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Bling Button Coming Back to the New MC
Posted:Feb 21, 2013 11:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2013 2:38 pm

We are working on bringing back the Bling function in the new Message Center. Users can still currently add Bling to their messages, but the button function has been missing since the launch of the new design.

To members who want to add Bling to a message, all you need to do is type the bling tag directly in the new MC.

To find the Bling ID, go to your Bling Manager page under Community on the navigation bar. Scroll down to find "My Bling." The ID # is posted below the image. Just use the tag with the ID.

Add the tag to your message, and it will appear in your outbound message.

Members should see the Bling button back in the MC sometime next week.
New Main Page is Live
Posted:Dec 20, 2012 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2013 2:14 pm
A new main page design is now live for 10% of US/English users.

Search, What's Hot, and Live Action are consolidated into tabs at the top of the screen

with links to your blogs, groups, and other community activities (including a feed) at the bottom.

You currently have the option to toggle between the original homepage and the redesign. For those of you trying out the new version, tell us what you think.

We appreciate your feedback!
Attn: Poll for the Ladies...
Posted:Dec 8, 2012 3:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2014 12:09 pm

Ladies, are you interested in seeing what photos and videos other women are posting on the site? Feel free to give us your feedback, too!
Very interested.
Kind of interested.
Either is fine.
Not so interested.
Not interested at all.
9 Comments , 172 votes
Enter Our Food Porn Contest for Your Chance at Gold!
Posted:Nov 15, 2012 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2013 2:39 pm
The current contest is in effect! Think you've got the (lamb) chops to win 1st place in our Food Porn Contest?

We're seeing lots of cucumbers, carrots, and cock dogs so far. We know you're more creative than that!

All members are eligible, with up to 10 entries per member. The deadline to enter is Monday, November 26th at 11:59 a.m. (PST)

The staff will judge the entries and select ten finalists, which will be announced on Tuesday, Nov 27th. Members may then vote for their favorite among the top 10. The deadline to vote is Tuesday, December 4th at 11:59 a.m. (PST).

Show us your culinary sex-pertise and you could win a 1-year Gold membership! Enter the Food Porn Contest 2012 today!
Comments Not Appearing on Blogs/Groups
Posted:Nov 5, 2012 10:52 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2013 7:38 am

Hello everyone,

We are NOT removing the ability for Standard members to post comments in blogs and/or groups. There is a glitch affecting our review queue; it is being addressed by our engineering team who is working on a resolution as soon as possible.

We understand and are sorry for the inconvenience this has caused, and appreciate your patience while we work on the problem.

Thank you!

Update 11/5/2012 5:42 DST:

The bug # for this issue is CD-10137.

Update 11/6/2012 11:31 DST:

This issue has now been resolved.
The New Message Center is Here
Posted:Oct 8, 2012 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2013 3:45 pm

Users now have access to's new Message Center. Now, it's easier to:

*Compose, read, and add attachments to your messages.

*View whole conversations in thread format.

*Conduct full- searches of your messages to quickly locate your favorite conversations.

*Stay organized with convenient filters and customizable labels.

*Keep all your messages forever!

Those of you who have switched over to the new MC have reported several bugs, including:

-Inaccurate unread message counts
-Missing older messages
-Photo attachment/viewing issues

We will constantly push out corrections and updates to make your experience better. If you have any suggestions or encounter any problems, please post a comment here, or use the 'Feedback' link in your message center.

You may also switch back to the original version of Message Center using the link in the top right corner.

Thanks for your feedback, everyone!

Update 11/20/2012:

The new Message Center is now live for 100% of members. Users will no longer be able to revert back to the old system.

The new MC code that was pushed caused an increase in requests that caused issues with the system. For now, here are the high priority bugs we are working on:

CD-10213 New MC: Photo will not attach to the message when the file extension is upper case
CD-10412 Members unable to attach images to e-mail
CD-10346 Messages not loading in the new message center
CD-10372 Member’s message center is blank on new MC
CD-10434 Profiles are showing the old MC design
CD-10373 Members unable to use the buttons on new Message Center

If you are experiencing issues outside of these mentioned, please email me or leave a comment here and I will file a bug report. For issue #10373, if you are using IE6 or IE7, update to the newest version or use an alternative browser.

While these fixes will address the functionality of the new system, I understand that many still prefer the old system. This change is permanent. The new system is to function like SMS, where there's less of a barrier to respond. Instead of composing and formatting an email like you previously did, conversations back and forth will read more like a chat between yourself and other users. We hope that once the bugs are cleared, you'll be able to enjoy the new system of messaging. Also, keep in mind that you can include links in your messages, and no longer have to use post#tags in order to link to your blog, blog post, group, or any other website.

For more detailed directions on how to use the new Message Center, check out this link:

Thank you, all.
Stop by our booth at Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco
Posted:Sep 18, 2012 3:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2013 2:39 pm
Whether you're cinched in an itsy bitsy patent leather corset or just letting it all hang out, come get kinky with us at our's booth at this year's Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco!

Located on Folsom Street between 10th and Dore Alley, we'll be there (including yours truly) serving up some swag and sexy fun in our booth. Let our body artists dress you up with a painted guise, get tied to our iron cross and get photographed with our smoking hot models, or just pick up some free goodies-- including FREE one month Gold Memberships!

So if you're in or around the Bay Area, definitely come out to the Folsom Street Fair. Hopefully I'll see you all there on Sunday!
Blog & Group Bug Fixes and Improvements
Posted:Aug 30, 2012 5:06 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2013 11:54 am

With feedback from the Live From AFF group, we recently started a project aimed at fixing some of the most common bugs within blogs and groups. This is what it looks like so far:


- Fix photo uploads in blogs to appear instantly.
- Allow standard members to view images posted in groups they are a part of
- Group moderators have the ability to delete comments left with the 'respond' option

- Images uploaded to group posts appear as a small thumbnail rather than a larger sized image
- Comments in blog and group threads across the site should remain even after a member has deleted/turned
- Members of a group (not mods/co-mods) should be provided the option to delete their comment within 15 minutes after posting

We hope you're noticing the changes, and we want this to be the beginning of many more improvements to come for blogs and groups on

Let us know if you're seeing the fixes, and what other additions you'd like to see in the future! Next-- we're going to be adding the ability to upload multiple images to your posts instead of just one.
Delay in Blog & Group Content Approval
Posted:Aug 20, 2012 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2013 1:01 pm

Hello everyone,

Our service level is to review all content for blogs and groups, including topics and responses within one hour. We had a backlog over the past weekend, which resulted in a long delay in the approval process. Our local team is working to bring them back to within service level. We apologize for any inconvenience this has caused. We appreciate your patience, and you should expect things to pickup within the next day or two.

Thank you!
New Content Filters -- What should we call them?
Posted:Jul 12, 2012 2:22 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2013 2:01 pm
We'll soon be implementing a third filter option for photos. Currently, the content filter can only be set to 'off' or 'on,' either showing you every image, or blocking anything with nudity completely.

Coming soon will be three different options to choose from:

1) No nudity: think PG. Nothing beyond scantily clad-- no nipples, boobs, etc.

2) Nudity: X-rated, but NO close-up shots of genitalia.

3) Full nudity: no holds barred. No images are censored; you are shown everything, including close-up genital shots.

So, what do you all think? Feel free to share any suggestions for what we should call these three levels of filtering!
Free Content on the Main Page
Posted:Jun 12, 2012 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2012 11:22 am
To improve the standard member experience on, we're now allowing users more access to free content!

Standard members will now see a 'FREE' badge on their home screen, which gives users more information about the 'FREE' icons across the site.

Standard users can now view free content in the What's Hot section, including Hottest photos, Hottest videos, Hottest photo albums, and Hottest members. Additionally, content is available for free to users in their Online Matches, Members Near Me, and New Members sections.

We hope our Standard members enjoy this new addition. Let us know how you like it!
New Contest Page Coming Soon!
Posted:Jun 7, 2012 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2012 4:16 pm

We're working on creating a brand new contest page for the site. Contests will no longer be run through the [blog events] blog, but have their own section on the site-- probably under the 'Community' tab. One of the biggest changes will be that voting for finalists will be opened up to members rather than chosen staff.

We really want our contests to be fun and engaging for everyone on the site and have them run more frequently than they currently do.

How do you feel about the way contests were previously run? And what would make them better going forward?

Feel free to share any of your thoughts and ideas about the future of contests here!
11 Comments Featured on ABC's Nightline
Posted:May 22, 2012 5:39 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2012 4:16 pm

A positive look at swinging featured on ABC's Nightline, including interviews from some of's very own sexy couples!

Follow the link below to ABC's website to check it out.

To link to this blog (community) use [blog community] in your messages.

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