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Folders are now back in your Message Center
Posted:Nov 20, 2013 4:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2014 3:05 pm
Today we've gone live with some changes to the Message Center.

Some changes you will see:

1. Members can not delete individual messages within a conversation. Previously, a user could only delete the entire thread. To delete one at a time, hover over the message in particular and click the 'delete' box.

2. Folders are also back to the Message Center. Like labels, you can sort your messages as you choose. However, moving a message into a folder will now move that message out of your inbox.

Feel free to share your thoughts on the changes here. Thanks!
New Beta Test - Updated Search
Posted:Nov 19, 2013 6:01 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 11:21 pm

We've made a new beta test available to members of the The Beta Test Group.

To any interested members, please feel free to join the group and test out the updated search function. Let us know what you think in the thread, Updated Search Beta Test, and we'll upgrade your account with 2-weeks Gold.

As always, we really appreciate your thoughts. So thanks in advance, and happy testing!

More info @ The Beta Test Group, Updated Search Beta Test.
My Friend Network Redesign Beta Test
Posted:Nov 12, 2013 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2013 3:25 pm

Today we are beginning a new beta test for a redesign of the Friend Network. Information about the redesign can be found here --> My Friend Network Redesign Beta Test.

For those of you who wish to participate in the beta test, please join the The Beta Test Group and leave your comments in the current thread.

Thank you!
What is the top complaint of women and couples on the site?
Posted:Oct 23, 2013 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2014 12:08 pm

Looking for the female perspective here...

Ladies, you are one --if not the most-- valuable elements of our community on this site. So tell me, what is your #1 complaint as a member here?

Feel free to list out other issues or frustrations you have in general when using the site, but please make note of what your top concern is.

I appreciate your participation here and look forward to learning more about what you think.

AB Test: Live Members Webcam Page
Posted:Oct 22, 2013 5:20 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2013 12:59 pm
We've started an AB test for's Live Member Webcams page. 50% of users will see changes, which include allowing members to search for multiple genders at one time, an update to the layout and navigation, redefining the contents of the result cell, and larger thumb sizes.

If you are not seeing the changed but would like to test them out as well, login to your account, go to Live Member Webcams, then append &debug_cookie=force_ab:39747membercams,1 to the end of your URL.

If you frequent the Live Member Webcams page and are seeing the test, let us know if you find the update to be beneficial to your experience! We'd appreciate and would love to hear your thoughts on the changes.

Get creative with comments!
Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:45 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2013 10:01 am
We recently added an experimental feature for comments in the Activity Feed and Likebox where members can post Bling, smilies, tags, and tables.

You have 250 characters to show off your personality when leaving a comment on pictures and videos on the site.

Try it out and let us know if it's working properly. Feel free to post some pictures here of any creative ways you're using Bling, tables, or tags in comments.

UPDATE: This feature now works with all comments across the site. You have 250 characters to use Bling and HTML to have more fun with your comments.
Check out and at Folsom Street Fair 2013
Posted:Sep 16, 2013 2:00 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 5:23 am
Are you a SF local? Are you a kinky freak? Do you want to win $500?

If the answer to any of the questions above is YES, come join us at the world-famous Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco on Sunday, September 29 from 11am to 6:30pm.

Every year we team up with to reach out to Folsom's vibrant, sex-positive, kinky community. This year we're bringing you the Sweet Seduction Booth, where you can Spin to Win a ton of tasty prizes (including free membership vouchers), or try 3 Licks for a Lolli in our deliciously naughty spanking booth.

You can also take a pic at the booth and Tweet it for a chance to win $500 in our #SweetSubmission Contest. Check out the following link for more details:

So stop by and say hi and get your kink on with us!
Pre-Approved Profile and Status Content Now Live
Posted:Sep 10, 2013 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 5:23 am

Starting today, certain eligible members receive the ability to have their profile updates and status updates/comments show up right away on the site. This content shows up on the site first before entering our review process. Any denied content is taken down after review.

This is our 3rd phase into our pre-approval projects. Currently, pre-approved content includes blog posts, group posts, photo comments, and video comments.

The updates that we allow to be pre-approved are:
1. Status Updates
2. Comments to status updates
3. Profile updates including the following:
a. Introduction Title
b. Description
c. My Ideal Person

Users are considered eligible for pre-approval if they have Confirm ID on file, or have an approved profile with an account in good standing.
New Group Page Beta Test
Posted:Aug 6, 2013 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2013 1:17 pm

We've been working on a new Groups main page (similar to the new blog page) and are now ready to show it to you all for testing.

We want to roll this new type of design out so we get consistency in all our great features. (Copy&Paste URL: Remember to remove the space in in the URL.

Like the new blog page view, this new view is also optional, with the classic view not going away. You will be able to set your default view for Groups as well.

Take a look at the new look and share your thoughts with us.

Thanks, everyone!
Picture/Video Viewer Beta Test
Posted:Jul 26, 2013 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2013 2:02 pm

We've started a beta test today for updates to the Video/Picture viewer. Please view the post at the Beta Test Group: Picture/Video Viewer Beta Test.

If you wish to participate in the beta test, just join the The Beta Test Group and leave your comments in the current thread.

Thank you!
Should blog post visitors be recorded in your visitor's list?
Posted:Jul 26, 2013 12:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2013 4:03 pm

A few months ago, we added a stealth setting that allowed users to browse blogs privately if they chose to. We removed this feature soon after due to the overwhelming majority of bloggers voicing their disapproval of private browsing within the community.

I recently learned that views to a blog post (through a link to a specific post, for example) are NOT recorded in the visitor's list. Only members who directly visit another member's main blog page are recorded in the visitor's list posted beneath the calendar.

This poll is to determine whether this community feels that all blog post views should be recorded under the visitor's list, or only when someone clicks through to your main blog page.

Q: Should all visitors to your blog, whether through your main page or a link to a post shared elsewhere, appear under the 'Recent Visitors' list?
Yes, every view should be recorded as a visitor.
No, only views through the main blog page should be recorded.
I don't care either way.
Other (explain in comments)
24 Comments , 181 votes
Another topic for the ladies
Posted:Jul 10, 2013 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2013 2:26 pm

Ladies, we're curious--

Do you have your auto-reply turned on? Why or why not? Do you find it to be beneficial to have on regularly?

We're in the process of adding back features to the MC, like attaching your profile and including a signature. We'd like to learn more about users who have their auto-reply set, and how they find it beneficial to their time and use of the site.

We'd love to hear your thoughts! Do you only use auto-reply on certain occasions, or is it always set? Do you use it creatively? How do you use this tool? And if you don't, why not?

Men, please feel free to chime in as well!
New Blog Page is Live
Posted:Jun 25, 2013 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2013 4:38 pm

The new Blog page is live for 100% of users.

The new design will be the default view for all members. Users who want to view the old look will need to click 'Classic View'.

Also, we've added some more metrics to expand the variety of posts that appear in the Trending Blog Posts column. Our goal was to strike a balance between site needs and user preferences, and we hope we have worked out an acceptable medium.

Thank you to all of you who were so involved in this project. We laughed, we cried, we threw some rotten vegetables around, but I really believe we were able to achieve some positive change. I hope you guys find this new design to be beneficial to community interaction and offer a lot more options to browse the blogs according to your own tastes.

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