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thank for sharing with us bloggers, wait until read some of our adventures
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somewhat similar situation, in that really didnt understand post puberty sexual feelings and there was a lack of information. suffice to say, internet access changed all that as an early adult. as an aside, a gay male adult co-worker made direct overtures when I was 16. if he had been more of a compassionate person instead of coming off as a creepy pedo, I would have happily engaged in sex with him. infact, I fantasized about it. alas, the stigma around homosexuality combined with the growing AIDS epidemic, lack of opportunity and that I was bi but didnt have a context for it or knew it was an option - I spent my early adulthood chasing the gals. in my mid-30s I was now more educated and comfortable with my sexuality but could not muster up the courage to tell my wife at the time. I too had so much guilt and fear sneaking around (only a few occasions) in prev. marriages, that it probably suppressed much of my bisexuality. 20 years later and two divorces I met my current spouse, on here actually. And suffice to say its been a wonderful coming to full terms and full disclosure with her - as well as fun mmf. She is one of those women whom see the same sensuality and of course the same benefit from male bisexsuality that most men see in female bisexuality. She had even challenged my limitations - I had no interest in CD or topping for example, but because she is so open and curious, pretty much everything is open for exploration if nothing else to 'try it before you deny it". Last point, many straight males enjoy cross dressing and anal play without any bisexual desires what so ever - it simply feels good. Although society is much more open now and this generation is likely more aware that there is alot of room between straight and gay, there is still a level of homophobia. I think that limits men in their comfort for example oral only or no kissing. Of course these are physical acts and comfort level varies, but I feel there is still alot of subconscious presure men impose on themselves for fear of being 'full gay'. To make the point, look at how many men post 'does size matter' blogs/group postings - its a gender created insecurity. Very nice blog and good luck to you.
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Amazing how many guys do this
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