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Just saying about cuddles  

SakuraMar 47F
210 posts
5/9/2019 3:43 am
Just saying about cuddles

NOT speaking for everyone. NOT speaking for a majority of people. just speaking for myself. So you can agree or disagree about what about to share, but please don't be rude about it. That's not necessary.
So I admit to everyone that I am a cuddle slut. Quite possibly I am a cuddle Addict. not ashamed of it. not afraid to say that I need cuddles from a lover and in any relationship. I do need that comfort and that connection. It DOES NOT have to mean romance or love or possession or anything with deep meaning. Although it should IF in a serious relationship.
I wasn't always this way though. So I can empathize with those who absolutely don't want or need cuddles. I used to shun cuddles. In either a relationship or just a lover the most I would give is a brief hug. I didn't understand a guys need to be cuddled. I was kind of a brat about it. Lol
I find cuddling gives me a great deal of peace. My heart settles. My brain slows down. My breathing feels freer I feel safe. I also find that I deal with the stress of life much easier when I have regular cuddles.
There are so many good cuddles to enjoy. The couch cuddles, where one person has their head on a lap and holding a hand or have a hand resting warmly on the body. Or sitting side by side leaning into each other holding hands or arms wrapped around each other. The bedroom cuddles. One person is a little spoon and the other person is a big spoon. Where one person is draped over and they have their head on the chest with arms and legs tangled together. Where you can't tell one person from the other.
What do you think about cuddles? What is your favorite cuddle? If you don't like cuddling, why? What is it that you don't like about them? Do you think cuddling means love, romance, relationships and too much like commitment? What do you think?

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything

_Dr_FeelGood 46M
5 posts
5/10/2021 10:01 pm

I love cuddles in the shower
the water and foam flowing over the bodies at the same time as the hands caress, then the entwined bodies that form a reservoir at the top of the chest.
the slow and gentle act of washing the partner's body, as a kind of mutual homage to the pleasure we have of being by his side, for me the top of erotism, even if it doesn't finish in sex
It's just a moment of peace, wellness, connection of minds with the partner when the bodies surrender to each other
Just saying...

SakuraMar 47F
108 posts
5/18/2020 12:45 am

If cuddles could talk...

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything

wackerpp 51M
256 posts
11/5/2019 3:54 pm

I have cuddles for moments.
while just resting, I like the entangled cuddle where the limbs and body are all intertwined.
while sleeping it is the spoon.
hugging while watching tv, she with her her head on my arm and the other arm around her.
but u have to have a connection to truly enjoy the cuddle.

CynicusMaximus 50M  
1844 posts
10/26/2019 4:50 am

Cuddling is the best time to explore those softer details of a woman's body. I love to have a woman's leg draped over me. One hand one her thigh and the other right and the slope of her hip.

JackBnibbled 52M
29 posts
9/16/2019 10:18 am

Cuddles during movies is great. At home or in public. Cuddles in public can be fun too, where you don't really care who else is around. Getting lost in someone else, allowing yourself to surrender even for a moment with someone can be powerful. As to where it leads? that really depends on who your with. I don't think intimacy always has to lead to sex, it's about cultivating connection, about finding or providing a moment of peace in this otherwise mad mad world.

SakuraMar replies on 10/9/2019 4:05 am:
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
Theodore Roosevelt
I am in total assentiment with your view. I wish I had someone like you nearby to act upon it. Lol

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