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How To Tell Their Not A Real Dominant
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How To Tell Their Not A Real Dominant One of the most asked questions I get by new submissive's is, "How can I tell if he isn't really a dominant." I've been on nearly every kink or fetish site known man and have talked hundreds of women first starting the lifestyle and the one<b> resource </font></b>often missing is a way weed the fakes. I have spent years perfecting this list I am going post here and it does the trick nicely judging how angry some posers get when you them on their bull shit. By all means you can copy and paste it keep handy. Enjoy and I hope just one new sub reads this and it keeps her safe from a predator preying on new subs know no better. *Fifty Shades Of Grey is the best movie ever. We all know it sucked. *They have fifty two point five pictures of their dick but no direct face pic. *Their vanilla wife says they aren't a true dom. *After care is a mythological concept they know nothing about. *They tell you submission is expected. False, it's earned. *They tell you your opinion is not needed or wanted. WARNING he might be a narcissist. *They don't know the difference between obedience and submission. Submission requires respect and admiration. Obedience doesn't require either one. *If they throw a temper tantrum because you used a safe word. Douche move. *He demands you him Sir or Master from the moment you meet. You’re a submissive, not his submissive. I advocate being respectful until he gives you a reason not be, but anyone who demands a title before it’s earned needs be ignored. *He sends you unsolicited instructions of how please him or orders obey. Did you talk about this list? Was there communication and consent? If not, this is just another poser. *He ignores your hard limits. Don’t just walk away from this loser, run. Ignoring your clearly identified and communicated limits is the sign of an asshole and an abuser. A Dominant will push your limits, sure, but not without first talking you – a lot. *He starts an introduction with a dick pic and or making sure you know how large his member is. Dominance is about deep voice with authority. Dominance is about how they carry themselves. put this the simplest of ways and easily understood if you know your craft you can dominate someone just as effectively with a four inch pecker as well as you can a ten incher. About two years ago I was scrolling through posts on a well known fetish site when I came across the most blatant show of false knowledge ever. Picture a 24 year old stating he had been a dominant for ten years. So this shit for brains started dominating girls before he was even legally able drive. Be careful ladies and use the guide.  |
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Great article , I agree engage the brain and body will follow. I am neither submissive or obedient. A skilled lover and I surrender to the pleasure being given.
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indeed...and also...so many people are not having true understanding the difference between healthy D/s dinamic and unhealthy abuse, and they manipulates sub behind that mask...
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