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Introducing the What's Hot Viewer!
Posted:May 18, 2012 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2012 4:37 pm
We recently released our newest fun and interactive feature, the What's Hot Viewer! Now all members can:

*Pop open the What's Hot Viewer to see photos and videos instantly
*Give your favorite photos and videos a thumbs up by clicking the *'Like' button (yes, even standard members!)
*Post comments and spark a conversation with other members
*Find out what other members are saying
*See what's causing a buzz on

What can the What's Hot Viewer do for you?
The What's Hot Viewer gives you easy access to the sexiest members, videos, and photos on the site. More participation in the community means more members viewing your profile, more messages in your inbox, and ultimately more face-to-face dates.

When you get in on the conversation, you can get more out of your membership!

We hope you all enjoy the new feature! Let us know what you think.
New and Improved Notification System
Posted:May 16, 2012 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:05 am
105490 Views just launched it's new and improved notification system in the navigation bar.

With this improvement, notifications are no longer only sent to a maximum of 1,000 members. Users can also now see their Icebreakers in a bar at the top of the screen!

This should all make for an engaging, clearer, and more streamlined experience on the site.
Videos in Blogs!
Posted:Apr 4, 2012 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2013 11:18 am

All you need to know:

If you are a standard member and looking at this post, we have a bug that you can't see it. It's being fixed now, you'll be able to see these shortly.
Calling All NYC-area Swingers - want to be on TV?
Posted:Mar 2, 2012 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2012 6:18 pm

A very popular primetime news show is doing a feature on swingers and has asked us for members who would like to be on the show.

If interested, send me a message and I'll get you more details.

The couple should be:
- Swingers who have met other couples on
- In the NYC area
- Are not concerned about the privacy of their lifestyle (this will be seen by millions all over the world)
- Available within the next couple of weeks for an interview.

Just send me an email if interested!
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Live Weekly Broadcasts Will Return March 1st
Posted:Feb 1, 2012 1:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2012 5:25 pm

For the members of the group Live From AFF, I will be taking a little hiatus from the weekly broadcast. I'm doing this to focus on some new job responsibilities that need my full attention. The broadcast is the part of the week I enjoy the most, so trust me it's not going away.

The broadcast will return on March 1st. March 1st is a Thursday. Moving forward the broadcasts will be on Thursday instead of Wednesday.

Right now the broadcast is set at 2:30 PM US Pacific Time. There are a lot of UK members who join so I thought I'd take this opportunity to see what the best time is for everyone.

Please vote below.
1:00 PM Pacific (9:00 PM London)
2:00 PM Pacific (10:00 PM London)
3:00 PM Pacific (11:00 PM London)
16 Comments , 51 votes
Icebreakers - How's It Going Ladies?
Posted:Jan 23, 2012 6:57 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2015 4:26 pm
Last week we launched a new feature for standard women called Icebreakers.

What is an Icebreaker?
- Woman get a Silver membership in exchange for allowing us to send new men messages, flirts, friend invites and hotlists
- These Icebreakers are sent automatically on the woman's behalf to men who are within their cupid settings
- Women can turn this feature on or off at any time, it's totally opt-in
- Woman can write whatever they want in the message as long as it's not fraud. A lot that I've seen are pretty hot. Many are writing tips for using the site

Requirements for Women:
- Have to be a standard member (so we can upgrade them to Silver)
- Have at least one photo uploaded
- Have to write an Icebreaker message (which we review before sending it)

How's it going so far?:
- It’s now being sent to 25% of men who register. We're moving slowly and seeing how it impacts everyone.
- It doesn't look like women are getting bombarded, but let me know your experience.
- I've heard from a few posts like ICE BREAKER RESPONSES!! that men are still being men, ignoring the greeting and going straight to "wanna suck my dick baby.".

Doesn't this invite fraud?
- We wait until a standard female has met certain requirements to make this offer. - So guys who turn around and sign up as women won't get the offer either, at least not right away.
- We're not sharing what that period is and we'll be changing it around based on how it's working

Do you have your Icebreaker on? What's your experience so far?
Filtering Penis
Posted:Jan 11, 2012 10:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2012 6:54 pm
We want to give women the ability to look at the site without it being a big wall of cock shots. The way we would do this is by adding a female friendly content filter. Then you'd have 3 options for viewing the site:

1) Off (all content is shown)
2) Female friendly (no close up penis shot)
3) On (only PG contents go)

My question to you is would it be ok if we just filtered out the close up cock-shots. The disembodied hand holding his junk with a dab of cum on the tip cock-shots. You'd still see penis and torso, penis and pussy, penis and leg. Sometimes you won't agree with us either.

Want to talk to our Fraud Guy?
Posted:Dec 13, 2011 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2013 2:18 am

Stop by Live From AFF at 2:30 PM Pacific Time on December 14th if you have questions for our Fraud team (I know you do).

I have a live broadcast every Wednesday at 2:30 PM (Pacific, San Francisco Time). I broadcast from my desk and take questions posted to the group Live From AFF. Many times I'll pull in other people who work here to talk about things I know don't how to answer.

This week the head of our Fraud team will be sitting in with me to answer your questions.

I already have a list of questions we will ask him, but please add any you'd like him to address in this post. Even if we don't get to it live, we'll keep this list going and have him answer later.

If you can't make it this time, don't worry - I'll have notes for you to read through.

Some questions so far:

Silent Bots:

There are (in the UK at least) a huge amount of undoubtedly BOT profiles that never do anything, no flirts/hotlists/mails, don't respond to mail, they just sit there looking pretty and stating they are up for hot action. From the profiles it is obvious they are from the same few sources, and many even come online at the same time every day. At certain times of day they can be 70% of my 'who's online now' search. They are not active scammers as scams need interaction to achieve anything. These are largely responsible for people thinking that A.F.F. post fake profiles. They could possibly be planted by competitors to lead members here to think that.
Question - Given the foregoing how is it possible to report these for abuse when they do nothing and therefore don't contravene TOU ? Report as a suspected fake... but the abuse dept team have no evidence to go on, so unless they learn to recognise a BOT and make a judgement call these profiles last a long time, reinforcing the belief they are sanctioned by the site. What do we do ??

Review Process:

Currently photos and text are reviewed by different departments. This results in many fakes with glaring contradictions in their profiles (eg race = black, photo = white, but there are many others) going live. We have been told that the review process may be combined to improve the ability to pick up on these contradictions and deny the profile. Any news on this ?

Why not use CAPTCHA on application to join ?

Flirts/Hotlists/Who's Viewed Me:
The removal of fakes from our flirts/views/hotlists lists more quickly has been widely welcomed and much appreciated.
They do still appear on the lists, albeit more briefly, and in the total number count... from that we can see the numbers have risen dramatically recently which demonstrates the site is under increased bombardment from fakes and that there has been no improvement in blocking them at source (ie sign up) but only in hiding them from view. Can they be blocked from going partially live and able to flirt etc ?

Waiting Period:
Superflirt _ the fakes' favourite button. Ryan has said that it is staying, despite the fact that very few genuine women use it and it aids the fakes greatly.

How about a 'waiting period' at least, in which new members can't use the superflirt facility ? Maybe a week ? I mean come on, do any real women join the site and flirt by the page immediately ? A lot of fakes get weeded out in the first week.
Beta IMC and Downloadable IMC
Posted:Dec 9, 2011 5:00 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2013 3:13 pm

Links to both the Beta IMC and the Downloadable IMC have been removed from the site.

Our efforts are better spent focusing on one broadcast tool than three different ones.

Beta IMC with Group Chat:

If you launched the Instant Messenger today you may have noticed there is no option to try out the Beta IMC. The Beta IMC was live for about a year. It was nice because it had a group chat window so you didn't have to go into an actual group, then to a group chat to talk with everyone watching your cam. People prefer using the regular version and it doesn't make sense to keep supporting this one.

Downloadable IMC:

The downloadable IMC is a flash version that ran from your desktop without ever having to go to the site. It's been the same for many years. About 10% of members broadcasting use this.

If you've downloaded this, it will still work. It's just not going to be availible for new users to download anymore.
Cell Padding Is Back in Group and Blog Comments
Posted:Dec 1, 2011 1:40 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2011 5:08 pm
The difficult to read comments in Groups and Blogs has been fixed. The comments were on top of each other so that it was hard to read, and find out who to respond/quote to.

That's been fixed with some cell padding around the comments.

Correct Font Sizes are Back
Posted:Dec 1, 2011 11:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:46 pm

Whatever font size you have selected for your posts should be sticking again.

Who's having issues? Anything not working related to font sizes? We're QA'ing it on this end but could use your feedback incase something isn't working.
Inbox and Logout Back
Posted:Nov 30, 2011 4:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2011 11:56 am
The Inbox and Log out button have been returned to where they used to be.

Will Profile Colors and Background Bling Come Back?
Posted:Nov 29, 2011 10:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:48 pm

As we've been fixing bugs and posting updates, the question keeps coming up, "When are you going to return customized profile colors and background bling?"

They are not coming back because all profiles now have the same look and feel. This was part of the redesign.

I know this is unwelcome news for many, I just don't want to be unclear about whether or not it's coming back.

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