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Careful what you ask for  

Ladywithatti2d 83F  
261 posts
6/9/2009 4:10 pm

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6/11/2009 5:44 pm

Careful what you ask for


Wooo hoo it's been a while since I have had time or something to write about. Just been so busy busy busy.

Here of late, my who is also on this site, inspite of a few collapsing in horror that a mother and are here, ( I know it's their deep secret wish, but they don't wanna say it out loud!). She has always been a member of one of the chat rooms relative to our area. Up until recently, she has been quite happy chatting away with a few who know her.

NOTICE!! DING DING!! Did I say RECENTLY?? why yes I did. Now my don't walk on water or anything like that, even if I am her mother!! BUT, she is intelligent, works her butt off to the extreme, and has been her own support for quite a few years, including owning her own home, and all the big nice toys for work that the men all use so diligently. Riding mower, power tools, yep she uses them all.

Now we move into the present, a short time ago, a couple of nit wits, that are in the same chat room, apparently got their knickers in a wad. We won't go into the particulars, it's boring in the extreme except to those who have nothing better to chat about day after day after day.

Doncha love those who say, "I hate drama" hand clasped to the forehead, with a huge sigh. THEN the minute they enter, what do they do. Why throw out insults, snide comments, nasty remarks, anything to try and decimate someone. Then they go on and on ad nauseaum for HOURS. Up until THEY came in all was happy and going along just swell. THEN the hilarious part is they turn around and say SHE is bringing in all the drama!!. EXCUSE ME??? YOU walked in and opened YOUR mouth, not the other way around. So uhh WHO brought in the drama???

Now there is this sweet little group mixed I might add, some men some women, of course the men are following along behind the women, cause who knows if you agree and say enough things, you MIGHT get lucky!!! BUT, they are indignant as hell, wanna know why. Seems some of them keep getting BANNED from the room. Each one howls I DID NOTHING. Um. did you open your mouth???? Did ya rant and rave, cuss and swear, threaten it was all out war, and you wonder WHY? you got banned. Lord save a duck it don't take a genius to figure that out.

I say careful what you ask for, because this sweet group decided to make a concerted effort to get her removed from the chat. Yep banned for life cause they don't want her there. Yep they really said that in there, "WE, I guess that was the royal we cause others chat up a storm with her, do NOT want her here". Well big Whoop, who cares what YOU want. Last time I looked it was a free world.

Now they have emailed by the tons, one said she wrote 25 emails all by her little self. Another has made numerous calls over and over, complaining. Couple of them figured that was a good idea, so they started calling emailing complaining. One invited EVERYONE to call and complain. Umm see where I am going with this.

You went from being under the radar, to bright SPOT LIGHT!!!! by aggravating the owners of this site. YOU made the complaints, and wanted them to check look into, find out, well careful what you asked for, apparently they are fulfilling your request and WATCHING!! Hello, you asked for this remember!!!! So if you are getting banned like WHO do you think is at fault, someone who never responds to your lame remarks or YOU making the remarks??

Oh lets not forget that these sweeties, also made up not one, not two, but THREE profiles using her name. Oh yes, They gleefully said she deserved to have her photo stolen, fake profile made that in the reading of what they wrote, would definitely endanger her well being if she went to a social function with the group and some weird ass, (weirder than those who made it up) saw it and figured this was what she wanted. Whoops, so sorry so sad, you got hurt you deserved it cause we don't like you remember.

THEN when they got banned for creating the profiles, they sat and cried like a baby that they didn't do anything. Excuse me, but you DID do something, it was tracked right back to you and YOU DID it and got caught red handed. So, umm don't be looking for sympathy for what you did. At least accept responsibility for your own actions, instead of being a hypocrite on top of liar saying you did nothing.

Everyone running around telling, and retelling all the stories no doubt adding their own bit of flavor to each telling, we wouldn't wanna be left out of the wolf feeding on fresh bloody meat would we???

I don't care what anyone said, or did, I don't care if you like someone or hate someone. NO ONE has the RIGHT to create fake profiles about someone EVER. If it were they, you would hear the howl across the ocean. BUT they feel they are justified because "they don't like her" DEAL WITH IT.

As I said, careful what you asked for, cause now none of them are liking the results of all the emails and phone calls and harassment. BUT, it's not THEIR fault, oh no, its HER fault cause they said and did all this. I guess she must have just taken over their bodies for the time and made them do all and say all them things.

I have NO idea who is behind the banning, or anything else, but if I DID I would shake their hand on one level, on the other I would wack them upside the head because this group is apparently too stupid to realize the old carrot, "Silence is golden" In a word SHUT UP and stop driving the site nuts with your petty whining and crying and rumor spreading, then maybe you won't be getting banned.

Oh lest I forget, she can PROVE with phone records etc, that she DID NOT make a single call NOT ONE. BUT, they don't want to see or hear that. As a matter of fact, today, she was ON THE PHONE, friend called HER, chatting she chatted long enough the other ones phone battery died, and during that time, whoops someone ELSE got banned!!!, Now doncha love someone who can manage a feat like THAT. Be ON the phone with someone, and calling the site getting someone banned at the exact same time!!!. Course the fact she has no long distance, limited hours, didn't stop the idiots from saying OH she called me 16 times a day every day. Yeah right sure she did, dream on, she sure as hell wouldn't be paying for extra minutes just to call a single one of you. Oh yeah, and the friend she was on the phone with calls HER almost every day, they have the same phone service so it's free, and they are good friends. Matter of fact, I even went to lunch last week with both of them!!. Had a great time.

Because she is different than they are, because she makes no bones about what she will or will not do, that means prove her wrong even if you have to make fake profiles, and make it up as you go. People can't stand people who are different. Nope ya just gotta destroy it. Course, anyone who really knows her, knows, she wouldn't on her best day show her boobs, and she sure as hell wouldn't proposition anyone on this site, thats for damn sure. But if you ask them OH YES SHE HAS AND DOES. Strange isn't it that I know of a few men who would disagree and say how they got whacked down for even thinking or suggesting it. BUT thats alright they only speak gospel, those who stoop to the fake profiles etc. If your gonna stoop that low, and do that, just how much lower can you stoop?

Oh yes, careful what you ask for, because what you get may not be EXACTLY, what you asked for, and it can turn around and bite you in the ass!!!!.

Sorry folks, this is my own vent. I figured it was time.

Now you may go back to your normally scheduled program.

Lady

oldtimepassion 101M

6/9/2009 7:13 pm

DAMN LADY.....Here I thought talking to me had settled you down!!!!!
Be nice LADY...Who gives a fuck anyway!!!!!I'll rub whatever you want to make you feel better...But YOU are smarter than they are...sooo..act like it!!!!...Relax LADY.....getting your dander up HERE...just ain't worth it!!!!!.....Relax LADY...and sleep well..T


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
6/10/2009 1:46 pm

Thanks guys, LOL, Tony, obviously you don't really know me and how rabble rousing I can be.

The Future Mrs. knows all about what I am talking about. It is bad enough when they go on childish rants, and sit making nasty remarks with no "names" like little kids in school name calling and your not suppose to KNOW who they are talking about.

But if anyone had read the profiles, they created, I kid you not, they actually invited someone to grab and her, because she was "into that life style". How would they know any different? They were so gross you wouldn't believe it.

It just amazes me that they can do this, and think it's funny, that they could get someone seriously hurt, yet if they are hauled on the carpet for what they did they are indignant, and mad as hell and yell I didn't do nuttin!!!.

I just decided to rant a bit here is all.

Thanks for the visits.
Lady


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
6/11/2009 5:35 am

Well, Tony, first off, I didn't even attempt to argue as you put it with any of them. They just went on their feeding frenzy by themself. Not responding didn't even begin to slow them down. The longer the silence stretched the worse they got.

Yep, that is the best thing about this site, is you can turn it off. I will send you an email later, and show you just "how bad" it got. As for why I am here, YOU of all people should know the answer to that. Quite often its for the simple comic relief of how absolutely overboard men and women can and will go as long as they are hidden behind a computer. Call it comic relief if you want to.

Other than that, I have "other" friends, such as yourself, that I communicate with on this site. Thanks for your small rant, because if you hadn't ranted as you believe, you really wouldn't have cared either.

No, my hopeful, which is a huge word, is that maybe, someone would read it, and THINK before they did something so childish to someone else. How would THEY feel if the tables were reversed. I know thats a big stretch to even begin to hope anyone would recognize that thought but, when you lose hope you lose everything.

One of the biggest thing this site touts is "DISCRETION" well it's not very discreet when you pull this sort of stuff, and put peoples work information, private life information, i.e. name, addy, photos, etc. out there because YOU have a personal axe to grind. Especially when you can sit and say "I don't give our MY personal info". Excuse me, you sure didn't mind throwing someone elses out there for the world to see.

Lady


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