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Content Filter Update  

community 36F   
9387 posts
3/21/2013 1:33 pm
Content Filter Update

Males and couples will not experience a change in their filter settings -- they default to 'Nasty,' the same as the previous 'OFF.' Female members will default to 'Naughty,' but can easily change this setting to 'Nasty' or 'Nice.'

We are not censoring any content on the site. Our previous filters were just 'Off' and 'On'-- 'Off' showing you all content, and 'On' showing you only Pg and Pg-13 rated content. The only new setting is 'Naughty,' which lets you see almost everything, except that is places a filter over photos that are rated as 'genital shot' (close-ups of genitalia). This is just an extra option allowing users to filter what they see to suit their comfort level, and in no way affects the Nice (ON) or Nasty (OFF) filters. Prior to the change, many users expressed an interest in having this third option to view sexy content without the blatant genital close-ups.

To users who have complained of seeing a blank screen when they update their settings, we are sending you an email to your registered email address to assist you with this issue. This occurs if you're using an older browser that doesn't support overlays well. The spinner interferes and freezes up the page. We are removing the overlay and the spinner to prevent this from happening.

Users who mention their settings revert back when you try to change your settings, it's because your settings are not being saved fully. We are adding a visual confirmation that will let you know if the change was a success or failed (in which case, just go back to the settings page and update again).



As always, we recommend using the latest version of your preferred browser for the best experience.

rm_Oldricardito 78M

3/21/2013 1:38 pm

why all of a sudden on live video feeds you cannot see a preview pic of who is on?


sweet_VM 63F  
81699 posts
3/21/2013 1:41 pm

Aryana all we are getting is a small line at the top of our page about changing our content filter.. you click into it and then you have the choices. There is nothing like what your showing on my screen.

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


FullOn4U 56M
20399 posts
3/21/2013 2:30 pm

Aryana, do you look at your own posts?

If you did you'd see text down the side of the image you've inserted. This isn't correct - surely you can see that yourself, we can all see it on our own blogs.

Please, please, please when you introduce something new can you make sure that it's tested before being rolled out. Every time a new feature is introduced something else goes wrong. This really isn't good enough for a commercial site.


FullOn4U 56M
20399 posts
3/21/2013 3:00 pm

    Quoting community:
    Yes, we are aware of this. Engineers are looking into it and will have a fix soon.
You miss my point - this shouldn't happen on a live commercial website to start with.

All of these problems should be ironed out before the updates go live.

By the way, have you seen the deluge of comments on your other post?

Are you listening...


community replies on 3/21/2013 3:06 pm:
I hear you, FullOn4U. Most of the fixes have been verified now and we're reaching out to members personally who are having trouble with the filters. The text wrapping issue occurred before rolling out the filters, and engineers are working on that right now.

wellillbecammed 60M  
36 posts
3/21/2013 4:09 pm

I received your email. I have cleared my cache on IE8 6 times now and the problem remains. I have turned off auto-renew and won't be paying for service. All you have done the past six months in increase prices and cause problems with the new software. I wish the previous owners of the site were still around. They understood why we are here.


beeperzz 56M  
126 posts
3/21/2013 4:16 pm

WHY is the standalone IM not functioning properly???...you stopped offering it a while ago but many people still use it like I do. I cant contact any AsianMatchMate.com network friends now for 2 days because of this.
Whenever I do try and chat to anyone using it now it comes back with INVALID TEXT!!!
Please FIX IT......thank you!!


FMAOPLS 68F  
27112 posts
3/21/2013 4:48 pm

    Quoting FullOn4U:
    You miss my point - this shouldn't happen on a live commercial website to start with.

    All of these problems should be ironed out before the updates go live.

    By the way, have you seen the deluge of comments on your other post?

    Are you listening...
Are your engineers familiar with the word TEST, and know what it means?

Most everywhere else, changes are tested fully, to see if they can "break" the system, therefore working out the kinks before going live.

This seems to be a foreign concept to this company.

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rdy2try4 57F  
3330 posts
3/21/2013 5:09 pm

    Quoting beeperzz:
    WHY is the standalone IM not functioning properly???...you stopped offering it a while ago but many people still use it like I do. I cant contact any AsianMatchMate.com network friends now for 2 days because of this.
    Whenever I do try and chat to anyone using it now it comes back with INVALID TEXT!!!
    Please FIX IT......thank you!!
I use the downloadable IMC, and I just checked. I am not sure what is happening with yours, but mine is working fine. Sorry I can't be of more help.


GerK321Cum 64M
7327 posts
3/21/2013 7:24 pm

PICTURES NOT CENTERED IN BLOGS...

The content filter update adds a line of code to the blog posts as below

div class="filter_box" style="position:relative;
/div


This causes the center command to fail for images....

So can the content filter code writers please recheck their code and style - is it too much to ask, as a paying member of the site that the problem displaying my blogs be fixed immediately by standard IT practice of rolling back a change until the bug is sorted and the code retested - thanks.


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JN63JPN 59F  
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3/21/2013 7:24 pm

I brought it up a few times, and I'll bring it up again.

Re-consider the beta test group. If not an actual publicly open group, then reach out for volunteers that report only via email instead of going through a public forum. Members can offer different platforms to test out the updates before they go live.

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GerK321Cum 64M
7327 posts
3/21/2013 7:28 pm

Oh I see community have also been taken in I just posted below the reason for the blog images not centering....

It is the new line of code class="filter_box that has been added to the blog posts... I know as I have a copy of before and after - compared the two and removing this line resolves the centering issue.

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missingu2012 72M
3135 posts
3/21/2013 8:28 pm

Im not sure this content filter thingy is working the way it's advertised! For giggles I set my filter to "NICE". My own profile photo is now X'd out.
I go to several blogs, some profile photos are X'd out, some blog post photos are X'd out, (but not consistantly)......
When I go to this post [post 3118494] .. I see everything!


roxy54sexy 59F
8914 posts
3/21/2013 9:05 pm

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    I brought it up a few times, and I'll bring it up again.

    Re-consider the beta test group. If not an actual publicly open group, then reach out for volunteers that report only via email instead of going through a public forum. Members can offer different platforms to test out the updates before they go live.
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rdy2try4 57F  
3330 posts
3/21/2013 11:01 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree, I like it as well. I have to say I am more amazed at the people that think the site is just removing nude photos and don't see it is just a filter. They can still post those photos, but some won't be looking at them.


needluv694me 75M  
570 posts
3/22/2013 5:59 am

Just a quick comment on the new filter....
.
1. It seems to work just fine for me, but...
.
2. My old filter setting was "OFF," but the new filter defaulted to "Naughty," not "Nasty" as you mentioned in your post, and last time I checked, I was definitely male.
.


community replies on 3/22/2013 11:58 am:
There was a mix up with specs. All male members were supposed to default to nasty, women with their content filters off were supposed to default to naughty, and women with their filters on were supposed to default to nice. It wasn't built like that, however. We changed it yesterday so that any males who didn't log in before 6PM 3/20 would default to nasty instead.

hany4747 41M
2 posts
3/22/2013 6:30 am


FullOn4U 56M
20399 posts
3/22/2013 7:10 am

    Quoting GerK321Cum:
    Oh I see community have also been taken in I just posted below the reason for the blog images not centering....

    It is the new line of code class="filter_box that has been added to the blog posts... I know as I have a copy of before and after - compared the two and removing this line resolves the centering issue.


Somehow I don't think that they'll thank you for debugging their code

According to Aryana...

"The text wrapping issue occurred before rolling out the filters, and engineers are working on that right now."

She couldn't be mistaken could she?


charmsmom012 74F  
5 posts
3/22/2013 7:24 am

for some reason i cant get the xs off the chat room on people talking i have set my filter and it seems like its not working please any one tell me how to get their profile pic up


Lovely_Pecker 43M
2 posts
3/22/2013 8:37 am

The search feature for who is currently online hardly ever works on mobile devices for the full desktop site.
Also, searching for new members based on cupid settings gives different results every time you do it and includes members at the top of the results who haven't been online on over 3 months.
It's impossible to read emails through the desktop site on mobile devices also
Often, when you open a profile in a mobile device, it will not show the test of the profile.

Your site is disastrous and is getting more and more disastrous by the day!


ThisBoyNow 53M

3/22/2013 9:23 am

I like seeing all the pictures
so let's go Nasty


MrIMAFLIRT 107M
12 posts
3/22/2013 11:26 am

Is any of this getting thru to you, A F F ?


chasloves2692 57M  
1 post
3/22/2013 12:30 pm

This is an adult site, right? This is retarded!


dess36 51M

3/22/2013 12:33 pm

no inglis,eres muy sexy...


ChocBanana1234 56M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 12:33 pm

The instructions while are clear and has pictures is not clear. I cannot find this drop down on my preferences page where is it? Why dont you just make it an item to appear on the page instead of going through a drop down. Your instruction picture is actually showing the drop down being selected from the community drop down. I am confused about this amd annoyed that you have not developed this well.


community replies on 3/22/2013 1:22 pm:
I checked from your account and you most likely are experiencing issues with an older outdated browser. I would recommend upgrading your browser. Your setting has now been saved as 'Nasty.'

yuhanjon28 37M
1 post
3/22/2013 12:35 pm

I like nasty.. cos im here for tht only..


kinkyken1955 67M
2 posts
3/22/2013 12:37 pm

having big problems trying to open files so i think i shall close my account very soon . this site been getting shit


community replies on 3/22/2013 1:27 pm:
Please check your inbox for my message. I can help you with the issue you're experiencing there.

saxyntaz 69M/58F
3 posts
3/22/2013 12:37 pm

I got to the blog by clicking on the link to "preferences page". This is exactly the kind of thing that got me to quit paying you. You guys will never get your shit together. You really don't care about your customers at all.


rm_wobbit51 71M
4 posts
3/22/2013 12:39 pm

OK now i can only view the first pic in the line of 8 and the rest are stamp size .FIX this please or i am out had enough of this, god how many blogs dont you read to see that no one is happy.


community replies on 3/22/2013 1:38 pm:
What browser and version are you using, wobbit51? I can't duplicate this issue. Please check your inbox for my message so I can assist you.

brndlacy1771 51M/52F

3/22/2013 12:41 pm

We think it is GREAT!!!!!


blackcam12000 59M
1 post
3/22/2013 12:42 pm

you guys a really killing the life out of this site with the censorship and the attempts to charge gold members more to talk to standard members. gold membership used to be a sign that you are serious about the "life style" now its just the chance to be a sucker and target for all fakes. May not renew !!


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
3/22/2013 12:42 pm

Mine is set to nasty, but i still see a big black X for a few seconds when i try to view an explicit image, before the image is then shown?
Just another measure to slow down the site, and the experience of using the site in my opinion.
Really what is the obsession with X on this website?
Xmatch, Xhookup, and now big black X filters.
I really think time, money and resources would be much better spent fixing things that the members really want fixing, such as....
1. Fix the new message centre, or bring back the old one.
2. Do something about the fake and scam profiles, engage with members about how to improve in this area, then take the members feedback on board and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!
No matter how many changes you make to the site, this issue WILL NOT GO AWAY.
Really in the grand scheme of things, compared to other problems on the site, these new filters are not important.
Also to make matters worse, Andrew has left aswel. Wonder why he left.
I suspect his ideas were not being listened to by the management, he actually was one guy here who had the right idea....
HE LISTENED TO WHAT THE MEMBERS WANT.

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sexmarathoneer 57M
4 posts
3/22/2013 12:44 pm

AsianMatchMate.com your ideas about Content Filters are just stupid and ridiculous, and are concocted by idiots. As well, since paying members are NOT getting the services that they expect after paying your very expensive fee, with the high expectations of actually getting what you claim to be selling, is just plain sickening and most likely fraud and constitute legal action being brought against you. PLEASE PUT OUR HARD EARNED MONEY TO WORK FIXING YOUR SITE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS AND THEN OFFER SOMETHING WORTH PAYING FOR. You have reduced this site to nothing free, like it once was, in an attempt to squeeze more MONEY out of all it's users. Damn GIVE the customer something People!
I used to be a paying subscriber but NOT anymore, see if you can guess why! JESUS! Put your MONEY where your mouth is, instead of in your pockets and leaving us pissed off!


jbaum 54M
2 posts
3/22/2013 12:46 pm

Enough is enough! Focus on quality and leave everthing else alone. Thank you...


justfuckme36 52T

3/22/2013 12:54 pm

will you ok my pro. so i can try 2 chat agin if you fixed the chat that is lol have a nice day ty


adventurer7104 61M
1 post
3/22/2013 12:56 pm

Don't make any change


justfuckme365 52M
3 posts
3/22/2013 12:57 pm

can you fix the chat so i can get sum fun 2 night


rm_jeetu192103 39M
1 post
3/22/2013 1:00 pm

good


7onaverage 56M

3/22/2013 1:07 pm

nice pic


vetrider05 70M/66F  
6 posts
3/22/2013 1:12 pm

I have had it w/ this site. Xs on friends photos. Can't click on photos anymore. Have to use arrow to move photos. Go back to the old system. You won't see me renew again. I paid for GOLD not X.


maggiemay10982 42F
2 posts
3/22/2013 1:22 pm

1st they change your message page, which is'nt a bit easier.. now this rediculous X filter, what next?


Braker69 55M
6 posts
3/22/2013 1:27 pm

I don't like the new setting


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
3/22/2013 1:29 pm

Can i ask, what is the point of a content filter, when you can still see the uncensored advertisments on the site for pay per view cams and "watch unlimited porn here", Brazzers, etc. Really if you are going to filter member content on profiles, surely you have to filter all the advertisements aswel????

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community replies on 3/22/2013 1:49 pm:
The number one complaint we receive from female members is that they want a way to block close-up shots of genitalia across pages of the site. They don't mind nudity, but would like a way to block those images if they choose. This filter is for those female users. It doesn't censor anything for those who wish to view everything as it comes. Many female members have asked for this for a very long time.

ProteinPumps 41M
5 posts
3/22/2013 1:30 pm

Are you trying to remove the "adult" in AsianMatchMate.com? This is not eharmony or some matchmaking site. People who are here know what they are specifically looking for. Its like going to a dance club and telling the DJ to lower the music volume.
First do something about the fake profiles that bombard members with phoney messages.


Macopille 53M
16 posts
3/22/2013 1:31 pm

the new page is good but slowly!


Stillhere555 61M
1 post
3/22/2013 1:34 pm

this sucks !!!!


TONECABONE 48M
2 posts
3/22/2013 1:35 pm

this shit sucks..never read the banner and just thought something was wrong with my computer..since when does a fuck sight get politically correct ...hell i might as well cancell and to christians meet dot com...i mean really ..wtf


majortom333 66M/63F
2 posts
3/22/2013 1:36 pm

They seem to be getting worse all the time the improvements are not for the members.


liclalot 76M
1 post
3/22/2013 1:37 pm

Do away with the BIG X it's no good.I enjoy all the pictures and like the close up pictures the best.I like to see what people have to off.


love2suckugoog 49M

3/22/2013 1:38 pm

Who decides these changes, and actually thinks they are better?? It's absolutely horrible!!!!! I'm gold and should have access to all...ALL!!! Not having damm obstacles put in front to access. Same scrap with the new emailsystem.. CHANGE IT BACK!!


community replies on 3/22/2013 1:46 pm:
You are in no way restricted from viewing content on the site. Your settings are saved as 'Nasty,' so there is no change in what you see. Female users have long requested an additional filter that hides close-up shots of genitalia. This added filter provides additional customization so they can enjoy the site and customize what they want to see.

caguy45 56M
13 posts
3/22/2013 1:39 pm

I love this change! I am so tired of seeing the wieners of guys who viewed me, ugh. not into guys and dont want to have to scroll past 20 dick close ups every time I sign on to see if a woman or couple viewed me.

Now if you can make it so that people who viewed me dont trigger me viewing them unless I really do click on their profile, this could be an awesome sit without all the unwanted male weirdness


johnjeri41710 51M/35F
1 post
3/22/2013 1:39 pm

We left for sls...just letting subscription run out. So many fakes and bullshit!! SLS is way better!!!!


webblauren542 40F

3/22/2013 1:41 pm

You sound good.Can you drop me your email addy so will can aside from this site because im not always here.We will talk better and see where it leads to and here is mine:

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martylicksit 64M
1 post
3/22/2013 1:49 pm

??? why change something thats not working fine ?? as they say an adult site is for guys and girl that know what they want and like what they like and make their own mind up if they dont want to look at something thet arnt looking for


tascouplexx 54M/54F
2 posts
3/22/2013 1:49 pm

JUST CAUSE WERE IN TASMANIA yep that lil dot below AUSTRALIA the one just up from antartica

STOP TREATING US LIKE FUKIN FOOLSS
were stuck on the old home page but that is good atleast you can see, when we click on new one to change the settings it takes a fukin fizzy and goes back too the old screen.

YES some one else mentioned FAKE PROFILES MESSAGES AND WINKS F F S were not 90 we have a memory and can remember the countless times you guys have used your FAKE SHIT to piss us off


rm_1HotBaadBoy 46M
334 posts
3/22/2013 2:05 pm

Okay cool, so you've come up with the content filter but why did you fuck the blogs up? Pictures on topics were centered and the text was below it. Now the pic is on the left margin and text to the right of it. It looks like shit. You guys gonna fix it? If not are you gonna provide a way for us to fix it?

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mckenna01 53M/48F
8 posts
3/22/2013 2:08 pm

I am signed up as a gold member and often wondered why some members post disgusting Pics that are unsightly of there genitals. I think they might want to leave some to the imagination. If people are on to meet or just fuck you get to a point that will ask them for a pic. On the other hand I have seen people that are hot with there clothes on , and not so good in following naked pictures that saved me a trip out. I like the idea of being able to choose. Sometimes I'll be on here looking casually, next your genitals where so disgusting I cant eat my dinner, or think about sex until that train wreck of a picture is out of my mind. I will be choosing naughty for now.


Mikeinfoley 55M
6 posts
3/22/2013 2:11 pm

We know why we are here so this feature is unneccesary. This site is for finding people to fuck so if ur here why care if u u see pussy or cock or whatever?? If u are REALLY here to find a relationship u are in the wrong place.... Oh yeah.... who wants to suck and fuck??


Stuntflyer1967 54M
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:11 pm

Really?! This is AsianMatchMate.com, not Facebook... of course I wanna see blatant genital close-ups, lol!


gunner311 62M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:17 pm

please,please,please stop screwing around with the homepage!!!! i want to be able to see you is looking at my profile without having to search the entire site for it!!
i am a gold member but if i can't find what i need on my homepage then i will cancel my subscription.....be warned many others are thinking the same thing


rasiertersiggi 76M
4 posts
3/22/2013 2:20 pm

Ich sehe Genitalen gerne in gross aufnahme und ganz nah


wellillbecammed 60M  
36 posts
3/22/2013 2:20 pm

let me see. females, who dont' pay for membership, are now dictating what the paying members want? yeah right. i had a female like that once, i now call her, the ex. prioritize your paying members or charge women again for those silver and gold balls you hand out like to many pennies.


HotGuy4U74 47M

3/22/2013 2:27 pm

Your new format sucks shit....and I want my money back!


BBCLUVSBJS 46M
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:27 pm

this crap SUCKS ASS stop messing with the site you are fucking it up


rm_trakncougars 57M
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:30 pm

Yes this is a pain in the ass. Get rid of it, anyone that opposes it evidently does not belong on this site..


BabyGirlTay74 47F
507 posts
3/22/2013 2:34 pm

I am one of those who doesn't really want a face full of cock every time I log on. That being said it doesn't work all the time.

Furthermore, what you didn't mention was the advertising to Gold members about letting standing member's contacting them when we Gold members view the profile of a standard member. But guess what? It shows also on the Gold members. Hoping it is part of the many programming issues on the site, not a trick.

The new email is okay but you need really allow us to attach profiles again for starters.

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rm_crispycrit 59M
1 post
3/22/2013 2:36 pm

AsianMatchMate.com is without a doubt the buggiest piece of shit website I've every encountered. I absolutely will not be renewing my membership. It's a joke, people!


rm_st4prez2 52M
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:37 pm

Gee, a site that I pay good money for (and is a swinger/lifestyle site) wants me to "adjust my settings" so i can see pussy. Who the fuck thought this shit up and why? Give me my fucking money back. Now.


rm_st4prez2 52M
2 posts
3/22/2013 2:40 pm

And you can also reset my mailbox so it doesn't always show I have 26 messages.....really competent IT staff you have!!


1sonasty 53M  
1 post
3/22/2013 2:44 pm

This new format bites ass, why don't you ask the paying customers before you do something dumb like this. I can only guess you will be losing more and more of us!! Fix it!!


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2 posts
3/22/2013 2:49 pm

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misstexto69 53F

3/22/2013 2:57 pm

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2 posts
3/22/2013 2:59 pm

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nakedandfearles2 52M

3/22/2013 3:01 pm

stupidest thing ive ever seen, if the content offends you, they have more christian kind of sites for that...this is "AsianMatchMate.com" ....


remingtons2for1 62M/61F  
1 post
3/22/2013 3:05 pm

COME ON, FUCKING FIX THIS SHIT AND QUIT FUCKING UP THE SITE NOW


sahra0cowboy 57M
4 posts
3/22/2013 3:07 pm

THIS SITE HAS WENT OFF THE DEEP END BETWEEN THE FAKE BULL SHIT THE DUMB ASS PROGRAMING THE SORRY AS HELL I T DEPT ALL THE BUGS AND AND TRACKING COOKIES THEY LOAD YOUR COMPUTER WITH !!!!! NO FUN NOW THIS DAMN FILTER AND THE AD THAT WANTS YOU TO PAY SO SOMEONE CAN CONTACT YOU WHEN YOUR ALREADY A GOLD MEMBER !!!!! I WON"T BE RENEWING THERE IS OTHER SITES THAT HAVE TO BE BETTER BECAUSE THEY CANT BE AS TERRIBLE AS THIS SITE!!!!!


WithoutIntricacy 47M

3/22/2013 3:25 pm

I don't think there should be a content filter, on an "Adult" website.

If some women are complaining about seeing too much cock/pussy, then I don't understand their rationale for creating a membership here, and they should be left to either find another site or accept it. The filter that's been implemented without so much as a community discussion or vote, is nothing more than capitalism at work. In the end, we - the community - really have nothing we can do to prevent these kinds of things from happening... save move or create a new site that's truly free. Built for the users, by the users, and supported by the users.

It's not enough that you were making a decent profit catering to a decent amount of people who loved what this place used to be, but it's now about trying to cater to everyone. As we all know, you can't satisfy everyone's needs, so it should have been the needs of the many, as opposed to the needs of a few. I postulate that with near certainty, the majority of this community wouldn't have wanted a content filter.

You've just become another corporate-whore machine, that only cares about the number at the bottom of the balance sheet.


N_Joimi 72M
3911 posts
3/22/2013 3:34 pm

"Males and couples will not experience a change in their filter settings -- they default to 'Nasty,' the same as the previous 'OFF.'"

NOT TRUE. Mine was defaulted to "Naughty". Which finally explains the mysterious "X" boxes that have been showing up in various places lately. I thought it another site "glitch" (like the goofy way blogs now squeeze images and text next to each other and incorrectly parses html table tags when there is an image in the table) until I found out it was "only" a glitch in the way the site defaulted my filter settings.


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En-Joy!


rm_Whiteybich 51M
1 post
3/22/2013 3:37 pm

Yeah, what everyone else is saying. This is getting' ridiculous!
I could've sworn that this particular site was for people to meet for sexual encounters, not dating. Isn't that what sites like eharmony and match are for? Hell, isn't AsianMatchMate.com's motto "The World's Largest Sex Dating Site & Swinger Personals Community"?

And WTF is up with girls from CA or FL telling me they like my profile and then asking me to give them my personal email? Is this site already infected with "bots"?

for example:

Dorivwi498:
"Hey, sexy! I wrote to you two or three times already and got no answer and the website tells me that my message could not be delivered. and I can not read the letter that I wrote = ((What's wrong? Am I not pretty enough for you? If so, just tell me! Well, I personally would like to get to know you a little better, and we may even a good time. I'm really interested in you, I'm tired of all the errors on the site and support will not help me, so I decided to delete my profile. If you want to know me better, you can find me with drocharo . com using my user name. way, my user name is " Jordannaihl323". Hope to see you soon. masturbate I'm tired, I want hard sex! I'll be waiting!"

Dorivwi498:
"if you got my message, go to drocharo . com find me under the name of Jordannaihl323! I'll be waiting!"

or;

Cobbiegvf138:
"Finally I found your email! Hello to you! Every time I tried to send a message I got this error saying something like it is not delivered or something failed. I had a few hard months with the system but then just erased my profile so now you can find me at drocharo . com my new profile is “ Deniceyjc588 ” and I can’t wait to see you there. You are good looking and proved to be a wise person so I totally am willing to have you around to chat some more. If you do want to spend some time with me, then I would be more than just glad to see you. To tell the truth I am not sure that you will, but I’ll be waiting anyway."

It's pretty simple, I'm here to find women, BLK guys, and couples who want to have casual sex, not develop long distance relationships. Now if I had been born yesterday, I'd be a little flattered with some young CA gal saying she likes my profile, but I wasn't.

knock knock! yoo-hoo AsianMatchMate.com are you even paying attention to what your customers are saying??

AND FOR CRYING OUT LOUD, LEAVE THE OLD HOMEPAGE ALONE!! THE NEW ONE SUCKS


surreysoldier41 50M

3/22/2013 3:37 pm

this site has turned into to a fucking joking, that was fucking just in case it gets censored


ChicagoM74 47M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 3:37 pm

Technically: Wow, what a way to increase page load times. Not sure why your tech team thought this was a good idea or acceptable. I would have been fired if our site had these load times. Terrible user experience since all the Xs load, then it read your preference, then the Xs go away, then the images a blank, then the actual images load.

As a user of this site for over 10 years. What the HELL, unless this is just going to be a normal Dating site, which it isn't. This was a waste of time and money. I would think keeping the hackers and bots out would be a more wise way to spend money as a company. I go back to terrible user experience with page load times.

If people are offended, then they do not belong on this site. Or maybe it is time for the rest of us to find a new website.

Shame on the tech team for letting this happen, from the technical standpoint.


rm_upicdahole 51M
6 posts
3/22/2013 3:41 pm

just when you think you have seen it all!! here cums more dum_shit!!!


rhinio 42M
1 post
3/22/2013 3:42 pm

prefereces


Tennisbud2012 42M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 3:43 pm

THis is a sex site, give us a fucking break....money talks and membership counts, so remove this childish control !!!!!!


HORNITO57 65M

3/22/2013 3:45 pm

Now I can't read my messages and can't view the other pics, whats up with that !! I click on to them and nothing happens what did you do?


hairypussyluvers 63M/49F

3/22/2013 3:48 pm

Fucking stupid


life2love2day 57M
2 posts
3/22/2013 3:51 pm

Why do we come here to check out the pictures and try to pick someone up. Well if this keeps up when my membership is up I'm gone. If you don't want to see the human body then go hang out in church. Enough let's play.


Suuthrnman696 55M
20 posts
3/22/2013 3:52 pm

AsianMatchMate.com you are fucking up I am a original member since 1996 and you wonder why less and less are paying for your shit?


SexySultryOne 57T  
1 post
3/22/2013 3:52 pm

I am a 10-year member. This is a SEX SITE not a DATING SITE. I've changed my preference to "nasty" and am still greeted with big X's. Enough already. Do away with this juvenile rating system.


life2love2day 57M
2 posts
3/22/2013 3:54 pm

One more note, why don't you work on getting rid of those fake people who send me emails. I'm real and I may meet someone some day but I open to meet but not in Germany. Fix those distances while your at it as some places are not that close to me in Alberta.


My2BaldHeads 64M
1 post
3/22/2013 3:54 pm

I can't get my mail and now this bull sh!t...Is this an ADULT site? I'm beginning to wonder.


rm_Angel4361969 53F
1 post
3/22/2013 4:06 pm

I sent someone some pics and they couldn't see them. Please put it back to the way it is. If people don't want to see nudity then they shouldn't be on AsianMatchMate.com in the first place!!!!!!!


MrSugaKane 51M

3/22/2013 4:08 pm

IT guys you fucked this site up!!!! How come everything I click on is bringing me to this feedback log? Fix this asap or I will take my business some where else!!!


shyviolette 61F
9347 posts
3/22/2013 4:09 pm

why does the "Preferences page" link on the main page banner bring me to this blog? i suppose that is the problem with the site in a nutshell...bait and switch.

When the tides of life are against you

And the current upsets your boat

Don't think of things that might have been

Just lay on your back and float

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castiel70 51M
110 posts
3/22/2013 4:10 pm

yo prefiero como se muestran de todas las formas de expression sexual, pero nada que ofenda al ser humano


rm_pium32 44M
1 post
3/22/2013 4:17 pm

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mflater1 71M  
50414 posts
3/22/2013 4:24 pm

Make some more changes. It is not screwed up enough yet.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








sunnyslice 62M/60F  
4 posts
3/22/2013 4:28 pm

the x's are stupid... this site is about seeing it all! take this update to your system.


WindDrift9 56M
1 post
3/22/2013 4:33 pm

Leave the site alone. You need to work on keeping the site up and running ALL the time, make sure that you have the best software for streaming video and overall speed up browsing. Your chatting software sucks.
Those are the most bogus privacy sttings that you came up with. This is a sex site not a prayer site. You guys are making a lot of money but always seem so intent in fucking youselves over time after time, from your misleading billing practices to now this.
Change is not good, specially the stupid type of changes that you are coming up with.


69Desperado4play 31M

3/22/2013 4:34 pm

Time to find a new website!


trainman491000 62M  
3 posts
3/22/2013 4:39 pm

once again AsianMatchMate.com is making stupid changes ... WHY do they have to change things all the time ... LEAVE THINGS ALONE .... work on making the IM to work better ...it sucks ....


rm_shyfemtv 73T
1 post
3/22/2013 4:40 pm

Your new email system is really bad.

Somebody must have been drunk and doped up

when they came up with this idea.

Dee Dee


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
3/22/2013 4:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Aryana, i want to address your reply to my original comment here. You say female members have been asking for this filter change for a long time.
Well I and a lot of other members here have been asking for profile background bling back for a very long time, but don't see any sign of it returning?
Look at these threads.....
Will Profile Colors and Background Bling Come Back
Bling Is it Going Away
Why do the females get these filters they want, but members who want profile background bling returned to the site are ignored by the management?
Also members who want the old message centre instead of this crappy new one are ignored?
As you know most of the male members here are the ones with premium membership and our requests are ignored.
Requests to address the issue of fake and scam profiles on here......guess what, ignored by the management.
Many females here are standard members but hey ho, they get their content filters, while male members requests are continually ignored.

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

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rm_closaldana 28M
1 post
3/22/2013 4:45 pm

hola como estas ?
m gustaria conocerte respondeme si t interesa


sexymilf361 61F  
8 posts
3/22/2013 4:46 pm

this site has gone downhill in the last cpl months i for one am not very happy at all been a gold member for long time plus pay for standards to contact me and some can't not sure why! plus when i used to invite ppl to my network they were able to see my albums just not my profile ones now they can no longer do that whats up with that one of the reasons which is why i put them up so ppl can see them!!! not to sound vain but i have also had ppl get membership because once they see the pics they want to see vids. i hate all this new stuff should go back or at least be the members choice!!!!!


ronaldbng 42M  
6 posts
3/22/2013 4:53 pm

Hi,
I always tell everyone here that AsianMatchMate.com is very clear what its about. About sex and people like to show. By putting a filter on pics because its to much for some then those some don't belong here. I say keep it the way it was. I guess there weren't any complaints?


justfuckme36 52T

3/22/2013 4:57 pm

ty 4 oking my pro. now can you fix the chat it has not worked all day 4 me help


Sexxylady4_U 52F  
16 posts
3/22/2013 5:01 pm

Yes It is very sad that you are doing this....blocking people from looking at close up pictures. Not fare at all just because some women that are on this site are against looking at someones Genitals. *LAFFS* REALLY? Come on now...this IS after all a "SEX" site. I also notice that people go in the chat rooms and are like trying to be room cop look outs..and try to make fun of people that are on Web cams or who talk about sex. I think if people DON'T like seeing others talk about sex or even make fun of people on cams. They should be banned from AsianMatchMate.com. I notice too that once someone does get banned they come back on the site under a new name. They should be tracked down and rejected.

For those that know me and those that don't. Come and find out! {=} *Y*


Sexxylady4_U 52F  
16 posts
3/22/2013 5:06 pm

Plus i usually have the ignorant asses that comment on my pictures and videos. Like Jealous women or guys I brush off. How do I remove their comments? At times it won't let me.

For those that know me and those that don't. Come and find out! {=} *Y*


longtallone2005 62M
2 posts
3/22/2013 5:12 pm

change it back it does not need this at all


mountaindude09 57M

3/22/2013 5:18 pm

This is total bullshit, why did you do this????? This is an adult site, if you are offended by naked pics why are you on here???? The pop ups are bad enough, I am a paying customer leave my account alone. This country just slides farther and farther down the censorship void by the day time to stand up and say enough.


your3rd 54M
2 posts
3/22/2013 5:20 pm

This is an adult site right? So why the need for a content filter? If anyone finds the material on this site offensive then they shouldn't be using this site in the first place and should be using one of the more tradional dating sites. I don't understand the need for this at all. As someone else said in their remarks, if you want to do something update/fix the damn IM!!


edkaye 48M/49F  
1 post
3/22/2013 5:30 pm

Brilliant Idea. I no one wants to see OBGYN hooch shots.
Big differences sexy and nasty.

Keep up the good work


wayne2017 58M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 5:31 pm

Dont like this new filter you have, we are here to look and find people that we like to look at, and another thing is you can click on their photos and look at them when you could before, GO back the way it was, if its not broken why FIX IT. Just saying......


nodak1 64M  
1 post
3/22/2013 5:33 pm

The filter content sucks - just sayin'. Get rid of the damn thing.


BigMeyer 38M
1 post
3/22/2013 5:40 pm

This thing fucking sucks, get rid of it. If I wanted it censored I would do it myself or not be on the site.


machoman4u46 61M
11 posts
3/22/2013 5:44 pm

Is this a sex website or romance wedsite or ....?????
Who can clarify me that ???. I am new here but really confused, dissapointed ???, no, not dissapointed, not yet. Greetings to all.


rm_gholeBJ4U 48M
1 post
3/22/2013 5:46 pm

This once was AsianMatchMate.com. Now it's becoming a place with people easily offended by nudity and sex??? wtf

If i just wanted to look at peoples faces Id masturbate to my facebook friends list

It's becoming hardly worth paying for anymore


backdoorman14701 56M
1 post
3/22/2013 5:50 pm

Leave it alone. It's an adult site, we're adults. Do we really need to worry and kowtow about uptight people here, too ?


straightguyinla 50M
2 posts
3/22/2013 5:54 pm

Notice that most of the negative comments are from male exhibitionists. Sorry, guys, this may be a sex site, but most of us did not come here to see a sausage fest! I've always wished I could have a cock-block feature, and certainly appreciate the option here.


LosAngelesPat 72M
4 posts
3/22/2013 5:55 pm

GEEZE.....
OKAY....

ENOUGH
How many times do we have to make our selection??????
Ready to LEAVE this freakin' site....
STOP STOP STOP


cumhungrywife4 47F

3/22/2013 5:56 pm

change it back...


kittyforplay09 51M/49F  
26 posts
3/22/2013 6:00 pm

Lame, Every time you guys mess with the site. You Mess it up.


2befriendsfirst 61M/60F  
87 posts
3/22/2013 6:05 pm

Keep changing the site but never fix the messenger where it works half way decent


sarafanandjbp 39M
1 post
3/22/2013 6:05 pm

hi sexey hru im 29 m ur like me 919893393301 call me im indian


brikk79 60M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 6:15 pm

The content filter is a very bad idea. I truly cannot believe that there are paying members on here who feel this site is too sexually explicit!! It's not a dating site. It's a site to meet partners for SEX!! If you find the site offensive, cancel your membership and go to some other G-rated site. There are dozens of them.

Get rid of the content filter. It's a poorly implemented feature and there's simply no need for it.


eatmyiris 47F
1 post
3/22/2013 6:17 pm

This new filter option is completely not needed. This is an adult site for sex, without limitation or sensoring.
How can I make this stupid, unwanted yellow banner permantly go away? Each time I log in, there it is again.
Every time new features or enhancements are added to this web site, they don't work properly and causes problems - for example, the redesign of the web page, badly designed, confusing, and has problems.


rm_jackme4u2c 55M
6 posts
3/22/2013 6:22 pm

So you what? Listened to the ladies? What ladies? They are all a bunch of sluts anyway. Cheating on their boyfriends or husbands because no one else is dicking them down good and they need to find it elsewhere. What are these "ladies" looking for on a sex site? Romance? Give me a break. Seems like they dominate this site and want to turn it into a romance novel. That's because women are notorious for bitching and moaning. Guys don't give a fuck. If they don't like it they just leave and go elsewhere. Women got to bitch and moan till somebody "validates" their feelings. I'm done. Cashing in my chips and taking my losses. Going to a true site that doesn't care what the "ladies" (sluts) think.


jezebel11958 64F

3/22/2013 6:22 pm

I don't want ANY filters. I made an adult decision to join. I can make an adult decision in what I choose to see.


karakartal1965 53M
3 posts
3/22/2013 6:32 pm

back to old


Dayjet1 44M
2 posts
3/22/2013 6:34 pm

Why don't you focus on fixing faulty programming and code on your website before trying to 'play' nanny to adults. Also, fix the email settings as to add pictures from the profile as opposed to only uploading them each and every time!


alk1208 51M/45F

3/22/2013 6:36 pm

HI V R COUPEL LOOKING FOR NICE FRIEND


Lotsa69s 53M  
160 posts
3/22/2013 6:36 pm

Instead of adding "new". Fix the old! This site has bugs up the wahzoo! The mobile app's email is not in synch with the desktop's site email. Flash is still needed for IM...and that rarely works. Fix the damn bugs, then start treating paying customers like what we actually are: paying your bills, and keeping you in business.

I've opened several support tickets, the latest being "Standard Contacts" not working because standard members weren't able to view me. That took 18 emails back & forth with customer service before it finally got resolved. THAT IS BS! 14 reply backs were copy & paste emails telling me the features of "Standard Contacts"--- and I've already paid for it.

This site is going down the tank. It's only getting worse in the couple years I've been on it. FIX THE ISSUES. LISTEN TO US- when 5,000 of us tell you IM doesn't work. Guess what? IM doesn't work!

My issues list of unresolved tickets keeps growing...without any resolution.

AF F has potential, but not with the volume of bugs!


rm_jackme4u2c 55M
6 posts
3/22/2013 6:40 pm

Who wants to start an Adult website with me? We'll just take everything that they changed and put it back to the way it used to be. How much can it cost? We know what works and what doesn't. We'll make a fortune!!!! C'mon, who's in this with me? Who cares what a bunch of pathetic, fat and ugly women that can't get a real man, think?


rm_clutch46825 41M
1 post
3/22/2013 6:46 pm

So the only videos i can see are the videos that are on "what's hot"? Not happy, and the girls that love guys watching their vids probably aren't either.


nyrican61 60M  
1 post
3/22/2013 6:50 pm

This is total bullshit, why did you do this????? This is an adult site, if you are offended by naked pics why are you on here???? The pop ups are bad enough, I am a paying customer leave my account alone. This country just slides farther and farther down the censorship void by the day time to stand up and say enough.


im2sexy4uall 57M/55F
3 posts
3/22/2013 6:56 pm

quit messing with the site..Go back to the original and just improve the speed and im..Do you seriously think we are going to continue to pay for a site that has black x's across the screen????


jakeNjean 70M/70F
1 post
3/22/2013 6:57 pm

Change the site back to the original functionality. Then get rid of the development consultant and IT staff that dreamed up this load of crap and whoever approved it. Either that or I've done my last renewal.


goldenloverinmym 67M
51 posts
3/22/2013 6:58 pm

john thomas & Aryana,you should read what most AsianMatchMate.com users want,i was a gold member,and had 2 cancel my credit card cuz u autorenewed me,ok for 1 year was supposed 2 get 6 months free never did get that,well when that year ran out u tried 2 autorenew again thank god i canceled that card,then u have the gall 2 send a message that there is a prob with my card,haha the prob is u will never get another cent out of my pocket,fix this mess,fix the problems fake profiles,fake flirts from people who have not been on in 3 months,yer shit for brains IT crew cant fix anything


1hotman70 51M  

3/22/2013 7:06 pm

This is enough, this shit sucks. You get this work half way right then some jack ass changes it. This filter does not go away, I WILL NOT renew my account. AsianMatchMate.com is beginning to suck worse than it has.


Jayp4869 73M
1 post
3/22/2013 7:06 pm

This sucks. Change it back or I'm finnished with AsianMatchMate.com.


BigBottomedBetty 56F
1 post
3/22/2013 7:06 pm

This site is CRAP CRAP CRAP now - put it back the way it was or I like the other will be outta here. This is F'n ridiculous I am an adult, on an Adult site and we're being treated like kids


rossron662 60M/68F
2 posts
3/22/2013 7:09 pm

we dont like this new block out dont like seeing the big x


rm_butchy2461 60M
8 posts
3/22/2013 7:10 pm

why change a great thing??????? leave it alone!!!!!!!!


Sensualman5555 62M
3 posts
3/22/2013 7:11 pm

This is particularly bad.... How does this improve our site? In theory I can view all but it keeps reverting to X X X ....

I imagine there will be only one way to fix this.... Cash in my chips and move on...

Maybe you shoud set up AsianMatchMate.com.2 (FOR PRUDES)


Manuel180172 50M
4 posts
3/22/2013 7:12 pm

I'm sorry, but I have to comment. What the heck with filters? If I don't want to answer to messages from guys watching my cam, I don't do it. Period.
If us single guys are a dime a dozen, watch and contact the one you feel attracted to or decline, period.
When you enter this site you KNOW its sex oriented, you're being a hypocrite if you feel "offended".
And if someone is forcing you to put filters, just say so. We already have options. But don't do it because "someone complained about genitalia", come on! We're all supposed to be adults in here...


hotinottawanow 53M/53F

3/22/2013 7:16 pm

maybe I am confused here but is this new filter thing just a matter of personal choice? or is it being forced on everyone?

if its just personal choice to adjust the filter to see what you want then whats the problem? just because you want to take pictures of your genitals does not mean we should be forced to see them unless we enjoy it yes? to be clear I have no issue with seeing it but I can understand some may prefer to see something more imaginative than a close up of penis/vagina etc..

now on other points I agree, the site is slow, chat is extremely limited with no history etc.. so if we miss someone we never even know they tried to contact us.


sxyblk4fun143 63M
4 posts
3/22/2013 7:18 pm

cut the crap. if you don't want to see up close and personal, you should be on e harmony or christian mingle.


bpfunforall 67M/73F
10 posts
3/22/2013 7:19 pm

dont like the content filter.hard to figure message center out.cost has cone up and no extra months given as a bonus for staying with you.i prefer the old format.i will probley go to another site when i need to renew.to many problems


marlin29182 50M  
1 post
3/22/2013 7:22 pm

I think all of us need to compain and request a refund


saifethan 35M
2 posts
3/22/2013 7:24 pm

fuck your hot!!!


saifethan 35M
2 posts
3/22/2013 7:30 pm

it everybody's choice you know!!! its up to you what u wana see!!! its not like blocking you from viewing others explicit photos or videos!!! its just allowing how you wana see this site simple!!


hornyokcouple69 70M/64F

3/22/2013 7:30 pm

this new thing sucks i want to see close ups and more....why does AsianMatchMate.com think we need something new..... if it aint broke dont try to fix it....


rm_two4you652 47M/46F
2 posts
3/22/2013 7:30 pm

We joined this Adult Site as Adults making choices for ourselves, no one here really wants to be treated like children. Get rid of this ridiculous filter and remind everyone that complains what this site's intended use is, for adults to find other adults to FUCK! Explicit photos and videos tend to aide in that pursuit. Try fixing IM or member live webcams, that would please us all!


moonshiners2 52M/49F
30 posts
3/22/2013 7:35 pm

do not like.time for something new


Cummlover4u2use 58M

3/22/2013 7:38 pm

This is my third profile in the past year. I've had soo many unresolved issues with this site. I can't delete any of my photos. Every time I complain about it, they just send me instructions which I already told them didn't work. The old IT people fixed it the first time, but it took them 3 weeks. The new IT people keep telling me I don't know what I'm doing, and the problem is on my end. They still can't fix it, and that's just 1 issue, there are others.

I won't renew when my gold membership expires. I'm done with this site.


gunner54h 75M/58F  
59 posts
3/22/2013 7:53 pm

Remove the stupid X's, if people don't want to look at nudity, close their eyes. The X's just slow down this site, it is slow enough already.


ROD694U2 68M  
22 posts
3/22/2013 7:55 pm

I totally agree with the above comments..AsianMatchMate.com.. get your shit together and quit trying to impliment changes no one has asked for !! New email sucks.. new home page sucks.. leave well enough alone !!

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uneedtofeelthis1 51M  
5 posts
3/22/2013 7:55 pm

WTF this shit sucks


MARLONCARINHO 45M
1 post
3/22/2013 7:56 pm

muito gostosa viu gata!!! beijosss...


hilton710 117M
130 posts
3/22/2013 8:13 pm

STOP changing things...FIX what's broken...LISTEN to your CUSTOMERS THAT PAY!!! DO something about the constant "bots" that you ALLOW on here broadcasting their email addresses & skype contact info EVERY damn day.Do something about the bullshit fake flirts from people across the globe that it says haven't been on in 3 months!! You're quick to blame our PC's when there's a problem & never accept responsibility but yet you have no problem collecting peoples money every month,how's that work? You have rules that you ignore but you will kick someone off because their dog wandered into the room? My renewal date is in a couple weeks & after being a PAYING member for 10yrs I am DONE if something doesn't change.Penthouse bought Various Inc.& I'm sure they pull in some serious money from members so why not invest in fixing/improving this website instead of messing with the homepage? I know I'm talking to the wall though,just like everyone else here who has commented..you won't listen.


whats67523596app 33M

3/22/2013 8:15 pm

i dont need it i think


randyrandy247 52M

3/22/2013 8:15 pm

sucks im done here soon if it stays


whopper1958 64M
4 posts
3/22/2013 8:16 pm

Yeah, what happened to the 6 months free with gold membership???? This "X"idea is one of the stupidest things I've seen. If things are not returned to normal, and I don't get my 6 months extra membership, I will not renew. My auto renew is set to OFF!!!


rm_c0nn1ev5 52F
417 posts
3/22/2013 8:18 pm

Quote from original post:

"The only new setting is 'Naughty,' which lets you see almost everything, except that is places a filter over photos that are rated as 'genital shot' (close-ups of genitalia)."

That does not make any sense, you protecting me against something i dont need protection against. No adult who willing signs up for this site needs that kind of protection. I chose the naughty setting becuase I like those pics and pics dont offend me i am adult enough to know to just keep moving if i see something i dont like. and now i find out that you still hijack the Naughty setting to fit someone elses agenda, thats ridiculous.

The "on" "off" was good enough filters.

Let the super sensitive adults who need hand holding and blinders take their business elsewhere, you had a good thing going the way it was.

You treating us like children is not going to be good for your overall business.

Here I Am
Practice What You Preach


Tennisbud2012 42M  
2 posts
3/22/2013 8:23 pm

So, 13,000 blogs have been posted and 99% are NEGATIVE...so why doesn't the management team/owner READ what everyone is saying and take action? How many members will cancel until action is taken? This so called enhancement should be rolled back immediately. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE???


burglarofwhat 50M
1 post
3/22/2013 8:30 pm

This is bullshit! I can't even turn it off!


rm_skyrider112 72M
3 posts
3/22/2013 8:32 pm

Why can't you leave things alone??


rm_c0nn1ev5 52F
417 posts
3/22/2013 8:34 pm

    Quoting rm_c0nn1ev5:
    Quote from original post:

    "The only new setting is 'Naughty,' which lets you see almost everything, except that is places a filter over photos that are rated as 'genital shot' (close-ups of genitalia)."

    That does not make any sense, you protecting me against something i dont need protection against. No adult who willing signs up for this site needs that kind of protection. I chose the naughty setting becuase I like those pics and pics dont offend me i am adult enough to know to just keep moving if i see something i dont like. and now i find out that you still hijack the Naughty setting to fit someone elses agenda, thats ridiculous.

    The "on" "off" was good enough filters.

    Let the super sensitive adults who need hand holding and blinders take their business elsewhere, you had a good thing going the way it was.

    You treating us like children is not going to be good for your overall business.
I want to add something:
when you go to the content filter page in your account...in the description of the Naughty setting there is no statement reading that if you choose this setting you will still be treated like a child and sheilded from the naughty pics....quote from the content filter page on my account

. Nasty - EVERYTHING, including close-ups!
The Nasty setting means you see all content, including close-ups of genitals. When you want to see EVERYTHING our members have to offer, you're ready to get Nasty!

yet again in your description above you state that the Naughty setting is still being filtered according to some archaic notion that single women should be sheilded from the naughty stuff.

REALLY???!!!!!

Here I Am
Practice What You Preach


SnakeDudeLV 57M  
1 post
3/22/2013 8:41 pm

Who the fuck took MY money for a Service I PAY for and then LIMITED MY Service that I PAY for??? Who the fuck slipped and got their fucking head stuck so far up their ass they want to make this like MYSPACE??? We pay for this service and yet there are ads for everything everywhere, there are people with cams on who are advertising other sites!!! And it said if I paid for a year i would get 6 months free and yet my date is only 12 months and I have emailed you all several times about this and NOT A FUCKING ANYTHING!!! Oh wait, YOU SENT ME AN EMAIL BECAUSE you wanted me to vote on a Photo of someone I CAN'T FUCKING SEE BECAUSE THERE IS A FUCKING BLACK FUCKING X ON THEIR FUCKING PHOTO YOU FUCKING FUCKS!!! I guess if enough people get pissed who are paying one of them will be a lawyer and we can all file a class action fucking suit against AsianMatchMate.com for not providing the services WE ARE FUCKING PAYING FOR!!!


nodramaonlyfun5 44M
1 post
3/22/2013 8:43 pm

Wow! I click the "preferences page" link in the yellow banner because, like EVERYONE else, I come here to see some sexy people who have genitals, and sure enough it takes me to the blog page. AsianMatchMate.com cannot do ANYTHING right. I spent $200 for a year of this?! Try fixing search that has incomplete results, IM that only lets me type 3-25 characters then auto-sends, broadcast window that won't maximize, who's viewed me link that goes nowhere, and the list goes on for days! I WILL NOT BE RENEWING!! Hope you make lots of money this year because nobody will be here next year!!!


want2nowplz 48M

3/22/2013 8:53 pm

So far i agree with everything you guys have said!!!!!!


4fun2only2012 61M
280 posts
3/22/2013 8:54 pm

The "CHANGE"" from AsianMatchMate.com to P.O.F ....everyone is looking for sex, with out nudity allowed ...like in Plenty Of Fish ...


rm_jiaopeng 44M
9 posts
3/22/2013 9:08 pm

Sincerity of friends , and exchange .
Do not like to pay transaction stuff .


harleygurl13 53F
2 posts
3/22/2013 9:14 pm

so their response to all of the complaints is that the customers (every one of us)are wrong and we are all using outdated browsers? how sad!!! what happened to "the customer is always right" and "getting what you paid for"? this is a joke!!! put it back like it was. it still sucked, but it was better than it is now!!!


rm_SHELLY8876t6 39F

3/22/2013 9:18 pm

I am very tender and sincere, I am afraid of disappointments, lies and egoistic people, and I still believe in a true and everlasting love, the love that will live in my heart forever,i promise to send my photo and disclose my information after i hear from you. feel free to contact on my email address to enable us know more about each other shellylucas01 at gmail.com


LuvSnatchAlot 50M
17 posts
3/22/2013 9:31 pm

omg .....whateva


jr42424242 54M  
106 posts
3/22/2013 9:54 pm

joke


PLAYFULLYHORNY1 69M

3/22/2013 9:54 pm

Adultfriend finder double charged me last month. Now, I can view who has viewed me, hotlisted me, flirted with me.

Therefore, as far as I am now concerned you can cancel my membership effectively as soon as you get this blog.

Good riddance.

Sincerely,

PLAYFULLYHORNY1


Lunablade33 31M

3/22/2013 9:57 pm

This seems kinda useless. Maybe if you want something like, but to me I don't really care.


noelledl 48F

3/22/2013 10:03 pm

let there be peace! do what people are saying,without us you will not make money,it cost me 300 dollars every year to be a silver or Gold member,but because of this new idea,i can't pay anymore,very soon i will remove my profile. what a shitt,do you want to see what happen to facebook to happen here.


southshorehookup 47M
2 posts
3/22/2013 10:05 pm

AsianMatchMate.com doing this B.S. you are losing your customes to cam4


jean12373 30M

3/22/2013 10:09 pm

que mierda


prettybig2004 57M  
18 posts
3/22/2013 10:13 pm

Everyone is right ,but does anyone realize that AsianMatchMate.com also uses our profiles to fuel it's other site PASSION.COM If you go to PASSION.COM everyone who is here is on that site only most are censored pics. We aren't just treated like children but also like cattle with wallets. It's too bad because many of us are users for years. ahhh it was fun while it lasted , I guess I'll have to shop around for a new site


maydecember26 59M/42F

3/22/2013 11:08 pm

just like every other "UPGRADE" they gotta screw something up. it took 4 days for the pics to fill in to my home page after this "UPGRADE". these folks are really starting to get on my nerves. just leave the stuff well enough alone already. of course the directions are screwed up, happens all the time. to stop getting email notifications everytime some one sneezed i had to completely turn off all notifications. really folks is it that hard to make it work correctly. JUST ANOTHER AsianMatchMate.com EPIC SCREW UP !!!!


scout0001 70M
7 posts
3/22/2013 11:10 pm

this filter seems to be slowing the whole system down, it is a waste and a bad idea.


rm_exhibit5568 62M/51F
2 posts
3/22/2013 11:14 pm

Don't waste my time, go somewhere else!
This is a forum for people with adult intentions.
Liberal, politically correct, invasive and fuck with everything that works mind set?
Fucking with private internet sites is the the last resort. A frontier but is under assault.
I find most people sticking their nose in everyone's shit were radicals of the 60's and their disciples. Somehow now they want to control everything when they cried about Big Brother... Who.. Who is big brother now?
Suck my cock.


rm_exhibit5568 62M/51F
2 posts
3/22/2013 11:55 pm

I am not an AsianMatchMate.com suck up but email in my AsianMatchMate.com acount, if i ever read it is easily deleted.
My hot sexy software engineer slut with common sense just explained to me that if you are getting spam, bots etc, it's not coming from AsianMatchMate.com. Maybe other sites?
I have never got spam, bots whatever and if i did outside of my reaching out.. i would cancel my account immediately.


rm_jamstaa7 41M
1 post
3/23/2013 12:05 am

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


Pleaser55987 59M  
12 posts
3/23/2013 12:21 am

I won't renew again. Not only am I totally fed up with all the fake profiles, but your I.M. is worse than ever now. Somehow, I paged myself earlier today? And now my webcam no longer works. Now it's like Facebook...each "update" is worse than the last.


sharke1977 44M

3/23/2013 12:22 am

Get rid of it!!

If i would not want to see pussys and more i would not be on this site!!


peninha5822 57M
1 post
3/23/2013 12:29 am

hummmmmmmmmmmm vc é uma gracinhaaaaaaaaaaaaa adoreiiiiii


nanyker 40F  
1 post
3/23/2013 12:52 am

ola;
adoro fazer amizades
quero conhecer pessoas legais


4funXs2 54M/47F
2 posts
3/23/2013 12:52 am

Most of the people that seem to be complaining are old single males. Hmmmm, I see a pattern here lol.
Ok the occasional genital shot is fine and can be very hot if the photo is tastfull and done with some style, but really guys (and some couples) Do you really think you are going to attract someone with a profile full of closeups of your cock or pussy or both at the same time??? I mean WTF! Everyone in the world has one or the other already and has seen plenty of them. When we get messaged by people that only have genital pics, we just look at their profile and laugh and say, wow, we should meet those guys. They have genitals. What a novelty!!! If you got anything worthwhile showing then you will have more than a close up of your cock to offer.
Seriously people we are all here for adult reasons but as usuall some people just dont know how to use any discression at all. Perhaps a filter would not be desired by some people if some descression was use and frankly, unless you are trying to jam photos of your genitals in peoples faces then why do you even care if there is a filter. You dont have to use it on your account.
GROW UP


rm_laurenwebb39 40F

3/23/2013 12:55 am

You sound good.Can you drop me your email addy so will can aside from this site because im not always here.We will talk better and see where it leads to and here is mine:

lauenweb
At
Hot Mail
Dot
C o m .

Kindly e mail me or get back to me via your private e mail address because i can delete my account anytime or not to log in to the site again.

Thanks


4funXs2 54M/47F
2 posts
3/23/2013 12:57 am

OH, ya. Forgot to add. This is a swingers site not a porn site!


island_fun5000 66M/59F  
2 posts
3/23/2013 1:05 am

AAF....yes, as all have mentioned...it has been getting worse and worse over the years...try IM'ing...and see how pissed off that gets u...cause all letters dont show up...I have to log on 3 and 4 times, before it shows me as a paying member, as others, I could go on and on as I have been paying under 2 different profiles for 10 years...and now the latest B S...the ppl that have the problem should go away...this is an adult site...and now the politically correct mifits are gonna try and make more changes in our life...GO AWAY...AsianMatchMate.com should fix the many items that are F..Ked on here that we pay for first...Have a NICE day
D&M


island_fun5000 66M/59F  
2 posts
3/23/2013 1:10 am

If the misfits wanna change something...why not stop the profiles from showing up on my home page that don't have photo's...no photo No profile exposure...they are just more fake ppl any way...


CrazyFun38 45M
2 posts
3/23/2013 1:21 am

i think its not necessary.Because here is for adults and if they dont want to see cocks or pussy what are they doing here...


caffeine_girl69 40F
2 posts
3/23/2013 1:29 am

Right now I'm glad I'm just a standard member. I'd considered going back to being a Gold Member but changed my mind. I've been a member here for almost three years now. I bought a Gold membership my second year on here and unless a number of things change, I will never be a paying member again.
When I joined this site, standard members could view profiles of people in their network. That changed. If I remember right, I think there for awhile standard members could view any profiles, but not videos or photos that were on a profile (except the main profile picture).
I was just looking at the prices for memberships. Why are paying members being charged for the "FREE" months they get with membership? Doing the math in my head, the numbers didn't seem right, so I grabbed a calculator. Does "free" not mean the same thing on AsianMatchMate.com that it means everywhere else? I've always thought that "free" meant not having to pay for what was being offered.
Instead of filtering pictures intended for ADULTS on AN ADULT SITE, how about offering different filters for chat like you can when searching for people who are looking for the same thing you are? For example, if John Doe is on chat and he's looking for a woman who is looking for a man only those women will show up on his IM screen. Likewise, if Jane Smith is looking to chat with a bisexual female or a lesbian, only women searching for other women will come up on her IM screen.
What is up with all of the fake profiles on here lately? For the sake of argument let's say that 75% of the profiles that seem fake are actually on the up and up. I could even understand a few profiles being set up by watchdog groups other peole looking to catch sexual predators and/or human traffickers; if there are any on here I applaud them for doing what they do to make the world a safer place. Awhile back, I received a "flirt" from someone who supposedly lived 5 miles away from the town I live in. Here's the deal: in the area I live in, the closest towns are 15 miles or more away, even going just by the zip code for people living in the country between towns. Another profile I saw when I searched for people near me had a picture of a gorgeous ebony queen that supposedly lives in the same town I do. It immediately sent up a red flag. You see, I live in a very small town with a population of roughly 500 people (according to the signs at either end of town), everyone knows everyone else AND I work at one of the few businesses in town so I see most everyone in town on an almost daily basis. Someone like the woman in that picture would not be able to go unnoticed around here, she was GORGEOUS but very obvious that it was either a fake picture on a real profile or a flat-out fake profile.
I honestly used to like AsianMatchMate.com when I first joined. I connected with some really great people who opened my mind up a lot the first year, year and a half maybe, that I was here. Now? Almost three years later? It's hard to find anyone who doesn't come across as a total nutjob.

*kisses*


candy4u1232 39F

3/23/2013 1:57 am

AsianMatchMate.com seems cool


rm_Rick4life 66M
5 posts
3/23/2013 2:00 am

I have considered that if someone wants to be without the closeups then they should perhaps go to "FriendFinder" website instead.

I guess the filters are ok but it just sounds silly to me.

If it is to be a "swinger" only website then where would lines be drawn?? Wouldn't these be fine lines after all?

As I see it with the "Adult" website you may have a variety of types to include gay, swinger, exhibitionist, lesbian, group, exclusive, etc.

If you need to block pics then you maybe are on the wrong site, ya think? Or maybe you need to try "MormonFinder", "CatholicFinder", "ChristianScientistFinder", "BishopFinder" or "NunFinder"??

This all seems silly, really silly.


rm_220490r 32M
3 posts
3/23/2013 2:25 am

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pilonneur4 54M
1 post
3/23/2013 3:24 am

mggggg


hotsexnow1960 62M
2 posts
3/23/2013 3:42 am

What a fucking stupid idea people are on here looking for cock and cunt so why would anyone want to block these pics .. if they do then maybe they are on the wrong site. why do AsianMatchMate.com keep messing with the site even the new messaging centre is fucking crap


grachell4uwaitin 31F

3/23/2013 3:57 am

oh im very new to this lol i don't know how to do this ..


rm_yasmum 67M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:05 am

Science says when you feel stupid that's growth, you aint feeling it. People are telling you in writing, so you aint seeing either.wtf


airportdes 76M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:09 am

Preference screen doesn't allow me to make changes. Either fix it or remove this screen


massageman52055 67M
27 posts
3/23/2013 4:14 am

Hate the changes!!! Put it back the way it was!


rm_yasmum 67M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:24 am

I check my messages everyday, now I get messages that are 4 days old. One of us is stupid. When in doubt get a professional. Listen, GO TO THE LIGHT.


SexyLadyNeedsU 48F
212 posts
3/23/2013 4:34 am

If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. AsianMatchMate.com might READ and consider our Voices!
Funds should be used for the following:
1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
2. FIX IMC to work
3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
9. Also, AsianMatchMate.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real AsianMatchMate.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
here.

Respectfully,
SLNU

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


TNcumsucker 65M
8 posts
3/23/2013 4:38 am

This is a little OT, but does anyone know why AsianMatchMate.com no longer lists the people who have viewed your videos? I always thought it was a cool feature to see which members viewed them. And I still can't get my email.


outstandingcum 50M
18 posts
3/23/2013 4:39 am

Fucking STUPID!!!!


pancito8888 31M

3/23/2013 4:42 am

    Quoting SexyLadyNeedsU:
    If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. AsianMatchMate.com might READ and consider our Voices!
    Funds should be used for the following:
    1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
    2. FIX IMC to work
    3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
    4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
    5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
    6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
    7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
    8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
    9. Also, AsianMatchMate.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
    10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
    Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real AsianMatchMate.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

    Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
    here.

    Respectfully,
    SLNU
me gustaria conocerte me encantan las mujeres mayores


lafill413 43F

3/23/2013 4:44 am

very new to witness what happen. loneliness kills


Verydiscret2013 53M

3/23/2013 5:04 am

thanks AsianMatchMate.com!


TheShocker4u 54M  
18 posts
3/23/2013 5:07 am

I don't like the changes. My IM crashes and shuts down more and the preferences won't stay as set.


loking4u69 52M
2 posts
3/23/2013 5:22 am

will you fix my chat pleezzzz it will not hock up 2 IM


98789sign49855 31M

3/23/2013 5:31 am

I am having trouble in payment...
i always pay them but a fuck**g error shows everytime


rm_luv_sexy_abs 50F

3/23/2013 5:31 am

The site is going down hill,change it back. IM sucks. Half the letters I type don't show up,I get messages from myself(WTF is that about)and to top it off I need to log in 2-3 times because it shows me ppl from California instead of NJ. They better have 1 hell of a long cock..lol


rm_Jayff56 66M
1 post
3/23/2013 5:44 am

Time to stop paying for this site and find one that meets your wants and needs (if there is one), as with most of these sites you take the good with the bad.

AND for "6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces"

ONLY ALLOW MEN with ... ??? How about MEN AND WOMAN with ..

If you are offended by or don't want to see a Photo of a mans cock or womans pussy then WHY ARE YOU HERE ?

so the photo filers do make some sense. YES FIX the other stuff BEFORE you loose ALL the PAYING subscribers ..


justfuckme36 52T

3/23/2013 5:57 am

I am sik of thisconnection error on my IM can you fix it 4 me ?
ps and right me back so i no that you r reeding this post


RideMyFace1213 56M

3/23/2013 5:58 am

This site use to be great, now it sucks. You take our money to be a part of this site, then you make it so difficult to enjoy it. Can't wait for my membership to run out so I can be done with it, well never join it again.


ford3501000 57M
4 posts
3/23/2013 5:59 am

it was better before the live video


BanditRidesAgain 55M
24 posts
3/23/2013 6:12 am

* I too have the yellow bar at the top of page, I set my preferance BUT Every log on it's still there. Annoying!

* When I view pages of profiles and then select a profile to view, then hit return I get sent back to the start (page 1) doesn't matter if I'm on page 2 - 6 - 24,... back to the start I go ... FARKING ANNOYING!!!!
And I've reported it 4 times but am told it's my computer and browser.

Yet AdultMatchMaker, RootBuddies, Oasis, PlentyOfFish, RSVP, Match, Flirt, Zoosk ..... ALL WORK FINE!


Bandit.

http://AsianMatchMate.com.com/p/member.cgi?mid=78561287_55337


homealone4u28 73M
1 post
3/23/2013 6:13 am

can you speak English please ??


BanditRidesAgain 55M
24 posts
3/23/2013 6:17 am

Oh! And for God's sake get rid of half the memberships old unused profiles, and sort out the other quarter that are fakes... THEN and ONLY THEN, we might have a community of like minded people.

http://AsianMatchMate.com.com/p/member.cgi?mid=78561287_55337


sexaddict2962 59M/37F  
1 post
3/23/2013 6:34 am

this is stupid plz go back to the old AsianMatchMate.com


MrLongStroker2U 37M

3/23/2013 6:38 am

Actually if any of you on here think you're going to get something "FIXED", lol, forget it!!!! I know this is supposed about the "content filter", but this will be about my mailbox. For over a month now they've decided to mess with me, for whatever insane reason. They've "banned" my profile, they got it so now I can't even send or reply to any emails sent to me. I've argued, and ARGUED with them through emails to them through their "customer service", nothing, nothing, NOTHING, I get back the LAMEST replies from them acting as they haven't a CLUE in the world what they're talking about. If any of you need help, like I said, YOU'RE IN TROUBLE, BECAUSE THEY WON'T DO JACK SHIT TO HELP YOU,........GOOD LUCK!!!!!


hideeho 59M

3/23/2013 6:47 am

Just another asinine decision by you folks!


elsa_sub 51F

3/23/2013 6:58 am

SUCKS!!!!


Wildandfunny2013 57M

3/23/2013 7:19 am

AsianMatchMate.com how about having each and every member VERIFY thier pictures, videos, and themselve before being alowed creating a account.

When searching for people do not include profiles that are members have not been on AsianMatchMate.com 30 days or more.
Who want to waste time viewing members profile who had not visted thier own profile for months or maybe years. Delete them permantly and stop adding them when searchuing for members.

All profiles should have more than one pictures and a litlle bit more info in thier profile.


Wildandfunny2013 57M

3/23/2013 7:22 am

Is there a way to remove people you hotlisted?


DeeDeeH69 67T
5 posts
3/23/2013 7:22 am

My setting was changed, why I don't know. The drop down menu that you show, I don't even get that. How can I change it back to where it was if the menu doesn't even work properly.


rm_sensoree 51F
2 posts
3/23/2013 7:23 am

I think it is a great change! In the biginning it is much more impoortant to me to see someone's eyes than their genitalia. I much prefer to save that for in person.
There is nothing at all wrong with a full body nude shot or even a close up shot of your bits if that is your thing.....just so much less can be learned from that type of picture. Just bc your dick pic is beautiful does not mean your spirit is!
Those preferring the close ups of genitals--push the fucking button stating your preference. It is NOT that hard to do. If that makes you angry I would have to see what happens in bed if you have a partner who does not get turned on as quickly as you want. Patience guys, come on! We are the coolest people we know let us not sweat the small stuff!


garilil 38F

3/23/2013 7:23 am

Yes we want the old passion i cant even flirt ..this really sucks.. and profile are more often deleted so easily you crew of programmers and not good at all..


fouaaaaaz55555 41M

3/23/2013 7:24 am

salut


sohornie4you 56M

3/23/2013 7:28 am

I don't pay good money so the few can tell me one of the many on this "sex" site what they should and shouldn't be doing-You have shot yourself in the foot this time sexfiender by starting shit with trying to block the eyes of deadshit prudes who shouldnt be on this site anyway!-If this offends anyone go join a knitting class or take up the fucken piano accordion!


kkbruce1000 68M  
1 post
3/23/2013 7:29 am

what a joke,,,,,,,,,,,


BBCofATLantaGA 36M  
1 post
3/23/2013 7:33 am

I Agree with all that are saying it's becoming more and MORE complicated. I think we will need an algorithm to work it pretty soon. UNFORTUNATELY I don't think they have much competition out there right now as far as Adult Sites go. Maybe this will spawn a newer better 1...Or they will get their act together!!


metryswm 60M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:36 am

I didn't realize ChristianMingle bought this site. This is a sex site, if someone doesn't want to see genitals, get off this site. Go join Eharmony or one of those other pussy sites


passchristianguy 56M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:38 am

i think if its not broke dont fix it let it ride like it was


hedo069 62M/60F

3/23/2013 7:44 am

what is this all about all the pics xxxx out no good please change thx hedo069


bentjoie 60M/53F  
3 posts
3/23/2013 8:05 am

I'm done you guys have fucked up this site. I will not renew


SexyLadyNeedsU 48F
212 posts
3/23/2013 8:14 am

    Quoting pancito8888:
    me gustaria conocerte me encantan las mujeres mayores
No sabes el Ingles?

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
3/23/2013 8:22 am

    Quoting  :

This really is an excellent post. This site is slowly but surely turning into another version of facebook.
WHY!!!!
More and more people are leaving facebook, or refuse to use it, because of the continuous stupid updates they keep adding. Just look at what has happened to Facebook stocks and shares, they have gone down quicker than a lead balloon over the past year.!!!!
This is not facebook so take the filters away and give us back the old message centre!

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

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Centaur_UK 44M
1770 posts
3/23/2013 8:29 am

And again the guy who made this comment lower down the page, profile name fouaaaaaz55555, is another example of the rediculous FAKE ASS PROFILES ON HERE!!!!!
The profile pic is a photo of Zinedine Zidane, a famous french footballer who lifted the world cup for France.
Why the fuck was that photo even approved by the photo review team in the first place????????

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

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sweet_rachel 60T
1 post
3/23/2013 8:34 am

this whole site is a joke anymore you have to pay to be a member and even when you do you arent allowed to give anyone any pertinant info about you or you get banned Im sorry but if the site is set up to help make meets happen then why stop people from giving info to otehrs they feel comfy enough in doing so to begin with.....I get the impression this site is more concerned with getting money and keeping people from actually meeting. I stopped paying last yr because of this crap and I dont see anything of value here as people dont actually meet


SexyLadyNeedsU 48F
212 posts
3/23/2013 8:42 am

    Quoting SexyLadyNeedsU:
    If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. AsianMatchMate.com might READ and consider our Voices!
    Funds should be used for the following:
    1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
    2. FIX IMC to work
    3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
    4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
    5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
    6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
    7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
    8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
    9. Also, AsianMatchMate.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
    10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
    Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real AsianMatchMate.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

    Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
    here.

    Respectfully,
    SLNU
I posted this at 6:34am... hope you can find it and vote.

VOTES do count.. and we need to be heard ...so AsianMatchMate.com...
listen to us or we shall venture to new islands such as a local Swinger sites who actually set up social funtions for folks to meet at for ice breakers!

V O T E ! !

Thanks

[image]

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


blk_cock4u 47M
1 post
3/23/2013 8:49 am

What a bunch of crap, get rid of the X's and nudity blocks. We are over 18 and if we don't want to see it, we won't sign in.


N1cewon 61T  
13 posts
3/23/2013 8:50 am

Not sure what you did to the site - but can't get my messages anymore on an older computer - but it isn't that old. Also on the older computer - my friends are all from the Calfornia area - I live in Wisconsin. Everything seems to work OK on newer lap top - wish I could get everything to work again on my older computer.

Martha


12dogdog 63M
3 posts
3/23/2013 9:00 am

I suck


rm_helmut7200 41M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:00 am

is mihr egal


rm_ndanu12 39M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:08 am

call me


LadyGrayLeopard 61F
26369 posts
3/23/2013 9:15 am


Guys,
I suggest you change your preference for 2 weeks to 'looking for a man' and come back here to tell your experience...

IT'S NOT ABOUT NUDE PICS!!! They are not offensive etc to us.

But after having a bucket full of sperm on my lap every time I check the site, seeing all those green moldy micro-penises, seeing baseball bats in a male ass and so on, that's the case.

Those pics have nothing to do with sex life.
Or do you want that I penetrate you with a baseball bat, coke can, beer bottle??? As you are on the same site too???

Don't preach why we are on this site, we all have our reasons.
Don't blame the women about this change turned bad... many of us like to see flesh but not in all the forms we see now.

The site screwed up by changing the settings for men too.
Complain about that, not the new system itself.


rm_anddy20000 52M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:21 am

always getting views then read they havent been on in months-thanks for highlighting


rm_leleque1975 47M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:24 am

ola delicia


ridemyhog46 62M/61F
2 posts
3/23/2013 9:42 am

The content filter has messed up the message center. There are big X's over all the messages. Please fix!


SeekAdultFriends 56M
2 posts
3/23/2013 9:42 am

you guys are totally fucking this site up


dfwbackrubs 59M
59 posts
3/23/2013 9:43 am

I have personally been telling the 'customer service' people for years both in their forum and on the phone when I have more serious problems, that every time they change something, people leave.
I use to hang out in the Texas chat room when there use to be 120 every night, more if certain people were there. Now, its lucky to have more than 40. Yea I know people leave for reasons but to have a chat room have 2/3 less?? and some of those people I do still chat with on facebook and they talk about the changes that made them leave.

I've gone back and forth with 'customer service' about the instant messenger here for a good five years. they just don't seem to care to fix that problem.


rm_shanj90714 43M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:59 am

hi


IllinoisBiGuy 52M

3/23/2013 10:04 am

i think the majority have spoken...BRING BACK THE OLD PASSION!! where everything worked great!


WOLVERINE9389 54M
1 post
3/23/2013 10:20 am

We pay for a service and most of the people on this site are not real we should be able to get a refund or guarantee on something


carolinaman0057 62M  
2 posts
3/23/2013 10:25 am

Not only most of the members full of on here ,the people who run this site are full of it to. I'm a gold menber and I have to fuckin pay for standard members to look at my profile.BS .....Also ,Whats with the sensorship ??.....


Mrdnlqqkin 63M

3/23/2013 10:31 am

You really need to realize this is an adult site, and if people are offended by nudity or for that matter pretty much anything two or more people can do together, then you should go elsewhere.

A simple warning when they come to this site should suffice. before you start to lose the current members.


Pleaser55987 59M  
12 posts
3/23/2013 10:34 am

FIX the site! And have someone who can speak English answer the phone when I call for help. I've been a Gold member for years, and now my webcam doesn't work...I got a page from MYSELF on I.M.....daily flirts & e-mails from fake members...if I view a profile and they are camming, I click "View Webcam" and nothing happens...all these X's blocking a profile's main photo...etc.
Whoever decided to change to this new format must have worked for Facebook, where they keep changing stuff around and totally messing things up. This is unacceptable. Give me a refund, and don't delay.


rm_chaleco2014 39M
1 post
3/23/2013 10:34 am

hola que tal que cuentas nena


rm_MUHONBDSYL 45M

3/23/2013 11:00 am

COME TO ME TO KNOW WHAT A GREAT HUMAN BEING AM I.


citori525f 74M

3/23/2013 11:04 am

Doesn't appear as anyone likes this site. God, because I don't either.


SexyPArocker 51M  
48 posts
3/23/2013 11:12 am

The content filter is garbage. I'm seeing X's on stuff & I didn't even set it to block anything.

I am really skeptical that any women on any online dating or adult sites really want to meet and this site hasn't done anything to change that skepticism.

I will give the customer service team some credit, I only ever got a few messages from fakes in the very beginning & they took care of it and I havent been bothered by fakes since. Then again I also never got so much as a reply from 98 out of 100 messages I sent to women on here.

I will never understand why it should be so hard for single people to meet other single people without every scam artist out there trying to prey on them. When a nice, polite, real person can't meet another nice, polite, real person who shares a mutual attraction then WTF is the point.

What really needs to be done is for someone to make a 100% FREE adult site similar to this site, but that generates revenue in the same way a site like a Facebook, Myspace,.... does and that has a staff that diligently removes fakes who are on the site for an ulterior motive other than actually meeting new people for friends or more.


rm_cordero1311 48M

3/23/2013 11:30 am

all your coments r falling on deaf ears as long as they are getting ur money AsianMatchMate.com dont care at all its all about money money


whopper20132 67M

3/23/2013 11:49 am

You need to turn this shit off, my membership expires the 28th and I am gone. Most "women" on here are men faking. AsianMatchMate.com= All Fake Fucks


turkeymeat 54M
4 posts
3/23/2013 12:06 pm

The problem with this site is the fact that when people actually meet someone, its probsbly not good for business. So what do they do, they make it very hard for people to meet or chat. I imagine a person will need to pay a small fee to be able to turn these filters off in the future. I am done with this site as well. Too many fakes to lure people in.


KissMyHoneypot 39F  
1 post
3/23/2013 12:09 pm

Wow are we all adults here?. What a bunch of immature comments, every few years the site changes, so its not about you and your preferences as the site doesnt revolve around one member, its about keeping up with the times, so adapt or go back to pof.


rm_mzezal 40M
9 posts
3/23/2013 12:16 pm

Great!


pablo26124 33M
3 posts
3/23/2013 12:21 pm

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jbnad692 50M/39F
1 post
3/23/2013 12:22 pm

[/SIZE well we now c that this ass clown of a site is screwing every one..hell we though we were just flerting a fuckin machine..this site has pussed to far....and we never asked this site to give a free gold membership...so now we have to pay to filrt with anyone....just like most compamys in this new fucked up world,,if we loved it the way u first made it...when did u fall and screw up the few brain cells u mite of had...leave it alone...or remove all our profile 100 percent. so as u cant make any m,oney of it ...or next time we talk, it will be in a court room...ty...


Dee1952000 67F  
1 post
3/23/2013 12:27 pm

WHy did you break something that didn't need fixing in the first place. Bring it back the way it was or you'll be losing lots of money and customers. Get your shit together and leave things along. Bring back the old site.


lookn4sumfunxxx1 45M

3/23/2013 12:58 pm

I LIKE IT ANYWAYS


jorgeescobar15 33M
31 posts
3/23/2013 1:05 pm

está bien todo


sub4empress 66M/61F  
5 posts
3/23/2013 1:20 pm

Why couldn't you just leave things alone ?


body4u69 79M
2 posts
3/23/2013 1:23 pm

If this ddoesn't change back. I'm out of here.


bruco063 56M
7 posts
3/23/2013 1:25 pm

hello j adore merci pour ce jolie visage


peterheadfun 49M

3/23/2013 1:27 pm

Think you need to concentrate on blocking the bots on the site. Never had any issues until recently. real hassle having to constantly go onto email...report abuse....block user...still nothing done abiut them. ie folk who use revelovero or whatever the hell it is called.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


BoyToy4U4321 68M
1 post
3/23/2013 1:41 pm

I don't like the content filter. Anyone using this site is interested in Adult material and those ( if any ) who are not, are in the wrong place. This Filter has caused problems in a number of area's - I can no longer view the additional pictures in Profiles


NEWBYIN07 75M  
1 post
3/23/2013 1:43 pm

YOUR NEW CHANGES SUCK..... BEEN A PAYING MEMBER FOR A LONG TIME. WHEN MY USAGE IS UP...... I'M OUTA HERE.... DONE....


joguy10 57M  
3 posts
3/23/2013 2:14 pm

It's just another STEP toward charging YOU for content filtering later on... SO: you have to pay to be gold, then pay to let standards see you, pay, pay, pay, and then THEY WILL ADD CONTENT FILTER REMOVAL AS A PAID EXTRA...... With all the fakes, scams, and people who misrepresent themselves here, WHY SHOULD I KEEP PAYING FOR THE SITE.
I'M GONE WHEN MY MEMBERSHIP EXPIRES...... There are better sites out there!!!


bicurieuxaquatre 59M/61F

3/23/2013 2:27 pm

We used to be able to attach our profile to emails so standard members could see it, not anymore. I guess it's another scam to make us pay more eventually. As soon as our membership is over we're out of here. AsianMatchMate.com sucks big time now...wish they would take care of their site a little more seriously and block all the fakes out there.


hawaiiamerasian 64M/64F
1 post
3/23/2013 2:29 pm

I can't even view my OWN videos. The counter bar moves but the screen is blank. So are other members videos. I just paid for Gold membership. You guys gotta fix this. Go back to the old way


candygal2018 40T
1 post
3/23/2013 2:35 pm

why is it that you need to change things if its not bleeding leave it alone ---simple we are not getting what we pay for
hav u been taken over by the church hello


CTfuncple4play 52M/52F  
1 post
3/23/2013 2:54 pm

Hate this new feature! I've turned the filter off but when the webpage loads slow not it takes longer and I still see some X's this sucks! I also feel the same as a lot of people here...this is a site where there are a lot of scammers or photo stealers


candrplay 52M/56F
5 posts
3/23/2013 3:03 pm

Is this not an adult site do we really need the nannies changing every thing. There is only one reason we are on here its for sex and seeing naked people and seeing if we ant to hook up with the sexy naked person in the pic. The message center sucks so does the IM so lets fix this before it really is time to go to a new site.


tjkndk 60M  
2 posts
3/23/2013 3:09 pm

the content filter is not necessary, people on this site know what they are going to see. bring back the old message/mail system this new one sucks. Also I am pissed that I can no longer view profile videos. Whats up with that? Perhaps you should not have changed things in the first place. It wasn't necessary to fix what wasn't broken.


Taylormade996 47M
8 posts
3/23/2013 3:22 pm

haha... oh man, these comments are all so true. The fake flirts and views have always been a personal "screw the customer" favorite of mine. I've been on this site for more than 10 years and only up to gold every once in awhile and then get frustrated by all of the crap... definately not going back to gold... this circus is on a crash course. Oh.. another favorite of mine.. I can post ANY comments instantly to facebook but here it takes up to TWO f'ing days to approve my updates which show up EDITED in the end!! haha.. fucking stupid. If I didn't want it in my profile.. i WOULDN'T HAVE SUBMITTED IT.


kodibear44 55M
1 post
3/23/2013 3:29 pm

I was thinking about renewing my membership on this site but now after reading all the comments from other members about the new changes aswell as experincing them myself.i've come to realize that this site is no longer worth renewing the membership.whoever you people are that are in charge of this site and the new changes.just wanna let you know that "YOU SUCK"


rm_CoolRiderX 66M
1 post
3/23/2013 3:32 pm

ANOTHER totally stupid idea...it doesn't work well, I'm set on 'Nasty' but (OLD) home page pix keep showing as a big ugly black "X", thanks for another BAD idea along with the 'new' home page...suggestion...FIRE all your IT types that are pushing and getting paid for BAD programming!!!!


mnsand 60M  
16 posts
3/23/2013 3:37 pm

that doesnt work either. some times it works, molre times than not it doesnt


sluttyslutmuffin 48F
6 posts
3/23/2013 3:43 pm

It would be a decent idea if it worked. I'm not a fan of "dick in the eye" shots, so it would be great if I could turn those off. But even with the naughty setting (no close up genital shots)I still see way too many for my liking.

If you are going to make it an option, at least make sure it works.


SexyLadyNeedsU 48F
212 posts
3/23/2013 4:00 pm

Trying to keep this VOTE going...as of 5:30pm today Sat/3/23 my posting on

3/23/2013 @ 10:42 am

has 55 votes... Let's get the votes to over 1,000! We can do it!
(((hugs))) everyone!
[image]

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


looking4fun11225 64M

3/23/2013 4:25 pm

this site is so many fucking fakers, not worth paying for

90% of women profiles are fags posing


guddiede01 73M

3/23/2013 4:26 pm

Der Seitenbetreiber sollten dafür sorgen, dass die Programmierer funktionelle und schlanke Arbeit abliefern, das heisst resourcenschonend. Diese mal hervorragende Seite geht den Bach runter. Erwachsene Mittglieder müssen nicht bevormundet werden. Wie sind freiwillig hier. Ich habe den Eindruck, dass ähnlich wie ihre Partnerseite alt.com ganz deutlich zeigt, der Trend nach unten zeigt. Sie übertreiben die kommerzielle Ausrichtung.


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