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Life in the Nursery~

Welcome to my little corner of the world. Please feel free to come on in, slip off your clothes and stay for awhile.

What you will read here are just random thoughts, dreams, and fantasys......whatever I choose to write. This is my life.

I tend to write whatever is on my mind, so don't take anything on here personally. I am just being me. I don't write about anyone if you read something and it hits home, I seriously doubt it was about you. If it hurts your feelings I am sorry. Being open and honest is the way I am.

So come in and join me...., I have something special to show in the baby's nursery

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Kiss me
Posted:Apr 28, 2012 7:41 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2012 7:43 am

I love to kiss.

I love the feel of your lips pressed against mine.

The feel of your tongue darting in and out of my mouth.

The feel of the heat rushing through my body as you arouse me with the simple kiss.

Kisses are unique. Each person kisses differently. Each person wants to be kissed a certain way.

For me it is something that is primal. Erotic. I want to be made to feel that I am your main focus. I want to be touched. I want to know that it is something hot and animalistic.

Don't get me wrong. I love to be kissed gently. The soft sweet kisses get me wet just as much. But when I am in that "zone" me the passion. Move from one kiss to the next level.

Random thoughts...maybe it is just the hormones running rampant through my body. Maybe I need to find that kiss....anyone wanna help me? All up for research!!! All in the name of science of course!
Too many thoughts...
Posted:Apr 28, 2012 7:27 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2012 4:25 pm
Is it just me? Does anyone else just "suddenly" get overwhelmed with thoughts?

Last night was the night for me. I mean it seemed like my head would explode from the amount of thoughts running through it!

For instance, sleepovers. No, I am not talking the kind of sleepover where you have a dozen little running around until 4 am hyped up on sugar!

I am talking about where you sleepover at a lovers.

Do you do sleepovers? If so, when? First date? Second? When you get "into" a relationship? No sleepovers? How do YOU decide?

For me...I can honestly count (and name) the men who have slept in my bed overnight. And I can count (and once more name) the men who's bed I have slept in. And it isn't a high number!

For me, it is something...I don't want to say "special", but in a way maybe it is. I don't just do it on a whim. There has to be a "chemistry". A relationship of sorts if you must. Does that mean I am "in love"? No, not necessarily. But there are feelings or I wouldn't be there in the first place!

Like I said...too many thoughts on my mind.

So please give me your thoughts on the matter. When do you have a sleepover? What is your "criteria"? Speak your mind...tell the baby....
Something to think about
Posted:Apr 26, 2012 6:54 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2012 7:20 pm
So sometimes it hits me....usually like a ton of bricks. Yesterday it was while standing outside at 8:00 a.m. Standing at the crosswalk, I had my music playing....and the song came on. And it hit me...

by Collin Raye

She said we're much too different
We're from two separate worlds
And he admitted she was partly right
But in his heart's defense he told her
What they had in common
Was strong enough to bond them for life
He said look behind your own soul
And the person that you'll see
Just might remind you of me

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try
I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry
And I know you do the same things, too
So we're really not that different, me and you

She could hardly argue
With his pure and simple logic
But logic never could convince a heart
She had always dreamed of loving someone more exotic
And he just didn't seem to fit the part
So she searched for greener pastures
But never could forget
What he whispered when she left

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try
I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry
And I know you do the same things, too
So we're really not that different, me and you

Was it time or was it truth
Maybe both lead her back to his door
As her tears fell at his feet
She didn't say "I love you"
What she said meant even more

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try
I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry
And I know you do the same things, too
So we're really not that different, me and you

I mean think about it....the chorus.

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try
I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry
And I know you do the same things, too
So we're really not that different, me and you

I am me. I don't want to change for anyone but myself. I am "fluffy". I am. But you know what? I am also healthy. My blood work is always good. I am just "fluffy". So I don't wear a bikini to the water park. So I don't wear a size 0! I can darn sure fill out a pair of jeans and a nice bra! So....think on that~

Posted:Apr 26, 2012 4:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2012 8:54 am
Just wanted to say hello...I am still around. Just been a super busy week. Haven't been home until late nightly. And then it's been shower and dropping into bed.

So i'll be back this weekend. And soon the summer break will be here and you will get sick of me!!!!
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Posted:Apr 22, 2012 8:25 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 6:07 pm

Rejection hurts.

To all those I have rejected I am sorry. To those who are yet to come...I apologise now.

It hurts to feel rejected.

To know that YOU are not good enough.

You are not pretty enough.

You are too fat/skinny.

Wrong ethnicity/race.

Not sexy enough.....

Or to know that you are just not enough.
Difference in men
Posted:Apr 22, 2012 7:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2012 4:24 am
Ok...maybe it is just me. Or my point of view on men and the way I classify them. But I think men we date fall into three categories!

The No Chance In Hell Guy
This is the guy who you meet. Go on a date or just talk to that you know right off the bat doesn't have a chance in hell of going the distance with you. He may be a very nice guy, just no "click". Not in looks, personality, sexual.....Nowhere is there a spark. So, what's the point?

The Good Chance One
This is the guy who has the potential to be a contender. He is nice. Everything you are looking for. But you don't have the "click" right off the bat. But there is an interest. He is the one that you consider dating....he is the safe guy.

The One
This is the guy you fall for right off the bat. He may be the bad boy. He may be the one that curls your toes. He may be your everything. will never be with this one.

I have had my hand in all three of these. I've definitely met quite a few of the NO CHANCE IN HELL guys...I tend to meet alot of the Good guys. Only problem is....they don't really want me. I am usually their sounding board, their friend (sometimes I reap the benefits), or their "jumping" off point. It gets kinda old after awhile. And I have a few, very special men who have been the one. I think about them. I miss them. But I only want their happiness. And for that...I will be happy if they only remember me with a smile and at least one happy memory of our time we spent together.
Deja Vu?
Posted:Apr 22, 2012 7:36 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2012 4:28 pm
Well I had a second date yesterday with the "Foreigner" nice guy. It was a nice simple date. Or so I thought....

He had sent me an email last week....

I don’t have any specific plans in mind yet but I wanted to get on your dance card so to speak before your time is spoken for. I’ve been looking at the different event calendars to see what’s happening in town on Saturday. We’ve got a roller derby match at the Farmer’s Public Market, The Wizard of Oz ballet at the Civic Center, and One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Next play also at the Civic Center evidently so there is quite a variety of things to choose from. Or we could hang out at my house and watch a movie if you like.

How sweet. I don't seem to "date" often. Seems like more of the "how quick can I try to get into you pants", "let me be your stalker" or just plain idiots. I don't try anymore. I have gotten tired of the talk. So he is a breath of fresh air.

So...we talked throughout the week on what we could do. I through out the idea of maybe doing something like taking a walk around the zoo... It is outside (supposed to be 70 degrees...ended up being 84), plenty of time to talk without being shushed or interrupted, and gives me a good chance to see him outside his "box" of proper I.T. mode.

So, Saturday arrives and I run around doing errands before heading to his place to drop off my car in the afternoon. He lives in a nice quiet gated community. I do a drive quiet my nerves before turning in. Pull in and he is standing outside. We hug and then settle into his car to head to the Zoo. He had the thought of us going and seeing the sea lion show. Got to that area...only to find a long line. So we moved on. (I did see a friend and introduced them to each other) Walked around the zoo...talked...had some nice conversation. We actually stayed til closing. Now to decided on dinner.....

He decided (I don't offer up opinions or say where I want to go) that BBQ sounded good. It did! So off we headed to Bricktown. Well, not quite the best place to be. Seemed like quite a few things going on down there. So we decided to go to another location. After FINALLY finding the new entrance to the highway...we were on our way once more.


Remember the last guy I went out on a second date with? The guy who fell in love? The one who slid a jewelers box across the table after dinner?

So we are finished with our dinner (just like the first time around) and he reaches his hands across the table for mine (oh crap here we go again) and takes my hands in his (Where the hell is the door????) and tells me he likes me..... I must have had a look of pure panic in my eyes...because it clicked with him. (He reads my blog...doesn't leave comments though ) Because he remembered the We laughed over the "deja vu" moment and he suggested I blog on it.

So now back to his place to get car? Or extend the evening? Well we get back to his place and he offers to give me the grand tour. He is working on redoing the flower beds. So explained what each plant/flower he had planted. Then on to the house. Very nice (MONOCHROMATIC ) and spacious. Living room, small dining area, cute kitchen (LOVE the birds ), workout room (supposed to be the master bedroom), great master bath (who knew guys were into rose wallpaper ) and onto the upstairs.At the top is his "office" (great bookshelf taking up a whole wall with music and books I noticed) another bathroom (this one was seashoreish...more manly) and his bedroom. Back down the stairs....and then we discussed the view of his alcove at the top....I said it would be the perfect spot for a Christmas tree display...He said more of his "ruler" spot!

We sat on the couch and discussed what do to next. We scanned through the pay per view movies listing and finally decided on Crazy, Stupid Love (if you haven't seen is a must! HILARIOUS). It was nice. Sat through the movie with both of us giggling.

As the night drew to an end, he once more let me know that he was interested. That he liked me. He walked me out to my car and made me promise to text him that I made it home safely (I know for a fact he doesn't text!!!).

It was nice.

Now to do some thinking...but that my friends is a whole different blog. (I have a feeling today will be a day of blogs...)

FYI-I DID NOT GET TO SEE THE GIRAFFES! Although as I was making myself "useful" telling him some behind the scenes info about the zoo....Like that we were hoping to get a bull elephant soon. We round the corner and lo and behold....we have a damn bull elephant I didn't know we had gotten!!!!!
Glad this week is OVER!
Posted:Apr 21, 2012 5:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2012 4:25 am

Testing is finished! Of course...I think that was about the only good thing this week in my life.

Mini me and I are on the "outs" I guess you can say. She is 14 going on 4 or 40...depending on the day. She has things that she is responsible for here at the apt...load, unload/dishwasher, take care of the trash in the bathrooms, feed/water her cat, as well as taking care of his litter-box. Well she has a tendency to "forget". Then she gets upset when she faces the consequences. Getting her phone taken away...losing privileges...getting yelled at.

I always end up in the wrong. So this week I told her I couldn't do this. I couldn't live like this. Her not wanting to do her things she is responsible for. So what does she do? She throws out "Are you kicking me out?" NO! That is NOT what I said! "Well, dad has offered several times for me to come live with him!" Oh? Really? This the same dad you have never stayed with since the split? The same one you gripe about not wanting to spend any time with?

So at this point I have spend most of my time crying. Crying myself to sleep. Crying while driving. Crying at work. Of course, it is my fault. I do nothing for her. I make her life horrible.

I get her up every morning. I take her to work with me. Use my morning break (ok, so my only break of the day) to take her to school. I pick her up in the afternoon. I take her wherever she needs to be...dr's appts, youth functions, friends...etc. I do whatever I can to make up for everything her dad won't/doesn't do. I don't gripe or make excuses that I don't have the gas or money for her not to do something....I find a way.

So that is a major issue in my house.

Next thing is work again. Earlier in the week my principal called me to her office....I explained I was the only one in the library because my boss was on lunch/recess duty. SO the principal came to me. Then she proceeds to ask me why a note came to be on her desk about the copy machine/laminator that I am responsible for. I looked the note over (it is one that I have written and given to all teachers at the beginning of each school year) and told her I had no idea. This particular note was at least a year to two years old. And then showed her this years note that is more "GE" friendly. The note had been anonymously left on her desk stating it should be more "friendly".....BITE ME!

Over...done... Then I had to work the long day on Thursday. We have a night (Thurs. nights) where we keep the school library open until 6 p.m. As I am leaving, I say good bye to the Principal. She states that she REALLY needs to get with me to do my evaluation....YAY! NOT! So we agree to do it first thing in the morning.... What a way to start a Friday, huh? Anyway, we do it. Wasn't as bad as I thought....Alot of good marks... Then she comes to the "good stuff". She lets me know that my position is more than likely gonna get cut. But, she really wants to keep me in the building. She offers me to go to a Pre-K assistant position. Which is a major pay cut....uh....NO. Or....I can take my chances and end up being a traveling assistant. Which would mean that I keep my Library Assistant position and would just travel to two schools. But either way...."Sorry, can't do the crossing guard position anymore. That is extra money that is a little nice to have...kinda helps a bit around the house since I am just rolling in money!

So it's been a fun week. This is really fun. I actually had the chance to see a friend when I dropped off mini at her youth function Thurs. night....was sitting in my car (crying) trying to build myself up to go to her car, when they waved out their good byes.

I know their are two sides to every story...but mine always seems to be the wrong one. So, I will do my best to keep a smile...and a happy heart. Hell, even the masturbation is against me. And sex? Well who knows on that front....that's a whole nother blog. I am pretty sure that is a lost cause anymore.
Hard road
Posted:Apr 17, 2012 8:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2012 5:28 am

There are those moments in time which define us. Days that change you, sometimes for the good...sometimes the bad.

I mean think about it. I know a couple of these days right off the top of my head.

12/28 Day I was born....
3/10 Day I got married...
12/3 Day I became a mother
11/3 Day I discovered loss
11/17 Day I rediscovered life with the birth of mini me
6/10 Day I got divorced.

Now I look at my life. Glad I was born of course...Would I change getting married? No not really because I think it has evolved me into the person I am today and the same with the divorce making me stronger.

Of course I wouldn't change becoming a mother for anything. Even on nights like tonight. When I am put to the test so to speak. When nothing I do is right. When everything I say is wrong. When I am the bad person.

Tonight is one of those nights where I will crawl into my bed alone and cry myself to sleep. And it is also one of those nights where I truly wish I wasn't alone.

I want someone to hold me. I want someone to reassure me. I cry and nobody notices. I am the baby in the corner...forgotten. I'm tired. I am mentally worn out. I hold it in...waiting. Hoping... And yet knowing that there isn't anyone there to help me.
Killing me!
Posted:Apr 16, 2012 5:20 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2012 4:21 pm
Ok, hormones are raging! I don't know what is up!

But I am like so totally aroused!!!

I need someone.....something to relieve the pressure....

Take me! Bend me over... I want you... I need you.....
Posted:Apr 16, 2012 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2012 4:25 am
I am stealing this quote from the Blonde Bombshell.... She posted this on her Bookface wall this morning. And I do believe she hit the nail on the head...of course I am blaming her!

"Wondering....if God made Mondays to punish us for the things we did over the weekend?

You see...this weekend was very eventful. First was the first date on Friday with the Foreigner concert, then met another nice man that i'd been chatting with for awhile since he was in town Saturday afternoon, and finally "girls night out" Saturday night.

Well you all know how the date went on Friday. Like I said met a nice man on Saturday and we sat at a local Taco Cabana for like 2-21/2 hours chatting. I would definitely have him for a friend. let's get dirty! Girls night out! The Blonde Bombshell invited me to join her and....the Sultry Senorita~ So followed bombshell's directions of signing up on a party sign up list. Got all cute....(that was hard!!! ), ran to the liquor store (party was BYO and off I went to meet the girls!

Now, I don't go out much. And really haven't been out in awhile it seems. So this was nice to hang out with friends. (Getting to know the Senorita was nice) So we drink...and drink...and laugh..and then they decide that we will play the Dare game...kinda like Truth or Dare...but only dares! Yeah...ya know the song "Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off"? Well any liquor gets baby relaxed and easy going! So I did the dares... And had a blast! Time flew by and it was time to head home... We are taking pics in the parking lot of the motel where the club was. It was, Blonde Bombshell and the Sultry Senorita!

As I am writing this...I realized that as I was getting in my car...I saw a male friend (aquaintance) from the local group....and I yelled out something along the lines of "Have a great night...." Yeah....I also just remembered that he came over to my car and kissed me goodnight!

Let's just say that if the storms came through Saturday night I heard NOTHING! Because when my happy little (ok, fluffy) ass got home I literally stripped my way down the hall....and crawled into bed. I didn't wake up for a good 7 hours! It was nice!

Also during my evening of frivoity....I ended up sending texts and eventually calling my last ex bf...he was so sweet talking to me while I was tipsy. I told him I missed him...and loved him. I do...he was and still is a great friend. It was also nice of him to send me some hot pics to help me relieve some "stress" Sunday after I got up!

So yes, I do believe that Mondays are payback and it is all the Blonded Bombshell & the Sultry Senorita's faults because baby is a sweet innocent girl.....
Date night!
Posted:Apr 15, 2012 1:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2012 4:23 pm
Have I mentioned that I don't have the best luck dating? Surely I

Well if I haven't told you...I will now. I, the 80sbaby, don't have the best luck in the dating world!!!! I have met men through friends, I have met men from here and I have met men off the vanilla sites. And although my luck runs to losers....occasionally there are some good guys I run across...and this weekend I met one.

I posted a blog yesterday about emails...well I was very impressed by a man that sent me an email asking me for a date. We emailed, texted and I agreed to go on a date this past Friday night. Let me tell you how that went....

There were some chances for rain Friday here in the Okie state. So I wore my jeans and such to work and had a bag in the car with my makeup (fyi...I am usually au natural) and my clothes for the evening. I got up uber early (ok so it was like a half hour ) so I could make sure my legs were nice and smooth since I was wearing a dress that Ms Mini me had picked out for me. And I braided my hair in a neat little french braid so that by the end of the day...nice wavy hair!!!!

Just as I am getting into my car...yeppers it started to rain.... Well, here goes nothing! So I had told this nice gentleman I would meet him at his place of employment. So I get there and park my car so that I can see the front door, and begin to do my makeup. The storm has arrived...torrental rain!!!!!

Well my cell rings and it is the nice gentleman asking if I want to do a raincheck due to the weather. (He thought I was out and about) I told him that was fine, I understood. Then he found out I was sitting there in the parking lot. He was also in his car, lol. He decided to move his car over and popped into my car to chat a bit. After chatting we decided to go ahead and go have dinner and play the evening by ear, if the storms continued to intensify we would have a raincheck if things settled onward to the date!

So locked my car up and moved to his. He decided to dinner at a local Charleston's restaraunt and we continued a very nice conversation over dinner. After dinner...the storms had passed and we decided the concert date was on!

Onward!!!! We decided that since we still had plenty of time, to take a scenic drive through the countryside near where the concert was being held. He gave me a short history about small towns, showed me a beautiful Catholic church and more interesting conversation. Heading back towards our concert destination...we somehow got misplaced! Luckily he had GPS and got us back on track.

The concert was interesting. The music was great! Opening act was The Motels and the main concert.....FOREIGNER! Great time....Plus I made some decisions after people watching...(baby will NEVER again wear her black lace tops...nope!) I love people watching....

So after concert we headed through the throngs of people towards his car. It was raining...he offered to go get the I opted to run with him through the rain. Back to his job to pick up my car. I thanked him for a wonderful evening.....

NOW.....time to critique the guy....(he reads my blog so been trying to figure out how to write this post )

I had a wonderful time. This man was a true gentleman. Opened car door, restaraunt door, asked me if I wanted a drink at the concert, a tee shirt or a CD. Very sweet man. Never once was he inappropriate! I truly had a wonderful time.

Down side... He is intelligent and works out daily. I am me. I am not a petite little model. Nope, I am as mini me would say....fluffy! She even made the comment (brat) that there is more cushion for the pushin!!!!
Looking out for my friends
Posted:Apr 15, 2012 8:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2012 4:27 am

This is what scares me! And why I don't like snakes!!!!


Spring is beware!

Garden snakes can be dangerous
I didn't think twice about this tiny fellow on my baby boxwood until I got this letter:

Snakes also known as Garter Snakes (Thamnophissirtalis) can be dangerous. Yes, grass snakes, not rattlesnakes. Here's why.

A couple in Sweetwater, Texas, had a lot of potted plants. During a recent cold spell, the wife was bringing a lot of them indoors to protect them from a possible freeze.

It turned out that a little green garden grass snake was hidden in one of the plants. When it had warmed up, it slithered out and the wife saw it go under the sofa.

She let out a very loud scream.

The husband (who was taking a shower) ran out into the living room naked to see what the problem was. She told him there was a snake under the sofa.

He got down on the floor on his hands and knees to look for it. About that time the family came and cold-nosed him on the behind. He thought the snake had bitten him, so he screamed and fell over on the floor.

His wife thought he had had a heart attack, so she covered him up, told him to lie still and called an ambulance.

The attendants rushed in, would not listen to his protests, loaded him on the stretcher, and started carrying him out.

About that time, the snake came out from under the sofa and the Emergency Medical Technician saw it and dropped his end of the stretcher. That's when the man broke his leg and why he is still in the hospital.

The wife still had the problem of the snake in the house, so she called on a neighbor who volunteered to capture the snake. He armed himself with a rolled-up newspaper and began poking under the couch.. Soon he decided it was gone and told the woman, who sat down on the sofa in relief.

But while relaxing, her hand dangled in between the cushions, where she felt the snake wriggling around. She screamed and fainted, the snake rushed back under the sofa.

The neighbor man, seeing her lying there passed out, tried to use CPR to revive her.

The neighbor's wife, who had just returned from shopping at the grocery store, saw her husband's mouth on the woman's mouth and slammed her husband in the back of the head with a bag of canned goods, knocking him out and cutting his scalp to a point where it needed stitches.

The noise woke the woman from her dead faint and she saw her neighbor lying on the floor with his wife bending over him, so she assumed that the snake had bitten him. She went to the kitchen and got a small bottle of whiskey, and began pouring it down the man's throat.

By now, the police had arrived.
Breathe here...

They saw the unconscious man, smelled the whiskey, and assumed that a drunken fight had occurred. They were about to arrest them all, when the women tried to explain how it all happened over a little garden snake!

The police called an ambulance, which took away the neighbor and his sobbing wife.

Now, the little snake again crawled out from under the sofa and one of the policemen drew his gun and fired at it. He missed the snake and hit the leg of the end table. The table fell over, the lamp on it shattered and, as the bulb broke, it started a fire in the drapes.

The other policeman tried to beat out the flames, and fell through the window into the yard on top of the family who, startled, jumped out and raced into the street, where an oncoming car swerved to avoid it and smashed into the parked police car.

Meanwhile, neighbors saw the burning drapes and called in the fire department. The firemen had started raising the fire ladder when they were halfway down the street. The rising ladder tore out the overhead wires, put out the power, and disconnected the telephones in a ten-square city block area (but they did get the house fire out).

Time passed! Both men were discharged from the hospital, the house was repaired, the came home, the police acquired a new car and all was right with their world.

A while later they were watching TV and the weatherman announced a cold snap for that night. The wife asked her husband if he thought they should bring in their plants for the night.

And that's when he shot her.

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