcast in 640 x 480 resolution

Bandwidth
* 1.75 MB/s upload

We will ensure your request for a remove a video from favorites is reviewed with our engineers next week. Thanks for the suggestion.


Horseshit

Mac OS X 10.5.8
1.6 GHx PowerPC G5
3 GB DDR SDRAM
16.76 Mbps download
7.17 Mbps upload.

NOTHING has changed at my location for MONTHS, yet with your current software push, cams all over A F F are hopelessly awful - freezing of both video and audio, multiple dropped cams (as frequently as within 30 seconds of connecting) and multiple logoffs.

What the hell did you guys DO to the system that was at least passably working until about 2 weeks ago?

Pub Radio is unusable at this time (if this rant is going to be answered by site support instead of Ryan community, check the profile for PubRadio1.

Super annoyed,

D4


CandaceJ38D 65M/56F

9/19/2010 6:31 am

Hi Our calls and letters have fallen on deaf ears! We have had problems with our profile page and with the system itself ever since we joined up as gold members when we were standard members and didnt pay the page worked better, We joined in april the 19th if we remember right and since then have had 73 thousand page viewa The word status on our page is missing the phrase whats happening has been there for 4 months now and cannot bhe deleted! My email when im trying to answer it the keyboard freexes and wont let us type and the form turns almost cloudy. I have never been featured as a new member on the home page, Every letter i or we have ever written we get a ...We'll look at it and nothing gets done! Other people post what we call novelty pictures when i post them mine mysteriousily get removed or lost completelythe other night and on many nights the imc boots you completely off the site or deosnt allow you to answer messages, We have writeen several times with little ideas on how to make AsianMatchMate.com more fun my husband who wins awards for graphics has even offered to do little things too Not once do we ever get a letter back I even wanted to help promote AsianMatchMate.com we couldnt get a answer as to if we could or couldnt....We turned off auto renew and its not that we dontg likme the site because we have had fun here but it would be nice to be acknowledged or something fixed on the page we are afraid to change anything because we are scared of what might happen Thasnks for listening and maybe you could answer us at our AsianMatchMate.com e box thanks Candi and Jim


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
9/25/2010 3:47 am

Profile Layout Suggestion:

Would it be possible for you to make the modules on our profiles moveable? (activites/blog/friends/information..etc) I would like to be able to choose what goes on the left and right and in what order.
I blog, so I'd like my blog up top as well as my activities. Other members don't use this so it makes sense to stay at the bottom for them. That's just one example.
I think that people would stop complaining about the layout if they could have it their own way, and as you know, we don't all want the exact same thing.

You could take a look at the a certain famous video website to get the full idea. In fact it is probably the same software you're both using.

I for one would be really grateful to have moveable modules. I really do think a lot of people would.x

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
9/25/2010 4:21 am

Bug Report:

On the 'member interested in..' page, your text runs behind the list. Even the 'upgrade now' button is half behind the list.

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


SandraLATV_4Fun 55T
1 post
9/27/2010 1:04 pm

I have always been a little confused on the realtionship between trannydates and adultfriendfiender. I didn't know they were so closely aligned, otherwise I don't think i would have created a new screen name for trannyDates when i joined.
But its working better now and I don't have any issues.
I do have a question about if i can add trannydates to the desktop AsianMatchMate.com messenger where I can access alt and AsianMatchMate.com


laidbacknready4u 64M
122 posts
9/29/2010 1:07 am

Return of an old bug?

I've experience the following problem in the past but somewhere the site corrected it.

The problem being that my profile is not showing up in "whos online now" searches. This is the most important search since it lets members find you when you are online.

My profile can be found in a "new search" and I also show up on instant messenger.

I even logged in through passion.com but to no avail. Though if I log into my Alt account I appear online there albeit i do get knocked off quite a lot.

So to sum up I do not appear online in a who's online search on on either AsianMatchMate.com or Passion but I do on Alt.

I have done all the usual things necessary from this side cache cookies etc.

This is occuring using either IE or Firefox browser. My operating system is Vista.


LadyUnlaced 47F
34177 posts
10/4/2010 6:26 pm

Who knows where the current one of these is.

Did your customer service downsize?

I have asked customer service in SEVEN separate emails why blog posts get banned when there is nothing in violation of the Terms of Service in them. I have a post that has had nearly 6000 views and 237 comments and it has been banned three times in the past 10 days. Every time I just resubmit it and it's back up again for an indefinite amount of time.

WHHHYYYYYY does this happen? WHY can't I get an answer?

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

***


Wantingsexymind2 51F
12602 posts
10/8/2010 3:38 am

Ryan, several months ago I was offered via my AsianMatchMate.com inbox to upload my photo with my screenname. I uploaded at least 12 which were all approved by AsianMatchMate.com and currently in either my main profile photo and main album or another one labled "bikini photos", yet I still have not received the two weeks gold membership, nor has my profile been updated with the "verified member" status.

Just for further information, the last time I paid for my gold membership, I was offered a free month by following some simple rules (logging in, emailing and posting blogs/groups)for the three months I had my paid membership and I am currently using that free month. Not sure if this information is relative to the above mentioned issue but reporting facts as I know them!

I'd greatly appreciate you or a member of the team looking into this! Thank you for your time!

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
**************************
"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus
**************************


dicksnwife 56M/51F  
9 posts
10/14/2010 3:56 pm

im sure u guys have responded to my upcomeing questions somewhere here but i cant seem to find anyone with a similiar inquiries so here are mine...

do you guys limit the number of viewers a broadcaster can have?? a couple of years ago i was simply doing my nails on cam and ended up being lucky enuff to have and im sure the number i read was correct but it said 6639 viewers.. people were getting knocked off to allow others on, i watch my cam when broadcasting, and that time i noticed that my screen view would fade in and out.. im sure it was just a fluke there were that many watching me but i remember it just as if it happened yesterday.. well ever since then i can never seem to get even 100 people viewing.. every now and then my numbers will rise to near 200 but not too often,, i am not doing no more or any less than i did then.. so am curious as to why my viewers are limited.. i keep my cookies, browser cache, and domain servers cleared (am running windows 7) so what am i doing wrong?? any suggestions??

my next question is HOW do you make bling... i have been gifted with alot of cool ones and want to make some myself but can NEVER get it to even remotely turn out presentable.. HELP!!..lol

dicknjane
of
dicksnwife

...?* ?* ?* .. dick -n- jane ... of >>! dicksnwife ...?* ?* ?* ..


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
10/15/2010 3:53 am

BUG Report: bad page
I use Google Chrome in incognito mode.

I was on my own profile page, looking through my pictures, I got logged out, and the little login box appeared underneath syn.. photo albums (loving that by the way! Much better)
So, I log in, and it refreshes the page, but the page was a pure white screen (no frames) and 2 pictures (album covers) were display in the top left corner, just the pics no album frame.

I hit the back button and all was fine, I was still logged in. Just a small glitch for you to check out x

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
10/15/2010 4:01 am

    Quoting  :

I hate to put this site down, because I really love it here, but I really DO agree with this post.

You seem to just skim read what is going on at times, it comes across pretty shoddy.

Recently you banned a blog post critique a bogus profile, HOWEVER, it took you a further week to ban the profile he was blogging about. You get how that comes across don't you? You are worth your weight in gold in so many ways, but that said, the vast majority of people here, wealthy or otherwise, DO CALL you expensive. Come on, play fair, you need either more staff, more help, or really STOP skim reading.
So sorry to say that, but its true.

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
10/15/2010 2:29 pm

    Quoting  :

The offer for the 2 weeks of Gold membership for uploading a qualified "Verified Photo" only applies to Female and Couples profiles. This was not offered to the Male profiles.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
10/15/2010 2:34 pm

    Quoting dicksnwife:
    im sure u guys have responded to my upcomeing questions somewhere here but i cant seem to find anyone with a similiar inquiries so here are mine...

    do you guys limit the number of viewers a broadcaster can have?? a couple of years ago i was simply doing my nails on cam and ended up being lucky enuff to have and im sure the number i read was correct but it said 6639 viewers.. people were getting knocked off to allow others on, i watch my cam when broadcasting, and that time i noticed that my screen view would fade in and out.. im sure it was just a fluke there were that many watching me but i remember it just as if it happened yesterday.. well ever since then i can never seem to get even 100 people viewing.. every now and then my numbers will rise to near 200 but not too often,, i am not doing no more or any less than i did then.. so am curious as to why my viewers are limited.. i keep my cookies, browser cache, and domain servers cleared (am running windows 7) so what am i doing wrong?? any suggestions??

    my next question is HOW do you make bling... i have been gifted with alot of cool ones and want to make some myself but can NEVER get it to even remotely turn out presentable.. HELP!!..lol

    dicknjane
    of
    dicksnwife
Check this blog post, How to Make Bling with Helpful Tips, and be sure to read through the comments. You will find many helpful links to the Bling groups as well.

Sorry I can't help much about the cam issue. I can tell you they increased the number of servers to allow for more viewers to watch the cams. It should be relatively unlimited in the number of viewers one can have. I understand they are still having some issues getting everything to work 100% though.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
10/23/2010 8:11 am

Text Bug:
Everyone's sex has gone Chinese or Japanese or some kinda ese anyway! lol

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


nd2hvfun 63F  
10020 posts
10/26/2010 10:27 pm

I think AsianMatchMate.com laid off their customer service people or shipped the work out of the country no responses on either profile blog of theirs in several days

je ne regrette rien


lookingman14 53M

11/9/2010 6:43 am

would be cool if another member could write a tutorial on another member and everyone could see it. how do yiou move pics around ? if i have 3 on my box how do i get the 4th to take one of the others place?


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
11/25/2010 5:16 am

SITE BUG:
Activities (link from top bar) has stopped working. It just never loads. It was working fine for weeks, it stopped working day before yesterday

I'm using google chrome in incognito window on Windows Vista

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


winemker 62M
168 posts
11/28/2010 6:45 pm

I live on the Ohio Pennsylvania border in Ohio, when I search members near me it gives me people all the way to Dayton or Cincinati but not members in Pa 10 miles way WHY?


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
12/1/2010 9:01 pm

Suggestion..

I appreciate AsianMatchMate.com has many interfaces. But on googling my id I found my profile.. this profile on LESBIAN sites.. I'm straight.. not bi.. not bi-curious.. straight.

You know, you might get me in to thinking that your are dishonest in other areas too.. should be I thinking that?
Fake flirts.. fake profiles.. how much of this is to do with you?
You get why I'm asking this don't you?

Take me off the lesbian sites.. WHY am I on there?
What a wind up for all parties.. not good is it?

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
12/6/2010 9:12 am

I had a reply from customer services the other day, telling me that they are passing my message TO YOU about THIS post never being answered

Are you ignoring them as well as us now??
The more we are ignored the more I'm beginning to hate this place...sigh..

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


CampoGirl 55F
43434 posts
12/18/2010 11:29 am

Please pay attention to the emails Ive sent.

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
1/17/2011 6:09 pm

    Quoting  :

He's a member of this site and unless you specifically blocked him from viewing your profile, your profile is there for him to view anytime. The same with the rest of the site. Any member can view your profile as long as it is not hidden or you have not blocked them specifically.

Perhaps I am not understanding your dilemma?


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
1/20/2011 7:30 am

    Quoting  :

GetItOn is another site owned by Various Inc which owns this site. It uses a separate data base so you were able to safely remove your profile there without affecting your profile here.

Some profiles here were imported to GIO and given temporary free memberships. This does fall within the guidelines of what members here agreed to in the TOU when creating a profile here. It behooves members to know what they agreed to. Read the TOU!

They have created a few other sites, but I think the only other current creation {by this site} that some folks here have been imported to is NoStringsAttached. I could be mistaken and perhaps Ryan can correct me if I'm wrong.

Always check first if it a separate data base or if it is this data base before deleting. This site, same data base, has many names and if you delete yourself off of a co-brand site, you would delete your profile off here. If that happens, you can contact CS to have your profile reinstated.


spicylips4all 73M/66F
1 post
2/4/2011 7:29 am

Not a comment, but a question. Is there anywhere to post that you/we will be taking a certain cruise? Lots of people cruise and it would be great to know that other swingers are on board.
Thanks....Chuck&Judy (spicylips4all)


Loosetooth 46M
1154 posts
2/4/2011 2:13 pm

Hello Ryan,

I was wondering if you might respond to my previous mails. Understand that you are busy but would not mind hearing your thoughts.

Thank you.


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
2/10/2011 8:59 am

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    GetItOn is another site owned by Various Inc which owns this site. It uses a separate data base so you were able to safely remove your profile there without affecting your profile here.

    Some profiles here were imported to GIO and given temporary free memberships. This does fall within the guidelines of what members here agreed to in the TOU when creating a profile here. It behooves members to know what they agreed to. Read the TOU!

    They have created a few other sites, but I think the only other current creation {by this site} that some folks here have been imported to is NoStringsAttached. I could be mistaken and perhaps Ryan can correct me if I'm wrong.

    Always check first if it a separate data base or if it is this data base before deleting. This site, same data base, has many names and if you delete yourself off of a co-brand site, you would delete your profile off here. If that happens, you can contact CS to have your profile reinstated.
Actually - after some searching .. Get It On and No Strings Attached are NOT the only sites which have profile and photo information ..

Funnily enough - while I didn't experience the issues - several people have commented in blogs and on my blog that they are finding old versions of their profile, edited versions of their profile, and some current versions of their profile on BDSM sites, LBGT sites, you name it.

There MUST be an updated and sticky posted list of ALL the "Various" inc's holdings that we can refer to and remove, deactivate or otherwise edit profiles. Just "goo gling" the handle here doesn't get them all ...

What say you Ryan - can you find it in your day and within your powers to provide that list?



~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


rm_kelidgh 59F
15971 posts
2/10/2011 9:05 am

And while we are discussing "bugs" .. there was little to no attention paid yesterday to the fact that the "maths" in the counter for views is beyond incorrect. And, as such, all the "most" lists are based on a specious method of counting.

Is there no way to correct a simple line of code to eliminate the problem - Unigue Views or Unique comments are not even within the realm of the numbers.

I can personally point to 4 of my blog posts with over 9000 "views" per the counter, and most have 10 - 15 comments. The view number may in fact be valid - but there is NO WAY in hell that they are all unique. And I would extrapolate that conclusion to include the majority of blogs highlighted in the "most" lists. It's a simple maths thing.

Is there ever going to be some resolution to that? For as long as the numbers and placing are open to manipulation, they will be manipulated. And it then degenerates to a "he said she said" sandbox tussle...



~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
2/10/2011 2:21 pm

    Quoting rm_kelidgh:
    Actually - after some searching .. Get It On and No Strings Attached are NOT the only sites which have profile and photo information ..

    Funnily enough - while I didn't experience the issues - several people have commented in blogs and on my blog that they are finding old versions of their profile, edited versions of their profile, and some current versions of their profile on BDSM sites, LBGT sites, you name it.

    There MUST be an updated and sticky posted list of ALL the "Various" inc's holdings that we can refer to and remove, deactivate or otherwise edit profiles. Just "goo gling" the handle here doesn't get them all ...

    What say you Ryan - can you find it in your day and within your powers to provide that list?
I always thought the other sites referred to were simply co-brands and thus part of the A*F*F data base. I agree with Keli that if there are other sites, other than GIO or NSA, that our profile or any part of our profile has been imported to that is NOT on the A*F*F data base, that we have a list so that we can choose to stay or remove our profiles from it.

Can we have that list please?


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
2/25/2011 8:23 am

    Quoting  :

I don't know if you did anything to fix the colors, but I see colors on your blog at this time and I haven't noticed any "white" blogs so far. It could have been a temporary glitch or perhaps your pages weren't loading correctly?


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
2/25/2011 6:55 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm hearing from others that there were some issues but it looks like they might be resolved now???


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
3/1/2011 8:20 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for the suggestion. It's nice to see other members participate here in offering help.

However, I am aware of that list and it it totally lacking in the full listing nor has it been updated to include their more prominent names of the site entrances that they use. I was hoping Ryan could give a better list than what is there.


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
3/6/2011 3:21 pm

In the last month I've been hit up by two different guy members for money for sex with them (thick_dick_4 - 27yr old from Denver & apollo6138 - 20yr old from Abilene, KS). One contacted me first, one I'd contacted. Neither of these two guys mentioned sex in the initial e-mails then bluntly asked how much I was willing to pay?

I'm a fairly good looking guy who is in good shape, successful, and absolutely NOT hard up enough to even consider having to pay for sex. But most of all, I resent being hit up on this site by a prostitute since I'm a paying member on a site that's set up for meeting people socially for that purpose.

I would like to request that there be a special button members can click to immediately turn in protitutes, people who try to get members to go to a different pay for sex site, etc. I know there is a "report abuse or sexually explicit ads" button on e-mails but when I clicked this button, absolutely NOTHING happened.

If possible, could you e-mail me where/who I can report these two guys so they won't be able to hit on other members?


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
3/6/2011 9:08 pm

My thanks to AsianMatchMate.com for taking care of this problem already! Talk about quick action! I'm glad to see this site has no patients concerning people hitting up members for money for sex! That's not what this site is about and I'm glad that AsianMatchMate.com still cares! Thanks again!


rm_vwspacey 51F
62 posts
3/12/2011 5:31 am

Hi, this is just a breif outline of an idea i had & have included it on blogs on a few sites where relevant. It's an idea to improve the safety of members male & female!
Right a 'Private Roon' would be needed one for females & one for males{Other rooms maybe needed for others such as tv's?}In this room you could privately report incidents of concern either on net or when a meeting has taken place. By 'Concern' I mean acts of violence or threats of violence,harm or damage ect.
This would be accompanied by a name & a username on site.
NO action would be expected by the site other than checking out the allegation eg: if any other member had reported similar or same person for acts of concern?
If found to be a 'true' or any evidence{like content of profile shows any hint of tendencies}The notice would be open to other members that qualify to use that room eg:males/females to view. This is because these people can be flushed out, exposed & subsequently avoided by other members who maybe a potential meets for this unsavoury person!
I know it's a sketchy suggestion & needs alot of work & checks on the legalities ect to make it a useable safety feature. But I do think having lived over half my life with violence {Domestic mainly}& having worked with trained professionals as I knew more than their training could ever teach them,that this could help to keep mant men & women safer so this cyber sex/dating lifestyle can be enjoyed more!
When I have put small parts of this idea in any of my blogs it has alway's been singled out & commented on! All comments & feedback has been 100% positive!
So I thought you being my favourite site which I spend most my time on. Plus having such a wonderful 'COMMUNITY PERSONEL'might like to know my idea & think it over to see if it could be put into action or any benefit to AsianMatchMate.com & it's members. If not then that's that!
LMVSFAO

Thank You for your time.
Play Nicely & Take Care Cheers
vw

XX XX


X X VW XX


bentel55 66M

3/14/2011 6:01 am

I have tried to e-mail AsianMatchMate.com 4 times with NO answer!!!!! Rude!!
Here's what happened to me
I joined and then paid for a GOLD membership Paid with my C.C.
when I got my bill there's was a charge on them from a ESCORT SERVICE
which i dont use or need or want.So I started to look into it Cause i knew it wasn't from me then i noticed the date. Yes it was my GOLD membership to AsianMatchMate.com... Good Thing i wasn't married.. Yea that would of been real cutie....NOT!!!
So after tiring 4 times to talk to them with NO answer! I hope you can understand why i CAN NOT ever be a Paying member again with any Company that has anything to do with AsianMatchMate.com.. Still waiting on them to tell me why they did this!!!!!!
But like the people here so i stay as a free member but what they did was just so wrong in so many ways!!!!!
Thanks for reading just tring to make sure this Doesn't happen to anyone else!!!! Good Luck...


MrEman6976 45M
1164 posts
3/23/2011 4:36 pm

I was shocked to see that, again we, the customers, are being used as bait in a gambit by the site to draw others to the site and it's affiliates, why is this continually happening? I have read a few blogs, as well as heard from friends not linked to the site, that people that are customers, or were customers, are falsely being Advertised as escorts. This has to stop. This is, from my registration, log in information and regular contact received from the site, AsianMatchMate.com, not 'whatever escorts', I bite my tongue at the other affiliates this company seems to link me with but it is a step too far to think that those I know, and I, might be deemed an escort (or hooker in others eyes)


elwood19641000 57M
404 posts
3/24/2011 12:24 pm

Quoting synndarella:Hi

This is AGAIN about DUBAI ESCORTS. A sister SITE in you 'family tree' as you put it~ I was smacked in the face last week by a girl who THINKS I am an ESCORT.. and clearly doesn't approve. Would you like the crime reference number? I have sent NUMEROUS messages to you asking you to write to me SOMETHING that proves I joined a DATING site and am NOT working as an ESCORT.

I got a friend of mine to join DUBAI ESCORTS, and advertise herself as such. Her account HAS BEEN BANNED. And we all know why don't we? BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SOLICITE... however.. YOU are soliciting ME as an ESCORT by having my profile on NOT ONE but FIVE sites that ALL log in to this database

WILL YOU PLEASE SEND ME SOMETHING THAT I can show to others that I AM NOT NOR HAVE I EVER been a ESCORT?

You replied to my friend who enquired on behalf about my complaint, but HAVE NEVER replied to me.

Have you heard of BUZZFEED? I will make sure you are on there everyday if you do not help REPAIR what YOU have created in my life... a living hell... you denied knowledge of DUBAI ESCORTS previously
But I now have proof in my friends inbox.. messages from DUBAI ESCORTS with YOUR address in them... don't even bother trying to deny it.. just fix it!
I will make sure every single member on this site KNOWS what you are doing with there details

In the TOC.. I agreed you could use my info on other sites.. I did not and WAS NOT made aware that that would include BEING TOUTED AS AN ESCORT! In no way shape or form is this right!

AsianMatchMate.com - sort yourselves out. This is unacceptable behaviour and putting people in jeopardy. Perhaps a lawsuit will focus your tiny minds.


sodbusternorm 66M

4/5/2011 8:22 pm

I was billed to my cc upgrades I didn't order and billed movies I didn't order, sickening. I'm opting out closing acount before I go broke for no aparent reason. I hope they find a way to delete all my pertanent info regaurding this. VERY ANGRY!!!!!! If action at Various doesn't help I will be forced to take litigation thru cc card company atourneys and Better Business Bureau and Interstate Fraudulant Activities Commision. What was a shortest term sign up for $19.95 out of curiousity turned into over $55.00 over night. Sodbusternorm is out of here.


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
4/11/2011 10:51 pm

When I've checked the "RECENT NEW MEMBERS" the last couple of days, what comes up is full of old members who haven't been on site for "more than 3 months". How can someone who hasn't been on site for "more than 3 months" be a "RECENT NEW MEMBER"? Is this some kind of error or bug, or are there so few new members that the site has to use old members who haven't been on site for more than 3 months?

Also, for the longest time, when I get "Alerts" it doubles (sometimes triples) the alerts, meaning when "so and so" logs in I get 2 (or three) alerts that "so and so" has logged in instead of just one. It's really annoying. Any way to fix this?

Hope you can look into and fix these things. They - among other small things - really take away from the fun of this site.


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
4/25/2011 10:33 am

Many "THANKS" for clearing up the "Recent New Member" issue I had!

Now I've got a problem with the "live-show" window over lapping anything that's gets in front of it. Frankly, I don't understand the "live-show" stuff anyway. Why do we members need to BUY a live show when we can watch each other for FREE in a live cam show? I know it advertisement but it has become overwhelmingly annoying. PLUS, as a gay man I find it a real turn off to constantly see women with their legs spread or playing with their boobs when I'm looking for guys. I also find it funny that I have the constantly moving "live-show" window with women when I log in BUT when a female friend I have logs in she DOESN'T have it at all! So, I take it that this "live-show" window ONLY shows up for we male members, even if we're gay?! The same goes for when I open up the cam listings...the left hand side if filled with all sorts of women in ads to SELL us sex BUT when my female friend opens up the cam listing page, these ads aren't there. I HATE this!!! Isn't there anything you can do to STOP the ads to we men (gay men especially) for these naked women's pro sites? To me it is just as bad as a fake member trying to get us to go to a pay site, in fact, it's probably the same thing only just up front instead of pretending to be a member!

Well, all rants aside, can you please make the "live-show" window STOP covering up anything that gets in front of it, PLEASE?! And, maybe, for we gay members, eliminate it and those pesky female ads on the cam listings page?!

Thanks!


lik2play8 50F
5 posts
4/25/2011 3:27 pm

It has come to my attention that AsianMatchMate.com is posting my profile on all their sister sites and I'm wondering where I agreed to that? I've been a member on AsianMatchMate.com for a few years now and never remember giving my permission to be on all those other sites. I was shocked to be told I was found on another site and that I could go to it and sign in with my AsianMatchMate.com username and password. Even more shocked that it worked and there I was.


guyingong 53M

5/1/2011 7:45 pm

hi,ive sent about 10 emails to members in my area but when i go to my inbox/sent emails it says i havent sent any!!! this might be the reason im not getting any replies,im very confused.help!!


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/6/2011 9:49 am

    Quoting guyingong:
    hi,ive sent about 10 emails to members in my area but when i go to my inbox/sent emails it says i havent sent any!!! this might be the reason im not getting any replies,im very confused.help!!
Make sure you have the little box "tic'd" to save a copy of the email to your "sent" folder. If you want to send me a test email, please feel free to do so and I'll reply when/if I get it.


tight_pussy3 48F

5/9/2011 9:07 am

I dont what is going on,,my profile was always gone/removed,but i didnt!!why is it happening?im just new in this site and dont know the real score!!..,,thanks


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
5/10/2011 5:59 am

I am not seeing this page up-date...
on the blog's main page shows last comment here was 11pm 5/9/2011,,,but I see Nassy's 5/6 comment as the last one...


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rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/12/2011 9:12 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    I am not seeing this page up-date...
    on the blog's main page shows last comment here was 11pm 5/9/2011,,,but I see Nassy's 5/6 comment as the last one...
That could be if the member that made the quote has either been removed or hidden their profile, in addition to a pending, not yet reviewed, comment.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
5/12/2011 5:10 pm

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    That could be if the member that made the quote has either been removed or hidden their profile, in addition to a pending, not yet reviewed, comment.
mmmm,,,I agree,but 4days,and saw way too many for them all not to show up,,,


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rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/13/2011 7:17 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    mmmm,,,I agree,but 4days,and saw way too many for them all not to show up,,,
That's why I think the profile is gone or hidden.

Btw, I have know comments to take up to 7 days to show up.


hpe1081 73M

5/24/2011 5:43 pm

I'd like to be able to post where and when I'll be traveling and show up in that geographic area on a search. I can't figure out how to do short of changing my location but I'd like to be able to let possible connections know ahead of time without interfering locally. Is there a way to indicate travel dates and times and be picked up in searches?


kym0862 65F
17 posts
5/25/2011 10:25 pm

I'm really hoping this is a temp thing or maybe a bug that just showed up.
But I cannot see any of the memos that I added to the people in my network
This is real important because I do keep info that I may need (the persons real name their phone number, whether they are naughty or nice, ect)


ktownbabe 49F  
812 posts
6/15/2011 5:24 pm

my current bug is- my profile is shown as a COuple profile. i signed up on this site as a female. and NOt as a couple. but for some reason, i am shown up as one, even tho i did not make this change. i hope my profile can be fixed.

thanks.

"Don't hide yourself in regret. Just love yourself and you're set."
~Lady Gaga


ktownbabe 49F  
812 posts
6/15/2011 8:29 pm

    Quoting ktownbabe:
    my current bug is- my profile is shown as a COuple profile. i signed up on this site as a female. and NOt as a couple. but for some reason, i am shown up as one, even tho i did not make this change. i hope my profile can be fixed.

    thanks.
OKAY. phew. nevermind.
i'm finally back to normal.
all is good now

"Don't hide yourself in regret. Just love yourself and you're set."
~Lady Gaga


collegesexigirl 44F

6/20/2011 7:02 am

Why is it that there are people who are on this site simply to play games. If you are not serious about what you want why waste peoples time?


ken1712000 77M
4 posts
6/22/2011 4:52 pm

IMC has been great for quite a few months..but now most messages..not all...are not going through....something i'm doing wrong?


rm_hootman1114 42M
2 posts
6/28/2011 5:00 am

heloo sir i have been 3 yers here i have problem my new imc mesenger pls chaque it out im using noe imc msg ok pls slove prob ok


rm_hootman1114 42M
2 posts
6/28/2011 5:02 am

my imc is great few monts but i have problem my massage is not recive pls slove the problem thank u


givit2me999 59F

6/29/2011 12:57 pm

I'm experiencing problems with the body of the text/questions showing to me on the Advice Line. I can SEE the list of questions, but when I select one to view, the body of the text of the question is blank. On a rare occasion I'll select one and I can view it, but then when I try any of the others I have the same problem.

I can see all the comments/answers.

I've tried using both Chrome and Internet Explore 9. Started experiencing this problem June 15th.

Is this a known site problem? Or something I need to make changes to on my end?


highlander1493 51M/46F
9 posts
7/4/2011 3:38 am

yeah I had a bit of a bug you could say, this is our 3rd email about this and wish that it would get fixed. this is also our 3rd time with AsianMatchMate.com and we are very dipleased that we one again did not recieve our free mounths when we paid our membership and sad to say we are thinking of not renewing due to this. the fiirst membership we were supose to get 3mo free, that never happend, then we got our next one and it was to be 6mo free, didnt happen, now for the 3rd time 6mo free and still nothing. we have called, emailed and yet nothing, not very happy with your company right now, we have left our # and email address and still no reply. the last time we had someone asure us that this wouldnt happen again and still here we are. as you can see the problem still has not been fixed because the site has bumped us to standard members and we were to still have our 6mo of free membership.sorry to say it but like alot of people we will hope to hear back....highlander1493


rm_studpuppy44 62M
1 post
7/9/2011 3:58 pm

My biggest beef with your sites is all the false profiles, false flirts, and false views. I've been a member of and on for quite a few years now. I recently joined again because of 1 of your false profiles of a female from my home town. I understand your trying to make money but that just isn't right. If you can't make money being honest, you shouldn't be allowed to have these sites in the first place!!!


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
7/14/2011 10:50 am

WHY has AsianMatchMate.com started putting "Explicit Photo" over the pictures of members that show up in my "Alerts"? Isn't that what this site is all about, explicit photos of our bodies if we choose to show them and sex and seeing each other's sex organs?! I've tried to find an option to remove this but there isn't one. WHY has this prudish practice started? How can it be removed? And WHY was this started in the first place when I didn't ask for it?


ken1712000 77M
4 posts
7/27/2011 2:44 pm

IM not working..can't sent any...and...when opening messages...causes loss of internet connection


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
7/28/2011 12:29 pm

    Quoting loveto69alot:
    our state home page (men looking for woman) has been taken over by a large amount of obvious fake accounts, i had been a paying memeber for the last 5 years and always reported these fakes, but now as a standard i can't What gives?
Standards can make reports~just click this link at the bottom of any page~~ Report Abuse or Sexually Explicit Ads


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barebutt_sissy 64M

8/2/2011 7:35 am

My biggest issue's are when glitches occur (like my profile being up for months being shut down because it "violated standards" somehow and there is no quick easy means to "contact" passion.com to get the problem addressed. Since I am a paying to be here I expect every day of my paid membership to be an active working membership day and my profile that has been "acceptable" for months to continue being open and available. Install a "CONTACT US" button so issues as this can be addressed and that I get my moneys worth....and credit us days/time for the downtime. IF my profile has been approved and posted, dont decide it is violating something and then not give us a means to communicate with you to either fix on our end or your end.


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/24/2011 3:49 pm

Yes I have to agree with you, just do the math!! and if you decide to renew you should get a cheaper rate!!!!!!! as some members have been on here for years and years, they should get some THANKS for their continued support, but a.f.f does not seem to want to do that, so no respect for repeat paying members!! I forgot did not notice my auto renew had been put on!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


foxeyatfifty 65F

8/29/2011 2:13 pm

Get GET RID OF CONTESTS all fixed anyway and this is not a democratic sight, you staff pick ten, may be all your friends or maybe members you have made up!!! I dont know!! But If you are going to get rid of something GET RID OF THAT, as probably fixed or to a bogus member. As well as the one you have now " HOT SHOT"should be put on hold as you as you should be takeing the members coments as a priority, not a stupid contest, FIXED !!!!! So get your priorities right!!!!!!!!!!

Have a great horny day LUV


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
8/31/2011 2:47 am

Bug on Activities
I'm using google chrome on vista home edition

Its been like it for a while now. Using activities from the tab on the red bar. In 'me and my friends' When I scroll down, on the second 'view more' it doesn't go further down, it doubles up each entry. When I press it again, it will triple and so on..

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


MrRareity 62M  
4562 posts
8/31/2011 6:42 am

I am having problems with the fake profiles just like most people are. I've filled out the survey telling them about this a few times but gave up after I had asked to be contacted by AsianMatchMate.com and wasn't. I don't mind getting flirts that are legitimate ones. If you go and look at all of the flirts I've received you will see that they are not legitimate ones. What happens is not only do I get all of these flirts who's profiles have been turned off, but they carry over into my how's viewed me list. So I end up with 6 to 9 pages of fake viewers and no way of deleting them. There should be a way for us to delete the people how have viewed us if we want to but we can't. I am copying a letter I wrote to AsianMatchMate.com and there response back to me.

Note I did have to leave out the name of the person who responded to me as well as my name.


Dear Member,

Thank you for your comments and suggestions. We have passed along your message to the appropriate teams for review and consideration. Member feedback is one of the most important considerations when adding new features and making improvements to our site.

As far as the popup advertisements are concerned, unfortunately, we will not be removing them at this time. I so apologize for any inconvenience this may be causing you.

If you have further detailed suggestions for changes on the site, please feel free to email us again.

Thank you,
AsianMatchMate.com
Customer Support

Rate our service
http://AsianMatchMate.com.com=

=========================================================

Type: Suggestion/Feedback
Handle:
Email:
LEVEL: 300
PWSID: 16207347_57686
Browser: Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 5.5; AOL 6.0; Windows 98; Win 9x 4.90)
Date: 08/15/2011

COMMENT:
To whom it may concern:

I have taken the survey that AsianMatchMate.com periodically will send its members. Each time I’ve asked AsianMatchMate.com to contact me about problems I see with AsianMatchMate.com. As to this date I’ve yet receive any feedback. I’ve been a paying member since April 2002. I feel that my voice should be heard for being a member as long as I have.

I believe that there needs to be more improvements on the flirts and who has viewed you area on AsianMatchMate.com. I don’t mind getting flirts and understand it’s a way for on-paying members to show someone that they are interested in you. However, it’s gotten out of control. I should have the option to block all flirts, or make it so that only members who match my preferences can send flirts.

When someone sends you a flirt they also show up on your who has viewed you list. Let face it almost 100% of the flirts are false flirts. I will see the flirt today and then it’s gone shortly after that. Then when I go to who has viewed me I will see flirts profile and next to it there profile is either turned off or inactive. Once someone has either turned off there profile or it’s inactive I should have the option of deleting them from who has viewed me. By doing this it will cut done on the multiple pages of those that have viewed you yet there profile is either turned off or it’s inactive. I know you can take a look at my profile go in and take a look and you will see exactly what I mean. It is very annoying and I really don’t like it.

The other problem I have is when I go to log in. I don’t want to see some fake girl asking me if I want to let my membership lapse by not having my auto-renewal turned on. I also don’t like the pictures of the women when you go to long on, or the pop up that is asking me in I’m in this city and how horney she is and if I want to hook up. This is very close to false advertisement; AsianMatchMate.com escapes it by saying in very small words that these women may not be in your geographical location. I don’t want to see this and I’m sure others don’t either. AsianMatchMate.com should do the right thing and stop this. It’s very close to the bait and switch, you show these beautiful women to try and lure men in and then you have them because there isn’t much we can do without being a paid member.

For once would AsianMatchMate.com please do something about these problems and no say well we can’t because of…. AsianMatchMate.com can do anything they want they just choose not to do it because of money. For once why don’t you listen to what members have to say?

Sincerely,

AFFILATE PID: p62150c


We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
8/31/2011 3:57 pm

    Quoting  :

There are many activities that cap how many points you can earn. Click on your point count and see your history. It will tell you where you have earned and where you can still earn points.


oral4metoday 44F

9/3/2011 10:14 pm

Members help many thousands. Rather than reapeat here help people. You get paid for helping the majority stay on AsianMatchMate.com. Not the same people. If you spent less time on the advise line, more may vist here.

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talionstar
35 year old Man
Gold coast, Queensland, Australia

RE: RE: photo





Sep 4, 2011 3:02 PM AEST

> ---------------------------------------------------
> Sender: oral4metoday
> To: talionstar
> Date: Sep 4, 2011 2:06 PM AEST
>
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> I do hundreds. I will paste community for you hun. Good luck i don't have time individually. Try it. my account, let me know how you go. x
>
> > Sender: talionstar
> > To: oral4metoday
> > Date: Sep 4, 2011 1:54 PM AEST
> >
> > can u help me upload aphoto from i photo both any idea how
thanks for your help babe ,i owe u one .it just gets better lol xxx


rm_nrcab 39M
5 posts
9/14/2011 4:06 am

Just a suggestion. It is very hard as a standard member to actually get in contact with people on here, which can act to deter members from being active. It would give members more motivation to be an active member on the site if standard members were given a limited number of messages and profile views when they first join the site. IE, If a new member is given 5 free messages and 25 free profile views they will be more likely to spend money to get a silver/gold membership once they have had a taste of silver/gold features and used up their free messages/views.

As a standard member I would prefer to be given a small number of messages and profiles views per month, to keep me interested in the site. Something like 2 messages and 10 profile views per month would give standard members more reason to be active and still be small enough that there would be an incentive to spend money on silver/gold memberships. A policy like this one would increase the number of people active on the site and would likely increase revenue for the site as more people would be actively on the site.

If a policy like that seems risky it could be implemented on a trial basis for a couple months to see if it increases revenue for the site or hurts revenue.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
9/14/2011 8:32 am

    Quoting rm_nrcab:
    Just a suggestion. It is very hard as a standard member to actually get in contact with people on here, which can act to deter members from being active. It would give members more motivation to be an active member on the site if standard members were given a limited number of messages and profile views when they first join the site. IE, If a new member is given 5 free messages and 25 free profile views they will be more likely to spend money to get a silver/gold membership once they have had a taste of silver/gold features and used up their free messages/views.

    As a standard member I would prefer to be given a small number of messages and profiles views per month, to keep me interested in the site. Something like 2 messages and 10 profile views per month would give standard members more reason to be active and still be small enough that there would be an incentive to spend money on silver/gold memberships. A policy like this one would increase the number of people active on the site and would likely increase revenue for the site as more people would be actively on the site.

    If a policy like that seems risky it could be implemented on a trial basis for a couple months to see if it increases revenue for the site or hurts revenue.
.



As a standard member~I like your idea.
BUT~there are so many
FAKES and SCAMMERS
here that it would just be very
wrong to put it in use.



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rm_nrcab 39M
5 posts
9/15/2011 2:08 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    .



    As a standard member~I like your idea.
    BUT~there are so many
    FAKES and SCAMMERS
    here that it would just be very
    wrong to put it in use.

True, perhaps by tracking IPs it could be implemented so that those features where allowed on a monthly basis per IP not account.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
9/15/2011 5:48 am

    Quoting rm_nrcab:
    True, perhaps by tracking IPs it could be implemented so that those features where allowed on a monthly basis per IP not account.
In general terms IP's aren't static thus a member isn't tracked by them.The site does use IP's to ban countries.


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just4fun522 65M

9/28/2011 4:23 pm

how about listening to the person paying the bills for all of you. 50 mile radious dosent mean 100 and why cant we clear the listed people who hot list us to try to get us to send them money and marraige proposals

its great when you check the list and 99 out of 100 dont have an active profile, but we get to deal with all the crap left on the lists.

let us deleate em or since you guys are so god at getting em to us, how about working on an auto delete deal the when there profile is deleated, they get wiped out and we dont have to deal with it.

i brought a three month membership, now wish i had just done the one month again . now you got your money and i cant get a refund

contacted 4 who your site said we were matches 5 star even, all of them saw the so called matches and said they were not interested. and i havent done or said anything to them


foxeyatfifty 65F

10/6/2011 1:02 am

I have a blog on this, but would not be seen as much!! My blog is to do with the Video intro feature, I don't use it!! but I don't know if it is used that often!! And on the ones that have used it, the sound is almost inaudible!! So in your new design of the sight, are you still going to include the feature Vidoe introduction??

Have a great horny day LUV


BikerBabe50 66M/61F
6 posts
10/6/2011 6:08 pm

I would like to know why is it my husband upgraded to a gold member vip and the upgrade page said 12 months at $8.99 which totals $107.88 and he would get 6 months free which totaled 18 months but instead of charging him for 12 he was charged he was charged $161.82 which is $8.99 for 18 months and then another $29.99 which we are assuming is for the vip status. I send a feedback and left my email address on it but as of this writing have not heard anything. When you advertise 12 months for $8.99 plus 6 months free that is suppose to mean you upgrade for 12 months at $8.99 and we will give you 6 months free which totals 18 months. I do believe that when you say upgrade for 12 months at a price per month and 6 months free but you charge for all 18 months that is considered false advertising which if I believe correctly is against the law. When I sent the feedback I asked for the problem to be fixed unless you had a good explanation as to why yo are telling people that you will charge so much for 12 months and give them 6 months free but yet charge for all 18 months. I also said in the feedback that if you couldn't do either of these I would report it to the State Attorney here in our state and if I had to also report it in the state from which ya'll operate. With ya'll doing this it does not make me want to recommend your site to others plus it makes this company look like a rip off and all your interested in is the money.


BikerBabe50 66M/61F
6 posts
10/17/2011 6:55 pm

Well it has been 11 days since I posted this and have yet to receive nor has my husband received an email or reply to this problem. I guess your compnay does'nt want to fix the problem with false advertising and give us back the money that should have never came out.


MachoGuapito1983 42M
28 posts
10/22/2011 4:19 am

    Quoting  :



Sounds GOOD To Me...!!!
FAKERS/SPAMMERS..
Wont Spent A Single
Cent Looking For
Their Victims To Lure Lol...
Its Noticeable..Most Of
Those FAKERS Are STANDARD.
But Hey..I Noticed Too
On Our Side Of The World..
Many Of These "CAUCASIAN"
Female Profiles Were GOLD
Members..After Just A Week
Stay..Their Premuim Profiles
Were Gone.Some Even Sent Me
Flirts..Just One Look At
Their Profile Pics Its An
OBVIOUS FAKE.Checked Their
Pics At Tineye Too..It Showed
The Website Addresses Where
Those Pics Were Stolen.
I Wonder..Why Some Of These
Obvious Fakes Chose To Pay
And After A Few Days..Their
Gold Premuim Profiles Were Gone.
the common saying..
Sorry This Member Has Removed
His/Her Profile.


Bub5010 71M
2 posts
11/2/2011 8:48 pm

Dear AsianMatchMate.com: When I start my webcam I can filter members that I can see on the IMC, however, in the section where my webcam is shown along with members who can view my webcam, I cannot click on the hyperlink that allows me to filter members who can view my cam. Also, I cannot access the hyperlink that gives me the option to turn on or turn off my microphone. What's up? Am I doing something wrong? Is this a software glitch. Is there an area I can go to that activates these features?I am a Gold Member and should have these options available to me. Thanks, - Bub5010


rm_BlackH0ney 38F
1 post
11/7/2011 9:59 am

I recently posted an Article in the Rants and Raves section because I get so mad when people circumvent the cupid email filtering.

Is there a way to make sure someone cannot temporarily change their profile solely to enable the email form at the bottom of a profile?


toothysmile 55M
16538 posts
11/19/2011 3:33 am

hello
and thank you for giving me the opportunity to voice my opinion.

i have been a blogger [and several times gold member] since september 2005.

firstly, i would like to see the "comments by others" return to my blog. it is very helpful. a lot of times people comment on old posts of mine. with the said column i could see which post they commented on and i could respond. now i can't.

secondly, from the home page i would like a link that takes me directly to my blog. right now, when i log on i have to click on 'community', then 'blogs', wait till this page loads, then click on 'view my blog'.

thirdly, the letters on my posts suddenly appear smaller. why? what can be done about that?

i appreciate your efforts to provide us with better services. however, these are my concerns and i wanted to make them known.

again, thanks for giving me this opportunity.


come visit me
the bright side of the moon


discreetlyhard1 56M
397 posts
11/19/2011 11:41 pm

Please put "blog" in the Blog spell check dictionary. [Ignore] and [Ignore All] is annoying. It actually suggests Bog.


lomileage5 66M
10248 posts
11/20/2011 9:59 am

thank you,I've been here for nearly 3 years,gold membership. i would prefer going back to the previous appearance/format. this new one is inconvenient and much harder to find the features I like so much. there is no benefit to it,so.....let's go back????


iwanatearuapat 34M
6 posts
12/1/2011 2:59 pm

I can't click the "allow" or anything in the general settings in flash when I try and use the messenger and cam. In fact if a menu window pops up I can't close it and it crashes and I have to close out of the window. I know this is a comment issue but sometimes has to do with how pages are formated so since your in the middle of a redesign I thought it might have a connection to my issue that popped up with several different computers / browsers out of the blue a few days ago after weeks of it mostly working....but if you could clean up AsianMatchMate.com messenger a bunch in general that would be nice as it tends to crash a lot for most people i;ve talked to.


BikerBabe50 66M/61F
6 posts
12/8/2011 9:29 pm

I would like to know why is it females are suppose to be able to veiw profiles but if I am not on for awhile when I get back on I can't veiw no ones profile unless I am on for several hours or I get on for a couple of days in a row. this does not make since. It makes me not want to get on.


1hottbbwchar 51F
119 posts
1/31/2012 6:35 pm

Please get rid of the bots advertising links to other websites. It's very annoying having to iggy several bots in a chat session. The advertising only annoys the chatters and is not benefiting anybody.


ken1712000 77M
4 posts
2/22/2012 8:07 am

on IM..window appears...unable to type message to other person...esp if i click on another window then return to the IM...getting worse every day...as a gold member, don't think i deserve this kind of service


rm_a704guy 45M
55 posts
3/7/2012 10:01 pm

Sometimes in an instant message with one other user, photos that I upload do not upload to the IM session /window. (Neither myself or the person I'm IM-ing with are able to see the photo.) When I click the uploaded photo's number within the IM window to verify they uploaded, a new window opens up & takes me to the home page.

WTF???


rm_a704guy 45M
55 posts
4/18/2012 12:10 pm

Since the last rebuild, the pictures on the home page no longer "auto rotate / refresh." Is this by design or another screw up thing that got broken? Only way the pictures change is if you manually reload the page in your browser.

Alerts toolbar:
#1
Also, when I get an alert in the toolbar, for the past month or so, it keeps telling me the same alert over & over again, despite me clicking "remove."

#2
If there are several notifications from the Alerts bar, and "Show More Alerts" is displayed, clicking that link to get to the other, non showing alerts does nothing.


thinkingofyou12 65M
4342 posts
5/23/2012 1:33 pm

I was a paid member for two years before becoming a standard. This is the first time I've felt a need to contact the powers that own AsianMatchMate.com and Passion.

Many wonderful women are up in arms and some are canceling their paid memberships and leaving. because of Various's posting their Profiles, pictures and Blogs as members of "Fuck A Slut", which appears to one of Various's affiliated sites.

Please let the upper management know they just may have killed their Golden Goose. They need to reconsider putting AsianMatchMate.com and Passion's members on that site.

Just my two cents.


synndarella 45F
5236 posts
6/2/2012 5:49 am

Suggestion
Can you please give reasons when you reject videos, pictures, blog posts, blog comments. "You have broke the TOU's" is not an explanation. Every single time I have had things rejected I've had to contact you.

I've never got a reply from your customer service department within a reasonable time. It's almost always at least 8 hours (not contacting you out of hours) Which is fine most of the time, but SO frustrating. I'm waiting on a video now, that has nothing in that my previous videos and blogs haven't had.. I'm completely lost!
Nothing is instant on here, appreciate you have a lot of people to deal with... so doesn't it make sense to give a reason so I could just EDIT my video now and get it up.

It's not like a meant to break the TOU'S is it.

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.


flyinghow603 50M  
328 posts
6/2/2012 12:58 pm

The enlarge photo feature is not working, and that hot viewer is useless. The videos often don't load. I am sure you are listening (yea right), so what's up with that? ANOTHER BUG? How can ONE site have so many bugs yet charge so much money for premium service? You need to close the site for 6 months and start over.


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
6/3/2012 10:28 am

Today - June 3, 2012 - The new site continues to have MAJOR problems. The last 3 days, the "show larger picture" option on members photos no longer works at all. And the "updates" on the new "!" feature keeps popping up the same information I read and then delete, over and over again. And I question WHY the "!" was added into the new site design when the old "Alerts" is pretty much the same thing AND since it is still part of the design? WHY have both?! Now there are two features that interrupt our viewing and commuinications pleasure. It's no wonder members are leaving the site! If you could please fix these and other problems with the new site design as soon as you can.

Oh, one more thing I've just found, when I click the "watch post" for this and the other "community" blog complaint posts, it is no longer "saved" so I can watch it. It "disappears" . . . just as if you don't want members to be able to get to the complaint and suggestion posts easily. Hmmmm, wonder why?!


flyinghow603 50M  
328 posts
6/3/2012 8:42 pm

What a clever idea to post the bug reports as one long running conversation. That way they are easier to ignore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG THIS SITE HAS SOME GREAT MEMBERS, BUT THIS SITE TRULY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
6/7/2012 7:46 pm

Today - Thursday, June 7 - I discovered that I can no longer remove comments made on my pictures I have posted on my profile page or in my additional photos. We used to have control of and could delete comments we didn't like with the old design but this new one sucks in that we can't now! Also, while the "see larger photo" now actually enlarges the photos, when it does enlarge it does so BEHIND the thumbnails and other things on the page so you STILL CANNOT SEE THE LARGE PHOTOS like we used to with the old design!!! I've been a member since mid-2005 and of all the various redesigns and updates, this latest one SUCKS THE WORSE because it has the most bugs and the worst user-friendly design (or should I say "user UN-friendly"?!). Whoever designed this crap and whoever okayed it to replace the old design should be fired on the spot! PLEASE fix these lastest problems as soon as possible!!!


community replies on 6/26/2012 2:22 pm:
We're working on fixing these problems ASAP.

flyinghow603 50M  
328 posts
6/8/2012 1:54 am

Could you please look into the member vid playback....many of them stop playing a few seconds into the vid. I have checked with Verizon, and my FIOS ISP is in fine shape, computer is new. I would appreciate it. Also, AsianMatchMate.com is doing a great job (stand back, I am about to say something positive lol) filtering spam from women in foreign countries to my inbox , but I am getting increasing numbers of spam requests on the instant messenger. Thanks. Have a great weekend!


flyinghow603 50M  
328 posts
6/22/2012 12:51 am

Hi, any progress on the members video playback? They are stalling and taking a long time to load up and stream. I have FIOS internet connection, and my ISP says it is not my pc or connection. Just wondering how that is coming along? Thanks.


community replies on 6/26/2012 2:20 pm:
Hi flyinghow603,

This bug was reopened recently, but I'm showing that it has been fixed now. What browser are you using? Some members were having issues with Firefox and IE9. I personally had problems playing videos on Firefox, but had some out of date add-ons. Once I updated my browser, videos played normally.

MistyFrench35 90F  
10 posts
7/12/2012 11:13 am

I can't delete unwanted emails. This problem started today 7/12/12. thank you


ybnormaldiva 44F  
425 posts
7/20/2012 8:13 am

In the last couple of days, the sites built in Instant Messanger has been logging me out/booting me off after about 5 minutes. I am not showing on the list of members logged into IM, but I still have the main IM window open and can see the list but I am not showing on it, and I am still actively engaged in conversations with others.

"Well-behaved women rarely make history" ~Laurel Thatcher Ulrich


community replies on 7/30/2012 12:52 pm:
Our IMC is very buggy as of late. We will eventually be rebuilding the chat system. You may see a survey around the site soon asking for your feedback on broadcasting and chatting on AsianMatchMate.com so we make the best tool for our members.

rm_purplelove57 51M/53F
1 post
8/1/2012 5:47 pm

Hi, could anyone tell me if there are any AsianMatchMate.com social events planned for the Denver area? I attended a Halloween party last year and it was fun!


DaJuggernaut321 34M  
24 posts
8/4/2012 8:07 am

What's wrong with IM?
First off, I was using Friendfinder Messenger v 4.1, which starting a couple of days ago, will not fully connect me to AsianMatchMate.com, rendering it pretty much useless. Was there a recent patch that outdated the messenger program?

I've been using the flash IMC lately, it's alright, takes up too much memory, which is why I liked the Messenger download. Since yesterday, when I start the Flash IMC, I can page the first person I pick with a regular response. After that, the moment I type something in the box, say "hello" for instance, I get to "h" and it INSTANTLY sends the page. This is incredibly frustrating sending a one-letter page, over and over and over.


Baldghost12 75M

8/10/2012 6:51 am

Hi Aryana. Approximately one week ago, I noticed a glitch in the system which has still not been fixed. When I pull up my new match page, the photos (or whatever is there instead) are posting offset to the upper right, and the text is posting offset to the lower left. Also when I try to view the additional photos that someone posted on their profile, they will not open to fullsize. I have been a member of AsianMatchMate.com's various alter-egos, including Hustler Personals, many times over the last few years under different nicknames and I have never seen this problem before. Would you please bring it to some tech person's attention? Thanks!


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
8/14/2012 12:39 am

    Quoting  :

.

Update your flashplayer,the IMC here is based on it.There are
a few threads in this blog~and group with info about the IMC
Using other~off site IM's will also cause issues if also open.
Return your cursor to the chat line to type there.
~~~
Ive had the location issue,its based on your IP location~not your zip.
All my searches start 300+ miles from my zip...



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_infinity_ 109F
5688 posts
8/15/2012 5:05 pm

I personally would like to see A.F.F. dissolve the "have children and want children" option. The dynamics of A.F.F. have changed over the years and, because of these changes I think, disclosing that you've children on a sex site is inappropriate. I'm also of the belief people shouldn't share their personal lives of their kids here, either. Namely blogs. Every single one of us, needs to protect ourselves from predadors and by eliminating these things I've mentioned, I believe would help tremendously.


handsomeboy2776 45M

8/17/2012 4:53 pm

Hi AsianMatchMate.com stuff,

I'd like to make a suggestion. Here in my town not many people, especially ladies, know about this site which is famous around the world.

I live in a city with a population of over 2 million people and I've noticed that just a few people from my city are registered to this site.

I wonder if you guys can ad AsianMatchMate.com on social networks such as facebook which is used by every single person in town. Or how about windows messenger of hotmail which is also used by everyone here. That way people will get to know more about this site.

I'm a very active member with pictures, blog posts, groups discussions and so on but I think everything I do it's not worthy when there aren't many local female members to search for on this site.

Thank you,

handsomeboy2776

handsomeboy2776


community replies on 8/20/2012 12:26 pm:
Hi there handsomeboy2776,

This is a great suggestion! Due to our content, we aren't allowed on Facebook, but you can find us on Twitter and G+. Search @adultfriendfind and you'll see us there.

rm_Kregor3_ 66M
204 posts
8/18/2012 9:45 am

As a co-moderator of a group, I would like to see the site install a "door chime" in the chat rooms. It could be put on an "on/off" toggle for those who don't want to use it, but it would be great for those of us who go to our chat room and find that nobody is there.
.
With the chime, we could open a separate tab and check on the thread posts, and hear if someone enters the chat room. I can't tell you how many times I have missed chatting opportunities while I am off reading posts, or when I go back to the room later, found that I missed by mere minutes.
.
I think this would be a great way to ramp up the participation in the chat rooms. Some of us would be willing to have a tab open in case someone shows up, if we didn't have to sit and wait, eyes on screen so that we don't miss someone entering the room.

I can live without winning the good fight... but I can not live without fighting it.


_infinity_ 109F
5688 posts
8/21/2012 1:02 am

    Quoting  :

Who's to say really what these predators are capable of and men with children should not be exempt from this list of eliminating the "have children and want children" option. Its nice to know you and others support this idea white_lily.


_infinity_ 109F
5688 posts
8/22/2012 11:23 am

Hello Aryana, My header on my home page on A.F.F. was in web design codes, briefly today and yesterday. Just wanted to let you know.


_infinity_ 109F
5688 posts
8/30/2012 9:33 pm

Hi, Aryana. My air time on the blogs keeps timing out and comments seem to be disappearing, too. Just thought I'd let you know.


_infinity_ 109F
5688 posts
9/1/2012 6:54 am

Good morning Aryana, My blog's posts are posting on September first but, my watchers are coming in on the date August thirty first. This had happened once before on the nineteenth/eighteenth of August and it was remedied, then. Hopefully it can be fixed again. Thank you, in advance.


AllMyPinkHoles 46F
2 posts
9/2/2012 4:35 pm

WHEN I WAS A STANDARD I COULD VIEW NEW MEMBER PROFILES. STANDARDS STILL CAN! SO IT APPEARS ONLY SILVER MEMBERS ARE BLOCKED FROM NEW PROFILES FOR 3 DAYS WHAT IS THIS CRAP!!!! STANDARDS AND GOLDS CAN VIEW BUT ONLY SILVERS ARE EXCLUDED! THIS IS B.S.


BrownEyedBBW 53F  
8831 posts
10/11/2012 2:21 pm

    Quoting  :

I personally would like to see A.F.F. dissolve the "have children and want children" option. The dynamics of A.F.F. have changed over the years and, because of these changes I think, disclosing that you've children on a sex site is inappropriate. I'm also of the belief people shouldn't share their personal lives of their kids here, either. Namely blogs. Every single one of us, needs to protect ourselves from predadors and by eliminating these things I've mentioned, I believe would help tremendously.

Is it really the responsibility of this site to do a parent's job? I don't think so.

First, this is not just a site where people meet to screw in some dark alley, it's a social networking site. a lot of people bring more than their genitals to the party, if their children are a part of their life, so be it. If they want to mention is in their blog, that's their business.

as for the Do you have/want children option, a child is more likely to be assaulted (physically, sexually, emotionally) by family member or close friend. I'm not saying that there aren't predators about there but you are just as likely to find them on Match or Harmony as you will anywhere else.

If you are old enough to be here, you are old enough to decide if and how much you choose to discuss your children. And I like to know if a man has children in advance because that helps me understand him and his circumstances better.

We don't need this site to become a nanny.


BrownEyedBBW 53F  
8831 posts
10/11/2012 2:33 pm

Hi, I'm having a big problem with the activities bar. I has my setting set up so that I didn't see any of the activities, I don't want or need to see them.

Out of the blue today, not only does the bar keep popping up but it's showing activities of people who are not friends, in my hotlist or match my cupid setting s(for example I have activity from a 25 year old female in Japan, 27 year old female in Hyperbadad several couples).

I have gone in several times to change my settings and saw that some of my settings, which had been "NO" had been flipped to "YES".

How do I get this fixed so I can turn all of my activity notifications off *or* I can stop the activity window from popping up and cutting off part of the right hand side of my screen?

Thanks in advance for a timely response.


the_stray_cat 66F
4638 posts
10/14/2012 7:04 pm

My icebreaker keeps getting declined. It has no addresses, phone numbers, or illegible characters. It says, "I do not care about your dick" as the headline. In the body, "Show me what is between your ears." That is exactly what I keep sending in, and exactly what keeps getting declined.

Your message when declining: "Dear the_stray_cat,

We're sorry to inform that your Icebreaker has not been approved. Please go to your Icebreaker Preferences page to ensure that you do not have your phone number, email, advertisements, or illegible characters posted in your message. We will review your message again after you update it. Once approved, your Free Silver membership will be activated.

Thanks for your participation.

The AsianMatchMate.com Team"

Peace and love is where it's at.


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
10/21/2012 11:15 am

Please remove the activities bar as I have tried numerous times to turn it off and it stays on the screen. Especially when your in your mail section. I don't use it nor need it.

Tangie247


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
10/21/2012 11:16 am

Also.. add the word Rubenesque to the dictionary for AsianMatchMate.com.. It banned my account for having it on my profile.

Tangie247


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
10/27/2012 5:37 pm

I'm posting this Saturday eve, October 27, 7:35pm CST . . .
The last couple of weeks, more and more of my friends and those I've been interested in have "seemingly" been "Online NOW" almost 24 hours a day for days at a time (some for weeks). When I've contacted some of these folks, they said they have logged out and haven't been on for days. So why is the "Online NOW" alert feature to "assist" us in keeping in contact with people now screwing up?! It once worked great and was a good way to connect quickly. Now I'm frustrated with people who don't respond, and I've got friends and those interested in me wondering why I'm not responding to them since the site is showing that I'm "Online NOW" in bright green letters. I wish someone in tech support/repair would take a look into this issue. Maybe no one knows this has been happening and no one else has reported it. Anyway, sure with the "Online NOW" feature was working correctly!


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
10/27/2012 7:02 pm

    Quoting tackman57:
    I'm posting this Saturday eve, October 27, 7:35pm CST . . .
    The last couple of weeks, more and more of my friends and those I've been interested in have "seemingly" been "Online NOW" almost 24 hours a day for days at a time (some for weeks). When I've contacted some of these folks, they said they have logged out and haven't been on for days. So why is the "Online NOW" alert feature to "assist" us in keeping in contact with people now screwing up?! It once worked great and was a good way to connect quickly. Now I'm frustrated with people who don't respond, and I've got friends and those interested in me wondering why I'm not responding to them since the site is showing that I'm "Online NOW" in bright green letters. I wish someone in tech support/repair would take a look into this issue. Maybe no one knows this has been happening and no one else has reported it. Anyway, sure with the "Online NOW" feature was working correctly!
.

Over the last several days I've noticed this also.
as mentioned in the 'Live From AsianMatchMate.com' group there
is an issue that the site is looking into concerning
members showing as online in chat and the IMC.This
might be related to that.

Going to post this into the current questions thread in the group.



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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
11/4/2012 10:10 am

.

COMFIRMED

With a call to customer service there IS a site GLITCH!
Not a change in membership policy as the rumors posting
into the blogs state!
IF the rumor were true~I (and other members I've spoken
directly with) would still be able to use the
site,as I'm a gold member!



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Msboobsy 68F
5972 posts
11/13/2012 1:21 pm

I have not been able to open the web cams for a couple of days. I can go into the IM and open them. But not from the home page.


fe1styw3nch 50F
160 posts
11/19/2012 5:04 pm

The new mail box is ridiculous!

It says I have new mail when I don't (or if I do I can't find it).

It brings up mail that i deleted (stuff from AsianMatchMate.com a few months ago - presumably because I didn't read it and just clicked delete because I knew it was an advert for some competition or other AsianMatchMate.com decided I MUST read it)!

I don't need to see auto replies that I wrote in a conversation FGS!

My mailbox is now so full it's overflowing - why on earth do I want to keep hold of emails from months ago?! I've tried deleting but have to do it a page at a time - when it says 'select all', why does it only select the few that are on the page?!

AARRGGHH!!!


ractr9 64M  
312 posts
11/29/2012 10:54 pm

In the "live member webcams" display, it would be nice to see if they have their microphone turned on.

Rich (I like to eat pussy)


rm_dark7410 32M
1 post
11/30/2012 11:14 pm

One site suggestion i have for this site is something similar to what is incorporated in the Groups. I think after about 3-4 months Non-Active members should be listed as Associate members, unless they are upgraded. It would be easier on people searching through profiles. Maybe have an option where you can turn on or off the ability to see those members that would be listed as *Associate Members* or *Recently Inactive Member*. It would help get rid of a lot of spam, bots, and members not interested in staying on the website. It would help clean up the "clutter" and keep members aware of who is active and who is not. I am aware that members can turn their profiles off or on, however most people do not act on this, and do not do it. Does anyone else think this is a good idea?


rm_MCRiderD 59M
1405 posts
12/6/2012 9:41 pm

Tables on main blog pages are not respecting the width of graphics or tags with respect to text. The text is now overlapping graphics which it should never do, and wasn't doing until about 5 days ago.

As one of a quite a few members that spend a lot of time trying to make the format of our blogs look nice, they now look like crap and sloppy.

However, if you click on the post and go to the blogs dedicated page, it looks perfect.

Please address soon.

My [blog MCRiderD] is bisexual; both men and woman should come.
Latest Post: Branching Out 8


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
12/16/2012 4:02 pm

I ran into an interesting bug recently. I changed my geographical location while on vacation to where I was. All of a sudden I was denied. I had to call customer service to correct it and they did (Thanks). I changed it back and was denied again when I returned home. I again went thru the process of calling customer service.

I think that AsianMatchMate.com needs to update their dictionary of wording and terminology for profiles. I plan on traveling a lot in the next several months and I would like to meet people from the area where I will be without the hassle of calling customer service to fix this type of issues.

Thanks Again

Tangie247


smartasswoman 64F  
35752 posts
1/4/2013 7:22 pm

Emailed notifications are out of control. I'm getting emails every time someone views my profile! I just double checked my notification settings and they specifically say I don't want to be notified of profile views, flirts, or hotlists.


rm_markst62 59M
55 posts
1/10/2013 7:43 am

I just started coming back to AsianMatchMate.com and discovered I can no longer get a silver membership and no one seems to know why you stopped it or when you will bring it back! I find it very disappointing that no other option but gold is offered now and will stay just a stander ed.

Enjoy life while you can!


livesexy_se 47M/46F
2476 posts
1/10/2013 8:27 am

All sorts of problems!

1 whenever we long on with mobile in English we automatically seem to show on the instant messenger and people start sending us IM’s which is nice but not always wanted.
We can’t seem to find a setting to stop that happening.
Strangely it doesn’t happen when we login in Swedish. We noticed the menu’s and interface are different in Swedish. The is obviously some difference.

2 The search function doesn’t work. For example we live in Stockholm, if we search for couples in the area of Gothenburg and specify 100 km from Gothenburg we still get search results for the location of Stockholm..
The only way we can search from the location of Gothenburg or anywhere else in Sweden for that matter is if we change our profile location to the location we want to search.

3 The email preferences have stopped working. A week or so ago we had notifications for people who viewed us once a day and people who mailed us immediately. That was how we had our preferences set.
Suddenly we start getting mailed every time someone views us and no notification mail when some one mails us, comments on our blog pics and stories.
It’s a bit of a nightmare because lots of people view us and our hotmail is filling up with unwanted mails. We tried changing the preferences in the setting menus but nothing happens.

4 The notifications in the menu bar at the top of our profile page, and the notifications we get on e mail of who’s viewed us do not seem to match up the “who’s viewed us” lists in “our lists”.

5 The link to our magazine articles on our profile page directs to a page that says we have no articles, but we have written 6.

6 Quite often our blog posts don’t even appear in the “recent blog post” list on the blog home page. As a result no one sees we have posted unless they are watching us.

7 On the mobile we can only see new incoming mails, our sent mail box doesn’t show any of the new mails we sent, only the first few that we ever sent.

We really hope hear from you, if only to say that you read this post!
We are finding these problems really annoying especially the notification emails.

We tried reporting a bug and mailing you guys by the links on the site but got no reply
And we tried ringing but the line is always engaged and mail box, full.
I guess you guys must be overloaded with work!
This blog seems to be a last hope..

We are quite new here and pay for gold membership which is a considerable fee, but we think its borderline on being fair.
However it tips the balance to not a fair price when AsianMatchMate.com offers these options and features and they don’t work.
I’m sure others must feel the same.
It’s a shame because otherwise the AsianMatchMate.com experience is good, the exposure is huge and we get lots of good contacts. Please keep up the good work and help us with the niggles 

Regards E&T


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tangie247 56F  
633 posts
1/15/2013 11:15 am

What is going on with the message center? I was on the original version when all of a sudden I got sent to the new one.

I hate that new one as it opens up all the old messages as new and puts them out in front as new ones. Yet they are not....

PLEASE return my message center back to the original one.. It worked fine for me as it was thanks.

Tangie247


christylovesfun 49F  
16880 posts
1/20/2013 11:57 am

What's going on with images in the blogs? I sometimes have to submit a picture 4 or 5 times before it finally gets approved. These pictures do not violate any community standards. Nope. It's a glitch. I'm not the only one this is happening to, either.

Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
1/22/2013 7:02 pm

Ok, I called and spoke to someone, but they were NOT ready to listen to me... I hate your email system as I get in my inbox my "Auto Reply". The men are supposed to see this, not me. Why am I receiving this in my inbox?? The "ONLY WAY" to read my emails is via my cell phone. I am getting very frustrated with this site and already ready to abandon this thing. Please fix it!

Tangie247


shy_lady4u 60F
254 posts
2/14/2013 2:45 am

Hi, I don't like the new email either but I'm adjusting. My question is this. In the new email when I write my sentences things line up and are within the margins. When the mail gets sent or I receive it back, the words are split in the middle and it makes it hard to read. It must be a margin issue on the site or something. Can you please check into it. Thanks,
shy


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dicksnwife 56M/51F  
9 posts
3/10/2013 1:50 pm

I have a couple of questions/issues ..
Why are the folks that come into the chatrooms and stir up trouble (with any of the numerous addy's they have joined the site with)never suffer any sort of "punishment" for their obvious violations. And I realize this may not be the forum but I really need to vent and this has been the only place where I at least get acknowledged. (thank you btw) Recently, the room moderator for the KY/TN chatroom attempted to ban me for posting Tommy Tutones song lyric 867-5309. now I realize that it looked as if I was posting my number (which I know is not allowed in chat) but simply was NOT the case. I sat on the phone on hold with customer service for almost an hour in order to get the situation rectified, after singing the song and telling the rep to google it I was reinstated. My problem is WHY are the ones that have many (and I mean many) different profiles registered here are never immediately banned (as I was) when they disrupt a chatroom. I mean, this is supposed to be a site for adults yet when as adults we give out our phone number in a chat forum its grounds to be banned, and when supposed adults come into the chatrooms and do nothing but raise hell, and stir up trouble never suffer any sort of repercussion? I just don't understand the reasoning behind the picking and choosing of who does and who don't suffer the consequences. Any enlightenment on this would be much appreciated.

Next why is it that we cant watch member videos but every other time. We used to be able to view them from the profile or from the Hottest Member section. Now we can only view them from the Hottest Member section and that is only if we click on the video with just the "right" click thrust. We are paying members and have been for many years now, its one of the reasons we pay for this site, we want to watch videos as well as view several cams at once if desired.

And, let me jump on the Message Center Hater bandwagon.. it absolutely is awful. I will admit that once I finally got all the older ones deleted it has been easier to keep up with.

I also have a question about bling.. after I make my bling and click take from the bling manager in order for them to show up under my actual bling why does it take several times (if at all) for them to finally show up on my actual bling page?

And, last but not least, the IM on here for me does not work, for instance when I answer someone's page and the box pops up and I am trying to respond it takes like 50 keystrokes for me to even get a 3 letter word to post.. it is absolutely aggrevating. any ideas on what causes that.. I am usually on cam when I answer pages and up till about 3 months ago never had this problem.

Thank you for listening to me ramble, and I appreciate your responses in these matters.

jane


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buxombbw4u 54F
16141 posts
3/19/2013 7:56 am

Where the heck did the "recent visitors" list to my blog go?

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


evolblkhung 69M
2 posts
3/20/2013 9:17 pm

i change my content settings but it didnot change. whats up with this


nikkipoo2 51M/51F  
35 posts
3/21/2013 10:39 am

Well read this our profile will be deleted on April 9, 2013. The site has changed for the worse ever since Penthouse bought AsianMatchMate.com. We have been gold members since 2007. By the way it look's to me on the blog most members feel the same as we do about the new changes. Our money will not be wasted on this site any more. We are going to find another swinger site.


SuperNovaMarvel 45M
3464 posts
3/21/2013 11:08 am

I hate the new look of my blog. Why would you just change the format like that? I like to post with everything centered. And now, all of the things that are supposed to be centered at the bottom of my posts, are off to the side. It doesn't make sense. No sense at all.

Please change that back to the way it was.

"I exist as I am, that is enough." - Walt Whitman


justbill46 75M/70F
5 posts
3/21/2013 11:55 am

what is with all the xed out photos and live action. go back to old formmat


FMAOPLS 68F  
27112 posts
3/21/2013 9:51 pm

Does anybody on this site have a FUCKING CLUE what they hell they are doing?

All but the current page of my blog have disappeared, as have they for all the blogs I read.

Would it be possible for you to hire some ADULTS, to write the code for this site?

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


FMAOPLS 68F  
27112 posts
3/21/2013 9:53 pm

Lighten the colour of the grey background on this box, on your blog.

It is extremely difficult to read the blue font.

Have you ever VIEWED this page?

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


morethanfwb 56M  
1 post
3/22/2013 7:27 am

extend my membership? really? so sick of fake messages and fake profiles!!! i got 5 flirts today from females that dont exist. stop already. content filter? its a sex site!


Taurus4Play2 55M
1 post
3/22/2013 1:53 pm

Hello my membership expired due to the card i had it on expired so i was wanting to Upgrade again & was looking at your options. Your options don't make sense 1st of the 3 are 29.95 a month which is what i was on, the 2nd choice is 59.80 which it says is 14.95 a month pay for 3 months get the fourth free 59.80 divided by 4 is 14.95 a month so where is the free month & the 3rd choice is 179.10 9.95 a month for 12 months & 6 months free which is not true 179.10 divided by 18 is 179.10 so where are the free 6 months at??? Again your options don't make any sense i need clarification, in case you didn't know free means you don't get charged for those months... About changing the Filter settings i have tried to figure out how & there is no clear cut way to change the Filter settings on here you need to also clarify that on your home page...


luv2licanstick 56M  
26 posts
3/23/2013 3:52 pm

For some reason now, I cannot view any pictures even though I am a gold member. The pictures load in thumbshots but I cannot click on them and make them larger or the active picture. Why?


tomfu7 61M

3/24/2013 4:30 pm

Why, even tough a standard member, can't even veiw a person profile unless you pay for it ? How can you find out if this person is someone you might want to connect with if you don't know anything about them unless you pay ! This is Bullshit !! Should be at least be able to veiw their profile and send a wink / flirt to know that someone is interested in them, also when receiving a flirt should be able to see who flirted and what they're about. WITHOUT having to pay for every little thing. This site is a bullshit scam for your money !!!


Pagedown269U 72M

3/26/2013 9:51 am

I have 2 sites AsianMatchMate.com Pagedown269U and Senior Sizzle Pageme4A69 I sent my confirm ID several week ago and pictures to this day nothing has been done to my sites. Also my profiles are not like everyones.


fisherman191919 60M
1 post
4/6/2013 6:42 am

please do not drop the service of ...when I send a message to a profile, it always showed in my message center. please keep this!!!it would be stupid to drop this feature. who wouldn't want this? how else would a person be able to keep track of the messages they send?


rm_MFPHBIC 55F
26 posts
4/8/2013 2:07 pm

Is AsianMatchMate.com ever going to become more club friendly?

A huge part of swinging is finding a club or party to be able to go to for socializing (and many times more). Would be nice to be able to find locations you can go to especially when traveling to new areas where you can find others in the lifestyle.

I have asked this several times and have been told we are working on it for the last few years....is it ever going to happen???????

Class is in session.

If you want to start exploring the wonderful world of swinging in the REAL world >>! click on the following link My Friends Place for information on a great place to start your adventure.


bjspecial1 65M/56F  
20 posts
4/9/2013 12:15 pm

we were wondering if AsianMatchMate.com ever plans on getting rid of the pop-up that seems to be blocking us from opening or sending any mail??????? and no, we can't open the mail from AsianMatchMate.com that refers to getting rid of the pop-up. Any help in this situation would be greatly appreciated!!


community replies on 4/11/2013 4:14 pm:
Hi bjspecial1,

This sitesupport post addresses the issue with 3rd-party popups and how to delete them: Reports of Adware Freezing screens. Please let me know if you have any more questions.

bjspecial1 65M/56F  
20 posts
4/9/2013 1:04 pm

Thanks, we've been waiting for over a week now....................


Johanna_cd9 61T  
34 posts
4/10/2013 12:12 pm

sexy cd looking for fun

kinkyfreak855 42T
Dallas, TX (33 Miles)
Last Visit: More than 3 months
Viewed 4/10/2013
Matched Cupid Settings (Age, Distance)

I cut and pasted this today, 4-10-13. I am wondering how someone viewed my profile but yet it says this person has not been on line for over 3 months. Plus Im wondering how people can chat on IM but if you go to look at their profile its turned off. If they are chatting you should have to have your profile on, I would think.

Thank you


Pageme4A69 72M

4/11/2013 8:16 am

Are you ever going to update my sites?


rm_Posse_93 47M
368 posts
4/16/2013 3:57 am

You need to explain when blog posts are denied why they were denied. My ToC keeps getting denied, but there's nothing offensive on the page. [post 3088741] Please explain what I need to do or what I did wrong.


rm_Posse_93 47M
368 posts
4/18/2013 4:00 pm

Again, my Table of Contents has been denied and there's no reason given. How about when you deny a post, you tell the person what was so offensive? This is extremely frustrating and could be easily avoided by a little bit of effort by AsianMatchMate.com


329Silver 53M  
8 posts
4/22/2013 7:26 pm

Hello. I noticed on your Android App that my male endowment description does not show the answer (any answer for that matter); there is a descriptor on my profile though; it is also like this for couple profiles, etc. It does show the answer on my profile when viewed via the Web. Thanks in advance for looking into this.


room1990 31F
1 post
4/27/2013 4:17 am

ronred1990ronred


MissMimosa 49F
2624 posts
5/2/2013 2:35 am

Have this blog 'pinned' somewhere or be much more visible, would be helpful.

I'd also like to suggest the 'stealth modes' are changed to allow people to be visible in chatrooms.

These are the Aims and Objectives. Please read. of the group, Bloggers United! which I moderate.

And a link to a post about my home town, Glasgow ,I hope you enjoy it!


BULLET2001 63M/63F  
5 posts
5/7/2013 10:25 am

I have received messages from Maisiesoq967 ....
I think they are some kind of scam to have AsianMatchMate.com people go to another web site.

FYI

Ex:

Hey, sexy! I'm going to come to your town =) I'll be there for a week. I want to spend this time with pleasure =) I am not looking for any serious relationships so far. I want fun, flirt and sex. but for some reason you are silent = ( I wrote you two or three times already and got no reply and the website tells me that my message cannot be delivered. What's wrong? I am sick and tired of all the bugs on this website so I decided to delete my profile. you can find me P um p in0. c 0m . My username is valeriagcq637. Hope to see you soon. I want hard sex! I'll wait for you!

TX

Bruce


Makeitnasty245 36M

5/9/2013 1:36 pm

I can not view or send any messages..please help me i can only view them and send them with my smart phone and am trying to use my computer. i am using firefox


rm_rockthrillus 38M/38F
1 post
5/22/2013 7:56 am

The new message center needs to be revised. It's so confusing. I don't want MY sent messages showing up in the inbox with messages I've received!! How do I turn this feature off?

Also, when I try to delete 10 emails at a time, it only deletes 1 of them.


nothuge2012 63M
144 posts
5/26/2013 5:45 am

There are a number of things that recently quit working.

On my home page, the Search/What's Hot/Live Action tabs do not work and display nothing but white space.
Also, the Member Activity is also hust white space.

The Message Center does not work, it loads a template, but no conversations appear, again, just white space.

When viewing other member's photo pages, only the thumbnails appear, no large photos will load.

All of this has been going on for over a week. This is totally unacceptable.

The worst park it, I emailed the so-called "Customer Service" department at least three times and have received no reply at all.

Some way to treat a paying gold member....who will probably not be renewing. Ever.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
5/28/2013 9:03 am


The Site sent me TEN mail today,,,
ALL the same mail,EXCEPT in TEN DIFFERENT langauges!
~~~
sidenote,,,Spellcheck IS Still F'd up!!


AsianMatchMate.com
Parody Of a
Real
Sex Site


nothuge2012 63M
144 posts
5/29/2013 4:16 am

I have just the opposite problem....NO email in ANY language.


nothuge2012 63M
144 posts
5/29/2013 6:05 am

Can't "Update Status" either......what does work here besides this blog??


hungrylibido3 57F
48 posts
5/30/2013 3:03 am

Due to the fact that I just wrote a blog about this and then was given this link, I don't want to rewrite it, so I will paste my blog post, for you to read, and reply to.

I just discovered that AsianMatchMate.com modifies our pics, take a look at my new album and let me know what you think about what they are doing. Along with the fact that they refused the pics as being me, and labeled the one pic with a shirt and panties as "Nasty", a label only used for a close up of genitals. Crazy thing is most of the close up of womens genitals are not even labeled as "Nasty", how does that work? Who is rating this pics at AsianMatchMate.com, give me the job. I think this is crazy, as I pay for my membership, and what I choose to put on my profile should be my choice, as long as it falls within their guide lines. Next are they going to modify what I write. I have noticed my album is extremely hard to find, even though it has a lot of hits and should be on the first page of the hot list due to the views. I feel they have buried it due to me calling them out, lets see if they try and make things right. Oh one last thing, I noticed when I go into the "Manage Photo" option, guess what my pic looks just like the original that I submitted, yet that is not the same image they allow the rest of AsianMatchMate.com to see.

I have attached a pic of this to show you.

Have a Thump her ous Day!


bottombidallas 46T  
13 posts
6/3/2013 6:54 pm

I am sick of dealing with the morons in the Philippines.
Whom do I speak with in CA to get an issue resolved?

AsianMatchMate.com customer service sucks!


AsianMILF 46F
215 posts
6/11/2013 6:23 pm

I recently discovered that I cannot view any of the photos in my friend's albums but get kicked to the membership upgrade page. Is this a bug or a new restriction on standard members?


Peter93092 29M

6/26/2013 12:15 am

Maybe for the bloggers place to keep blogging ideas for later. For those times that you have a blog idea but not the time to blog about it. Just a thought


rm_1littlehose1 59M
51 posts
6/26/2013 6:07 pm

So if I cant view pics in my friends albums then there is no need to waste my time on this site. There is way to many sites to communicate back and forth with others without this B S !


tangie247 56F  
633 posts
7/5/2013 11:35 am

Could you try to get the ice breakers to hit the people that I'm the most interested in? Like following our cupid settings instead of the ones that completely turn me off? It would help stop any confusion and hate mails.

Tangie247


rm_1littlehose1 59M
51 posts
7/22/2013 4:08 pm

Still no response on this problem...


66LUV 55F
85 posts
7/25/2013 6:53 pm

I am really confused.
Can someone please help clarify this for the members?

Last year the site introduced/offered a Free Gold Icebreaker Promo for women looking for Men/straight couples. It was advertised as "Lifetime". I signed up thinking how great!!! (I've been a standard member since 2004).

CS is now stating there are NO IB lifetime memberships?????

We understand that members must follow specific guidelines to qualify to keep the status.
Many (not all) were led to believe we have this membership as a lifetime promo offered...


I bring this up because it's now quite obvious to me that there is a large group of members that are under the impression that the "Free Gold Lifetime Membership" WAS offered when we chose to participate in the IB Promo. Some members even state that the offer still is advertised on their Main sign in page. As I recall, this was advertised and discussed on the Magazine quite heavily for months when it was introduce/offered.

Note: This topic has been posted on the ALines many times and I just recently posted again on this topic too...."Icebreaker - Free membership not". Here's another recent post in AL- Inactive Icebreaker? This will show other member's comments also~


Some members have suggested that it will just "roll-over" into the next year (year after year)... Is this true?
Do we have to re-do our Icebreaker each year before the expiration dates?
Do we need to qualify for Free Icebreaker every year? ...or was it a one time offer?

I have had email conversations back and forth the past couple days with CS... (see below I attached a couple responses). They say there is NO Lifetime membership now????.... Why then, do soooo many of us believe this was/is a lifetime offer??
We need clarification please!!!

Please read the AL posts also if you want to see a few members comments...
All I'm saying is the members that signed up (under that promo last year) have different ideas of what was offered and are now confused.
I understand you have the right to change a Promo, but, when was it taken away and why?
If you take away the IB Free Lifetime there will be many unhappy people....

I really don't want to be "the" one to complain~ I am very grateful for the freebie!! ....Just confused .

Thank You for taking the time to help.
66LUV

These are just a couple comments from CS
Dear Member,
Thank you for your email.
The ice breaker promo is available to single women only, You get the chance of getting the gold membership for free for 12 months only. Promo is not a lifetime offer and Friendfinder has the option to cancel the icebreaker anytime.
If you have any further questions, feel free to contact usdirectly at:


Dear Member,
Thank you for your email.
You still have an Icebreaker
membership until (2013 11 28 )There will be
no lifetime for membership especially on the
free account.
Thank you,


...


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
7/26/2013 1:52 am

    Quoting 66LUV:
    I am really confused.
    Can someone please help clarify this for the members?

    Last year the site introduced/offered a Free Gold Icebreaker Promo for women looking for Men/straight couples. It was advertised as "Lifetime". I signed up thinking how great!!! (I've been a standard member since 2004).

    CS is now stating there are NO IB lifetime memberships?????

    We understand that members must follow specific guidelines to qualify to keep the status.
    Many (not all) were led to believe we have this membership as a lifetime promo offered...


    I bring this up because it's now quite obvious to me that there is a large group of members that are under the impression that the "Free Gold Lifetime Membership" WAS offered when we chose to participate in the IB Promo. Some members even state that the offer still is advertised on their Main sign in page. As I recall, this was advertised and discussed on the Magazine quite heavily for months when it was introduce/offered.

    Note: This topic has been posted on the ALines many times and I just recently posted again on this topic too...."Icebreaker - Free membership not". Here's another recent post in AL- Inactive Icebreaker? This will show other member's comments also~


    Some members have suggested that it will just "roll-over" into the next year (year after year)... Is this true?
    Do we have to re-do our Icebreaker each year before the expiration dates?
    Do we need to qualify for Free Icebreaker every year? ...or was it a one time offer?

    I have had email conversations back and forth the past couple days with CS... (see below I attached a couple responses). They say there is NO Lifetime membership now????.... Why then, do soooo many of us believe this was/is a lifetime offer??
    We need clarification please!!!

    Please read the AL posts also if you want to see a few members comments...
    All I'm saying is the members that signed up (under that promo last year) have different ideas of what was offered and are now confused.
    I understand you have the right to change a Promo, but, when was it taken away and why?
    If you take away the IB Free Lifetime there will be many unhappy people....

    I really don't want to be "the" one to complain~ I am very grateful for the freebie!! ....Just confused .

    Thank You for taking the time to help.
    66LUV

    These are just a couple comments from CS
    Dear Member,
    Thank you for your email.
    The ice breaker promo is available to single women only, You get the chance of getting the gold membership for free for 12 months only. Promo is not a lifetime offer and Friendfinder has the option to cancel the icebreaker anytime.
    If you have any further questions, feel free to contact usdirectly at:


    Dear Member,
    Thank you for your email.
    You still have an Icebreaker
    membership until (2013 11 28 )There will be
    no lifetime for membership especially on the
    free account.
    Thank you,


Again,sounds like their(the site) right hand doesn't know what their left hand is doing,,,
,,,"Some members even state that the offer still is advertised on their Main sign in page.",,,
Be great if someone could get a screenshot of THAT sign-in page,,,


AsianMatchMate.com
Parody Of a
Real
Sex Site


66LUV 55F
85 posts
7/26/2013 1:23 pm

In talking to members, & reading the AL responses about the IceBreaker issue being Lifetime or not, I wanted to throw this out there~~

Some members have mentioned that when the offer was first extended, the Promo was for a "Free Lifetime SILVER". (yes, I remember this)

Then, the site changed us to GOLD when they eliminated SILVER status.

Could it be that somewhere in that change over, the lifetime offer was lost??
Why would the site offer and then take it away?.... Especially without explaining this to the members who already were signed up??? There are many still that think it continues after the year and doesn't really expire!

Don't know if that has anything to do with the confusion- Just trying to figure this out.
Thanks


...


LadyLuck2 65F  
9084 posts
7/27/2013 3:23 pm

HI Aryana, I went to a member's blog post out of interest and he said that AsianMatchMate.com has a new banner ad that reads: "Our members will do things your wife won't".

Really? Are we going to have another argument with marketing again? What is it that they don't get about respecting their women members? This is another shade of "Fuckaslut" as far as I am concerned. The marketing department must be completely filled with sleazebags.

Why is AsianMatchMate.com targeting married men as members?

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


14outdoorlove 71F
19 posts
7/30/2013 3:12 pm

After several emails I'm completely disgusted with the customer service TEAM members not reading the emails correctly.

I uploaded a new photo and created a new 3rd Album just for it called Contests.
(I mistakenly tried to participate in one of your events but you seem to have it set up for certain members)

The photo and album show on my profile but when I go to Manage Photos to delete them, it disappears.

The TEAM say to come here for help.
I'm here asking how to delete something Passion keeps hidden from me.
Anyone..???


bushmaster34304 75M
370 posts
7/31/2013 12:11 pm

OK, Aryana. Maybe I can get a response from you. No one else will respond to repeated questions about my former profile

I was on here as Bushmaster343 with a fully paid up Gold membership for l year. on or about July 1 my profile, access... whatever, was suddenly changed to inactive...not by me...I can not get this site to respond to answer why? I received only 4 months access from a one year subscription...again, Why?


14outdoorlove 71F
19 posts
7/31/2013 12:41 pm

It isn't anything to do with my Flash player. It's AsianMatchMate.com who controls that photo and even added their own notation to it without my permission.

It has a large erect cock on the pboto..maybe it's to help them get more visitors??

But I WANT IT OFF MY PROFILE!!!


pal334 67M  
45541 posts
8/21/2013 5:35 pm

On the new hotlist (My hotlist of other members). The new format has added approximately 15 members that I have never seen before. Earlier today they were not on my list (the old format), now they are. Nor was the new format in effect.. How can I delete them? I can not find the delete feature. And I would appreciate the site not adding fraudulent accounts to my Hotlist in the future.

Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



pal334 67M  
45541 posts
8/22/2013 8:44 am

    Quoting pal334:
    On the new hotlist (My hotlist of other members). The new format has added approximately 15 members that I have never seen before. Earlier today they were not on my list (the old format), now they are. Nor was the new format in effect.. How can I delete them? I can not find the delete feature. And I would appreciate the site not adding fraudulent accounts to my Hotlist in the future.
It should be noted,, I went from less than one page of people THAT I HOTLISTED to now 7 pages!!!!!!!!!!! Over 50 percent of the profiles that are now on there are fake profiles and at least 40 percent of the remainder are profiles I have never seen, let alone have not hotlisted!!!!!

Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
8/26/2013 4:10 am

Just a suggestion here.

When I click on the link for my watched blogs from the trending blog page I only get 2 pages of my watched list. I have to go to the classic view and then open my watched blogs from there to see the third page.

Would it be possible to correct this so that I can get all of my watched list straight from the trending blog page....which is my default?


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
8/27/2013 2:03 am

    Quoting rm_LQQK1NGtw0:
    It would be nice if we could view the Blogs by the city and state. There are only certain ones that I am interested in and it is much too time consuming to go through all of the pages to find exactly what I am looking for.

You can,on the left side of the 'new' blog main page,
click~
'Browse by location'


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TucsonFem4Fem 68F  
49 posts
8/28/2013 8:41 pm

Something strange happened overnight last night. I closed with 18 friends and woke up today with 19. Somehow someone was sent, not by me, an invite to my friends list. When I discovered it and after viewing his profile I deleted him and blocked him for all contact. What is interesting is this guy just joined yesterday as a standard member. Very strange.
Also AsianMatchMate.com is having a counting problem. They are saying that I have 17 friends when by physical count I have 18. AsianMatchMate.com getting more weird than usual?


TucsonFem4Fem 68F  
49 posts
8/28/2013 8:46 pm

AS further to the previous comment the guy who added himself uninvited to my friends list was Clifforedge 51M. I found his name in my notifications list saying he accepted my invite, (which I NEVER invited him).


livesexy_se 47M/46F
2476 posts
8/29/2013 1:16 am

Hello Aryana

We have noticed that there is a new interface for the site on mobile.
It was changed several months ago in English laungauge and at that point we noticed when viewing blogs on our mobiles that, it was, only possible to view half the page. In fact it still is that way.

It wasn't so much of a problem for us because we view the site in Swedish and when we logged in in Swedish the site was still in the old format/interface so we could see the blog pages in full

Now the new interface is being used with Swedish language and again we find that we can't view our blog and others blogs in full when using our smartphones.

We blog regularly and use our mobiles so this is a big issue for us.

Have you heard of anyone else reporting the same problem, do you know about it and if there is a fix on the way?

Regards

Ellen and Tyler


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sexophone1932 91M
124 posts
9/7/2013 4:59 am

it is hsrd for those of us who are computer challenged to add a picture to a post unless there is a box to bring up pictures. I have never been able to do it. I am s sitting here with a great hard on and wanted to add a picture of it to a post and couldn't do it,


geegee25755 74T

10/28/2013 1:50 pm

what's with this new webcam format. its not worth a damn. how can I get the old system back? I loose 5,000 viewers a week with this new setup. AsianMatchMate.com just isn't worth the price of a gold membership anymore. time to move to a better site where there are real people instead of all these bs'ers and liarers anyway. If you thing AsianMatchMate.com is a good thing then I suggest you stick it up your ass. good things never hurt anybody.

hugs and kisses, Gee Gee


CumXXXcouple 41M/41F  
12 posts
11/21/2013 5:47 pm

Hi Aryana,

I have two things on my mind.

#1) We have a photo that we posted for the previous contest. It created an album on our page... but we can't "manage" that album. It does not show up in our album line up under "manage", but DOES show up if someone looks at our albums on our profile. We would like to remove that picture now that the contest is over.(Or be able to switch them to private in the future after the contest.)

#2) This is VERY dear to my heart. In the almost 4 yrs we've been gold members on AsianMatchMate.com we've been able to see our TOTAL PROFILE VIEWS from our start date. The latest update has shrunk that back to 30-60 days or something... One of the things that keeps us active and interested is trying to get that number up. We were almost about to hit 500,000 profile views when the change was made. Please, bring it back! A way to see ALL TIME # of profile views.

Thanks!


Woodyeverready 62M
1187 posts
11/29/2013 9:16 am

Hello Aryana. I've noticed recently, that when I sign in and get to my home page, the online matches are from distant locations, and not the local ones which would show up before. I've checked my cupid preferences and see that the distance I've set is still at 100 KM from my home, yet these distant matches keep loading first. What has changed and how do I get my local matches to come up on sign in?
Woody

Woodrow J. Evers


Smooth_Iowan 47M

12/9/2013 2:19 pm

I agree with CumXXXcouple and others...why can we not delete pictures from past contests from our 'contest' folder? I can understand why we cannot add, but we should be able to delete them--they are ours, after all. Sometimes our pictures are not 'approved' but still show up in that folder. I would like to delete the ones that are not approved. How can we delete a picture from that folder?


Smooth_Iowan 47M

12/9/2013 2:20 pm

I agree!


hannacarr 33F  
30 posts
12/13/2013 10:38 am

i see the hotlist has changed, looks nice but few things need fixing on it, like when u refresh the page it takes back to dated added, i like to keep it in last visited, also i liked in the old 1 where u could click last visited twice and it would show u the end of the list and all the profiles that were closed so u could delete them if wanted, plzzz bring back some of this stuff, other wise looks good and alot cleaner


Hotblonde4U2have 54F
660 posts
12/15/2013 9:46 am

When I broadcast on cam it doesn't show my cam its closed and I cant open it?


pal334 67M  
45541 posts
12/20/2013 8:22 am

Hopefully I can get some sort of a coherent reply here. I sent a request to correct the fact that for the last few days I have not been able to comment back to posters on my blog. I received this cut and paste response. It is very apparent that no check was done of my complaint. This is the exact same response I got for my last complaint on an entirely different issue. Shouldn't a paying member of this site get the common courtesy of some one checking a problem, and not blowing me off?

Response from this site

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Thank you for contacting us.
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this is a ridiculous response. It is identical to other responses for totally different issues,, it is a cute and paste. I am a paying member and deserve to at least have someone check before cut an pasting a reply that does not address my question. Did you even bother to check it? It is occurring right now!!!!!!!!!!!

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lok4fun500 111M  
51603 posts
12/20/2013 1:39 pm

I am not able to use "quote" when wanting to quote on a comment made on my post. The "respond" works but the "quote" does not. I clear cache and delete cookies all the time and still have this problem. A few others have said the same thing.




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MyNameIsKay 60F  
11885 posts
12/27/2013 6:29 am

I wrote this yesterday and came back to see if there was a response, but now I can't find my original post...and since you all revoked my gold status just of fun, I can't use the "Where I'm quoted" feature to see...so here it is again...

I received a site notice last night saying that you had revoked my gold status because my ice breakers were turned off and that I should check my settings. I have not changed my settings and when I looked, everything was still set to send ice breakers and I had 7 approved photos. I'm following all of the ice breaker rules and would appreciate my gold status back please.

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mflater1 71M  
50414 posts
1/8/2014 12:43 pm

Any word on why spell checker is not working or is just me??

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








Jenanic 54F  
2 posts
1/9/2014 4:08 am

Please advise how to remove the "Contest" folder from my profile once a contest is complete.
Many thanks,
J


sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
1/13/2014 2:47 am

I don't see a link to check my activity bonus any more....has it been moved from the home page or is this a bug?

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2NParadisse 48M/43F
124 posts
1/14/2014 9:42 am

    Quoting  :

just browse AsianMatchMate.com from an inversion table... TA-DAAA!


2NParadisse 48M/43F
124 posts
1/14/2014 9:46 am

    Quoting mflater1:
    Any word on why spell checker is not working or is just me??
man don't you remember this annoying little son of a bitch?


foxeyatfifty 65F

1/15/2014 8:05 pm

I was directed to you for some reason..Are we ever going to color our profiles again with our blings..this white it soooooooooo booooooring. and hard on the old eyes LOL..I really do not know your reason for takeing it away..our color, our idividualiy has gone.

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kegstandchamp 35M
4 posts
2/11/2014 3:04 pm

ok so the webcam broadcasts fine but after a minute or so the screen goes all white and there is no picture captured. If you back out and re broadcast again it goes back to normal only to do the same thing and turn white after some time broadcasting. I would really like for this to stop so i can broadcast tonight with out losing all of my viewers.

Thanks hope to hear back soon


Mattchew192 49M
113 posts
2/24/2014 4:32 pm

I have a suggestion let standard members view other members profile, I really can't afford a Gold membership right now, so I am limited in what can do on here.


LordLOBO_I 59M
1481 posts
3/11/2014 9:54 pm

I have been a long time member here at AsianMatchMate.com and was GOLD for a number of years - check your billing history...

now why when I go to the " Live Members Webcam " page nothing comes up ???

currently, due to the economy and being unempolyed for way too long - I am a standard member... there are also some pages that do not show up when I want to check others things, but we can talk about that later...

there was also an option when going on the blog page to see " where you / I have been quoted " and I do not see that anymore...

Actually I may one of your original members bacuse I was on the site AsianMatchMate.com took over many years ago...

I would appreciate some sort of reponse as soon as possible....

LL...


MrRareity 62M  
4562 posts
5/26/2014 8:11 am

Can you please improve the instant messenger. Today I was unable to connect, and this isn't the first time. Also can you make it so we can remove people who have hot listed us or viewed or profiles who are 23 most from another country, and are looking for a man that knows how to love and is God fearing.

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MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
6/2/2014 8:52 pm

I Submitted a Feedback on this earlier today, but I thought I should share this to see if anyone else is experiencing this. Some time ago, my Hotlist hit its limit of 200 members, because I am a Standard. Well, when I wanted to Add someone to my Hotlist, I found that I could select someone to delete, or Remove, from my Hotlist, and then Add the person I was wanting to Add. Well, over time, it got to where I had to Remove more than one in order to Add just one. The limit on my Hotlist then began to decrease over time. Now it has reached a point where I have 173 in my Hotlist, I am unable to Add anyone, AND... now, I am unable to Remove anyone! If I click a Remove link, the person disappears from the display of my Hotlist on the screen... until the page is Refreshed or reopened... and then that person is still in my Hotlist and the number in there remains at 173. Anyone experience anything similar?


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/2/2014 11:17 pm

    Quoting MeAndYouAnd__:
    I Submitted a Feedback on this earlier today, but I thought I should share this to see if anyone else is experiencing this. Some time ago, my Hotlist hit its limit of 200 members, because I am a Standard. Well, when I wanted to Add someone to my Hotlist, I found that I could select someone to delete, or Remove, from my Hotlist, and then Add the person I was wanting to Add. Well, over time, it got to where I had to Remove more than one in order to Add just one. The limit on my Hotlist then began to decrease over time. Now it has reached a point where I have 173 in my Hotlist, I am unable to Add anyone, AND... now, I am unable to Remove anyone! If I click a Remove link, the person disappears from the display of my Hotlist on the screen... until the page is Refreshed or reopened... and then that person is still in my Hotlist and the number in there remains at 173. Anyone experience anything similar?

I've had similar issues with the 'HOTLIST' for some time,,,
PLUS...
I notice NOW that selecting respond OR quote here~shows the popup profile of the person that is being quoted!
AND,,,
of course the splel chcek isnt working~STILL


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tackman57 54M  
184 posts
6/3/2014 9:36 pm

Hi! Just wanted to let you know that when I try to "remove" someone I had clicked onto my hotlist, it does not remove them permanently. When I click on "remove" the one I'm trying to eliminate disappears but when I go back to the page, the one I removed is back. This seems to have just started to happen but I'm not sure since I haven't removed anyone the last few days. Please look into this because I'd like to remove all the non-active members I've hotlisted. Thanks!


tubedinn 60M
93 posts
6/5/2014 4:01 pm

When you broadcast your webcam... the video will appear in Member Activity: Friends and Hotlist" section. I think that should be an option and not automatic. I don't broadcast for that reason now. What ever I broadcast will be recorded and I don't have a say in the matter. I don't always want friends and hotlist people to see what I've been up to on my webcam. It's not that big a deal but it sucks that I can't control it.

If I'm wrong about this please correct me. I have yet to try it but I see my friends web cam videos appearing there.


tubedinn 60M
93 posts
6/5/2014 4:07 pm

Be nice if you could add some color to your profile... I was able to do that before.

I get the sense that I'm talking but there's no chance in hell that anyone's listening... being there's over 14000 comments here already. Does anyone read this stuff. Maybe there should be an indicator somewhere beside the comment.


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
6/5/2014 4:45 pm

    Quoting MeAndYouAnd__:
    I Submitted a Feedback on this earlier today, but I thought I should share this to see if anyone else is experiencing this. Some time ago, my Hotlist hit its limit of 200 members, because I am a Standard. Well, when I wanted to Add someone to my Hotlist, I found that I could select someone to delete, or Remove, from my Hotlist, and then Add the person I was wanting to Add. Well, over time, it got to where I had to Remove more than one in order to Add just one. The limit on my Hotlist then began to decrease over time. Now it has reached a point where I have 173 in my Hotlist, I am unable to Add anyone, AND... now, I am unable to Remove anyone! If I click a Remove link, the person disappears from the display of my Hotlist on the screen... until the page is Refreshed or reopened... and then that person is still in my Hotlist and the number in there remains at 173. Anyone experience anything similar?
It was fixed for a while, when I discovered my Hotlist number had decreased by 1, down to 172. I found out I was again able to Remove and Add on my Hotlist... and then it stopped working again! And it is at 172 again, and I can neither Remove nor Add members on my Hotlist, AGAIN!


tubedinn 60M
93 posts
6/14/2014 3:18 am

I wonder if some browsers supported better than others on this site. I like using firefox but that last few months things aren't working so well and I've considered trying other browsers but as yet have not tried any others. Just curious.


hrnywischick 51F  
257 posts
6/14/2014 8:23 am

Ever since you have "upgraded" your IM I am unable to broadcast on my webcam. I am allowed to connect but very
shortly thereafter my cam, and all AsianMatchMate.com open windows (chat, other webcams, etc.), slow down and then freeze completely. Eventually an error message appears saying a Shockwave Flash has stopped running. I have this issue on more than one computer - using both Windows 7 and 8, Chrome & IE - and get the same problem. This only occurs when I broadcast - it does not occur when I am just using IM to chat and/or watch other cams. Up until this update I could broadcast fine with no problems. I am getting nowhere with customer support - Bug # CD-20678 & Bug# CD-18692 - and am extremely frustrated and about ready to leave this site for good. PLEASE HELP!


anastasia666 43F
2229 posts
6/15/2014 1:47 am

    Quoting tubedinn:
    I wonder if some browsers supported better than others on this site. I like using firefox but that last few months things aren't working so well and I've considered trying other browsers but as yet have not tried any others. Just curious.
Hello,

I am using Chrome right now and have not had any issues. Mozilla works for me too. Try Google Chrome and it might work better for you.

Good Luck,

Ana6

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
6/26/2014 5:41 pm

Suggestion (and question): I am seeing a new feature called "Top Fan", which appears to be an additional feature aside from "Hotlist"---btw, still having problems with Hotlist--but searching in Help offers no result for "Top Fan" or for just "Fan" (without quotes). Please add some explanation to the Help section, and/or send out an email explaining this new feature. Meanwhile, can you give me the lowdown on this? Thanks!


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
6/26/2014 5:47 pm

Ah, I just found the answer to "Top Fan" on the Member Home Page!


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
7/8/2014 4:26 pm

What's up with AsianMatchMate.com changing our chosen profile photo? All of a sudden a little while ago, I noticed my profile photo of my cock had been changed to a pic of my pec! When I went back in to make sure my choice of profile photo was still chosen, I found that it was BUT the pec pic was still being shown by the site! WTF is going on?! Please look into this and give we PAYING members back our choice of profile picture!


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
7/8/2014 9:58 pm

I am still having the problem with my Hotlist, as it continues dwindling, now down to 163, even though I am supposed to be allotted up to 200. I am only able to add someone to my Hotlist by removing one or more, which varies, but my total continues going down! And a few times it didn't even remove ones that I deleted. They only vanished from the page on the screen until I would refresh the page. That occurs off and on, too, so then I absolutely cannot add someone else. But the bottom line is that my Hotlist is vanishing and I pretty much cannot add anyone at this point.


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
7/25/2014 5:57 pm

A NEW problem. (My Hotlist issue seems to have been resolved.) Your website indicates that if you are a person's top (#1) fan, you are able to view their full profile and to email them. That seemed to work with the first three members that I "fanned". I recently became Top Fan of another member. I am not able to view her profile, only the greyed-out partial view that Standard members normally see. When I pull up the list: Members Who I'm A Top Fan, it shows a quantity of '(3)' every time for that list, but it dispalys all four and indicates that I am this latest addition's #1 Fan... yet I cannot see her profile. If someone beats me out before I can see her profile and maybe get to email her, then I will want my points on that bid to be rescinded (i.e., returned to me). I would prefer, however, for the system to work as it says it does.


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
7/25/2014 6:01 pm

    Quoting MeAndYouAnd__:
    A NEW problem. (My Hotlist issue seems to have been resolved.) Your website indicates that if you are a person's top (#1) fan, you are able to view their full profile and to email them. That seemed to work with the first three members that I "fanned". I recently became Top Fan of another member. I am not able to view her profile, only the greyed-out partial view that Standard members normally see. When I pull up the list: Members Who I'm A Top Fan, it shows a quantity of '(3)' every time for that list, but it dispalys all four and indicates that I am this latest addition's #1 Fan... yet I cannot see her profile. If someone beats me out before I can see her profile and maybe get to email her, then I will want my points on that bid to be rescinded (i.e., returned to me). I would prefer, however, for the system to work as it says it does.
Update: Now it correctly shows '(4)' in that list... but I still can't view her profile!


MeAndYouAnd__ 68M  
56 posts
7/25/2014 6:37 pm

    Quoting MeAndYouAnd__:
    Update: Now it correctly shows '(4)' in that list... but I still can't view her profile!
And this problem has been Fixed or has Resolved itself.


rm_jamesm014 29M
2 posts
9/30/2014 3:15 pm

I changed my username, and where I was once able to vie "Live Model Chat" cam, I no longer connect to their stream. I just get the message "This show has ended. Click here to see other models online" and that comes up every time. I've updated flash, turned the firewall off, tried a different browser, restarted the browser and restarted my PC, and still get that message. I have tried contacting AsianMatchMate.com but no response as of yet.Has anyone else had this issue?


rm_jamesm014 29M
2 posts
9/30/2014 3:16 pm

I forgot to mention I'm a GOLD member


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
10/13/2014 9:47 am

I wanted to report that every time I try to see who has viewed my profile, I get a "no body has viewed you" page EVEN THOUGH AsianMatchMate.com shows I've had multiple viewers. This problem at first was just once in a while and all I had to do was reclick on the "Viewed Me" and the real viewed page would come up. However, it's gotten so bad today that no matter what I do, I cannot open the "viewed me" page when AsianMatchMate.com says 10 people have viewed me since I checked yesterday evening. Could you please look into this? Thanks!


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
11/14/2014 9:03 pm

Since AsianMatchMate.com "upgraded" the email feature, I've noticed that I am NOT able to have a copy sent to my own mailbox. Why was this option not included in the upgrade? I would like have a record of the emails I send out! I've searched all the various, multiple options in the email/mailbox page and cannot find a "save a copy" option anywhere! Am I missing it or was it left out with the new upgrade? Please look into this. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has noticed this! Thanks!


Ushawu 51M
19 posts
5/17/2015 2:38 am

Is the Top Fan thing still working? I can no longer view or message anyone I'm the top fan of. The FAQ hasn't changed and it was working fine three months ago when I tried it, but now I get "This member can't be bid on at this time" most of the time except for one time when it worked and, like the other members I'm the #1 fan of, I can neither view nor message her.


Ushawu 51M
19 posts
5/17/2015 2:44 am

I was quite happy with AsianMatchMate.com years ago when I used it, but then it changed (logging in to AsianMatchMate.com sent instead). Today it logged me into AsianMatchMate.com again. Does this denote the site going back to the old management or is something else going on?


FuckU2Deep 51M
5 posts
5/18/2015 2:09 pm

I just updated flash (1.0.0.14s) and now Instant Messenger is not working. I launch, it logs me in, then clears screen, flashes a message that I have ended session and closes window.


tackman57 54M  
184 posts
8/24/2015 1:50 pm

Last night when I logged out I had built up 990 points, and just now I found that AsianMatchMate.com shows I have 0 points! What the heck is going on???!!! Please look into this and FIX it by restoring my 990 points!


rm__GetnSome 54M
1 post
11/20/2015 11:43 am

Can't even view emails/conversations that were ongoing anymore unless you pay to upgrade?? If someone sends a free member an email, you should be able to converse with them, but this is not the case anymore?

I have a couple friends that email back and forth and have for months, but now I can't view new messages they send me. The main 2 in question are gold members too. Site is going downhill fast with the greed for the almighty dollar (Even tho 98% of the women can get a free gold just by filling out an Icebreaker.)

smh....


nice_foreigner 39M
1 post
3/16/2016 8:01 pm

I had quite a large number of people in my hotlist, but recently, the entries were erasing themselves. Now it is completely empty. But, i did not erase them. Now I cannot find the people who were in it. Does the hotlist automatically erase after a certain people of time. How to stop this? I do not want it erased.


anastasia666 43F
2229 posts
3/17/2016 5:19 am

    Quoting nice_foreigner:
    I had quite a large number of people in my hotlist, but recently, the entries were erasing themselves. Now it is completely empty. But, i did not erase them. Now I cannot find the people who were in it. Does the hotlist automatically erase after a certain people of time. How to stop this? I do not want it erased.
Hello,

This Blog is no longer run by an employee of the Site. I went to the Site Support Blog and found these replies to questions like yours. Hope this helps.

Have a great day,

Ana6

The replies :

SiteSupport replies on 3/9/2016 12:55 pm:

Thanks for your post. We updated the recent change to the site which shows all members added within the last 30 days and option for members added in the last 90 days. Please try going to your Hotlist page and scroll down the page until you see the section "Show" on the left hand side of the screen. Please make sure that "active members only" is the only option checked, clicking Search will show the entire Hotlist.

SiteSupport replies on 3/14/2016 6:47 pm:

Thanks for your post. The original issue with the interaction count has been taken care of. The interaction count is now working as intended but due to the recent number of suggestions our developers have decided to change the way this works and only show the most recent transactions. You will be seeing a decrease in the number of interactions as soon as this is implemented.

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He made me smart


TheTrueQueenBee 48F
31 posts
4/22/2016 3:10 am

I have a suggestion. If AsianMatchMate.com wants people to act as an 'ambassador' to welcome new members, then shouldn't those people who are doing so have an ambassador badge on their profile? Also, shouldn't the standard contacts feature be added to their profile, so the messages they send to newbies can actually be read the newbies? Without those things, the whole AsianMatchMate.com Ambassador idea seems somewhat pointless to me...


zygote_07 51M  
12 posts
7/2/2016 6:53 pm

I can't remove members from my hotlist, using the app or the site same results.


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