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An education counts for nothing  

Travel_Couple69 58M
69 posts
11/1/2012 6:37 pm
An education counts for nothing


Apparently even the smart guys on here cant think with anything but their dicks..see below a recent email exchange from a doctor no less - we've altered the first three letters of his profile name.

> ---------------------------------------------------
> Sender: ***SEXMAN
> To: Travel_Couple69
> Date: Nov 1, 2012 5:12 PM
>
> I am in to play with both!

Our reply

Usually when we receive a one line email from a straight profile, we simply reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, you are so suitably impressed with your level of education, and rightfully so, you mentioned it in your opening sentence of your profile.

Which leaves us to shake our heads and say WTF? because obviously one's level of education doesn't necessarily correlate to one's level of common sense.

If you had taken any time what so ever to read our profile you would have known we are not interested in one line emails. If you had read our blogs you would know we are not interested in "closet bi" males. You would also know the premium we place on profiles and that a straight profile offers nothing to a bi couple.

Lastly, do you really want to involve yourself with any couple whose standards are so low, that seven words is all it takes to inspire them to draw back their bed sheets and tell a guy to hop on in?

So thanks for your interest, but we will have to decline.

2nd Email

> ---------------------------------------------------
> Sender: ***SEXMAN
> To: Travel_Couple69
> Date: Nov 1, 2012 5:36 PM
>
> Thanks for being so patronizing!
>
> > ---------------------------------------------------

Our final reply - blocked

Thanks for shaking our faith in higher education.

Get pissy all you want, obviously our profile is above and beyond the usual reflecting the effort we put in and the seriousness of our approach to this.

The opening paragraph alone, informs a viewer to read the damn thing, you obviously chose not to. We are expressing our genuine dismay, frustration, and opinion that an education counts for nothing if guys are just thinking with their dicks.

tontwo31 69M/62F

11/1/2012 8:46 pm

We rarely even reply to such first emails. You can just look at what you put here and it is so cold. I do think two things exist on AsianMatchMate.com...First many single guys don't get so much as an occasional profile look. Secondly it amazes me how many guys will send a message to someone with the thought and feeling that they may be the only chance that this woman will get laid.

Your also right to that I see so many Straight guys that want to have sex with BOTH the husband and wife....hehe...oh well We do understand how it works here...SHAR


playtime4meandyo 62M

11/2/2012 7:07 am

Life of internet dating,it is a shame when people can't put in any effort when they send the initial message.Don't they realize some get alot of emails and obviously the ones with thought put into them get more of a response then a quick one.Good luck to you both.


pussylovergta 63M

11/3/2012 12:38 pm

I have found the vast majority of e-mails to be obnoxious, too good to be true, or appear to be mass-mailed. If I had not chatted to the person in a room such as Ontario I consider them to be wild-cards and do not reply.

There are alot of people thinking with the wrong head. Education seems to lack when it comes to the second head LoL

Best Regards,
pussylovergta


Docplaisir 57M
29 posts
11/13/2012 8:26 am

I am not sure that I will be very judging because the fact simple member could not really read your profile they will try to make all the attend possible

in term of the comment of Pussy it is true that is more easy to be contacted by a person from chat room even this could be also fake, wrong because most of the time with the chat the conversation do not go deeper..


cumplaywithme816 43M  
5 posts
11/20/2012 9:29 pm

Hello TravelCouple69! First off gotta say I agree with everyone with the exception of one. The comment that Docplaisir has left. I have bean on AsianMatchMate.com for more than 3 years now. Both as a free member and as Gold. I have found the only way to write to someones inbox on here as a standard member, Is to do so from that persons profile. So I find that if a standard member has viewed my profile and i get one of those 10 word or less emails. They get a quick reply and not a very nice one either. Same thing for the so called single straight males who claim to be bi. Grow a pair and put bi curious and looking for guys. I understand that ***SEXMAN as a doctor would more than likely have a gold membership. So congrats on ridding him of viewing your profile. It is nice to know I'm not the only one having to deal with these airheads.
By the way, did wanna say read your profile and was very nice to see a well thought out profile. Mine is true to what I'm looking for. But yours shows a great compassion for what you expect in every aspect of a bi male your looking for. Wish I were a bit closer would be great to enjoy a night or two a month in the pleasure of both of you. Well Hope my insight is appreciated. Would be wonderful to chat with you two some time. Oh by the way I'm only a high school grad with no college education. Guess that shows one simple thing!!!
An education counts for nothing
C**z


77SeaMan 63M
61 posts
6/27/2013 4:45 am

I hear you.

I've personally seen very little action on the site though I freely admit it probably mainly due to the fact that I am only a Standard member. My biggest desire is to meet up with a Bi couple (well at least where he is). As your read in a recent post, I thought I had finally found that, but alas it was not meant to be.

I met with that couple because we had conducted a fair bit of dialogue via email first. Usually I elicit the type of one line response from guys, i.e. "Let's meet today and fuck". I think it's just the on-line mentality. I would bet a large percentage of them never meet anyone and are just on-line getting their jollies. I may be wrong but I would bet not too far off on this. Besides, who in their right mind wants to meet someone like that regardless of education or profession?


cplmauricien 53M
240 posts
1/17/2014 10:51 pm

well,think everywhere is the same,it's not level of education that count but courtesy that so many don't have.Sometimes the way some peoples write to you,make you understand that you are a prostitute,.... which means to us that they are themselves frustrated somehow and somewhere.Think we should not judge them but pity them as they don't understand that if we are here it's only to meet people like us to enjoy and have real fun,...not only for physical sex....well which we like too,but in a different mind set.Hope I'm not offending anyone here,but only espress my opinion from our experiences here.
By the way,are you visiting Mauritius?


HotishHowever 31M

6/20/2015 2:33 pm

You're right, education counts for absolutely nothing. I've never been impressed by a doctorate or any kind of certification of education. I know wonderful, kind hearted and interesting people with no degree and I know bland pompous assholes with multiple degrees. Not to say that I am not pursuing my own, but you get the jist. Watch out for the one liners. I personally open with one liners just to test a persons tolerance and willingness to speak to others on AsianMatchMate.com with a sense of equality just as they would on the street. Albeit I don't open with "Hey, wanna fuck", but I will start with "hey" just to see if people are as willing to build friendships as they say they are. Most of the time no, most people believe that they deserve a certain amount of effort to engage in something as minimal as interesting conversation. Usually, because this site is filled with ulterior motive and I get that, but it's also the reason I test people with one liners, or one worders. Haha


HotishHowever 31M

6/20/2015 2:37 pm

I think I'm gonna post a blog about this. Not your post but my one liner tests. Thanks for the idea guys.


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