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5/19/2009 5:10 pm
Features: Chat/IMC


This is where all things Chat are chatted about.

MyHeartLost4U 57M  
2486 posts
5/19/2009 5:18 pm

Why is it that on the Chat Home Page that members that are on IMC are no longer showing on the Chat Home page as before


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
5/25/2009 8:33 am

If I am in a chat room, my profile also shows that I am on IMC when in fact, I am not. That shouldn't be there unless I have the IMC turned on. This confuses a lot of people and they get frustrated looking for someone that isn't even there.


wildcatr27 50F  
241 posts
6/4/2009 5:18 am

I would like the ability to have those on my blocked list also blocked from contacting me on the IMC chat. There is after a reason I have blocked them in the first place


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/22/2009 11:51 am


The first two weeks of June IMC had started working!Then on the 14th I went back to being a 'standard member' from a 'silver' NOW the IMC very rarely will connect.I see the spinning icon with the message 'wait for a reply from~~~' The only two connections lately have been spammers!!!Actually same person with two profiles...


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/23/2009 6:17 am


Just a monment ago I logged on to the IMC~
FUNNY,no members for several hundred miles
are on,,,CAN'T be correct.
This has happened several times in the last
couple weeks...


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/23/2009 10:14 pm

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:

    The first two weeks of June IMC had started working!Then on the 14th I went back to being a 'standard member' from a 'silver' NOW the IMC very rarely will connect.I see the spinning icon with the message 'wait for a reply from~~~' The only two connections lately have been spammers!!!Actually same person with two profiles...
I got another connection~to another spammer!Suspect the same person from previous comment as the wording and location were the same...
Both of the other profiles were gone the next day,,,hmmm

Question~~~Why is there not a 'report abuse' link on the IMC???


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/24/2009 11:28 am


OK~~~
No Connections,,,
Spammers,,,
No locals,,,

NOW its ONLY men!!!

SHUT THE FEATURE DOWN FOR REPAIRS!!!


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/29/2009 8:53 pm


Will the planned "fixes" effect the IMC on the 7th???
The IMC has remained a problem for two years,,,


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/30/2009 11:14 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    I got another connection~to another spammer!Suspect the same person from previous comment as the wording and location were the same...
    Both of the other profiles were gone the next day,,,hmmm

    Question~~~Why is there not a 'report abuse' link on the IMC???

The SAME spammer is still on the IMC
Used and Abused many profiles now!
Won't the ABUSE TEAM step it up!!!


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
6/30/2009 8:50 pm

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:

    The SAME spammer is still on the IMC
    Used and Abused many profiles now!
    Won't the ABUSE TEAM step it up!!!

Again today~ Same spammer~ use of words,misspellings,INSISTS on off site IM/email...
WHERE IS THE ABUSE TEAM???? FILED REPORT AFTER REPORT DON'T THEY NOTICE THE SPAMMER'S PATTERN????


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
7/3/2009 9:01 pm


Another Spammer as reported to abuse~~~
~~~Wine**n~~~edited here,
She IS NOT the person on the profile.
I connected with "her" on the IMC."SHE" stated that "she" lived in Clarksville Tn~ Did not know where Greenville Ky is,which is where her profile states "she" lives.ALSO DID NOT UNDERSTAND BASIC ENGLISH!
The last several days I have submitted reports about a spammer useing Greenville as the profile city~this profile is from that person.

note~looking the the 'members on line' listings for both cities this profile did not show up~~~GLITCH or WHAT????


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
7/13/2009 12:03 pm


Hi Ryan
What do you know about the site below???
It is being advertised on the IMC~cams from
New York.The handles change almost daily,always
a photo,no real cams.No on screen ad~have to
page the person,then in chat you will be asked
to join the site credit card required for age
verification.
Sounds like a SCAMMER!!!

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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
7/19/2009 4:45 pm


Hey Ryan,,,
Seems that several members are have'n the same problem,,,
Can see the page/message~but can't reply OR can send but
not recieve,,,The IMC seems to only work one direction...


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HOTBLACK4U4 51M

7/30/2009 6:33 pm

Why do gay men think they can just themself on straight men....They don't stop trying when they should read that persons profile...Which informs them that you are gay or Bi..... I wish they would stop that shit.....Who agrees with me this....


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
8/4/2009 8:32 am

    Quoting  :


There is a link~~~
click on filter~
when it opens ~
adjust the settings...
there is a box to
check that shows cams only


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
8/16/2009 4:50 pm

    Quoting  :



That easy~you've been pimped,,,
This is just one of many links on this subject,I've got a few more posted on my blog.In my research I found myself(profile/blog)on 148 different sites.
To link to this Post ("Let's talk about GetitOn") use Let's talk about GetitOn in your messages

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sexyliltrblut 60M/48F
52 posts
8/27/2009 6:35 pm

Hello im actually wondering why AsianMatchMate.com removed the original imc ? Because honestly as bad as it was, It was twenty times better than the one that is currently in use! I have been a member on AsianMatchMate.com for quite awhile and it seems like the problems are growing worse constantly , when they should be improving! Heck most sights put a limit on total occupancy on a large number of rooms , (for example: instead of everyone using one IM service ,devide it into topics in each main group. That way the system wont keep overloading and people can move around as long as an area is not over crowded! i think It would be worth a try to tame the overload thats currently happening, and making it impossible for all of us to get any real use from! What do you think? Is it something that could be taken into consideration? Couldnt hurt to see if it could at least in some part be a helpful hint into repairing thismess we deal with now.
Well thanks for listening and Good Luck hope it gets worked out in the semi near future.
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NOEjakulaPraecox 51F
87 posts
9/2/2009 7:10 am

i got insulted various times by guy who i was chatting with, after a fwe minutes i found out that i wasnt intested and declined his offers...after that he continues clicking on my name and insultimng me with words like whore and so on...
i told adult about this abuse...
but will he really be thrown out?
thanx


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
9/6/2009 5:24 am

Since the 'new cam format' was attempted when I log onto the IMC it will show no members within hundreds of miles.
I can correct it by going doing anything using the filter,ie change the age.Then it will show local members.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Ryan~
Why do you combine IMC with Chat since they are different.
With different issues.


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
9/19/2009 7:21 am

    Quoting  :


***I do agree replies here would be great!
I've(and others) brought it to Ryans attention about his blog needing to be updated.I'll post about this again this week,with this feature highlighted.
He does have the weekly cam show where things are discussed. I try to be active in the group. ALL are welcome.


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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
9/29/2009 6:38 pm

How and or WHY do nonexsistant 'members' continue to appear on the IMC???
The attached example I did a search on by zip code and age,I could not find a profile for her in White House Tn.(30miles from me)
Example~
SexybiJamieTN

Hello, my name is Jamie. Looking for some FUN
Woman, 25, white house, Tennessee, United States


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rm_affhatesme 63F

12/6/2009 12:28 am

AsianMatchMate.com CHAT ABUSE....NEO NAZI'S...Ive been banned for merely responding to abuse by another in the chat room.....
Now...am not allowed to be a member of AsianMatchMate.com...

Wow in the this age of economy...AsianMatchMate.com must be doing great..to banned a paid member over a standard member..

AsianMatchMate.com practices.NON-Fair practices when involving chat abuse...

AsianMatchMate.com needs to remember....most of us in Chat are friends...and will NOT tolerate...just a FYI ...there are other sites to go to


rm_tere277 44M

12/13/2009 2:59 pm

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Lonleeluvr 51M

12/16/2009 5:33 pm

I'm a gold member and it has issues connecting regularly.


Maestr0two 47M/45F
6 posts
12/28/2009 2:59 pm

I just had to pipe up and say that I am very disappointed in the chat - both IMC and chatrooms - that are available here at AsianMatchMate.com. As a member who pays for this service I do expect it to work, but half the time it doesn't. It's not like AsianMatchMate.com is a brand new website... it has been around for years and should have alot of these bugs fixed by now. It's understandable that new bugs pop up all the time but a steady chat feature would keep alot of members coming back for more instead of leaving or going standard and not giving your company money. You like money, right?


Boomer1056 41M
93 posts
1/15/2010 4:15 pm

Had a question relating to viewing profiles. I know when I actually "click" on a profile and view it, the other person will see that I viewed their profile.

But, does the other person see when you put your curser over a profile and their "mini profile" pops up? I'm kinda careless with my curser and it hits several profiles that I don't actually click to see. Then I will get an email from them saying they saw where I looked at their profile, and I really didn't.

So, can other members tell when your curser only does a "fly-by" over a profile?
Thanks!


bella128 56F

1/19/2010 8:50 am

Ryan,Was in the chat room today (sauna room)ladies only room there were two people in there,that were men.Handle especial100 came in had a man icon beside his handle.HMMM was sure this was a ladies room only??Put him on my ignore list.This guy must be a hacker,because his name wasnt appearing to the left of the member list.Lotta unhappy people in the room.This is the first time i have seen that happen here.But Ive only been on this site since Oct.09'',now i'm not sure about the other person there was a woman icon beside that handle,so i will let that go.just curious do they monitor this site at all?Just wanted to let the site know about this. bella128


rm_bdgirl1979 47F
7 posts
1/26/2010 12:49 am

My favorite is when you tell someone politely your not interested and they continue to to message you every 5 min calling you every name in the book.Instead of a ban button in imc they also need a report abuse button.


rm_NassyFox 59F
37014 posts
1/26/2010 8:20 am

    Quoting rm_bdgirl1979:
    My favorite is when you tell someone politely your not interested and they continue to to message you every 5 min calling you every name in the book.Instead of a ban button in imc they also need a report abuse button.
There is a report abuse link in the chat rooms. If you are in HTML, look on the left side where your members list is and scroll down.

It will take you out of the chat room unfortunately, so I recommend you copy the handle you want to report so you get the name right.


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
1/26/2010 9:12 am

    Quoting rm_bdgirl1979:
    My favorite is when you tell someone politely your not interested and they continue to to message you every 5 min calling you every name in the book.Instead of a ban button in imc they also need a report abuse button.
They're seperate ''Chat Rooms'' AND ''IMC''
From the way you word your statement it sounds as if you mean the ''IMC''~(aka~instant messenger)
To agree with Nassy~you must use the report link at the bottom of any page on the ''site'' you have open at the time.


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bella128 56F

2/2/2010 8:22 am

Yea, I was wondering if AsianMatchMate.com is ever gonna fix the chat?It is really messed up in just about all the chat rooms.The numbers aren't right ,on who's in there they don't match.To make matters worse when i go into a chat room ,it has aman icon beside my name wth?I'm a woman.This is getting rediculous!!We don't ever get a response to any of these complaints.I hope AsianMatchMate.com starts workin on this chat room mess.It has been like this for quite awhile,was hoping it would be fixed by now. bella128


bella128 56F

2/3/2010 8:10 am

please could somebody fix the chat!!!! can only go into html chat for it to work,its crazy tired of the icons saying i'm a man !!!!!!Its like that in all the rooms.AsianMatchMate.com please fix,i do like to occasinally chat if anything can be fixed it would be appreciated!Fix the genders in the chat rooms,makes it hard to go to chat rooms none of us can tell who or what we are talking to.
bella128 (I'm out of here no help?)


glittertitzz 61F

2/3/2010 9:57 am

Please can you get rid of the banner in the chat rooms that you have just inserted?

I know you want my money but its illogical as mentions that joining Chat Groups would help me meet more people so upgrade now - except the ticks show that the only difference for Standard members is the ability to have mini profile pics.

What a well-thought out change that was folks!!!


just_us4play 52M/48F
70 posts
2/7/2010 1:22 pm

The new imc page filter kills cam to cam chat with other members from outside your geographic area. We have friends we cam with from all over the world. Now we cant page each other unless everybody changes there cupid settings to cover the whole planet. Most people dont even know that this filter exists. To limit contact between members is probably not a good idea, why pay for a membership to a social network site when you cant network!

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rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
3/5/2010 2:30 pm

CHECK PROFILE/IMC/CAM ADDRESSES NEAR YOU...

I was on IMC a few minutes ago.A woman ''near'' me was on cam.So I view her,and NOTICE the location on her cam is different than shown on the IMC.I pull up her profile~DAMN this woman moves alot!!!
So I page her AND it connected!She said she knows about the issue~BUT ''the site'' won't/can't fix it...

Ryan~Way back in January you posted to your blog the ''location'' issue was fixed.I see members ''on-line now'' near(per my cupid settings)that are not showing in the correct area.
One example~Woman listed as near was on-line,hotlisted her to follow up on her profile.SHE lives 1300miles away in Miami Fl.
The credibility of this ''site'' is nearing ZER0...



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SexyNurse19652 56F
19 posts
3/29/2010 10:40 am

When I go on the IMC and chat with someone, I have a problem with responding to the person. Either the response is slow or I am not getting a response. He gets mad at me and blames me. I am usually not doing other things. When I type, I wait for him to respond, but sometimes the response is slow or I don't get a response. Please help.


billnkimber2 49M/51F

4/12/2010 10:18 pm

This does seem to cause some unwanted mail... or at least mail from people we don't necessarily have interest in. This sometimes puts us in the position, or makes us feel obligated to reply or respond to these mails because, in actuallity, they believe we were viewing the profile.


mbhs1974 65M/64F
5 posts
8/23/2010 11:03 am

We vare having a problem with our Instant Messenger, we can receive and send, but we cannot see the Messenger box with all it's functions. Any ideas what we can do to fix this?


sanfransurf 33M

12/4/2010 10:31 pm

chat issue I get is whenever I receive a message, my message blinks but then I open it and do not see anything


Skindyvr 50M
16 posts
12/11/2010 3:55 pm

Any chance of there being an instant messaging application for mobile devices?


rendastar 67F

12/13/2010 2:50 am

The blog is a great help. Thanks


ChristosKaras 32M
1 post
2/19/2011 5:40 am

When I sent pages people do not receive them.... It is not just one or two but hundreds of different people.... Not even pages sent to my own viewers!!!! help please!


sugardadd704 55M
1 post
9/11/2012 5:46 pm

I just got a new laptop and I notice that when I send an IM, the first person I IM works fine. The second person I IM, as soon as I hit the second letter of the IM, it is sent. I don't have time to type anything else. Anyone else had this problem?


the1christahella 37F  
3 posts
10/6/2012 4:22 am

i can't find the link to down load the imc any more can anyone help with this please i miss my instant messenger


rm_FXSBOB3 45M
4437 posts
10/6/2012 9:06 am

    Quoting the1christahella:
    i can't find the link to down load the imc any more can anyone help with this please i miss my instant messenger
.

There are several places to find it.
Upper right corner of any page.
It's in the 'Live Action' drop down on the toolbar.
And on any listing of members you creat that has a
member using the IMC,will have it there.
Also,look through this blog for postings about the IMC.



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wd40w 68M
6966 posts
10/7/2012 1:57 pm

Sadly...they have decided to discontinue/disable the downloadable version of the IMC...If the powers that be ever decide to embrace the 21st Century we should have a IMC based in html4...which will be compatible with mobile devices...

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


stings_2000 51M
129 posts
6/12/2014 9:12 pm

When I click on the IM button (on top right side of page), a window opens up and I just see connecting to Instant Messenger.

Then these messages keep looping
- Connecting to server
- Connection successful
- This may take several seconds
- Please be patient
- Still attempting to contact the server
- Waiting for authorization from server
- Server was not contacted
- Authorization attempt restarting

Finally nothing...

I am a standard member, my username and password works fine on the website.


fynn8018 69M
2 posts
6/14/2014 11:36 am

My IMC can not connect through Explorer 11, it keeps 'looping' through, and then says to try again. I got it re-set once by professionals, but it has gone out again. Any suggestions on how I can re-set it myself besides contacting professional help again? I can't even broadcast now.


exhibitionist4us 51M
1 post
10/25/2014 11:09 am

I try to broadcast my cam, it says broadcasting. All I see is white and the people see black. WTF AsianMatchMate.com?


Hardasitgets78 43M
1 post
2/8/2015 7:17 am

anyone else not having their name not display on messenger when you're on it? My friends can see that I am on and I can message other people but I do not show up on the list when I am on it


Guyser11 51M
1 post
11/6/2015 2:39 am

First of all, where can I download AsianMatchMate.com's Messenger program? I read somewhere that it has been discontinued, but if that's the case, AsianMatchMate.com certainly hasn't updated its help section on Messenger. I also read that it's not available because it's a malicious program. What's the truth? All I know is that if I try to use IM, I am unable to do so. When I click on "Send IM" next to a person's username and profile pic, a window flashes open and closed so fast that I can't even see what's in it. Disabled my pop-up blocker in both Chrome and Firefox (Windows 7 PC), and no better. When I tried broadcasting, I could see myself fine, and one person saw me, tried to IM me, but was told I was unavailable. S/he emailed me, but even though I was viewable, I was not IM-able. IM doesn't work from or to me. Need some help.


anscouple 47M/47F  
1 post
12/4/2015 1:13 am

I had to turn off adblock on the im page/window


native5755 53M  
49 posts
1/6/2016 9:09 am

My instant messenger isn't working either. It doesn't show who is online and will not let me chat with anyone. I called customer service and they said it was working, they was wrong. Try to tell them that and they said it is working for them. They offered not help.


Iwonder67 54M/54F
1 post
1/24/2016 11:07 am

IM window opens up nicely. I can see people and open cams.

I can't send anyone a message through IM since a few days ago? Is there a fix to this? I haven't changed anything in my browser.


nikola0s88 33M
1 post
2/12/2016 7:33 am

hello dear AsianMatchMate.com,
i cant watch any of live member web cam i get this message "Want to watch multiple webcams at the same time?" even a dont watch more than one cam at the same time or wait wile i have the standar delay 5-20 sec.
please help !


Allhard4u50 60M
1716 posts
2/17/2016 9:34 am

im button doesn't turn blue....it's just white and says 'delivering' never delivered anymore...I am so confused


sexlovernearu 54M
1 post
2/18/2016 8:04 am

yes same problem this is bullshit


ftank76 45M/43F  
2 posts
3/18/2016 4:31 am

Can anyone offer some advice regarding IM. For the last couple of months I can send messages on IM for the first five minutes but as soon as the IM automatically refreshes, it disconnects me and I can no longer send messages and then need to reload IM. I have emailed the help centre but haven't received a reply. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!!

Thanks in advance


tripod2063 58M
242 posts
3/25/2016 6:11 pm

I get the same crap!


patjuv 55M  
5 posts
3/26/2016 4:35 pm

14 messages
5/2/2016 15h44

Répondre
citer | Répondre
having the same problem, or the message says "delivered" (dark blue watch icon next to the message) but the person didn't received my answer (checked it by telephoning her) or the person is on line and on IM but the message is never beeen delivered (watch icon says "delivering"). In stead of improving their iM system it is getting worse.


patjuv 55M  
5 posts
3/26/2016 4:37 pm

Can anyone offer some advice regarding IM. For the last couple of months I can send messages on IM for the first five minutes but as soon as the IM automatically refreshes, it disconnects me and I can no longer send messages and then need to reload IM. I have emailed the help centre but haven't received a reply. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!!

Thanks in advance
5/2/2016 15h44

Répondre
citer | Répondre
having the same problem, or the message says "delivered" (dark blue watch icon next to the message) but the person didn't received my answer (checked it by telephoning her) or the person is on line and on IM but the message is never beeen delivered (watch icon says "delivering"). In stead of improving their iM system it is getting worse.


venusalpha 56F
3 posts
4/10/2016 5:42 am

Exactly the same here - can send messages on IM for the first five minutes but as soon as the IM automatically refreshes, it disconnects me and I can no longer send messages and then need to reload IM. I have emailed the help centre but haven't received a reply.

Pissed off with not getting what I pay for.


goodguydawg 39M
21 posts
4/30/2016 9:13 pm

Anyway we could use some other IM utility that actually works..


nnjjoe50 63M
1 post
5/22/2016 8:21 pm

i don't expect that there is, but is there a way to move my chats from one phone to another? i got a new phone and after i connected i could not see any of the chats that were available on my old phone.

are they stored locally on the phone? where? or are they on your nework, and then, why can't i see them?


funfirmfrisky 59M
3 posts
5/28/2016 6:09 pm

i can't send or receive IMs...the conversation window never fully opens. i'm giving up


gerhud2309 34M
4 posts
6/6/2016 5:03 pm

What happen with the instant massager limit from unlimited to 20, then 5 and now just 3 messages a day? why?


fumper2024 45M
5 posts
6/19/2016 1:56 pm

Wow. No wonder. Did anyone know that this company hasnt profited in over 2 yrs?!? Thats exactly why their services only get worse and never better. They think they can get more paying subs from their ads, (which they sell our info or just use our old removed content to promote btw) and not catering the "millions" of nonsub members they already have, what a waste of a namelist


mankatoman1 47M
2 posts
7/7/2016 7:30 pm

I have repeatedly spent the 1 point to chat with people from the messenger list, only to find they are really offline even though the list says they are online. What a scam!!!


anastasia666 43F
2229 posts
7/17/2016 3:59 am

    Quoting  :

Hello,

I think this info might help. It was posted at the Site Support blog as a reply to a question like yours.

Ana6

The Reply :

Thank you for your post. I checked your account and I saw you used your points to initiate a chat twice a week ago. So it must have been long before that when you used your 3 free conversations of a life time. Are you also aware that replying to the IM will use your free chats too? I hope this clears any confusion on that matter.

Please let us know if you have any other questions or concerns.

Thank you,
Mark

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


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